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>What is this thread for and what should I do?
This is a thread for chatting, discussing and talking about fetishes. Feel free to lurk, but if you are going to post try to be social and not the kind that only looks and posts their contact just to get into someones pants. There are threads for that already.
>This is not a 'No-Contactfagging' thread
Just as it says, you are free to post contact but that's not the point of this thread, note below.
>Why is there no blank kinksheet attached
Reason for not posting kinksheet is because those threads specifically becomes contactfag threads. It's a hungerfest with -little to no discussions- and a 'post sheet only thread' with minimal interest in the subjectmatter; with sheets, people will never bother other than to contactfag. You are however free to post one if you have it, just note why it's omitted.

>THIS IS NOT A KINK-SHEET SPECIFIC THREAD.
It doesn't foster discussions at all just because you filled one out, try to stick around and actually discuss.

This isn't strictly a no-contactfagging thread as mentioned.
>Yet.
If the thread turns too much into a contactfagging thread it will convert into a no-contactfag one.
>Standard /soc/ rules applied

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>ASL
>IRC name
>General Kinks/Fetishes
>Your experience/experiences
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?

Anyone else into cam access?

aka letting someone control your webcam and can peep in to you as they see fit

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Just to get this uppity started

25/m/Northern Europe

Sadomasochism, D/s, c.rape, monster rape, public-secret groping/molesting & remote toyplay, rough stuff, mindbreak, objectification <- cumdump; pocketpussy, human toy, etc.

A few regular things would be:
>Anal, creampie, collars, bindings, toys

Harder kinks would be:
>bestiality (animal on girl, note monster rape above)

Only bad point would be possessiveness I guess?


Other stuffs I really prefer to do:
>Leaving marks and bruises
>Choking, to many degrees
>Excessive dominance and overpowering
>'Breeding' the cumdump
>Using the cumdump all the time when passed out or sleeping and recording it
>Blackmailing them into being a toy forever

>>24029869
24 Male

Favorite kinks/fetishes is ddlg, anal play, cum play, rope play, public sex.

Very dom but also switch. If interested talking, ask for skype. Only females please, I'm straight.

>ASL
21/trans/US
>IRC name
don't have one and don't want one
>General Kinks/Fetishes
D/s and M/s dynamics
Pain oriented stuff like impact play / spanking, slapping, choking, and biting
Clothes, which includes lingerie and uniforms
Body worship, including feet worship, ass worship, and facesitting
Orgasm control, which includes orgasm denial, forced orgasms and multiple orgasms
Pet play, specifically puppy play
Chastity
Electrostimulation, vibrators, and other toys
Bondage of most kinds
Emotional / verbal humiliation and embarrassment
>Your experience/experiences
mostly just long distance / online stuff
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Absolutely not, I keep stuff like this pretty private
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I somehow found kinky porn or something and I was into it, it wasn't one specific thing that triggered anything
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
A loooot of stuff
>Anything else
I'm a versatile switch and I like other trans people and cis women

my kik is AlexErin9

>ASL
35, Male, Midwest US
>IRC name
tamlin, tamlin42 on skype
>General Kinks/Fetishes
in general, sluts and promiscuous behavior from women. Trashiness. Crazy.
I'd love to find a girl who gets turned on at being trashy. NOT being FORCED to be trashy, but doing it either of her own volition, or with only slight nudging from me. I would be a total, 100% enabler for that behavior. This is cuck compatible - plenty of room for attacks on my masculinity, secret cheating or me being sub to her - but but mostly it's like hotwifing with little to no restriction on her behavior. I don't want to be feminized, and forced bi is a long way down the road.
My favorite aspects of "Trashy":
Promiscuity, of course.
Substance use, as hard as she wants to go. I'm not averse to the excuse "but he had some really good blow".
Reckless behavior. Who wants to ruin the mood asking about condoms? It also ties into...
Partners low on the social ladder. Ex cons, cholos, and bangers add a nice dangerous feel to things, don't they?
Foul Mouth and crude sense of humor. Especially if she shows a public disdain for me but chills out when we're alone.
>Your experience/experiences
Nothing particularly relevant, except met a few trashy girls in my day.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Nah, no one wants to know.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Not one inciting event, no. I was a bullied, lonely kid with nothing but the internet for sexual release all throughout my adolescence.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
stupid e-dom shit several years back
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Just about everything I mentioned, because I'm still that shy lonely kid.

