ITT ask me anything. I'm a stripper. Other strippers welcome

What percent of strippers are available as pro's?

>>24734541
Biggest haul after a night at work? What got you to make so much money?

>>24734553
You mean how many are career strippers vs. just doing it to make money?

>>24734557
I work days only. I don't like the night crowd. With that said, the largest amount I've made is 350 for 5 hours of work.
I didn't do much differently. I had a couple of regulars come in, did some table dances, and had a few guys get some VIP dances who tipped extra.

>>24734564
I can't imagine the day crowd being a lot of fun, That being said do you work at a full nude club or a topless only club?

>>24734572
topless only.
I actually really like the day time. I get more older men, who are usually more respectful, and less entitled. The girls who work the day are nicer and less competitive too.

>>24734541
How do you view romantic relationships? Which sort of guys do you like?

>>24734541
touching or no touching?

>>24734585
I was a pretty open person romantically to begin with.
I typically date musicians, I like both kinky and passionate/loving sex. Probably like a 40/60 split.
My bf is a musician, loves cats, is cynical, but we have similar political views despite me being more of an optimist. We are both big nerds/geeks. We have guidelines on what we allow in the relationship and communicate constantly.

>>24734541

Any male strippers around? Lets say i'm in pretty good shape and am relatively handsome, how hard would it be for me to find a gig? Is there a huge financial difference between working in straight and gay bars?

>>24734598
Touching is allowed in my club, and the amount of touching is up to the dancer.
It's illegal to pull anything out, but I know some girls do it anyways.

>>24734603
So you don't mind doing lap dances, you're just not allowed to whip their dick out?

How much for penetration? Or what's the going rate on the market at strip clubs. I know it's not allowed

>>24734599
Interesting, it kinda gives me a bit of perspective. Thank you.

Um, this may seem like an odd question but, how do you think strip clubs are for more... Unconfident, or sexually inhibited, sort of guys?

>>24734600
The city where I am we don't have any male strip clubs. As far as I am aware, there is no such thing as a co-ed strip club.
And your other questions I wouldn't know. I will say that as a female you do not have to be a 10, or even a 7 to find work. There are a few rather chunky girls at my club that make a very decent income, more than me, but I also only work 3 days a week.

>>24734606
Right.
Basically what I do is just grind on their clothed dick. It's glorified dry humping.

>>24734607
I think it would vary. I don't do extras, but the girls that do it I have seen charge anywhere from 80-100 for a handsie. I don't know any girls who have admitted to full-on sex. It would also be difficult, since the bouncers look out for that kind of thing.

>>24734541
Did you do an ama on r9k a couple of days ago?

>>24734611
Well, my advice to those guys is 99% of the time, the girls do not care about you. We want your money. Sometimes I genuinely have really cool conversations with guys, but when it comes down to it, you are a customer.

I had one guy who genuinely thought I was his friend and came to me for mental health advice. I told him he needs to see a therapist or psychiatrist and that I am not his friend, I am his companion while in the club and that is it. I think it broke his heart a little, but he had to understand the dynamic before it got super weird.

>>24734647
Understood, thank you!

>>24734541
Are you in Burgerland? It's got to be a big world of difference to doing it in countries where prostitution and the sex industry is legal.

>>24734599
Spooky how similar that is to both of my ltr's with strippers (which were both very enjoyable).

>>24734635
I don't know what that is, so probably not.

why do girls now start out almost fully naked, or just remove one piece of clothing to get that way? Guess I'm an old fag but I miss actually watching a girl undress on stage.

>>24734658
No, I'm in the southwest United States.
And I imagine that would be a world of difference. Probably more strict, actually.

>>24734669
>Burgerland == US

Anyway, you're probably right. In for example European countries where prostitution is legal, strip clubs also draw a more clear line about what's allowed and what's not.

>>24734660
I'm really not much of a partier. I don't drink at work, and don't drink much otherwise. When I was younger I was a lot worse though. I wouldn't say I'm against alcohol and drugs (depends which), but I am a lot more responsible about it.

