/kink/ How is there no kink thread? There are usually 2-3 up

>ASL

27 / male / usa

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation

Heteroflexible, switch. More Sadistic than anything else.

>Favorite kinks you have experience with

Impact play. Especially canes. I love welts.

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying

Blood play. I want to beat someone bloody, smear the blood all over them, bite them until I break skin, fuck them senseless and then make them suck their own blood off of me.

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?

vanilla is enough. It's just not ideal.

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?

I'm a male, nobody's going to add me lol

>ASL
18 m France
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
straight curious and exhibitionist
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
public play, water sports, exhibitionism
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
getting drooled on by getting deep throated on
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
nothing is enough
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik: jayhayhey
skype: [email protected]
snapchat: jayhayhey03
i'll add everyone, because everyone needs some fun in life

I have a fetish for musicians, but every time a girl plays me a stretto section I feel like she's leading me on.

>ASL

32 / m / German/French border area

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation

Straight pretty experienced Dom / DD

>Favorite kinks you have experience with

Spanking and general giving of pain. Just drives me wild to see a girls face with each swat. Anal training is also quite a bit of fun.

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying

Rope is top. I have some decent experience in it already but I want to really expand it out and become a real master rigger. I'd also love to train a slave, haven't found anyone with that level of commitment yet though.

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?

Nah

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?

Kik: StylishDrunk

> 32 m virgin los angeles / kik: zsasza
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
straight
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
uhhh a bit low on experience
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
sweat, pussyeating, asseating, underarms, panties, farting, queefing, light femdom
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
i dont masturbate or look at porn so nothing is already enough
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik me zsasza

>ASL 23 f uk
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation bi sub
>Favorite kinks you have experience with creampies, rape, incest, drugs,, group stuff
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying impreg
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough? No.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others? Kik is lightsandmagic

>>24723040
I forgot, I also like mtf traps, my best friend is one. 6'7 though, poor her.

>>24722658
Quite hot pic desu

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MOBILE AND DESKTOP READY YOU KINKY FUCKS.
SKYPE: Benny Blanco
I’m conducting Skype sessions! Anyone is welcome to message me here on FETLIFE, or at neversafeforwork on TUMBLR or on KIK at BennyBlan.co

24/M/Genderqueer/Pansexual
>Switch
>I get off to anything, love being dommed and orgasm denial though!
>Exhibitionism
>No I need kinks to cum; is that bad

>ASL
29/m/aus
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
straight dom
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
public stuff, group stuff, incest, rape, beasti, bdsm, humiliation, degradation, piss, pedo
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
get my gf gangraped in public or something
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Not really
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Kik: Feelgood1987

>ASL
27/M/MA

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, switch

>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Don't have experience with much. So I guess bondage will have to suffice.

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
DDLG, group sex, sharing. Pretty open to anything besides scat and piss.

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla can be alright. But come on if you enjoy something why not do it?

>Contact info
Kik/Snap: Throwitaway89
Skype/Email: [email protected]

>>24722658
>>ASL
30/m/canada
>>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight. Prefer sub, can dom.
>>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Gentle femdom, chubby girls, breast play, lactation.
>>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Lactation. All lactation. Dom girl holding me down and forcing me to drink while riding me, sub girl wanting to be milked sensually, being breastfed quietly while falling asleep in each others arms. Stuff like that.
>>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla is a-ok. Most vanilla sex involves breast play anyways.
>>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Upon request. Will have to make a throwaway if there's interest.

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>ASL
28/m/PA
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Mostly straight sub
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Femdom, crossdressing, light bondage, chastity, pegging, forced bi, verbal humiliation, foot worship, face sitting
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Uh...I'm good.
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Don't need it, but it's wayyy better.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik: nemotrap

>ASL
29/m/FL
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bi/Dom
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Control. Public Sex.
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Cosplay. Rape.
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla is enough, just not as fun
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik: Seanrb78

>ASL
25/M/usa
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Heteroflexible/Switch
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Rapeplay
Shibari
Daddy/little girl
Cross dressing/feminization
Panties!
Rough (slapping, biting, spanking, hair pulling, choking)
Besti (some dog)
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Horses!
Gangbangs
Sloppy seconds
Futa
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla can be fun sometimes.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik: boltonnuts

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>>Age/Sex/Location?
27/M/Prague (CZ)

>>Sexual orientation/BDSM role?
Straight/Primal/Dominant with switch tendancies

>>What are your kinks & fetishes?
Rough sex/sensation play/chokers/Biting/Spanking/Scratching/Wax play/Whips/Hairpulling/Role-play/Power Exchange

>>Do you have any experience with any of them?
Yup, but would like to learn how to whip properly

>>How necessary are your fetishes for you to get off? Can vanilla be enough?
Vanilla cannot be enough. The wilder it is, the better I'll enjoy.

>>Your newest fetish or kink? What happened so that you discovered it?
Whips while going to a spanking workshop, spent an hour watching someone getting whiped and couldn't leave my eyes of it. My friends told me I had stars in my eyes at that moment

>>Do you have an elaborate fantasy you want to fulfill?
With some role-play involved, definitely.

>>Tell us something non-kinky about yourself?
I love cats

>>Contact info if you want (kik, skype, snap, throwaway email, whatever)
I'm usually available here: https://fetlife.com/users/5939028 otherwise Kik is Narcissae

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>ASL
21/Male/Europe
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight/Switch
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Anal / Sleep Play / Deepthroating
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
I dont know desu
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla works
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik; throwawaylmaoo

>ASL
30/M east coast

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, dominant. Emotional sadist.

>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Degradation, humiliation, costumes, anal, DD/lg, noncon, petplay, rough fucking

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
More in-depth petplay, pimping / loaning my girl out, more intense emotional sadism.

