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Ok /Soc/ I have a question for the Bi and Gay men on here.

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Ok /Soc/

I have a question for the Bi and Gay men on here.

I am a straight male and have posted my KIK in a few threads and explicitly stated I am straight and looking for a female. I haven't had a huge amount of responses ( I get the skewed ratio of M-F on here) but I'd say over half are from gay/bi men or men pretending to be females. My question is, why do you guys do this?

I clearly stated I am not interested in men and I politely decline on Kik, but Im just curious why this is such a big thing?

Now don't get me wrong I have no problem whatsoever with whatever your sexual preferences may be but why are you trying to trick someone or waste your time on a person who clearly stated they are looking for a woman?

A few of my gay friends have said that in the right circumstances even straight guys will mess around and they kinda feel pride in getting a "straight" guy to do that. I can see how that can be a fetish or point of pride, but I am simply not wired for that in the slightest. I tried explaining that to a rather persistent dude yesterday but he didn't want to accept it and kept saying "I've heard that before" or "What if a girl was there? Would you be willing to mess around then?" At least for me the answer is still no. I find men (no matter how feminine) to be a huge turn off. You could pump me full of Viagra and Id still go soft at the idea of touching a man in a sexual way.

So is it just the chase of trying to get a straight dude to mess around? Is it something else entirely? I mean there are THOUSANDS of posts all over the net for guys asking for what your offering...so why engage in this with guys who aren't at all looking for that?
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Beats me, man, and I feel ya. Here and on cam sites, and it gets annoying pretty fast.

I kinda would expect a little bit more respect from a community that suffers so often from lack of respect towards them, desu.

There are plenty of gay people asking for contact, why the hell waste time with straight people?
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Bi dude, and I have no fucking clue. Perhaps a similar mentality to guys who try to "convert" lesbians? It seems incredibly disrespectful and often deceitful. I guess it's probably mostly pride.
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>>24676411
>So is it just the chase of trying to get a straight dude to mess around?
Yes.
>Is it something else entirely?
No.

People want what they can't have, it makes it more interesting. There's also an unhealthy amount of porn out there that makes them think straight guys suddenly becoming gay is a common occurance when in reality it's not.

t. Bi guy.
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>>24676508
Agreed. The end result of a guy trying to contact a lesbian when she CLEARLY states she isn't interested in guys is usually ugly. The guy usually turns hostile and starts acting like a complete piece of shit.

I've been respectful and directed the guys messaging me to places where they can find what they are looking for but its starting to get annoying. More so for the guys pretending to be women.I mean how stupid do you think I am? Your Kik name is something like "SweetAshley" Then when you click on their name it says "Carl the penis lover".....ughhh.

I don't take offense when they are up front with who they are and am flattered but the deceit is unacceptable.
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>>24676411
Probably repressed homosexuality. They can't admit to themselves that they might swing a bit gay, but with a bit of mental gymnastics it's not them that's gay, it's the person they tricked that is.

Some gays have the absolute shitty fetish of "turning the straight boi gay with mah big schlong" but I certainly hope those people are in the minority.

As a fag myself, those kind of people just paint us in a bad light. It gives people a reason to dislike the gay.
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>>24676525
I appreciate your input and that makes a lot of sense.
I have never and probably never will view gay porn but I do understand the effect porn can have on driving a fetish.

>>24676534
Sexuality is definitely a complicated thing and a lot of people can't or wont admit if they are outside the "norm". That sucks and I hope everyone is able to express or live the way that makes them happy.

Also, goes back to what the other guy said...if a straight guy is harassing a lesbian or pretending to be a woman then hes a fucking piece of shit also. I just haven't heard nearly as many cases (yet) and I am experiencing the opposite almost daily... feels bad man.
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