>>24734667
I didn't dance when that was a thing, but my guess is the new generation and how easy porn is to access. You can see a lot more in general for less money, so guys just want to see as much as they can rather than be teased. Just my guess, though.

>>24734708
thank you for your thoughts, I believe you are right or that is a good theory. i'd tip you a $5 if I were in your Club

>>24734694
You're making the spooky spookier!

>>24734717
Yay!!

>>24734728
Python?

>>24734717
>>24734728
I remember one of the girls at the club where my gf's worked (Mitchell Brothers in SF) said the thing she learned from stripping was how to tell the difference between a $1 and a $5 from 30 feet away.

>>24734726
lol, alrighty then.

>>24734733
Wat?
>>24734739
Hahahaha! I haven't learned that trick, but I haven't been doing this for very long.

>>24734739
A place I used to go to now and again in Springfield Mo had a girl who figured out I loved to watch a girl take off her panties, so she would start with me, and I'd start off the tipping with a $5. fun days

>>24734763
Python was a camwhore who posted here a couple times. And also a stripper.

>>24734763

If the management decides to move to full-nude, would you have a problem with that? Could they do that to you, you know, make you go nude of lose your job?

How old are you? When did you start stripping? Does your family know?

How stringently does management screen the strippers? Just a photo ID and a social security card? I have a friend that is not 18 yet but may want to try this to make extra money.

>>24734823
oh, hahaha, that is an awful stripper name.
My stage name is Luna Rayyne.

>>24734893
Dancers are independent contractors. Essentially we rent the space to conduct our business. So if they decided to go full-nude, it would be our choice if we want to use their establishment or not. I personally would not want to go full nude. Also in the state where I am, you can't mix alcohol and full nude establishments, so they would be giving up their liquor license and that is doubtful.

I'm 29, I started stripping this Fall, my sister knows, but she is the only family member that does.

I only had to give them my ID, that was it. No real application or anything.

I personally would not suggest someone getting into stripping so young. It's really easy to fall into the stripper traps (drinking heavily, prostitution, drugs, baby daddies, etc.) if you are not strong-willed and business minded about the whole thing, but of course this is my opinion.

>>24734541
Lol I got fired from my club a few days ago. Kinda bummed

>>24735780
I'll bite.

What happened?

>>24735787
I was just having surgery on my feet so I couldn't walk in heels for 6 days so they decided to look for other people lel

>>24735787
I also gave out my number to a customer and they thought I threatened a trial girl so that might hav been part of it

>>24735808
More than likely the latter one was the reason why.. Are you going to another club or doing something else?

>>24735889
Lel nah it's more likely the former cuz the girl who told them I 'threatened' her, I didn't actually, she just didn't speak English. And the number giving that they saw didn't happen either, I just lent out a pen.
Not working for a ages, I'm travellin for 6 months f a m. But yh I'd do it again

>>24735959
Where are you going? Any weird/funny stories

The best girlfriend I've ever had was a stripper. The sweetest girls you'll ever meet.

Bump for stories

>No images

For the love of god why

>>24735959
That fucking sucks. We're allowed to exchange numbers, even encouraged. So on slow days we can text our regulars to come in.

Story:
The first time I experienced someone giving extras was weird. This guy who just came back from basic some kind of military training wanted a double dance in the vip. So I brought up the only other girl in the club, a single mother of 7, and we're both grinding on his lap, I'm fondling her boobs and acting like I'm super turned on by it, then she whispers in his ear. Then he whispers in my ear and says "She wants to give me a handjob, are you in on this?"
I'm like...uhhh...I won't, but you can watch me...?
So she whipped it out and started jacking him while I sat in the chair and pretended to rub myself over my panties.
Was super awkward.

>>24736252
That is no thaaaat bad.
How touchy have you gotten with a customer?

>>24736081
Also this.
Any chance we can see atleast a pic without face?

Any way to tell the difference between getting paid and actual interest?

>>24734558
No he meant as a PROstitute.

