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Has /soc/ ravaged your self-esteem? I see people getting 5's

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Has /soc/ ravaged your self-esteem? I see people getting 5's or 4's or 3's on average in rate threads, it must hurt. I don't know why they keep posting their photos.
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>>24150328
Personally, /soc/ has greatly improved my self esteem by reminding me that there really is someone for everyone.

Believe it, guys.
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Nah, it's reassured me. I don't want to be thinking I'm 7+ if I'm not.
I can happily settle with a 5, it means average, not ugly.
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>>24151829
>believe it
Naruto pls.
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It's kind of the opposite. In real life most girls find me unattractive but here I get consistent 7s and 8s
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I actually mostly get 6s and 7s with the occasional 8 on here....

But since most people posting in rate threads are males and I'm not gay, their opinions are pretty much worthless to me.
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>>24150328
I either get extremely high ratings (8+) or I'm sweeped under 6, for some reason
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I once got a comment on an assumption thread about being "self conscious about chin" and thats when i realized this board really is cancer and i stopped posting face and giving two fucks about the opinions of people here. In real life i dont give a fuck about peoples opinions of me, so its nice to have that freedom here too
Now i just post other stupid shit and steer clear of r8/assumption threads
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>>24150328
I posted my face once and got some self-esteem damage. I feel kinda silly for letting anons get to me. Anyways, now I'm working on building confidence, which is a normal part of growing up.
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>>24150328
I rarely get over 6 but I've fucked girls within 20 minutes of meeting many times without saying much and had a group of girls I didn't know at uni make a Facebook page for essentially worshiping me which had dozens members. Fuck it throws me.
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>>24151829
We're children of the uni- children of the uni- children of the universe, don't you know?
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that's why I only post in ugly threads and virgin threads so people will tell me I'm beautiful
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>>24150328
>I see people getting 5's or 4's or 3's on average in rate threads
Really? Honestly I see the average being more like 6 on here.

Personally it helped improve my self esteem and be a generally more outgoing person. Think I average a 7.5 as far as rates go, but the real boosters are when someone gives you a well thought out written rate.
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>>24151829
>there really is someone for everyone.

They just live fucking far away.
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>>24152432
>there really is someone for everyone.
>>24151829


that baloney, there are way more young men than young women
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If anything, people on /soc/ saying nice things to me have at least made me feel a bit better.
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i usually get anything between 3-6 in rate threads
i still feel ugly but it kind of reassures me
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>>24150328
It hasn't done anything or might have helped just slightly.
I posted in an ugly thread before and got as low as 4 and as high as 8. With all the scores, it averaged as a 6, which I'm perfectly happy with since I'm fat, I don't wear makeup and I have no idea what I'm doing with my hair.
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>>24152423
I'm talking about individual people who get such low rates on average, you misunderstood me.
>>24152157
it's impossible, you just have to be autistic and misinterpret the signals or be a major fucking weirdo
unless you're talking about people who rate everyone 7 or 8
>>24152235
I also get high rates and compliments from girls, so it feels good. Also straight people of your gender have some capacity to rate your general attractiveness level too.
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>>24152611
you're fat but really cute, would eat :3
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The ratings I used to get got my hopes up too high, so I went for girls out of my league for a while before realizing it was an exercise in futility.

Whatever my rating realistically is, it's hard to find someone when I'm a recluse with a boring personality.
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>>24152611

Weight is your only problem really. I'd still smash since my standards are nil but yeah. You're one of those bigger people who'd be a knockout if they lost weight. You have the facial features of a beautiful woman.

Just my honest piece.
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No one is more critical of me than me. I'd give myself a 4 (and that's me being honest, not looking for pity) but I consistently get ~6 and I'll take a 6 any day.

>>24153347
Yeah it's important to stick to girls in your league. I've bagged maybe one or two of them that were out of my league and it was a fluke.
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>>24153347
post your face and we'll tell you if you're good looking or not
perhaps you're just an autist and it wasn't because of ytour looks at all
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>>24152423
Serb bro?
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>>24152611
Based on just this pic. I'd give you a 8.

Rates?
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>>24152402
wouldnt doing that alone make you sad lol
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>>24152240
I can see why, people would either buy into your niche look or think you just look ordinary but with a nice jaw

>>24152611
Your face is fine. Weight isn't permanent go have a jog and diet
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>>24153396
>impl>>24153396
ying shes not a knockout now

Shes pretty damn beautiful to me
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>>24155054
no, I've resigned to a life of celibacy
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Not really.

I'm a 9/10 guy physically, and facially.

That's at least, pretty damn good since I assume most of you are gay men.

>9/10 take off pants!

You are shitty people.
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>>24150328
I would not post my face here.

Not only would it get tons of low rates (cause I see you fuckers rating low legitimately attractive people),

but then my face ends up in a cringe folder, a faces of b folder, and maybe someone recognizes me and gets me fired or something
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I'm really numb to it, like I'm becoming about a lot of things
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>>24156756
You are such a downer.
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>>24152387
>I've fucked girls within 20 minutes of meeting many times without saying much and had a group of girls I didn't know at uni make a Facebook page for essentially worshiping me
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>>24150328
Soc has actually boosted my self esteem, I normally get around a 6 and sometimes as high as 8
I always thought I was much uglier because I never have any luck with girls
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I average out at about a 5-5.5 on here which I am happy with and accept. I've had a few 3's though.

IRL I've been in a relationship with three girls who were way hot and that I had a lot of chemistry with.

Looks are subjective and are just half, maybe even less than, the actual battle. It's more important that you're not a total cunt.

Having said all that though, I think its quite important to care about your appearance and look as good as you can. That shit matters at job interviews and suchlike...A lot.
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nope
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>>24152240
Me too, I always get 9+/10
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>>24159188
can /soc/ pls let this meme die
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>>24159200
What meme? It's me: Stanley Phillips.
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I usually get shit by most people. I really think most of it is bc I'm mixed and not aryan master race. I hook up quite a bit irl and understand there is a niche for myself. I still get down and out though. Truth is, I love sabotaging myself and making myself feel like shit.
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>>24159344
>*violins play*
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