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I have every fetish.

Aw, this thread ain't doin' so hot...

>>24031506
Fear not, these threads last forever and are constantly watched by a select group of lurkers.

>ASL
23/F/Scotland
>IRC name
ScottishBatgirl
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Petplay, master/slave, spitroasts, group sex, maledom, name calling, light bondage
>Your experience/experiences
- I'vebeen a pet on 4 seperate occasions for 3 different guys
- most group sex sessions I've been involved have resulted in spit roasting of some kind
- maledom usually results in name-calling, and because I'm sub as fuck, most of the times I've had sex, the guy has dominated me in some way
- same with bondage, I've been tied up most of the times I've fucked in a bedroom
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Well the guys I've fucked know of course, but I'm pretty sure none of my family know, though a few of my friends know about the group sex and bondage ones
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Talking part in a gb felt so good, but apart from the sex, I wanted to feel like I was providing a service or some shit idk
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Two things
- I was gangbanged by a bunch of guys younger than me
- I had a bf filmed me getting fucked by his dog
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
More beast stuff, and maybe public use of some kind? Like at a party

Humped

>>24032042
more about the dog thing

22/f/us

I have a pee fetish. It basically defines my sexuality. It started probably around age 5. I remember 2 things vividly from that time period: Enjoying the feeling of warm pee on my legs while peeing in the toilet after getting out of a swimming pool (since your skin is generally cooler than normal at that time), and calculating when I could pee on the carpet in my parents bedroom because I really wanted to (and then blaming it on my sister).

I had a fundamental misunderstanding of how sex worked. I thought people peed on each other and their fluids mixed to make a baby. I also knew (from personal experience) that peeing felt good. I had very vivid fantasies about pee "sex" from a young age, long before I understood how it worked.

The first porn I watched was squirting and golden showers. I would watch these videos before I even considered touching myself! I remember first stumbling into this online at age 10.

I probably learned how to masturbate at age 12, and I never took an interest in regular porn, it was always about the pee!

>>24032674
I learned to masturbate long before I was ever sexually active. For a while it was just me, my hand, and my pee porn. I could masturbate several times a day.

When it got to the point if actually dating, I was pretty shy. I didn't lost my virginity until age 19 and I didn't tell the guy about my fetish.

It wasn't until I had my first real bf, several months later, that I actually opened up to anyone about having a fetish.

I am in constant fear of being judged for my pee fetish. I share it with sexual partners, but I've never had a partner reciprocate the interest.

I've also never had a partner make me cum.

I believe that the reason a partner can't make me cum is because I am not really "letting go". Since I'm not being honest with them about my desires, they can't fulfill my desires.

Opening up is a terrifying process that has gotten me dumped before. One guy told me if I didn't shut up about my stupid fetish that we needed to end things (so we did), but it left me feeling undesirable, lonely, and trapped in my sexuality.

>>24032674
>>24032691

I felt like I knew vanilla sex wasn't right for me when I dated person after person who couldn't make me cum.

No one has ever made me cum, but then again I've never slept with someone who shares my pee fetish.

I understand some people can be "open minded", but for some reason that isn't enough for me to feel safe.

I feel like it's safer to tell someone I want them to pee on my boobs than to tell them I want to pee on their balls while they fuck me, or that I want my pussy filled up with pee, or eaten out after I pee. Even when I tell people about the fetish, I seem to make it seem less extreme/kinky than I actually want it. I guess if someone thought about the fact that this is literally the only way I orgasm, they would know better. Yet, I think people leave it at that initial convo because they are not interested, and so I leave it alone and don't talk about my fetish much with partners.

>>24032713
You'll be fine, the issue is finding for sure, but also coming out of that bubble that keeps you away from speaking about it. Ever tried munches? (bdsm meetups)

Any luck with Fetlife despite the initial barrage of 30 or so men?