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As a guy who has been regularly going to strip clubs for the past couple years here a few tips for those that's a bit unfamiliar with the environment
>Pull out a set amount of cash you're comfortable spending and leave your card at home.
>Strippers are all about taking your money.
>Be respectful towards the girls but don't be afraid to turn them down for dances
>Make sure your hygiene is good and dress somewhat decently
If you guys have anymore questions feel free to ask me. I have a shit ton of stories and advice to share.

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>>24736942
>>24734541

If you tip girls extra, will they let you get hands-y, and how much extra do you have to tip?

now, im not talking super handsy, but i love grabbing girls by the hips and thighs and even arms, it just gets me hella turned on, and i would imagine touching ass and boobs would cost alot more then those other parts I mentioned

I've only ever been to a strip club once and i felt very shy and out of place, i just felt bad for the girls because they looked like desperate crack whores, but then again that's i what imagine a majority of strippers are

Any strippers input on a decent amount to tip to not be stingy if i want to get handsy would be appreciated

Yours truly,
/k/

>>24736570
I have rubbed dicks through pants/grinded dicks with my ass cheeks through pants.

>>24736618
If the girl is just chatting with you and not super interested in giving you a dance, and there are other customers they could be hitting up for money. At the very least, they enjoy your company.

>>24736942
This, this is accurate?

>>24737447
So I know this varies a lot from club to club, but if you are just talking about grabbing boob and ass, I don't ask extra. That is just part of my normal table dance, buuuut, that is the culture of my club. Some clubs, especially full-nudes are more strict about their no-touch policy, but in my city almost no clubs (except the full-nudes) abide by a no-touch policy. So you'll just have to figure that out based on your city/club culture.

>>24738302
oops, did not mean to put a question mark.

>>24736942
why do you go to strip clubs so often. its like expensive soft core porn.

>>24736081
https://www.instagram.com/luna.rayyne/

There you go

>>24738335
What is your plan for the future? Is stripping a long term thing or just temporary?

Favorite thing to do is your freetime?

I want to be a stripper but I live in the middle of nowhere up in NH. Plus I'm insecure that I'm not "curvy" enough.

What do? Do I need to live in a city or have big ass and tits to ever make it?

>>24737447
To be honest all the strip clubs I've gone to the clubs were okay with touching the girls and the girls were super handsy from the get go. There been times were I would purposely not touch the girl during the dance and they would grab my hands and put it on their body not charge extra >>24738334
Personally, I go because I treat it as a bar that just so happens to have topless women walking around and I'm more usually more focused on drinking than talking to girls and getting dances and before anybody ask "why not just go to normal bars?" I do go to those often also but sometimes I just like being in a strip club environment.

>>24738335
Awesome I added you :)

>>24738524
Post pic

Lol but really just go for it. You don't have to be a "specific" type just elarn to dance well and turn men on and bam you'll be a good one

>>24738335
Also you cute. Not gonna slide into the Dms but wish I could get a private dance

>>24738524
There are girls of ALL sizes. Don't worry about it. Work during the day Amd the girls will help you out, it's not busy, and you can get used to it.
If you're in a small town, unless you want everyone to know what you do, I would pick a neighboring city to dance at. Maybe just do a weekend somewhere

>>24738425
Temporary, I'm a student, no really, I am graduating next Dec. Then on to grad school for a masters in social work and maybe a PhD in biobehavioral health.

>>24738425
I actually really do like to dance just for funzies.

>>24738839
I always thought it was just a stereotype about stripping to pay for school. I sure wouldn't mind seeing some girls from lectures stripping - but then again I never go to strip clubs since we're apparently completely hands-off/no touching here.

>>24738882
That sucks. Met a 3rd year PhD pharmacy student one time who came in with his mentor. That was pretty cool, lol.

Does your bf know customers can touch you and you grind/rub their dicks?

If yes, where would he draw the line?

>>24738958
He does. We agree about the obvious illegal stuff, then he also asks that I don't kiss on the lips or nips in mouth.

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What would be the best way for someone to sexually assault you and get away with it? I don't want to do that, just interested

>>24739061
Do you ever get your nips kissed?

>>24739061
Seems like you guys have a good understanding. Good for you.