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
A good sloppy blowjob always does the trick, but I wouldn't be in a relationship without kink.

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik: HotOrChill

Repost from the previous thread with some edits.

>Age/Sex/Location?

25/M/Toronto (Canada)

>Sexual orientation/BDSM role?

Definitely submissive, but not in a slave/bondage kind of way

>What are your kinks & fetishes?

Most of what would fall into gentle femdom/the female being the leader and myself being the follower. Would love to try face sitting and water sports and being stepped on. Otherwise, mostly vanilla things like cuddling, breastplay, and other couples non-sense, just with either you in control or as equals. If you're a tomboy/butchy, that is preferred though but not a must.

>Do you have any experience with any of them?

I'm a virgin, so no.

>How necessary are your fetishes for you to get off? Can vanilla be enough?

Absolutely, but I would prefer someone who was interested in the above.

>Your newest fetish or kink? What happened so that you discovered it?
I guess the whole idea of being the submissive partner in a vanilla-ish relationship.
>Do you have an elaborate fantasy you want to fulfill?

I don't really have any grand fantasies, so if you have anything you want to try out, by all means.

>Tell us something non-kinky about yourself?

I love building computers, I miss watching anime regularly, and I'm 6'5" (1.96m). Also, I love really nice beer, but I rarely ever drink any of it (my liquor cabinet is full atm).

>Contact info if you want (kik, skype, snap, throwaway email, whatever)

Kik is IronSolari, email is [email protected].

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>>24722658
>>ASL
28/m/usa
>>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight Male, Dom
>>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Shibari. I'm a practiced practitioner.
>>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Mostly new ties, but I'm pretty open to anything aside from scat/piss.
>>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
It's not necessary, but it's obviously preferred.
>>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Skype: rest.now1, if you want any other form of contact, reply.

>ASL
20+ M Amsterdam
Straightt
>About me
Tall (6"4/1m90) skinny/fit. i have been told i have a nice body and a nice butt.

I`m looking for people to cam to, Females or trans. I`m pretty kinky and ill do about anything. im not scared to get dirty or weird so whatever you please, i`ll do.
i`m verse so i have no problem on giving you orders if you'd like that. if not thats fine

Add me on skype if you're interested. If it doesnt work out you can always delete me.
>contact
skype= sknnlnmg

>>asl
19/m/can
>> experience
Facial, group
>>fantasize
Anal and creampie (alot)
>>need to orgasm?
Nah
>> sure just ask

>>24723040
This bitch never responds.

>>24722658
>ASL
20/male/UK
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, sub
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
No experience, i've done some solo anal stuff and that's it
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Femdom related kinks where a girl ties me up and has her way with me, like torture, breath play etc...
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Idk probably enough
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik:atazs

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>M/24/Alabama
>Pansexual Switch
>orgasm denial, pet play, cucking idk
>Really wanna be owned by a veerrryy Strict Domme
>If there's no kink why are we here
>Kik: Bennyblan.co
>Skype: Benny Blanco
**Skype Sessions Have Costs. Contact me if you're looking for someone to do *WHATEVER* weird things make you cum

>>24727509
why uncut, if white and from AL? is your dad too?

>ASL
27 m uk
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight. Dom, although curious about switching
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Bondage, spanking, anal play and degradation are my favourites
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
I'd love to try pee play, pet play and try pussy pumps and anal hooks
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla can be enough but kinks are becoming more and more important with age.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Always looking for submissive girls to play with. Kik me at mrbumfun

>ASL
25/f
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bi/sometimes switch, mostly sub
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
was rigged up once, craved it ever since. rough play, spanking, power exchange/primal dominance
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
always fantasized about having someone control my diet/exercise to mold me their way while maintaining a D/s relationship. more shibari too.
>skype:rydngrl

Pedogirls or girls that have a fantasy to start an incest family add me on kik: DogEmpire

>>24722658
>ASL
21 m usa
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bisexual-ish, submissive
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Not much, I've had a pretty vanilla sex life
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Cuck. I really hardcore fantasize about hearing/seeing some guy fuck my little sister, but any girl I care about will do.
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla is enough, but c'mon. I'm here for the kinks.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Of course
kik: cuckthrowaway

>>24728474
>rough play, spanking, power exchange/primal dominance

yes please. northeast usa?

>ASL
30/m/so cal
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bi, Switch
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Panty sniffing, pee play, rimming, diapers
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Face sitting, subbing, breeding
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough? vanilla is enough but kinks keep it fresh
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Yes to both.

Kik: NecrosDante
Skype: necros.dante

>ASL
25/M/Canada
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, mainly Dominant with some Switch tendencies
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Teasing, discipline(physical such as spanking or mental such as lectures/tasks), DD(Daddy Dom), general rough sex(slapping, choking), degradation/humiliation, and outdoors.
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
More degradation, more outdoors, more bondage(I've only done blindfolds/cuffs), and forced play
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
No, vanilla is enough. Especially if there's feelings ;) I need someone with an open mind in a relationship though.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Skype: OrangePylonEyes

>>24722658
>26/M/English
>anything that moves, sub and masochist
>chastity, worshipping feet and self bondage
>pet play, slave themed bdsm, long term chastity
>i dont need them but it really helps
>no info yet im new to this

Im very new to this so im getting comfortable with putting myself out there in small steps

>ASL
33 m usa

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation

straight. sub/exhibitionist

>Favorite kinks you have experience with

My main big kink is I make selfsucking videos for women. Sometimes I go all out with a green screen using pictures/videos of theirs and then I edit it and everything. The videos differ depending on if they make specific requests. Most of the time I selfsuck in different positions and then cum in my mouth. I have gigs and gigs of videos I've made over the years.