>>24032674
>>24032691
>>24032713
Few other things have peaked my interest over time, but I will list a few things I'm curious about.
Exhibitionism/things where several people are watching, like camming
Recently, big black cocks
Recently also met someone into cuckolding, it sounds kinda interesting
Sometimes the teacher/student dynamic, usually I like to think of myself as more switch, although I'm not into BDSM at all
Also interracial things are starting to be interesting, particularly interested in university grads who are black or latino (brains are an important part of attractiveness)

The other fucked up part of my sexuality is the desire for attention. I deeply enjoy the feeling of someone falling in love with me, although I think sometimes I am more in love with the idea of love than with that person.
This may explain why the idea of polyamory sounds interesting to me, since I would never (theoretically) be without a person who loves me. I like when people crush on me and when I feel like I have a "womanly power" or something like that over them.
I have a deep fear of rejection and I have developed a coping mechanism in not overinvesting in any one person.

Current relationship status: Married to a functionally asexual man, the relationship is recently "open", although I've only fucked one person sice the openig of the relationship, and it is someone I'd had a thing with in the past.

Things I'd still like to try: basically everything pee related that IS NOT about humiliation, desperation, or BDSM.

>>24032732
I have not tried fetlife because I have a fear of being pushed to do things sexually.

I was raped in my first relationship, and I frequently find myself without a voice in the bedroom, so I think it's best not to put myself in certain situations.

I am not into BDSM at all, so I am hesitant about fetlife due to the prevalance of people with BDSM interests. Also there are many people on there with rape fantasies.

>>24032759
True points and it's always good to be wary.

There are people there who just outright only likes pee fetishes too, you'd be surprised actually.

>>24032754
I'd like meeting someone like you and could indulge in a lot of that, but you sound fat and like you just use people for validation, both things I'm not fond of.

>>24032042
Parties are great, especially if throwing in a dog for degradation.

>>24032674
yo, male 21 here, i have like the exact same experience as you. i used to connect piss with sex way before i knew what sex was. id piss in places i knew i wasnt supposed to and i got a thrill out of it thats very much alike to how sexual exploration makes me feel. i thought it was just part of the whole thing.

>>24032400
My bf at the time was really into beast stuff, but I hadn't even heard of it, and even though he asked, I didn't want to do anything with his dog. But I eventually came round to it, and it started with me rubbing the dog's dick on my bf's bed.

I was eventually on the floor with the dog humping me, and my bf was jacking off while filming me. He was saying that he'd blackmail me into fucking the him & the dog more often (he wasn't being serious) and when we finished, the vid was deleted. Good times :P

>>24032809
Such a huge fantasy of mine :D

I love creampies, multiple creampies, pissing, older women, mmf threesomes with bi guys. Dogs fucking girls. Squirting all kinds of stuff. Also love getting complete strangers on kik or we with sharing pics or videos for both of us to cum too. Im sure im forgetting more.

Kik conmann6000 if u want to talk or get freaky

>>24032759
My gf got me into piss play a few years ago. Wasn't really into it but seeing her enjoy it so much slowly turned me on to it. Now I can get enough! She loves having me stretch her then fill her with piss. Fucking and making a huge wet mess. Always have garbage bags and towels in my bedside table lol

>>24032840
Lucky you! My gf didn't get into beast till we got our dogs fixed. She curses it all the time. She'd love to find someone with an intact pup.

Wedgie fetish, anyone else? It's kind of a mix of bullying/abuse/underwear fetish.

>>24033104
Quite sure a thread ago someone was extremely into that and female.

Not sure if you or looking for one, but stick around!

>>24032713
I would let u piss all over me, theres other ppl like u out there dont worry!

>>24032840
Fucking jealous

>>24033203
I saw that thread, but only just after it got archived, so I missed it, but from the few posts there were, she seemed nice.
I've been hoping to see another thread like that one. Odd thing is I'm submissive, but when it comes to this fetish, I could go either way.

>ASL
19, Male, texas
>IRC name
lovingsingleton on skype
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Basically just into ageplay, infantilism, abdl
My favorite aspects of "Trashy":
>Your experience/experiences
Just online stuff

>>24033222
How come it's for that specific fetish?

>>24033294
Well, by 'could go either way' I mean I could either go for giving or receiving.
The reason is probably something to do with the underwear/ass/vagina, since those would be areas of direct contact. It's thought of causing both painful and pleasurable stimulation all at once, which adds a level of humiliation, and there's also the more gentle, cute, and playful part of it.