Let's say I came by the club and asked you for a handy for 500$ and your bf would never find out, would you? Be honest.

>>24739072
>btw this pic is amazing.... I bet you make a pretty good living!

>>24739072
How often do you get female customers?

>>24739076
Lol, not. I mean the moat opportune time would be in a vip session, but the bouncers are always lurking, so if a girl is screaming then you're done. You workshowouldn't get out of the club without getting beat.

>>24739077
It's happened, but I always stop it.

>>24739090
I dunno. That's super over-priced, so I probably would assume you're a cop, honestly. I might grab a girl I know who does it and get a cut from her if you were legit.

>>24739119
Not often, but I love getting females or couples!
Tip: when approaching a hetero couple, I always approach the female and barely make eye contact out of respect.

>>24739511
Do you let women touch more than men?
What would your BF say about that?

>>24739095
Thank you! Compared to the other girls, I actually don't make much.

>>24739516
Women are open game for me, in our relationship. So I can have sex with a woman if I wanted to.

>>24739615
You ever get down with a female customer?

>>24736203
Wat?
>>24736252
And waat?
>at my club, if any dicks came out of the pants, the customer would be kicked out immediately, and the dancer fired if she was found giving 'extras'.
> there's cameras f ing everywhere and a bouncer within view at all times
> dancers can't even go into the bathroom with female customers at the same time or the yd have to get special permission
> some dancers will let regular customers touch them but only boobs, or legs
Club is full nude tbf but still, goddamn

What tips would you give a guy to have a good time without coming out broke.
I've only been to a strip club 3 times in my life, I feel like I have to tip even if they wink at me

>>24739830
Pre drinks! !

19/f / uk
Should I become a stripper? My family will be so disappointed.

>>24740626
Become a sugar baby instead.

>>24734541
Are you a stripper?

>>24734541
Was your father absent from your life, or did he mistreat you?

Why in this age of equal opportunities for women did you decide to become a whore?

Is the money worth your honor as a woman? Can't you have made the same money doing honest work if you put in some effort?

Why are so many modern women so immoral and degenerate?

>>24740626
No you stupid whore. Be a good woman, find a good man. A worthless slut will live an equally worthless life.

>>24742099
Oh look, it's the underaged butthurt virgin again.

>>24742122
Oh look, it's the degenerate slut using buzzwords to feel better about yourself. Or are you a white knight beta faggot? Either way you should neck yourself.

>>24742240
It's easy to recognize you. Always shitting on /soc/ threads. It's no surprise that you have never been kissed - such butthurt is unattractive.

>>24742292
Your entire lifestyle is unattractive, future single mother. Only thirsty virgins on the internet pay attention to you, why else are you here.

>>24742324
You're far more pathetic than the "whores" you hate so much.

>>24739690
unfortunately not, but got kinda close with a co-worker while my bf watched.

>>24739724
Yeah, the number thing helps business.
The other stuff is totally not allowed, and there are minimal cameras. One in the locker room, one at the bar, one at the entrance, the managers office, and the kitchen. None of the customer areas really. The bouncers do check in all the time, but girls are sneaky and keep a lookout while doing the deed.

>>24739830
lol, be respectful, but you don't have to tip every girl. Pick one or two you really like. If it is a slow day then chat them up a little before hand and then wait for them to make the dance ask. If it is a busy day, just pick your favorites by their stage performance or appearance.
Dancers understand that guys like what they like. I'm a "thick" latina with small perky boobs, but that is not every guys thing. If a guy doesn't want a dance, it's cool. Sometimes I even ask if there is anyone they like so I can send them over (but I'm rare in being that courteous.)
A guy in here earlier had great advice and said pull out what you are willing to spend at the club in cash, don't even bring your wallet in (just your ID to get in). That way you aren't tempted to spend more than intended.

>>24740626
There are a shit-ton of factors that go into this choice. I wanted to strip when I was 18, but ended up not doing it, and I'm grateful for that decision. I'm 29 and just started stripping, because the time was appropriate for my current goals AND (most importantly) I had self-confidence, goals, and knew my boundaries.