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying

I really want to make a selfsucking video with someone! Selfsucking while getting pegged. Really there are a ton of possibilities that I want to try out!

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
vanilla is enough.

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?

I'm willing to add others on kik :)

>ASL
23/m/socal,central cal

>Orientation
predator switch bi masochist dom
(in that order)

>my kinks
Primal, flogging, chastity, petplay, asphyxiation

>experience with
Semi routine predator hunting prey as primal in big sur with one
Light bondage and flogging practice with another

>interested in
Another primal switch
A sadistic dom
Other pets
A keyholder (could be remote)

>are my kinks fetishes?
Sometimes vanilla can't do it for me, sometimes it can.

>contact
If you'd like to learn about any of these kinks, I'll answer any questions to the best of my ability. And, if you would like to participate with me, feel free to drop me a line.
Kik: acrossAuniverse

>>24722658
>ASL
19/m/dk
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
bi switch
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
nothing :c
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
daddy/son - daddy/daugther roleplay, ageplay
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
vanilla is enough i guess
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
ask for contact

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>18/M/Netherlands
>Bi/Dom
>Abuse, slaveplay, feminization, bondage, choking, rape play, blood, sweat, watersports, feet, armpits, body worship, ass worship. Love it when people call me daddy.
>Next to none except some mild abuse, my only partners so far were way too vanilla.
>They're getting more necessary as time goes by. Vanilla's honestly a bit too boring for me most of the time.
>Big, puffy anuses. Stumbled upon it while browsing imageboards and it's become prime fap fodder since then.
>Lots. Have a taste. I want to throw someone around, beat him, maybe cut him, fuck him hard and mercilessly degrade him. Then comes the aftercare. I want to cuddle and give him lots of love, warmth and affection, only to do it all over again.
>I'm really into music.
>email: [email protected]
>Skype: ProwlingLeather
>kik: donthideitprovideit

Looking mostly for skeletonmode boys into chubby, hairy guys. Don't care that much whether you're masc or fem, as long as you're skinny.

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>ASL
18/M/Chile
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Virgin :0 just a little boy
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Age difference, dom/sub, choking, roleplay/ rape, stockings, anal, feets, armpits, I like a lot little bodies, sweat, and a lot of other things.
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
It's enough
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Kik: DieTomoGzg

>ASL
22 trans girl southern california

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
homoflexible, prefer girls

>Favorite kinks you have experience with
abdl & kitten play

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
idk i guess just heavier abdl stuff

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
prefer kinks i guess

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
ask for my kik or leave yours

>>24732009
Ohhh!!!! Kik plz ;3

>>24732033
posted and deleted, just ask if anyone else wants it

>>24732009
Drazelomnia>>24732105
Cause I missed it

>ASL
20/f/northeast usa
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
straight/slightly bicurious, switchy sub
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
dd/lg, petplay, choking, degredation, biting/leaving marks, fighting for dominance, being bratty, teasing you- i'll give you a hardon but don't you dare touch it, also dirty talk all throughout sex
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
life is strange made me want a mr jefferson in my life- maybe like teacher/student roleplay but with a super sadistic teacher who in between doing nasty shit to me has short moments of affection towards me as well but then he's back to being sadistic afterward
also want to try collar and leash shit. like tugging on the leash wrapped in your hands while we fuck
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
i've never actually orgasmed but if sex didn't involve these kinks id get bored really fast
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
uhh well i mean if you're interested drop your kik
also if you could say a little about you or link your post that would be neat

>>24732503
also i mean that whole teacher student thing doesn't even have to be teacher student. i guess it would be pretty cool no matter what

>>24732503
kik is nemotrap

I'm this one: >>24724068

Like a lot of the same sub stuff as you and enjoy chatting about kinks in general.

>>24732503
Hey
22/M
Kik me Jugh_Hackman

>>24732503
Kik: johnjohnnyjohndoe
I'll do the degradation and want to see your teasing

>>24732503

Well, I'm 31,male, straight, and pretty much into your kinks. I'm switch, so I like the fight for dominance part

Contact me at Kik if you want: Gouthiat

>>24732503
Interested. I hate being teased. Usually I'm frigid and collected, quite sadistic, when speaking about sex, but I completely hate and therefore love when things don't go my way. It's new to me.

Kik is orzhovhunt

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>mfw reading a guys info then seeing a kink you absolutely hate
every fucking time

>>24732653

What are you into? You could always post your own info.

My kink is so niche I don't even bother posting it anymore, and sub guys are a dime a dozen.

>>24732661
I have the same problem, still haven't found anyone interested in CBT. Its a pity...

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>>24732661
I like sub and dom guys but the doms are always into hardcore humiliation/pain and degradation and other crap I don't like while the subs are complete sissies to the point of wanting to be butt pounded.

the unicorn I'm looking for will never be found

>>24732693
Well, I actually have a hard time finding subs for hardcore pain/humiliation, most are a bunch of pussies who chicken out when I start talking about slapping or clamps...

Seems everything related to kinks is complicated, I wish it would be as easy as vanilla...

>>24732714
It's one thing to be submissive it's another to be a submissive that's into bdsm. you can't fault them for being "pussies" when it's simply not something they are into.

>>24732693
I find it a lot harder to find doms/dommes who *are* into sissies. Most I see like sub guys, but not sissies or anal.

>>24732722
Well, to be honest I don't like sissies either xD

Anal is fine, but more as a way to domain and show your authority than as a feminine thing.

Anyway, good luck with your search.

>>24732719
It was a joke, man xD.

>>24732722
Seems like gay dudes are the ones who like sissies. females, not so sure. I personally don't and prefer someone that can switch. really fem guys seem like they would be perpetually sub.

