So tell me /soc/ - how do you deal with the fact that you will

>>24581786
I just fuck whatever will let me and somehow I have no trouble sleeping at night.

You're just a loser who can't face the harshness of reality.

Stop looking for reasons for why you're alone and look for reasons why you can't be with people. Look at your problems. Face them. Don't let them control you. Stop being a pussy and change yourself

You're probably fat, with weird hobbies and fetishes. I was too. At my heaviest I was 283 pounds. My darkest fetish is monster vore. I spent my time getting high as balls and playing World of Warcraft. I was one of the top DPS warriors on my realm.

I was working a dead end job living in my parents house. I spent most of my nights getting high then depressed then high again to make the pain go away. I hated myself.

One day I woke up and said I won't live like this anymore.

I woke up and I literally said out loud "fuck this. I don't want to be a loser anymore. I hate being fat. I hate having no life. I even hate getting high. I can't kill myself that would be too easy an out. My only choice is to solve my problems, face them, allow them to flow through me and over me and don't ever fucking give up."

So I did. Other than spending my money on drugs I had been saving my money. I left my house and went overseas for a month to clear my head. I cut ties with my so called friends and got my shit together.

I enrolled in community college and got a new job. My real friends stayed. The fake ones left. I didn't stop.

I got /fit/. I've lost 80 pounds. I can bench 225, squat 365 and deadlift 355. My first powerlifting meet is February.

I've had girlfriends. I've fucked. I've loved. I've given up and then kept going. I've faltered and I've gotten back up.

I bought my own house. I work 40-50 hours a week. I'm going to school to get my degree. I broke up with my bitch ex. She still tries to text me.

I don't care if you don't take me seriously. I don't really even give a shit if you think I'm full of it. You want pity and I think you're a piece of shit for it.

Why wallow in sadness? You want to be a sadcunt then do it while getting better. One day you'll look up and look yourself in the mirror, and see what you've become. One day you'll think you've had enough. You haven't. You haven't hit rock bottom yet. Once you hit the bottom the only way is up.

Become the rock. Don't let it get to you. Don't let isolation destroy you. Use it as a Strength. A well of will to draw upon when needed. Experience to count when you're low and tired and ready to give up. But don't.

Man the fuck up.

>>24581802
I'm 65kg (no idea what that is in ye olde measurements, but it translates to pretty fucking slim), I've never got high in my life, nor have I ever played WoW, and I have plenty of money.

Stop projecting your issues onto other people.

And if you gave up monster vore to fit in better with other people, then you haven't fixed yourself, you've just capped off the mountain of patheticness. (I've never understood the attraction of vore myself, but the important thing is that you did).

The only reason you hated yourself is because you lacked the confidence to be true to yourself. You can tell yourself that you're better now you've ditched everything that made you a person, but somewhere deep down there must be a part of you that despises your weakness. Take your pop-psychology self-help to someone else.

I would rather die alone than live as someone I'm not.

>>24581843
I haven't changed anything except my self loathing. Stop using excuses for why you can't and start coming up with ways you can. That's the point of my post. If you sit around and expect no changes that's exactly what you'll get. Take your self hatred and your fraudulent cry for pity somewhere else because you won't find it here.

>>24581854
I don't know how I can make this any clearer. I don't hate myself. I'm not fat, I'm not poor, I'm not a drug-addicted warcraft zombie.

I'm not the one with the problem. I'm not waiting for the rest of the world to come to its senses and realise how awesome I am, because I don't fucking like how the rest of the world thinks and I know they're not going to change.

If measuring your success in life by how much you can powerlift, how many hours you work and your community college degree, good for you. I don't want to spoil that for you. But I would jump off a fucking building before I start pegging my ego to how many pounds I can deadlift.

maybe you never were better than that. Maybe there was always a brolifter inside that fat, nerdy schlub's body, waiting to get out. Or maybe you could have been something else. I guess we'll never know now.

Well, this thread is like an microcosm of my entire life. I get lonely, I start thinking that maybe it's time to reach out, meet new people. They can't be all that bad, right? There must be some common ground somewhere, maybe a compromise to meet them half way.

Then when I actually go and do it, it's about five minutes before I remember why I started avoiding them in the first place.

>>24581786
I'm just descending into madness, hermitude and sorcery. Fuck life. Life's never going to be good.

>>24581786
6,000,000,000 of humans out there, but not one of them have "common grounds" with you.

Congratulations, you're special!

>>24581965
Shut up, you boring fucking shit. Only boring turds feel the tryhard need to say shit like this. Just because you're a useless clone doesn't mean there aren't a few people out there who aren't. The simply laws of probability in regard to genetic variation prove your blatant stupidity wrong.