>>24033392
I figured it was something like that.

Best wedgies happen during dinner though, HAH!

Summoning wedgie-femanon

>>24033392
And by that I meant family dinners.

>>24031506
They get going after a while, it was bad until rules were splayed out and it was a 90-10 contactfag ratio.

>>24033421
>Summoning wedgie-femanon
>Instead Anon accidentally summoned a cute demon girl
>demon girl makes Anon her mortal wedgie toy
/d/ or /x/, your choice, it's a classic sitcom story either way.
Sure hope the Cenobites can help out in that summoning, but I've got to go to work, and I still don't get the dinner joke.

>>24032042
another scotfag, neat i guess

>ASL
26/m/Midwest US

>General Kinks/Fetishes
A lot of things, and I'm a true switch who likes both sides of D/s. I like most of the standard fare: bondage (all kinds), spanking, pain (whips, canes, etc.), cum play... But my biggest kink makes me out of place even in these threads. I'm huge into toilet play. Yes, that includes piss and scat.

>Your experience/experiences
Literally every girl I've ever met has at least been into the idea of getting tied up during sex, so that's cool. I'm decent with knots because of that. My experience is all over the place... Some golden showers, some forced bi play, cum play, domestic servitude, as both dom and sub. I'm versatile. :)

>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Even though I generally associate with open minded people, I don't go around telling random people what I'm into, I just tell my partners... Although maybe some people have figured it out. I don't know or care. Among girls I've actually dated, most are surprisingly receptive of kinks. With the exception of piss/scat play. Only a few girls who were willing to even try golden showers, and none willing to try scat. Not that I'm surprised. One girl actually broke up with me when I finally told her about my interest in scat, which I was shocked about, because she is the only person I've met who actually could give me a run for my money when it came to kinkiness.

>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Eh. I always just kind of knew, if that makes any sense. And when you're a young, impressionable teenager with the power of the internet, and you sneakily type "tying girls up" and "peeing girls" into Dogpile or Altavista, and you realize there are other people out there who are into this...

>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Scat play, of course.

>>24033435
It's sorta like toyplay, but a bit painful since you're doing a wedgie.

Do it during a dinner and see if the person you're doing it on can keep a straight face.

I'm a hypnotist that enjoys both sexual and nonsexual hypnosis. I love being able to give someone endless orgasms on command, or just having them become a mindless, empty shell that will obey my command. Anyone have an interest in feeling this or being hypnotized?

>>24033630
Cool, what part're you from?

>>24036841
Northeast.
Central belt?

>>24036846
Yeah, Glasgow ^-^

Alright, so I've recently found a partner to practise S&M with. We've had one play session so far and are looking to organise a second one. Here's the problem: I have a terraced house I own. I'd like to keep friendly relations with my neighbours. She rents a detached with the landlady living in it but going away some weekends. The thick and thin of it is, I'm not sure what the safest way to reliably play is.

We had some good results using my belt last session and there's a strong theme of consensual non-consent in our play, so a lot of her saying "No! Stop!". Basically, all stuff that to the untrained ear sounds like abuse and to the trained ear will literally tar me as heavily into the S&M scene.

The nearest dungeon, to my knowledge, is around 2 hours drive from hers, 1 hour from mine and I'm not sure what the privacy is like at those places. I don't feel this is a good solution, as I like the comforts of one of our homes and being able to chill out properly after a scene. Any advice?

>>24036848
Sweet, I'm down in glasgow a few times every month
>>24036897
soundproof one of your rooms

My kink is to have an older female (30+) to talk to me because experienced women are the best.

>>24036897
You simply go to her house?

1. She rents, so there's no lasting damage
2. She's the girl, so if anyone actually should come up to check, she can explain
3. No one there knows who you are or has your name, so there won't be any rumours started.

Don't go to a dungeon unless you need the extra materials or plan a photo shoot.

Keep in mind that it's easy as pie for her to blackmail you or get you jailed.

>>24036959
>You simply go to her house?
It's easier said that done. Our initial play session was meant to be at hers, but a good number of circumstances meant it got pushed back and back until we had to settle at mine. But yes, I understand it's the better of the two options and I'm pressuring for the next session to be at hers pretty much for the reasons you listed. I was also looking for a solution to my home for any other/future partners.