>>24732752
Are you a female domme? Because I'm switch... If you don't like sissies, maybe we could chat...

>>24732672

There's a norwegian chick who is ridiculously into cbt, haven't seen her for a while. Used to platonically chat with her 'cause it's not my jam. She was really hardcore about it, like, tight ties until your dick goes blue, sounding, stomping, she used to get off to that vid of the guy's dick being stomped by the heel and crushing his urethra and blood goes pouring out of it. Usually you find someone else's ideal kink partner in here rather than your own.

>>24732752
>>24732693

Personally I like the pain, and handing over control when it comes to subbing. Being at their will and just letting them do whatever, I don't have specific, "Oh, I wish she'd do this to me, or, oh I wish she'd do that to me", mine is, "I wish she'd do whatever she felt like to me", I don't get any pleasure from it if it's her doing it for me. That being said, giving up control all the time would suck, of course there's shit I wanna do, and when I want to do it ain't no way I'm giving up control.

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>>24732661
>>24732693

As a Male switch I have a similar problem but in reverse. The Dommes tend to be super into pain and humiliation and want a total bitch boy while the subs are just way too needy but at the same time want me to be super degrading and I dont like it at all.

Hold out hope friends theres bound to be someone.

>>24732812

At the risk of becoming very unpopular with 90% of people who post in these. The dommes aren't into that, they might say they are, maybe they even think they are, but they aren't, the reason they keep coming back to these threads is because they get bored of the subs they're with, because being the aggressor all the time and having a little bitch that does whatever you want is boring, yet they continue to come in here and burn through a new sub every 2 days thinking that's what they want.

Sure, there are some girls that will find a bitch boy and stick with him, but 90% of them just aren't looking for that and they can't realise it.

I used to think I was 100% submissive until I realise that sometimes when I'm subbing, I'm not enjoying enjoying myself at all, and even when you give up 100% control it's still supposed to be exhilarating, you still are supposed to be feeling something for yourself.

>ASL
24/m/Australia
>IRC name
Don't use it, fetlife is AlphaGamma25
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Petplay as a master (not the super hardcore leather and cages kind, just the dominant and loving relationship), bondage, orgasm control/denial, stretching, cumplay and impregnation
>Your experience/experiences
All of the above plus general kinkyness (impact play, clips, toys etc)
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Past partners have reacted in various ways, either not being into it, being a little into it, or really liking it. Some friends know and some have asked questions in a group, other have come to me afterwards and asked things privately, and other haven't seemed to care.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
After my first few times having sex i found that i liked to hold my partner down while doing it, and things escalated from there.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
I've done some bloodplay (and not really been into it), I think the most satisfyingly kinky thing I've done was having a live in pet who would dress up for an hour each night and play, and was generally submissive the rest of the time. (I would pick her outfits for the day, control her schedule to some degree, give her orders to be completed in my absence, etc)
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'd like to play with anal stretching and play for a submissive or pet, and I'd love to impregnate a pet, making her truly mine.

>>24732822
I mean, I'd argue that theres someone into anything and I cant really tell what people are into. But that may still be the case for some of the people here.

Tbh I just get super uncomfortable around like, degrading and mean shit. Like it's just a gigantic turnoff and makes me feel more anxiety than lust.

Honestly I find affection incredibly sexy. The biggest appeal to subbing is having someone aggressively love me and my body. I want to please them and I want them to want to please me. Theres thousands of ways to go about it but shit man I just wanna see my partner in ecstasy whether Im domming or subbing.

I've got plenty of other kinks but I mean that's a big part of it to me

>>24732811
Thank you for the info! Now I'm crossing fingers for that Norwegian girl to read my posts.

>>24732722
>>24732752

There was a Domme in one of these threads a couple weeks ago (I think?) who had thing for feminizing boys, but was very particular about what she meant by that and how she wanted to do it.

I don't remember the details, but she had some interesting thoughts about maintaining a healthy dynamic with that kind of play (and with a dom/sub relationship in general). Part of it was that some sissies want a really caricatured version of femininity and she just wasn't comfortable with that, I think. I remember looking up a name she mentioned and finding some really cringeworthy YouTube links.

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>>24727523
but... I'm black...
kik:bennyblan.co

>>24732969

Haven't got a snapchat from her in a while, might have retired for now, who knows, might get lucky and find a girl who will destroy your cock.

>>24733019
Yes, she was great. We talked a bunch on kik, though I haven't heard from her in about a week. There should be more women like her.

>>24733029
Thank you very much anyway, I hope someone like that appears

Well, you could also give me her Snapchat if you don't have any problem with it, so I could ask her personally, that would be so great...

>>24733035
Didn't she mention having a girlfriend/sub? They're probably just doing Christmas-season stuff together. Lots of people drop offline for a bit this time of year.

I loved reading her stuff though; she struck me as very thoughtful and positive. Maybe she'll be back soon now that the holidays are over.

>>24722658
>ASL
26/m/aus
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, Mostly Dom but really enjoy switching
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Bondage, spanking, forcing submission, impregnation, light anal play, Master/slave dynamic, light choking.
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Public (excluding car, already done that plenty), whipping, anal
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla works but I came the hardest in my life when me and my last gf created a scenario where I had her captured and handcuffed and all it would take to take over her mind and make her my slave forever was for me to cum inside her. While she would be handcuffed to the bed she would still struggle and protest while I pinned her rear with my weight, all the while whispering in her ear about how close she was to becoming masters fucktoy. Sometimes she would give in before I came and sometimes after.
That's when she would call me master
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Kik: thermute

Couldn't find a better thread to post this in. Anyone have any experience with estim? Is it safe to switch out the power box for another so long as it uses the same type of plug?
Multiple electro toys at the same time is safe too, right?