>>24742099
1) My dad never mistreated me. My parents were divorced by the time I was born, so he wasn't as present as some fathers would be, and there are new studies being done at my university looking at the dynamic of the absent father, age of absence, and level of sexual promiscuity and there seem to be some correlations.
2/3) Honestly before this I had a career for 8 years as an administrative assistant. I chose to do this, because I was doing 2 years of full-time work and full-time school at the university I was working at. I was getting burnout, so I decided to quit my job, live off of scholarships, and get a part-time job for things like phone bills, electricity, and food. I started out working at a pizza place, which wasn't bad, it paid 9/hr, but the hours sucked. I didn't want to work more than part time, and they always scheduled me during times that I wanted to study. I would come home at 2 in the morning and have to wake up at 8am for class. With stripping, I choose my hours, I choose my days, I work less hours and make equal or more money. I usually come home with AT LEAST 50 dollars on a bad day, which is what I would come home with at the pizza place for doing harder work and a full 8 hour shift.
4) I think morality is heavily decided by the culture. The way in which you live is probably very immoral compared to how Puritans or Amish live. Or it may be very strange and uptight to a 8th century Viking. It's very relative, but if you are talking about the middle-class-white-protestant-American "values" and why they are changing, I would say partially due to economics and more families being forced into dual-income homes due to inflation, so that families have to make a choice to be active in raising their children and being poor, or to have decent provisions for their children, but be absent.

Sorry if I stray from the life lessons, but I always thought it was weird to go to a gentlemens club during day time. What's the benefit of this

Also I once delivered pizza to a club, it was the best. The lovely female flashed me s few times lol

>>24742935
It's less busy and a different crowd than at night. Both from strippers and customers.
During the day you have more of a bar and grill atmosphere and the dancers are not as competitive and will take more time to sir and chat with you.
At night you have more of a club atmosphere, the girls might be more porny, but they're also more of your stereotype stripper.

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I miss going to strip clubs. I remember a me and a group of friends got kicked out of the Spearmint Rhino in LA because one of them got a dance through 6 or 7 songs and racked up a huge bill and couldn't pay it off.

I've honestly never been to or really had the desire to go to a strip club...

>>24743362
Very pretty! De donde eres? Would I be able to see your outfit for today

>>24743559
Maaaaybe, when I get a chance.

>>24743559
And Ten's showclub in Tucson.

>>24743403
Yup, that'll do it, but also why you get cash upfront.

>>24743412
It's a good time man. Assuming the one you go to serves drinks

>>24743362
Low-life trash prostitute.
Hows jerking off fat truckers been going for you ?
kys

Did you have any customer encounters that were actually hot for you?

Last gf took up stripping, dumped her ass hard over it. Later found out she became a meth head. Doesnt seem like a good line of work to get into

>>24734600
depends on how upscale a club you want to work at. You will obviously make more money at a gay club.

>>24744122
Based on your outfit I will tell ya how much I'll tip ya :p

>>24744124
I meant your ethnic background, eres Latina no?

>>24734541
I went to one for the first time in Vegas a few weeks ago. I wasn't expecting much and I didn't get much. Just blue balls and a sore wallet. Why do you think guys go to strip clubs?

If you were a guy, do you think you would?

>>24744439
The other day I got a dance from one of my coworkers in front of my bf. She scissored me and that is the first time I've cum from that position.

>>24744466
It is really dangerous, not going to lie. But if you ate strong-willed and business minded, it can be good, but yes, many fall into traps. I don't even drink at work.

>>24744581
Si, chilena y mexicana con poco india.

>>24744651
As a girl I've gone to strip clubs for fun. It's eye candy and can be sexy. Just go with a budget, that's the thing, and don't fall in love.

>>24742103
Will you be my daddy?

>>24742103
I'll be a good woman and cook very well as well as clean. I'll work during the day and study at night to be able to have conversations with you and entertain you. I'll also provide entertainment such as massage, story reading, music playing and singing. I will obey your every word because I will be a good woman. I will also do everything you want in bed and be excited about it and work out to stay hot for you.