>Keep in mind that it's easy as pie for her to blackmail you or get you jailed
How common is this in the scene? I'd assume there is a level of implicit trust, like gangsters who don't rat out their friends when caught.

>>24037023
Well there is no "solution" for your home: Either you're so quiet that no one will hear, or you take the risk and hope your neighbours don't notice. If you live wall-to-wall, we can hear everything; if it's detached, you'd have to be pretty loud for people to actually get concerned.

I wouldn't be too anxious. I had people knock at my door before because of sex but there's almost no scenario that'd actually end seriously bad for you or isn't worth the risk...

...except:
>level of implicit trust
I'm not talking about her telling others you're into BDSM (although that is likely too, see the current David Garreth case), I'm talking about rape accusations á la Jian Ghomeshi.
There's no implicit trust with anyone, there are only two things - conscience and motive.

And since 90% of girls who play out "non-consent" are mentally ill to some extent (not judging), I'd just make sure you don't give her a motive. Not fearmongering but if you're already so concerned, that's what you should be worrying about, not whether your neighbour knows you have fun sex.

>>24037044
>I'm not talking about her telling others you're into BDSM

I was aware you meant rape charges from your original message and I understand your concern. Thanks for the advice, I hadn't massively considered it because I figured people don't go into the scene to hurt one another, but then again I'm not the vengeful, hurtful kind despite how I am in the bedroom, so I struggle to empathise. I'll keep it in mind for this and future encounters.

>>24037066
No one goes into the scene for that reason, but people in the scene do often come with past trauma, financial struggles, get attached easily, don't handle rejection well, already have partners and so on - all good motives to later cause trouble.

But don't be paranoid about that or your neighbours, just be a good judge of character and have fun.

>>24037111
This.

>>24036897
How about gags?

>ASL
22 M 403
radioaktivitat on kik / snap
>General Kinks/Fetishes
I love being bitten. / also, deep throat ing a girl hard turn me into a Fuck machine.
>Your experience/experiences
It turns me on so bad. It's basically a if you bite there's no going back deal. I'll rape you if need be. I just can't control it. / as for dt I'll Fuck you like there's no fucking tomorrow afterwards
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
A bunch of people know about the bitting due to me having my gf's teeth tattooed. We're swingers
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I went out with my gf about 8 years ago in high school. She bit I went nuts, we broke up. After a while cause I was a dumb ass and now we've been together for 8 months again after being separated 7 years.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Get it tattooed
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Not really

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I am a chubby horny sissy who needs a daddy now!

Kik:ultsubguy

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Reminder.

>IRC
#pervysocplebs on Rizon

https://kiwiirc.com/client/irc.rizon.net/#pervysocplebs
https://www.rizon.net/chat

Feel free to lurk or be idle, activity time increased around the evenings CET. Just wait and chat a little and people will respond for sure.

Saturday being slow.

>>24032759
25/m/us

Do you have a kik? Pee fetish is literally the hottest thing to me. I love getting peed on while in the bedroom.

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Sub/dom fetish. Im dumb. Lets talk.

Very hard thing to reveal but i'll post this with out even looking at the thread.

My kinks are several and somewhat conflicting.

Major kink: pregnancy, i want ro impregnate a girl/woman and stay around her and be with her while she carries to term. All the usual body loving but emphisis on her belly for being pregnant.

Secondary addative kink: lactation and breastplay. This includes nipple piercings. I love the idea of breasts swollen with milk. Warm and sweet.

Conflicting kink 1: mommy dom, a strong, beautiful, curvey woman who is likely older and superior. Kind and thoghtful. Patient, rewarding. Allows me to be vulnerable.

Conflicting kink 2: the submissive little girl. Unknowing, needy, bubbly. Almost like a daughter. Does what shes told. Pouty. Somewhat bratty but not out of control.

Vanilla kink: the pleaser. Being the bull who's so well endowed and sexy that it satisfies even a womans heart. I want them to crave my time and attention and neednme to touch them and destress their bodies with my own. I want to be their crack and they're addicts.

Backround: im a tall (6'3), strong male. Broad shoulders, muscley body, but a young looking baby face with large pretty eyes.