>>24733204
I'm an electrical engineer. Tell me what exactly you want to do.
If it works with static electricity it should generally be fine to attach whatever you want.

>>24732693
Eh, it's just that most doms associate being dom more with humiliation/pain than actual dom things.
While I am a light sadist, I am not into this whole "slap your ass until it bleeds" thing. A bit of degradation is nice, but not in the bdsm way, but in the 'normal/playful vanilla' way.
I mean if you're interested, we could talk about what kinks we have in common, and which we don't. I think it'd be interesting to see your perspective.

>ASL
19/M/PA
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bi/ preferred sub but can switch
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
bondage, candle wax, anal play, watersports, games with consquences
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
chastity devices, pegging, tasks, other shit as well
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
vanilla is fine kink is more for the moment to be more intense
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik is Shmuples

>>24733300
Alright. I've got two toys, each with their own power box, both of which operate on batteries and have a 2.5mm jack. In this case, I want to try and use the nipple clamps (single jack each) and the ballstretcher (1 plus and 1 minus) at the same time. I imagine it'll be fine, but I figured I'd ask before I do something stupid and electrocute myself.

>>24733369
If they both run on batteries you'll totally be fine. I doubt even 20 boxes would come close to being able to provide anything close to lethal current.

>>24733369
General rule for electronics is mains power will kill you if you fuck up, batteries won't.

>>24733380
>>24733381
That's what I thought. I read somewhere not to let the currents cross the chest area, so I figured there might be similar things to watch out when I use multiple at a time and how it might or might not interact.

Thanks for your time.

>ASL
26/F/Ca

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bi, leaning toward men. I don't think of myself as being into BDSM, but I guess you could say I'm switch-y with a slight preference for being in charge.

>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Dirty talk (no humiliation); rimming, fingering, toys (on him); cock worship and giving head; pits; voice kink; uhhh I forget what else. I like being held down gently while getting fucked sometimes. Edging my partner/orgasm control was pretty fun too. There's more, but comment limits lol.

I like the dynamics between me and my partner to shift and change. Who's leading can switch, as long as underneath it all we're on equal footing and things just feel really intimate and loving. That's my jam.

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
I think I might want to try role play, esp. seeing my partner play at being more shy, or a little cocky, etc. I really want to try more outright praise kink, whole-body worship, and pet names. I'd like to try pegging eventually, and gentle marking/biting (giving). I'm also sort of curious and apprehensive about watersports at the same time. There's probably more, but I'm sleepy.

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla is great. It's going to involve intimacy and personality dynamics regardless, which are the biggest things for me. I'm not sure if I could consistently orgasm without dirty talk though, even if it's just things I'm thinking to myself or my tendency to babble mid-coitus.

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
I might be willing to add others? I'm not looking for sexual chat though.

>>24732929
You sound amazing.

>>24733399
>CA

Please please be in nor cal. You sound great.

>>24733392
basically, the thing that kills you is a current over 60 Volts and 100 milliamps through your heart.
I don't have much experience with electrical toys, but I'd assume they work with very high voltage, very low current.
>>24733399
I think it could be fun to chat with you. I could maybe also introduce you to rp, as I am more or less into it. While I generally lean on being dominant, something about being 'forced' to sub (for 'short' periods of time) turns me on enormously. If you have kik, mine's overrice.

>>24733392
Most battery powered stuff runs at 9v or 12v which is pretty low voltage. You can safely stick a 9v battery on your tongue if you want to see how much buzz you'd get?
Of course some 9v items will have things that step up the voltage to something higher but I doubt you'll find that sort of thing in toys

>>24733414
They're talking about e-stim stuff, which MOST LIKELY has step-ups or static generators in there. think an electric fence. you don't feel 9V/12V attached to your skin.

>>24733423
Oh ok E-Stim is like the pulse thing, like those ab workers right?

>>24733432
no, it's more like static shock. you know, that little buzz you sometimes feel when you touch a piece of metal.
Or, if you've ever touched mains (I have): it's like that. just a little less intense

>>24733402
SoCal, sorry. But thanks! :)

>>24733411
Thanks, but like I said, I'm not looking for sexual chat. I think I'd only be into role play (and anything in general) within the context of a relationship or something close to it.

>>24733438
Sounds interesting. Thanks

>>24733448
Eh. I was thinking more about simply chatting about sexual things, not doing anything sexual. Or are you not looking for that either?

>>24733452
Ahh, guess I didn't read it that way, haha. Not sure what you mean by introduce, though?

(I'm going to bed in a minute, but I'll be around.)

>>24733477
I thought you meant RP in an online way, not IRL with relationships. I also am familiar with IRL RP, but I meant that I could maybe tell you some sites to go to for online rp. Whatever : ^)

>ASL
21/m/US
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight (ish?)
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Pegging (little), lots of creampies, choking, daddy/little, ass eating
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Looots of femdom, Pegging/gangbang, threesomes or more, rape (on me)
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla is what I'm used to
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Kik is Bigben67898

>>24733483
Oh, okay. Yeah, I was more thinking about playing around with personality mostly IRL. Maybe acting like strangers, too, or other scenarios. I'm not really entirely sure, I've just never tried it and it seemed like it might be fun. :) Thanks though!

