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One of my co-workers may be flirting with me. She tends to linger

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One of my co-workers may be flirting with me. She tends to linger when I'm working reception. She's quick to tell me she's divorced--I'm 28; she's 33. One time I asked why she wore a ring on her middle fingers. She may have baited me for a compliment about her appearance once, but I didn't respond because we work together and risking losing my job to flirt isn't a good move. She offered to buy me something from a convenience store in the building, and seemed a little disappointed when I said no.

Yesterday she started becoming a bit more friendly over email, going so far as to ask why I was formal when sending her messages when I addressed her as "Dear Full Name."

Most of the time I'd throw that away as her being friendly, but today she asked me to join her for lunch to explain a few joke job titles I'd given myself at previous places of employment. She seemed to find the stories amusing.

I'm not sure what to make of it. I think she's slightly into me, but she comes off as a gregarious woman. It's possible she's simply friendly. I also don't want to jeopardize my job because we work together a fair amount. If things turned awkward, it could be damaging to both of our livelihoods.

What does /soc/ think?
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>>24864174

I worked at a place for a couple of years where I was the only guy and about 35 women. I was single and in my late 20's. I had non-stop lunch offers, and baked goods waiting on my desk most mornings. I fucked two married cougars on the sly for about a year, and turned down two others. The ones I hooked up with were 35 and 42 and basically just bored with their marriages and hungry for attention. The ones I rejected were younger but their marriages weren't stale, so I was a scared off from them. I eventually met and married my wife there, who was significantly younger than me.

Anyway, we're still married years later, but I still spank it to the memories of being an Alpha male. I never had it so easy and was never before so popular.

You're only young once anon, live it up. Sounds like she's willing to take the lead. No harm in lunch. Flirt a little, talk about other lunch places so you have a reason to ask her to lunch again. Do lunch again. Talk about nearby restaurants she likes so you have a reason to later ask her for coffee or drinks after work. Don't talk, listen. You don't have to be interesting, just interested.
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>>24864174
sounds like she is interested in you, go for it anon!!!
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>>24864174
There's nothing really about that that sounds flirty.
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>>24864817
We work in separate departments. I'm a shared admin that happens to take payments for her clients from time to time.

>>24864385
She wanted me to meet her in the break room. We both bring lunches to work. I don't have the money to eat out very often, but maybe we could once in awhile.

>Don't talk, listen. You don't have to be interesting, just interested.

That's the most difficult part, but thank you for the reminder.
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>>24864797
Thanks. I had a feeling there was more to it when, despite it not being her job, she brought me a small package that had been delivered to the front desk for me. She risked getting in trouble by heading to another floor, where she has no reason to be, to give it to me. My co-worker has acted nervous whenever she does me favors, asks to sit with me at lunch or the time she offered to buy me something from a store in our building. Perhaps she experiences the same trepidation around me.
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