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>ASL
28/m/california
>IRC name
mcboots
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Just check my chart out
>Your experience/experiences
BDSM irl and some rp online
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
I have a few kink friends that know about my weird kinky ways
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Not really. My first gf got me into the kink lifestyle
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
public play (kinda vanilla but stil)
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Looking to talk about kink or a qt grill to be their older oniichan too lol

contact me either on irc or

kik:mcboots
skype:evldcky1

>ASL
24/m/Australia
>IRC name
Don't use it, fetlife is AlphaGamma25
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Petplay as a master (not the super hardcore leather and cages kind, just the dominant and loving relationship), bondage, orgasm control/denial, stretching, cumplay and impregnation
>Your experience/experiences
All of the above plus general kinkyness (impact play, clips, toys etc)
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Past partners have reacted in various ways, either not being into it, being a little into it, or really liking it. Some friends know and some have asked questions in a group, other have come to me afterwards and asked things privately, and other haven't seemed to care.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
After my first few times having sex i found that i liked to hold my partner down while doing it, and things escalated from there.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
I've done some bloodplay (and not really been into it), I think the most satisfyingly kinky thing I've done was having a live in pet who would dress up for an hour each night and play, and was generally submissive the rest of the time. (I would pick her outfits for the day, control her schedule to some degree, give her orders to be completed in my absence, etc)
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'd like to play with anal stretching and play for a submissive or pet, and I'd love to impregnate a pet, making her truly mine.

Recently found a dom c: Am very excited, someone please talk to me about this I'm ecstatic.

>>24039304
Alright.

So what kind of dynamic are you guys into? Any meeting yet, or is it all talking so far?

>>24039336
Well, unfortunately he's quite far so we've just been webcam and voice chat etc. But this is my first time being in like a 100% ds relationship with someone. I don't think I've ever felt so fulfilled sexually = =

>>24039348
Good on you! Glad to hear that

>>24039368
ty!!! D: I'm so excited to try more and more things. Although now I wonder if I will be able to deal with normal relationships idk?

Do you guys treat these as an alternative to "normal" dating and sex? Or do you think of it more as a side thing meant for sexual fulfillment only that's irrelevant to marriage dating love etc?

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>>24039379
I don't really see it as an alternative to anything, it's just something I like to do. If the other person isn't a sub or isn't interested, then that's fine too, every relationship is different.

If someone wants to do a 24/7 dynamic, that's what I prefer, but if they want something only in the bedroom, I accommodate that as well. Just make sure you communicate with your partner so everyone is on the same page as far as expectations.

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>ASL
22/F/CA

>General Kinks/Fetishes
Most things that I enjoy the most deal with teasing and seduction. Things that don't provide quick or instant satisfaction. Also kinks that involve an "I want to but I shouldn't" forbidden feel.
-Outercourse (Assjobs, handjobs, even thighjobs)
Basically actions that involve penetration denial.
-Discreet public play
I love messing around in semi-public places and being sneaky about it. It's the risk of being caught that really gets me going.
-"Accidental" exhibition and hidden voyeurs
I enjoy being a tease but a tease that's being coy about it. Accidentally-on-purpose giving a flash down my shirt to a random stranger or even better, to a guy I'm platonic with. Wearing a skirt without panties, walking around me house nude or semi-nude with the windows partially open, etc.
I like to be seen exposed but not "know" about it. Like its a secret.

>Fantasies
-Ageplay
Some of my most favorite experiences were in high school and as such, I like to play or replay high school-aged fantasies. There's limitations to being that age that you can't recreate now. Like being caught by my parents and sneaking around to do stuff.
-Incest roleplay
Although I've never been attracted to a family member, I have had a lot of b/s fantasies. It goes along with the recurring "we shouldn't be doing this/what if we get caught" theme in my kinks. I like the forbidden aspect of it.
-Cheating roleplay
Once again, just a fantasy. It's very specific to a type of roleplay where I am reluctant to cheat, wanting to stay faithful but circumstances more than the guy, leads me to bring down my inhibitions.

I like other kinks too. These are just my major ones.
I'm open to penpals and online play. I currently have a boyfriend so anything physical is out unless he's involved.
My kik is HeartstringsXO
I only pic trade with people I trust so don't ask if we've only talked for 5 minutes.