>Age/Sex/Location?
29/M/California
>Sexual orientation/BDSM role?
straight/switch
>What are your kinks & fetishes?
Spanking, Nipple play, Lactation, Fisting, rape play, bondage, looking to do pretty much everything once or twice
>Do you have any experience with any of them?
NIpple play, Spanking, and Fisting
>How necessary are your fetishes for you to get off? Can vanilla be enough?
Vanilla is enough for me
>Your newest fetish or kink? What happened so that you discovered it?
Lactation found on 4chan
>Do you have an elaborate fantasy you want to fulfill?
To find a woman with huge breasts who squirts milk as she cums
>Contact info if you want (kik, skype, snap, throwaway email, whatever)
kik: 99rbs

>>24732503
Also in Northeast
23 male
Kik edwardnese
Work is taking up most of my time trying to find someone new to chat with

>>24733321
I don't like degradation at all so nty

>ASL
M/19/Latvia

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bi/Switch, mainly sub

>Kinks
I've not had any real time experience, but I've done lots of stuff with people online. I'm mainly into some humiliation and petplay, plus most things in their softcore forms. I usually suck at getting people that fit my kinks, since there are specific things that are turnoffs, even though they don't always make sense (like being into humiliation, but finding any sort of begging tedious and annoying)

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Well, I always have at least some sort of kinky fantasy in my head, so mostly yes.

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
If anyone is interested at all, I can post kik

>>24729666
Kik?

39/sissy/UK
scat
prolapse-play
I need sounding to orgasm nowadays

If anyone's interested, reply and I'll get back to you with contact info

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>ASL
26/m/US - midwest
>Sexual orientation & kink orientation
Straight, Daddy Dom
>Kinks & Description
I'm a younger but experienced Daddy Dom. I'm driven & focused on my work, but I will make time for the right little girl. I love fostering the personality of a cute & playful little girl. Maybe that's you? I love leading & teaching you when you are in your little space, as well as respecting when you aren't.

However, I am strict. I can be quite cruel and rough-- I have a sadistic side: I love controlling & abusing a willing body and mind. And I would get to: after all, you would be Daddy's little girl. But at the end of the day I would cuddle & hold you as you fall asleep in my arms, nuzzled up against me exhausted.

I am academic, slim/athletic, 5'11", dark hair with a beard. I have many interests in art, music, literature, & science. Think: professor-type. I'm kinky in other ways & open-minded, so don't be too shy-- tell me your desires.
>Looking for
Searching for a playful, intelligent, & cute girl, ideally local, who is looking for DDlg play potentially leading to a relationship. DDlg is more than sex & dressing up & ageplay to me-- it's about a whole relationship dynamic. Above all you should be curious & wanting to learn. Please get hold of me if you're interested & think you fit my description. And don't worry if you're a shy little thing.
>contact
kik: umichguy

>>24734566
Kik?

>>24723047
Is your friend qt?

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>ASL
21/M/Michigan
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, switch but prefer submissive
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Having my ass played with, eating my cum
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Public stuff, buttplugs
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla's enough
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Kik is ThothAcolyte

>>24729666
Dk as in Denmark? if so I'm very interested to contact you. I'm 19/f and into daddy/daughter kink, and honestly very submissive.

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>ASL
Mid-twenties, female, USA.

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bisexual and results attached for your perusal.

>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Bondage, spanking, hair pulling. I was in a long-term relationship with someone far more vanilla than me, and things didn't proceed past rough-fucking, so this is unfortunately limited.

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Master/slave. Would be more comfortable in the slave position whilst learning. Could tie into a kidnapping roleplay. (Pun absolutely intended.)

Curious about wax and blood play.

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
For sexual fulfillment, vanilla wasn't really enough, but in more general terms, I'm happy with the bare minimum of someone giving a shit about me.

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Willing to add others if we hit it off.

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>>24735258
Sup dude.

27/M/USA. Straight, and results also attached for your perusal. I noticed we've matched a bunch on some cool ass things. If you wanna talk more in depth about some kinks hit me up, I'm always looking for perspective.

kik: vintagedrumandbass

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>>24735258
Hi there! I'm a 20-year old bisexual female dom. Here is my chart, for reference. I like what I'm seeing on yours and, if you'd like, we could totally talk about it.

If you're interested in chatting further, lemme know, and which kind of method (Kik, Skype, Discord) you prefer. Cheers!

>>24735312
>>24735357
>>24735312
>>24735357

I went and registered on Kik as quiesci.

Never used the app, so not sure if it'll endure, but it should at least give enough of a window to swap handles on other, more permanent communication platforms if we get along.

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>Male/WA
>I am pansexual and am a full time caretaker Master

>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Petplay and buttstuff, a little impact play

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
I'm a little bit of a switch but I've never had the opportunity to be on the other side of things
Sometimes I want to be the one taken care of and fucked
And a massage slave

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Rough sex is nice but most of my kink experience is outside of and leading up to sex

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik/fetlife Toomanykittens

>>24735564
you can delete it if anything goes wrong

>ASL
27/M/ohio

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Dom/Master...enjoy women and passable ts/traps/etc

>Favorite kinks you have experience with
bondage, orgasm control/denial, light pain

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
into anything oral and anal, bondage/discipline/punishment/pain, orgasm control/denial & forced/ruined orgasm, humiliation/degradation/objectification, watersports, toys/insertions/stretching/pumping, latex/rubber

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
can orgasm through vanilla, but its a bore

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik: prurient_master

>>24735357
Can you add me on skype? My contact is [email protected]

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>ASL
26/m/Indiana
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, 95% submissive, but would dom for the right person.
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Legwear (stockings, tights, etc) on girls, gentle femdom, body worship (giving), humiliation (receiving), feet.
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Roleplay (especially teacher/student), light bondage, face sitting, masturbation instructions.
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla is enough most of the time.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
[email protected] or ask for other info here. I have all of the usual stuff.

>>24732503
I'm interested if you have a kik. Mine is boltonnuts.

>>24735357
>non-monogamist
I'd totally hit on you as an female sub because of Mommy/ Dom and Owner, but you're sadly not monogamous. If you'd still like to talk where can I add you?

