How did your last relationship end, /soc/? >be 21 with 20

>>24445877
But this is how girls are told to act now

The girl inherited a house in the middle of nowhere and insisted on moving there. I insisted on staying in the city because job & college. So we broke up, it was pretty civil.

Visited her later on, the place is a complete ruin and we didn't even fug.

>>24445877
holy fug. why are females such God awful pieces of shit? someone should put that miserable beast out of its suffering with a buckshot to the skull

>>24445877
>be 20
>meet nice, cute boy (21)
>hang out a few times, talk online together
>suddenly dating, in relationship
>everything goes well for 6 months or so
>slowly realize he is not right for me
>he still lives at home, never finished high school, dead end job, plays vidya at all possible times, no motivation to do anything better
>discuss it with him and try to help him progress
>not much happens for another few months
>suddenly one year anniversary, happy but the feelings of uncertainty remain
>i am nearly done with college, working and doing a practicum, active on campus, lot going on, etc
>try to end the relationship, tell him exactly how i feel and discuss with him why we wouldnt work long term
>we are apart for a month
>he contacts me and begs to be together, says he will get another job, make effort to improve his life, wants to be with me etc etc etc
>give him a chance, no change
>break it off once and for all, amicably, and i moved out of the town

he has since improved his life and is hanging out with friends more, got a better job, has dated other people
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>he's 18 im 19
>date 10/10 pornstar(not actual occupation) tier boyfriend

>when its good, it's really good, huge connection, great times, I break it off every 3 months or so for a couple weeks because i couldnt decide if i wanted to settle down with him just yet and he's a bit of a cunt sometimes but usually decent, also other stupid reason
>tl;dr i broke it off every time cus of uncertainty and immaturity
>move in together for 3 months
>break up 3 weeks into moving in tho, lots of arguing over petty shit, + other reasons stated earlier
>relationship/friendship gets abusive for the remaining 2.2 months we spend together, he hits me a couple times in heated arguements, sometimes, he loses his shit, i dont keep up with chores and screw him about from time to time, even tho we still fuck a few times a week
>finally split it off properly when we move out
>remain super close, super connected friends, basically in a relationship without the commitment, cus we still fuck or kiss every time we meet
>tell him after like 5 months of doing that, that i want to get back with him for real
>he says nah, never even felt a desire, didn't see our "friendship" as anything more than that.
>he continues to fuck around with other guys occasionally, he has 2 FWBs, 3 if you include me

>dont know wat 2 do

>>24446009
if what you say is true he obviously didn't appreciate how important it was for him to stop being a loser, for you if not for himself. still though if it's been a long time since you split and he's now realised the error of his ways, why not try to re-ignite that spark? you clearly worked minus the shitty attitude towards life he 'had'.

>>24445877
it was nothing serious but this is how

>seeing girl for a few months
>have a bit of a drinking problem
>invites me to party at noon on a sunday
>im already drunk
>she comes to pick me up and tells me its actually a family get together type thing
>know i shouldnt go, havent met her parents and im inappropriately drunk but she doesnt know
>say fuck it and go
>get there and her aunt puts a beer in my hand right as we walk in the door
>continue to drink all day
>hammered by dark
>generally acting like a jackass, being aggressive and sarcastic with people i met hours ago
>this chick must have been fucking mortified
>eventually we leave, she drives me home but wont speak to me or look at me
>next day i text her and ask her what her plans are for the day cause i want to apologize in person
>she flips out and goes off on me for not apologizing and being a mess
>i call her and say im sorry, she says i need to apologize to her parents
>at that point in my life i had no plans to change or stop drinking so i just said fuck it
>never called her again, she never called me again

that was like 2 years ago, i just got a text from her about a month ago out of the blue asking how i was. i didnt dislike her but i didnt like her a whole lot either, it was just easy at the time. i think she felt about the same

>>24446057
one of our biggest common interests was 4chan. the other was minecraft. kek. not exactly relationship material.
ive been with someone for 2 years now, im not looking to change my current situation.

as for your story, i really hope you drop that guy. he clearly doesnt appreciate you the way a partner should. good luck

>>24445877
>How did your last relationship end?
Girl ghosted me. She wouldn't answer any of her social media. Last thing she said was "I care about you. I'm not leaving."

I got on nofap and started working out after that. Never again!

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>23m w/24gf
>she leaves cause already had plans with her sister for Valentine's day
>didnt want to 'drag me along' 3 hours to be stuck with her judgmental family.
>still texting the entire time
>wake up on Valentine's Day
>Text reads "I can't be with you anymore"
>What? Why?
>"Ran into old friend and he said he has liked me for a while, and I just can't pass up the opportunity to be with him"
>Devastated
>She returns day later and shows up, wishes me a happy belated Valentines and gives me a Valentines present and says she still wants to be friends
>Shut the door in her face.
>Week later, guys broke her heart, she starts to drink the pain away
>Invites everyone to watch movies at her place, friend convinces me to go
>Everyone starts leaving, she asks me to stay
>What now?
>Everyone left, she is black out drunk, she kisses me
>Immediatly realizes what she did and runs t her room and locks the door
>Whatever I leave
>Called the next day and get bitched out cause she remembers it as I came onto her and tried to make out with her.
>Blocks me on FB immediately after.

Havent spoken to her since, have been single ever since as well. Job doesnt allow me to be that social and the hours are 1030 am to 830pm so no social life.

Meet girl online.
Not too into her, but become FWB.
Pale, nice tits, submissive, clean, and let me finish in her.
Meet another girl I like.
Move away.
Get engaged to other girl.
Slowly stop talking to the other.
Happily engaged.

>>24445877
This sounds exactly like my relationship right now, holy fuck.