ITT We post the pro's and con's of our lives. Basically,

This is a cool premise for a thread.

Pros:
>White male
>Minimal acne
>Upper middle class family
>Learned good saving at a young age and have a lot of money saved up
>drive a nice car that I payed for myself.
>not disgustingly overweight or neckbeardy
>generally likable and can make friends
>parents are happily married

Cons:
>lazy and unmotivated - may join the marines if it persists.
>gender dysphoria - either repress, join the marines, or kms
>anxiety - smoke some weed to relieve anxiety
>nihilistic - I need to find my purpose in life. I need to do something with the time I have on this earth.
>no gf/bf - tinder and trying to project confidence.
>don't know what to do with my life or how to figure it all out - Going to drop LSD and ask myself a bunch of shit during the trip. hopefully it can help me straighten my shit out

Eh, fuck it, why not?

Pros:
>Physically fit, lean 5'9" White male
>Pretty intelligent (not prodigy but still 98th percentile)
>Confident
>Don't react much to shit
>Good family life

Cons:
>Love fighting to the point my right arm has a scar minimum every six inches
>Apathetic to nearly borderline sociopath
>Have little to no life preserving instincts
>No love life to speak of
>Can be brutal both verbally and physically

Pros:
>live in the first world
>working class, not impoverished
>extremely intelligent
>I speak 7 languages
>half asian

Cons:
>Latin American immigrant in the US
>Divorced Parents
>Native American blood so ugly af
>predisposed to drug use/alcohol consumption
>MtF Transgender; gonna get shit on for that forever. Unsure if I'll ever look good
>family dislikes me bc Trans and Bi
>Multiple Sclerosis, physically weak af
>Constantly ill, predisposed to pneumonia
>Schizophrenia + Major Depression
>Narcissistic Personality Disorder
>No motivation in life; contemplating suicide
>Constant fear of failure that often leads to panic
>Have a bf but he lives in the EU
>socially akward af; don't really know how to interact with people
>nihilistic outlook on life; no concern for my life or preservation

Pros:
>have a great job as an engineer
>no debt
>live downtown in a great, youthful city
>athletic
>witty and funny
>relative success in dating/tinder/bumble

Cons:
>didn't lose virginity until 27 (29 now)
>played WoW religiously until about 24 so missed out on prime social years and only just in the past 2-3 years leaving autism land
>a bit clingy - working on this, but first couple of grills I was with I got too attached to and stage five'd them
>bipolar at times with the outlook on my career and life - some days I feel like I just want to quit my job and move away even though it's not bad at all
>my knees and ankles are about to get fucked up soon from all of the basketball I've been playing... but I'm not gonna stop playing

Just really regret non-stop playing WoW and watching so many Chinese cartoons in the prime of my life. If only I knew what moderation was back then.

Pros:

>attractive
>white
>intelligent
>social
>Fit, good teeth and health


Cons

>Female
>Terrible childhood
>weird smile
>trust issues
>flirtatious

>>24906706
Huh, another example of things not always appearing like they seem. I don't suppose you'd mind talking?

>>24906788
whats up, and what do you mean?

>>24906793
Well, given what you listed for more visible characteristics, if I saw you on the street I would never guess you had trust issues or had a weird smile.

Reading Les Miserables and browsing 4chan so not much :)

Pros:
> decent face and body
> good family
> smart and wise
> good socially, self confident
> dick over 7"
> good financial situation

Cons:
> 32 yr old virgin
> not gonna lose it anytime soon either
> balding so i have to shave my head every week ffs
> only 5'7


kik: zsasza

>>24907138
You literally never had sex? Man. Get off of this fucking website right now and LIVE. You're balding because you don't get any sun or fresh air. Stop this

Pros:
>decent appearance, 6,5/10 body
>bilingual
>kinda smart
>have the girl I always wanted as my gf
>stable job

Cons:
>depressive
>nihilistic mindset
>have no goals nor motivation for anything
>anhedonia
>not very sociable, almost every interaction with people makes me feel worse
>feel like losing the ability to discern what's real and what's not

>>24906010

Pros:
>Attractive, white, tall, and male
>Reasonably intelligent
>Great friends
>Happy relationship
>Love my job
>Live in a great country

Cons:
>Childhood trauma
>Chronic insomnia
>Depressive episodes (less and less often)
>Health issues set me back a few years in terms of education and career
>Lost 2 family members in the past 8 months

Nice thread, I like peeking in peoples lives.

