People who have learned to be socially outgoing but are still in a no gf status. Pic not related
>Be me
>26 years old
>used to be a huge nerd with only gaming as his 'hobby'
>got fed up a few years ago
>quit dead-end job, went back to college, started going out TONS
>met like 10x the amount of people i knew before
>eventually people kept refering to me as 'really outgoing'
>Texts almost every day asking to hang out
>Go to raves almost every weekend, do drugs, drink, considered adventerous
>still haven't managed a date that ended well
>freeze up with girls at the moment where I need to hook up with em
>amount of opportunities now lessening
>desire to go out diminishing fast
>playing more video games again to comfort myself
>feel like im going back to start
Anyone here can relate? It's a nightmare.
either very insecure, or you molested
>>24602704
Yeah I go through rapid cycles like this now, it used to be almost exactly like your situation. Now it's just a matter of giving up that feeling of despair and filling it with alcohol and blatant macking on everything with a cunt. It's not fulfilling buy it's a life.
I go through the same cycle desu. Except I'm attractive so I don't have the nogf thing.
99 problems, but bitches aint one #yolo #swag
>>24602738
>99 problems, but bitches aint one #yolo #swag
first and last time i ever visit /soc/
>>24602720
I did have a pretty nasty childhood and have some mommy issues but I really don't wanna keep blaming my past self, that just tears me apart.
Lack of experience is probably holding me back, the underlying feeling that I'll never live up to expectations as I still have to start from almost 0 (I did have sex a few times but the drunk, useless kind)
I should probably talk to my therapist about this but I really hate bringing this subject up in real life, it hurts physically to even think about
>>24602740
Well bro theres your problem. Go see someone it's obviously holding you back.