>ASL
19/M/USA
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, submissive-leaning switch
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Anal, cumplay, feminization.
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Public, being pegged, toilet play
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Don't need the kinks, but they're a lot of fun =)
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
I'd love to add women if they're interested in talking about whatever, and ladies feel free to add me whenever. Kik is sluttyschoolboy89.

>ASL
22/m/EU
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, switch
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Age play, rape play, roleplaying, light bsdm
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Public, femdom, gangbang, body worship
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla does it for me sometimes but I prefer kinky stuff
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik - redhotstuff1

>>24732503

>teasing you- i'll give you a hardon but don't you dare touch it

Ugh please? iamanon24

>>24732503
27/M/also northeast usa

>i've never actually orgasmed
unacceptable. i will make it my life mission to change that.

i'm into a lot of the same kinks. see here for a little chart: >>24735312 . my favorite kink i've experienced is tying a girl up to choke them and deep throat them hard. like throwing up hard. i always appreciate a fight though.

i'm a big fan of your little teacher/student roleplay idea. i like acting, i'm all for it. dressing up and all.

hit me up via kik: vintagedrumandbass

>>24735357
Hi I'd love to chat!
Kik: nathe1010

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>>24735357
Hi I'd love to chat
Kik: nathe1010

>>24732503
Hey there! We have similar kinks, love ddlg, petplay and sub/dom, also bratty littles are best littles, kik is Mawpehz

>>24733399
Hi I like what you've got going on and I'm definitely interested in your personality! From socal too Kik is drunkrdshade

>>24733399
Are you into polyamory or group play? Or just looking for kinky friends with or without play?

>>24735357
Hey there!
I'm interested in your affinity as a primal huntress.
Kik me please!
acrossAuniverse

>>24733399
So cal here have a kik?

>ASL
21/m/GA
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, and submissive
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
pegging, tied up, face sitting, giving oral
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
anything not involving cuckold or excrement
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
I can orgasm, but it's somewhat unsatisfactory.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Kik: Sp0kan

>ASL
Mid twenties / M / Fr
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, dom / primal
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Mindgames, impact. Learning the ropes
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Poly with a bi girl, love to find her someone to play with.
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Both are fine with me, as long as you enjoy it rough
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Skype: euryale winterchill

>ASL
M/UK
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight/soft Dom if anything
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Light bondage & tease play, I like to tie wrists to ankles so you can't move about and tease you until you are dripping wet and can't take anymore, usually starting with a slow massage or with my my tongue slowly licking all over your pussy and arse then tongue fuckking your arse or pussy, then sliding just the tip of my hard cock just inside until you can't take anymore, once you are all flustered and begging to be fucked you'll get a good rough hard fucking, hair pulling, arse smacking and light chocking, finishing up where ever you ask if you've been good.
Other kinks are: baby oil, women not wearing knickers under dresses, women being a tease, fucking all over the house, soapy showers.
Nothing too kinky I guess.

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla is enough, but a bit kinky is always good.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Willing to add others if interested, chances are we'd be miles away so I'd be happy just to chat.

Uhhh, this is going to be a bit different. But basically I'm just looking for an online relationship for when I want to escape from reality. I'm 23 F Switch Bi with a preference for females, simply because they tend to approach stuff like this more emotionally/psychologically and that's more my thing. And here is the kicker: Honestly I don't care if you are real or not as long as your story is consistent and believable. For contact e-mail me on [email protected].

ASL
26/M/usa
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Bi/Master-Dom
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Master, Dom, slate training, physical training (like cardio/weight lifting), blindfolds, lifestyle change, 24 hour save life, blackmail, mind play, breath play, orgasim denial, bondage.
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
When it comes to my actual fantasy, I want to have a save thatsome willing to give all of themselfs, male or female, skinny or fat, there physical appearance doesn't matter to me. I want to know them, learn everything about them, how they grew up and there family and friends. And once I know about this person's life I want them to give it to me, so they don't have to think anymore. Every decision they make will no longer be there's but only mine. I will tell them how to speak, how to fight, if they are overly obsessed how to eat and train because they are mine. They would learn how I think, how when I wake up that they should dress me, or if we have a group of friends coming over how they should properly pleasure them as we enjoy each other's company. But I know own most of this can sound nuts at first that's why I'd like to get to know own someone first for a bit and then maybe fly them out for a weekend to try our little fantasy
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
It's nice to feel someone's flesh and desires ,but it's not enough for me
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Kik: zeronoface chat me up if you would like to just talk

>>24723040
Bump

>>24733399
>You sound amazing

I'm flattered! You sound pretty awesome too!

My kik is solaticgear if you want to get in contact. I'm a little shy but Im usually down to talk. :>

>ASL
18/m/bi/usa
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
bi/sub
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
anal, being dominated, controlled, humiliated
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying feminization, pain play, spanking caning ect, lite choking, pet play, bondage, ect, also open to try new things

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
vanilla can be enough, but kinks are greatly prefered
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
kik; whatsitt0ya (prefered contact)
email ; [email protected]
skype; [email protected]

>>24735357
26M, ceilingplankton on kik. I'd love to chat if you're looking for more subs.

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kik: ThomasBris

This is my boyfriend's kik. Im currently in the process of turning him into a sissy with the end goal of hooking him up with my dad's friend(weird I know). Can you please help me? Maybe some guys hitting on him will help..

Poppers get him in the mood and make sure to ask about that Halloween kiss! ;)

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>>24735582
Darin reminds me there are worse things than being single. He is my anti-kink. Thank you; I've been a bit lonely this holiday season.

>>24740144
You're not the boyfriend. Seriously, we're not 5 years old. You're the sissy.