>>24745121
> tfw no open-minded qt3.1416 gf to take to the strip club

>>24745174
So, like, the perfect girl? A shame you're in the UK instead of the US. Regardless, there's always a catch.

>>24745246
The catch is that you have to be my daddy.
Oh and also that I'm an acne ridden, basement dwelling man who is 28 and neet.

>>24745268
Ah HA! I knew there was something.

Have to be your Daddy... pfft! Always something...

>>24745294
>24745294
I was joking. I'm cute. Please save me and bring me up.

>>24745371
Plane tickets from London to Detroit are as cheap as $320. You just have to be willing to trust a complete stranger in another country. No biggie, right?

>>24745391
It is outrageous but it's surely not completely unheard of. Plus I can switch my perspective to get through any kind of horrible outcome that might occur from the situation such as torture or death.

>>24745404
No torture and death involve. Just your standard live-in 1950's-household-turned-sex-slave-in-private esque stuff.

I actually had one for a month this summer. But she left back to school, and we texted and talked a lot until one day I didn't hear from her anymore. Thought she died until she messaged a month later, saying her phone broke, but in the meantime she found a boyfriend. Ah well.

>>24745419
How did the two of you meet?

>>24745437
Craigslist.

How do you prefer people to act during private dances?

Never sure if I should get into it or be goofy so I end up just sitting there doing nothing.

>>24747134
Lol, I don't know. It's always a surprise. Personally I hate when they start taking dirty to me, like "yeah, you like that cock, don't you," or, "I'm gonna make you cum." I'm just thinking "nope." But I say, "oh yeah, baby, gimme that thick cock, " and, "ohh yes yes YES!" It's weird...
I guess look like you're enjoying yourself, if you want to touch, ask first.

>>24747134

>>24747180
Good pointer... how about you tell us some gentlemens club etiquette. What are some of the things you like and things that make you enjoy giving a lap dance?
In my opinion I would like for her to enjoy herself as much as I am

>>24745131
Mira nomas, que combinacion exotica. Ya veo porque eres tan excitante.

Todavia espero ver tu vestuario

>>24747180

First of all, sorry if you already answer these, but I have read all yours post and not found it:

There are any kind of sexual relation between the owner of the club, the bouncers, barmans, etc with you the strippers? I mean not completely volutary.

>>24747223
I would say the buffebiggest thing is to be courteous. If a girl is spending a lot of time chatting with you w/o giving dances, tip her something for her time.
Don't talk to us about your troubles, we're not your therapist.
Be nice about not taking dances, smile and say something like not right now, but thank you.
Ask before touching new parts of the body.
For girls who don't drink, if we deny you buying a drunk, don't take that as we don't like you, we just don't want to drink and rather have the money go towards a tip.

>>24747246
I've never heard of an involuntary sexual relationship. Doesn't mean it doesn't happen, just don't know of it personally.
I know bouncers and dancers date a lot, because it's hard to find a bf that is comfortable with having a stripper gf.

My wife wants to take me to a strip club, what's the best way for her to dress to get some attention from the strippers but not have something like them try to get her to flash the other customers? (She has really big nice tits, women comment on them all the time when were out and about)

>>24734541
I've always heard that strippers usually date musicians & occasionally drug dealers. Is there any truth to that in your experience?

>>24737447

I've been to enough sleazy strip clubs to know that it's possible to basically finger bang a stripper for $3.

>>24745131
>Chilena
Vives en Chile?

>>24749191

I have a relative that is buddy-buddy with owners of the strip clubs where he conducts his business. He's boning most of the dancers in these said strip clubs.

>>24745128
I have question for you, where I love one guy has a monopoly on all the clubs, he literally owns everyone of them. Since he has no competition he treats the girls like SHIT. Just wonder if that common occurance with the boss.
Demands the girls fuck him to keep his job, raped one girl im semi friends with.

