Hey /soc/, I know this may not be a good place to ask, but I figure at least some of you may know love.
I snap chat texted a girl last night, saying:
I know this may be coming out of the blue, but I have feelings for you. There are reasons I didn't say it in high school, and there are reasons I don't want a relationship now. It's fine if you don't feel the same.I'm not trying to give off creeper vibes. You don't have to respond if I or don't want. You do you.
She responded:
Aww, I respect all you said, I don't think you're creepy<3
Kind of a lame response, but I want to know what you think about this. I genuinely love this woman.
>>24614350
You don't want**
>>24614350
then why u say u dont want a relationship now?
>>24614362
I'm not ready for one, but I will be in the near future. Also, she lives at a different college in a different state, but I will have the option to see her in December if I want, most likely, I haven't asked. I just realized some things when I was in college.
Good or bad response /soc/?
Is she interested?
Don't want to waste my time.
>Aww
Yeah she's not interested.
Also a little tip: Don't tell people you don't want a relationship if you actually want one (in the near future). Relationships don't usually happen out of the blue, you date first.
>>24614420
I'm not 100% positive if she said aww lol
>>24614428
Even so, she respects what you said but doesn't respond with saying she likes you as well. I don't know whatever relation you two had but I doubt she's interested.
Safest bet would be to say you're in town soon and if she'd like to go on a date with you.
>>24614439
Cool, cool, will do. The relation we had was that she would eye fuck me everyday and I would ignore her bc I was very depressed. I have never had a true relationship. Should I specifically say the word 'date'?
Thinking about just asking her if she's going to be in town on Christmas break, and if so If she wants to hang out.
Or should I make it more specific?
I'm new to all of this. Thank you buddy.
>>24614485
Be specific about it being a date, yeah. I burned myself on that once and got drinks with a lesbian who was also in a relationship (she was cool though, still had fun).