Pros:
>European white man, the US has too many cultural and social extremes
>Fairly intelligent
>Highly educated, got my first bachelor and I'll keep studying for at least the next 4 years at my parent's expense
>Have a loving boyfriend
>Gay, it makes you feel special and gives additional social opportunities

Cons
>Gay, it may make getting a highly paid job much harder
>Apathetic
>Nervous, can't deal well with deadlines pressure
>No meaningful friendship
>Too feminine to be actually attractive

>I'm trying to grow new friendships and change my social environment, that should fix part of my apathy

Pros:
>Incredibly attractive when thin/fit
>Very stylish, and have an incredible wardrobe
>Extroverted, popular, and find it easy to make friends
>In a very stable and loving relationship 7+ years
>Intelligent, and learn quickly

Cons:
>Tendency to yo-yo diet, like 100 lbs fluctuations
>When overweight, my confidence and motivation go are nonexistent
>I'm a serial cheater, despite being in an awesome relationship
>While I excel at most things, my drive to well ends quickly

>I'm great at losing weight. I've never been able to commit to the 'lifestyle change', but can starve and lose 70 lbs in 2 months.
>Need to finish my degree, so it's not looming over me.
>Find ways to make my relationship my source of excitement and happiness, so I don't need to cheat.
>Channel all my pros into being a great person, and fulfilling my dreams

>>24906010
Pros
>decently well off
>look white
>slim
>average height for a woman
>decent teeth
>decent work ethic
>very loving boyfriend

Cons
>have a vagina
>have PTSD which gives me OCD tendencies and bad depressive periods
>hate what I'm studying
>no hobbies anymore because I stupidly abandoned it all for grades (vidya, writing, art)
>trouble making friends
>any hobby I try to go back to I'm shit at
>more skinny-fat than toned because of depressive periods

Trying to fix:
>started journalling
>play casual games
>watch a lot of art vids to try get inspired to do something
>trying to get some summer study placements so I do something I actually like for a few months

I've tried pretty much all recommendations - I'm just not good at moving from acquaintances to friends...girls are hard to befriend.

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OP here, holy shit guys,
last time I checked on this thread it was at 0/0/0/-
never expected to get this much attention

after reading all of your pros/cons, and comparing them to mine
I'm going to update my list:


Pros:
>well liked by all of my family,
>get along well with every adult I meet

>attractive (other than the cons listed)

>green eyes

>managed to avoid getting into drugs/booze, despite being surrounded by heavy drinkers and drug users
(ex was a regular MDMA and weed user)

>health is overall pretty good despite a mostly sedentary lifestyle


Cons:

>bad at following through with most goals I set
>I'll get 70-90% of the way to completion, then get bored and want to do something else
(rapidly improving at playing drums, playing complex songs, then I just lost interest altogether)

>serious procrastinator - back in hs when I had 2 months of hols, and 20ish hours of homework to do during that time
>would only start the work a week b4 we started school again, and wouldn't even get close to finishing it

>find it hard to stand up to myself with people I don't know well

>very stubborn with people I do know, particularly my previous partners
>sometimes I'll be stubborn just for the sake of it, because I hate being controlled

>dad doesn't respect that I want to start a business,
>keeps trying to push me into finance
>even though I did accounting in hs to make him happy, and loathed it

>struggling to break my nail biting habit
>for some reason writing this is making me bite again

>I get no enjoyment out of going to parties with more than a few people
>makes it hard to meet women, cus I rely on Tinder to meet them, but they expect to see pics of me with friends

>androgynous, and since I'm almost 19, im at the age where women are less interested in Bieber / 1D looking guys
>unless I can actually stay committed to working out, or my face is blessed with a beard,
>pussy will be hard to come by

>>24907177
>You're balding because you don't get any sun or fresh air.
Actually it's caused by testosterone.

Pros
>easy to get along with
>meet new people easily
>I could fucking dance like no ones business
>entrepreneurial
>pretty decent job
>big loving family

Cons
>fat
>black
>short
>addictive personality
>usually hopped up on some painkiller
>busted knee just recently started walking without a crutch
>smoker
>never been in a relationship that hasn't been more than fwb
>have car no license
>big loving family
>in need of gallbladder surgery as well as another knee surgery and a root canal