I'm not a stripper, but I've definitely considered it. I actually worked as a shooter girl for the night shifts- and max money I had made in about 5 hours was 350$ (sold over 1k in shots).. There are also ways to earn more money- ppl would ask you various ways of giving the shots.. Not that you had to do anything you weren't comfortable with- but you'd definitely get more tip.

Stopped that gig because at the time (near the end of my working there)- I ended up getting this one regular keep coming in- and eventually pulling out a wad of cash (close to 500$) to ask if I'd give him a private dance... That definitely was tempting- and I decided to quit to not have to be tempted to get into the stripping..

Now thinking back, it wouldn't have been terrible to have taken his money xD.. I was probably one of the most clothed women in there- and because of that I was crème de la crème lol... I still think if I should get into stripping, but until I'm 100% more comfortable with myself/te idea- I'll be in this limbo :P ha.

>>24749168
Well, personally I would NEVER pull down clothing or something like to a woman (or a man) I'm giving a dance to. If they do that, tell a bouncer, that is just not cool.
But that aside, during the day I would go business casual, but at night I would go more nightclubby or cocktail dress.
She'll get attention from the strippers regardless, she's a woman, and we rarely get those, bonus, a lot of strippers are bi or lesbian.

>>24749893
>a lot of strippers are bi or lesbian
How do lesbian strippers cope with male guys watching all over them? Or lap dancing?

>>24750111
Money. Plus for some of them, it's a power thing anyways. They have zero interest in the guys, but by bullshitting them, they take their money. I don't blame them.

>>24734541
Have you or know a coworker that "went down" on a patron or at least had the urge to?

>>24750221
Wow they're fucking awful. I do blame them.

>>24750272
Who cares? The whole environment is a warping of normality. Just go with it. It's fun as long as you aren't a shithead about it.

How common is it to grow aroused/horny from this work? Is it always clinical/a chore or do you find it sexy? I've always wanted to know this

>>24749626

She said she works at a club in Tucson (in Arizona in the US), so no

>>24749191
lol, it's funny that you say that, because historically I have only dated musicians, but that was long before I started dancing. Like, literally my first bf on to my current. I don't think there is really any correlation for me, though. The guys I date are all geeks/nerds on top of it.
As far as the stereotype goes, yeah it probably happens a good percentage of the time, but not exclusively and it's not the standard.

How do i find a escort without coming off as sketchy?

>>24749623
I wouldn't say $3. That is less than a floor dance, but just yesterday I saw a girl put a guy's dick in her mouth for what I can only assume was $7, but maybe she charged extra, I don't know.

>>24749726
Well, in my city, we have about 7+ clubs, and only two of them are owned by the same people. Two different ones are full-nude, and as such have very different level of strictness. Club reputations cycle from years to years on which is the "classy" club and which is the one you can get extras at, so there is quite a bit of competition. I personally feel that despite seeing what my co-workers do, I work at the club with the best management. They are nice to their girls and will stand up for them if a customer is being an asshole. I got a ride home from one of the bouncers last night, never made a pass at me and is genuinely a nice guy and would stomp an ass if I told him to.

>>24749889
I was in the same boat, and I definitely agree you should be totally comfortable with you and your values before you start. Always know where your hard lines are, and know that no matter how bad the day is, there are always other days where you'll make bank to make up for it. You don't have to do anything you don't want to.

>>24750245
Yes. It happens fairly often. There are some hos for sure.

>>24750341
I have some times, desu. Not very often. I'm a very good actress, when it comes to this. Most of my regulars love me, not because of my body, but because the illusion of sensuality I create for them. I moan and sigh and act like I'm riding them and loving it.
Every once in a while it will be hot for me and if while grinding, my clit may be stimulated.

>>24749893
Interesting, so would you say that the chances of finding a stripper to hook up increases if you bring a woman with you?

>>24751356

I have watched a dude blatantly finger a bitch as she was on stage, and over the course of the song, he put what appeared to be only three dollars in her thong.

>>24751377
Thats good then, guess the girls in my area are just screwd. This is a good sign of why anyone having a monopoly on anything is bad.

>>24751349
Just check your city's backage/eccie/other escort info site.

Do you ever go get a lap dance OP?