>>24581972

Oh, so you're jealous of our OP? Well, congratulations for being special too!

Now, weren't you descending to madness? Go on, continue your trip. Nobody cares.

>>24581972
maybe just maybe now here me out on this instead of EVERYONE but you being boring maybe YOU'RE the boring one

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>>24582075
You know what I think? I think this is the first time anyone has ever made this argument. I think we'll have to name it. Let's call it the "NO U!" argument. It's so simple a child could have thought of it, and as far as anyone can tell nobody has ever- OH FUCK WAIT.

>>24581965
Firstly, it's like 7.2 billion at this point

secondly, read the OP again
>(at least, not that I have a statistically realistic chance of meeting)
If there's a Russian girl in Vladivostok who would be perfect for me, but has never left her home country and only uses Russian language internet, then that does me no good because the chances of me ever meeting her are on the far side of astronomical. I'm sure there's at least a few people out there who I could connect with, but as you pointed out it is a very, very big planet and statistically I will almost certainly never meet them

>>24581987
how very constructive. No one is forcing you to be in this thread you know.

okay, everyone calm the fuck down. if you don't like what's going on in this thread then there's no reason you have to stick around and sling shit at everyone.

I'm OP btw. I don't know why my ID changed; guess my wifi reset itself.

>>24582105
Normalscum have to do this shit to feel good about themselves because they know they're shit. They have to go out of their way to tell everyone how similar they believe you are to everyone else so they can live with being boring, vapid shits.

>>24582112
Hey dude I'm about to go fuck my stupid vapid normie gf and then go sleep and wake up happy does it feel bad knowing you'll never get to experience that?

>>24582162
>it thinks its impressing anyone
Will you later eat food and perhaps take a shit too!? Oh I'm so excited to hear about your next amazing trick!

>>24581896
It's basic biology, people that make the gym a good habit tend to succeed more in life in all aspects. Even love.

The human animal is no longer in the conditions where it thrived for millennia, advanced societies have far higher depression rates than rural socities despite all the downsides.

>>24582195
For my final trick I will continue enjoying life while you slowly slip into madness caused by isolation :^)

Fuck it, everyone's shit anyways. Accept it. Those who disagree are probaly the shitter fucking everyone's else's life. The sooner you realize, the better you'll be. Make sure everyone you talk to is kept in check. Don't trust anyone, they might seem like good genuine people, but often things are too good to be true.

My goal in life is to get rich and make sure i never have to interact with any fag ever agian.

I'm a 22 year old if you were wondering.

>>24582267
>>24582162
If you're so happy, why did you feel the need to come into this thread and shit on all the unhappy people?

I don't know why I even ask - we all know the answer. It's because >>24582112 is right, and somewhere deep down you know it.

25/F KHV here, have one friend irl and none online

>Why did it happen and how are you coping with it?

Two basic factors; I'm not physically attractive and I don't function very well socially. I've always had social anxiety and had trouble fitting in. I wasn't really bullied, I've always just been ignored.

> how do you deal with the fact that you will never find love?

Honestly, when I entered college and realized that people still didn't want anything to do with me, things wouldn't get better, and I wouldn't have friends or a family, I went through a 6-year depression/grieving process. It was rough, but eventually I did arrive at a sort of acceptance. Working and my few hobby's keep me busy, so I don't dwell on it as much. I spent a lot of time thinking about what I could do with my life, even though it's not the life I wanted to live, and came up with a plan. I still occasionally become sad and depressed, I think I always will, but I just cry it out and eventually get back to normal. I try to avoid things that set my off, like shows about women my age becoming mothers.

So yeah, that's my story.

>>24581843
Gib money pls

How do you deal with the fact that you will never find love?
>Fem anon here
>I keep telling myself that I'll be fine. But I can't stop thinking about him.

Why did it happen and how are you coping with it?
>We met on Tinder. I fell for him even though he told me that he used to have a addition.
>He kept falling back into his addiction
>Didn't care what I felt about it.
>He made his mom cry about this, yet he didn't care.
>He broke up with me after 5 months of casually dating
>Then told me a month after the breakup that they never loved me as much as he still loved his ex.
>His ex that cheated on him 4 times.
>Which is 3 years ago.
>Which is where he started his acciction.
>All just to forget about her.
>I've not been able to feel love for a guy since. >Even if I find one that I click with, I just know that he will never love me.
>It's just a fact I have to live with.

>>24581786
>So tell me /soc/ - how do you deal with the fact that you will never find love?

escapist shit like chinese cartoons, vidya, and the like. Also booze and lots of porn

>>24584140
Also generally focusing on bigger issues like moving forward in my career, getting healthier and general self improvement stuff

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>>24581786
>>24581786
>So tell me /soc/ - how do you deal with the fact that you will never find love?