>>24740781
uh-oh
Somebody is butthurt and single

>ASL
29 m us
>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight. Dom
>Favorite kinks you have experience with
Rope play, hairpulling, face slapping, etc.
>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
Some form of long term 24/7 master slave. A fantasy of mine is kiddnaping a girl and training her to be my slave.
>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla is fine, sometimes.
>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
Kik: bustedcog

>>24740873
Single not Desperate. ;)

Seriously, you're my reminder that someone can have the right kinks, be in the right place, and on paper not be a bad guy, and still be so far off the table for consideration that singledom feels pretty good for a couple weeks every time you remember he exists.

No play at all is better than play that just isn't fulfilling. Remember that, anons, it's not worth your time otherwise.

>>24741057
I'm sorry?
I try my best?

>26 male, like identifying as female but I don't buy into the HRT/trans/muh pronouns bull. Super trap of godlike androgyny
>SUBMISSIVE WAIFU ONAHOLE
>^
>^
>haha good question, as of now I can probably still cum to straight thoughts but the gay is consuming me

23, M, Straight, Dom

Interests: Underground punk concerts, mixing drinks, bad movies, horror, writing, kayaking, nature, the occult, heavy metal, poetry, indie comics, games.

kinks: hypnosis, ddlg, degradation, bondage, humiliation, conditioning, service-based submission, mental/psychological domination on the whole, wax play, electrocution.

Down to chat, flirt, play, whatever, just let me know.
Also feel free to shoot me some questions here.

kik: knightmaare

>>24722658

>ASL
Female, 21, USA

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, gentle/ara-ara type dominant.

>Favorite kinks you have experience with
I am involved with someone. We're both into chest play, and he'll usually suck my tits in bed until we fall asleep together. I make him vocalize, and hearing the admissions of submission is quite nice.

We treat hickies like marks of ownership, and he no longer needs prompting to beg me to mark him as mine. If he wants to come, I make him ask for permission. If he wants to suck my chest, he has to ask first. Of course the answer is always yes, I'm not a cruel or denying dom, but he knows to vocalize anything he wants. If he's ever physically on top of me, he's instructed every step of the way on what to do.

>Favorite kinks you fantasize about trying
I would love for my partner to kneel in front of me and hug my waist, begging to be fucked raw and senseless... Preferably after a week or two of him not being able to/allowed to come. He's so shy it would be incredible to see desperation take him over so much. We'll be trying prostate play as well, but probably not pegging.

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
I'm usually on top anyway, so it works out. Vanilla would be fine, as well.

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?
I just hang on 4chan, really that's all. I'm in a relationship so I'm not looking for a partner, but I'm good for comparing experiences or hearing what other people who have these kinks are into. It's fun to see what makes people tick.

>>24741468
Dom with the curse of the babyface.

Seeking to give this a shot (chest play and vocalization) but It's hard. How could I find someone on the "Ara-ara" side for a change every now and then?

>>24741678
If you're a sub male looking for a dom female ara-ara, comment on how much you love her chest/how close you feel to her when you're near her breasts. Play up the romance/sweetness side of it if she's into it. Unless she's a bully-type she'll probably give it a shot. Doms like to be tender, too. If she's dominant and has a sizable chest, chances are you could do something similar. Ask her permission to be smothered, or to suck her nipples always. Always ask for permission. If all else fails, beg nicely like a good sub. I don't know any particular sites where these kinds of women exist, I think you'll just have to roll the dice on regular BDSM, mistress, dominant sites.

If you're a woman looking to do this to a submissive man, jerk him off and make him suck your tits at the same time. Great way to intro him to anything is to make sure he's 100% feeling good while you slip in the new stuff. My guy was too shy to even look at my chest when we started dating, now he can't take his mouth off of me. If you're going for completely ara-ara, go slow. Be sweet. Give him kisses and head pats and let him know that he's doing wonderfully. Encouragement can be a powerful thing in the bedroom.

Hopefully that answers your question, anon. I'm a little tired so I probably rambled a lot.

>>24741468

I wish I could find that partner like you, because what you describe fits what I'm looking for to a T. Would you happen to know if there's any point also looking on something like Fetlife or the like? Also, any advice for someone seeking a gentle dom?

>>24742793
With my relationship we weren't specifically looking for a dom/sub thing. We found out we clicked this well after we got together, so we ended up being some luuuucky sons of bitches.

I'm not too familiar with Fetlife, but a lot of people involved in the femdom scene there are men looking for women. And the women I usually see there are more bully/princess-type than ara-ara, anyway. Look for women who are actually creative/confident, and have ambitions past posting pastel-colored pictures on the internet. Unfortunately, most of them aren't on this part of the internet.

Responding to a lot of the little things a woman does in the bedroom won't hurt, even if she's not openly dominant. If she pets your head, lean into it, hug her chest and snuggle your face against her breasts. Drop a hint every now and then, 'you take such good care of me', or 'I love being this close'... Ara-ara works best when there's a little bit of romance mixed into the passion. If your only approach is to seek instant sexual gratification, you might not have much luck.

You're probably not going to find a 100% matching person on the first or second try. Hell, in just relationships alone and excluding kinks, I had six... juuuust awful, absolute failures. And, again, I got very lucky.

If it doesn't exist yet, someone should really make a femdom site for these specific types. Something that clearly defines what each type is, and what they're most like. Choose up to two types of what you are/what you're looking for. The 100 questions to figure out your kinks doesn't work, it needs to be far more specific. When you open up that many options it just becomes too broad and muddled.

/kink/

How is there no kink thread? There are usually 2-3 up at the same time.

>ASL
26/m/415

>Sexual orientation and kink orientation
Straight, I'm a dom

>Do you need your kinks to orgasm or is vanilla enough?
Vanilla can work. Depends on if I want it to be a fast rub out.

>Contact info or are you willing to add others?

Kik is Zarl