By not being a pathetic crybaby about it

>>24581786
I masturbate

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>>24581802
>>24581820
>>24581828
>>24581854
How do you make friends that aren't obvious autistic spergs?

Exact same boat as you except in a new city and only know co-workers

>>24584106
>women my age becoming mothers.
you could always just become a single mother. That's the great thing about being female - all you have to do is trick some drunken frat boy into a one night stand and bingo, you'll have someone who has to love you, unconditionally (at least until he or she is old enough to move out)

Not particularly romantic, granted, and socially somewhat stigmatising, but if you have no illusions about your love-life and no friends anyway then you might as well try it. At this point what have you got to lose?

>>24581786
im a trap who passes irl.
people are sexually attracted to me, but no one wants me long term.
there's this really amazing guy ive been having sex with, but he keeps telling me ill find who's better.
i want to die. ill never fall in love.

>>24584951
ololololol i love this suggestion because it sounds like something i would suggest as a joke. THAT SAID, if you are actually the type of woman who would reproduce purely for the lels ive got some dna js.

>>24581786
I accepted this fact too. Of course I work in retail so I end up interacting with people. A good façade stops everyone from trying to get close.

>>24584961
I always feel so sorry for traps. They're so adorable (well, some of them), but they're too feminine for most gays and too, well, penis-y for the heterosexuals. Stuck in the middle with nowhere to go.

>>24584961
I'm pretty glad I'm into girls.
I've heard nothing but bad things about dating straight guys as a trans girl.
I don't even pass that well, but still look good enough to date girls apparently.

>>24584135
I think you just need time to heal. You don't actually have any problems finding guys you're into.

>>24585335
More like too mentally ill for anyone.

>>24584106
>I'm not physically attractive and I don't function very well socially

It's the second trust me. Any woman under a certain weight/height ratio is attractive to somebody. If you are like really fat you can lose weight.

>>24581843
>>24581896
See, the problem with posts like this is that people are constantly changing, sure you might not be fat or poor or on drugs but people's mentalities and perspectives change often.

See, after seeing how you reacted to that one Anon's posts and how quick you are to say how a lot of people are idiots, I will say that you're an asshole. But with your attitude of "I'd rather die than be someone I'm not" you'll always be a cunt who believes he is superior to others, likely for no good reason because you aren't open to change.

So in short, the problem is with you.

I'm too much of a weeb, I'm black, I'm unattractive even though I don't look(too) bad. I made an okc and messaged tons of girls, a few of them went to my page but none of them replied.

>>24586918
>I'm too much of a weeb
nope - weaboo black, best black.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C7ZpZK8-IJU

If girls do not like your weebishness, then that is not an argument for dialling back on it, it is an argument for remaining single until genetically engineered neko-girls become available.

On a more practical note, tons of girls are into anime and shit. okc is just the wrong place to look, that's for normies. Find an anime forum (not 4chan though, for the love of all that's holy) and start some conversations, and follow the links to find anime groups, and follow more links to find anime groups in your area, and eventually you'll bump into someone who lives close enough to you to be dateable who actually likes you for you.

>>24586896
see, I don't think I'm superior to this guy >>24586918, because he's cool. I do think I'm better than you, however, because being better than people like you isn't fucking hard. It depresses me that you actually thought you were saying something meaningful when you came at me with those tired old platitudes that only half related to the actual conversation.

>>24584173
How are you born alone when you're coming out of someone's else's vagina?

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>tfw happily married with a girlfriend

>>24581786
Alcohol.

6/10, suitable replacement for actual happiness.

I masturbate to cartoons and drown myself in video games and mediocrity

>>24587159
This sounds like pretty good advice. Also go to anime cons.

>>24581786

Was pretty much in the same boat and tried killing myself twice. Went to college thinking I could start fresh and not be a depressed shut-in like I was for pretty much my entire life up till then. Went through the entire first year trying to actually make friends but always being disappointed because literally no one was interested in even being friends with me or talking to me.

By some fucking miracle, some faggots in one of my classes in the 2nd year of college started talking to me. By then I'd already accepted that I'll probably be lonely for the rest of my life. But no, these cunts started talking to me and were genuinely interested in just hearing me speak and hearing about my day/life. I was a little suspicious and I really didn't think they'd keep talking to me since we have zero interests in common and we're not even in the same fields. They're the normiest normies I've ever met.

Boy, was I wrong. 2 years later we're still close as fuck, and I even met my girlfriend through them. I'm literally happier than I've ever fucking been in my life.

It sounds cliche and optimistic as fuck, and you might just set yourself up for more disappointment, but just hang in there, OP. It obviously won't happen to everyone, but eventually, someone might just come along and throw a wrench into the works.