>have cuck fantasy
>meet a girl from tinder
>we have sex
>hit her up a few times, doesn't seem like she wants to hang out
>catfish her on instagram
>send pics of a huge black cock
>she loves it, gives "me" her number
>sext her on a fake number
>shes ready to take uber to get fucked by a giant cock
>ignores the real me
>i jerk off and cum like a horse
Jesus christ I've hit a new low. It's funny though.

>>24040917
You arent fantisizing about being cucked, you're fantisizing about being the bull who satisfies her

>>24039379
Communication is key, as the anon under you mentioned.

If you do happen to meet then safewords and whatnot is important to have too. But the biggest boner you can get from a dynamic is consent and knowing what you are both comfortable with.

Interesting thread perhaps. Truly i have figured out that most of my kinks involve juxtapositions. A girl sweet and innocent looking acting like a hmm could we say "bitch in heat"? Such as the "cute librarian " sort of thing. Either thatbshebis like that or i drive her to it, or just naturally like it. The other side of the coin also, an innocent acting but dressed hmm, whorish? So while there are elwments of dom and sub and ddlg i have trouble pigeon holing my interests. Of course the things i have mentioned involve dress up, costumes, some role-playing occasionally age play and such. No not many know a few girls i have dated but while these are interests i love exploring, indo not need them to get off. If you understand what i mean. Oh and willing to talk about them but not just post the contact info yet.

>>24041238
>A girl sweet and innocent looking acting like a "bitch in heat"
>innocent acting but dressed whorish
Aren't these the same thing? How are they different sides of the same coin?

Yes at the end but starting from opposite sides. Really wind up the same result but it is the journey not the destination.

>>24039568
>>24041177
meep, I guess it really depends on the individuals then.

>>24041491
Don't be intimidated about it, if you trust eachother then it's enough. See it as a relationship with even more layers of trust that brings you closer than most.

Holiday bump

>ASL
29/M
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Slavery, domination, control, bimbofication, bondage, humiliation, rape, torture, body modification, DD/lg, piss
>Your experience/experiences
I have plenty of real life experience because I was actively exploring my kinks since I was 15. Nothing very specific comes to mind though.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
My friends are usually very open minded, and if they aren't, I'm not going discuss these kinds of things with them anyway.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
My girlfriend at a time told me that she had this weird dream where I'd bind her and do stuff to her. It immediately struck a note with me, and I began exploring this side of my sexuality. I think I was 15 or so.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Hard to say. It's not like I keep a book records of what I've done and compared it to see what was the kinkiest. Plus it's very dependant on your point of view.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I never had a 24/7 live-in slave girl/pet/little. Hard to find the right for this kind of stuff, so I guess I'll just have to keep looking.

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i really wish someone would get me off right now. i love being degraded especially by women. can't find anyone to help

I'm a late bloomer when it comes to sex and kinks, didn't lose my virginity til past my 30s and not currently in a relationship, but I'm like really curious about a lot of stuff, yet have no idea how to go about exploring it. Is fetlife like my best option?

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kik luvnoob small dick want humiliating all welcome even group chat also have pics in panties.......

>>24040485

23/m/tx

Married, looking for something for online, not in person

We sound very similar. I'll kik you

>>24042933
It could be, some have better chances are other stuff like Okcupid or some other random dating site. You could check Fetlife for the fact that they have events or events near you as well, but expect lots of old people occassionally.

Depends of course where you are located, Americans have a way easier time.

>>24043296
I second this anon. Thanks to Fetlife I discovered how active the BDSM community in my country was, now I'm way more active than I've ever been.

By the way, I'm feeling like chatting/fooling around with someone, anybody care to share contacts? Mine is Rains43 for kik, skype or snapchat.

25 m us, in a relationship and just looking to get freaky with someone online, kik me conmann6000

>>24043296
>>24043309
Okay I'll check it out, and yeah I'm in the US. I don't think OKCupid is a good choice for some of the stuff I'm interested in though lol.

Thanks /b/ros.

101hero101

m 19 bi
pretty new to all the kinky stuff, but open for anything just text me :)

101hero101

m19 bi

open for any kinks :) just text me

>>24030036
bumpin

another bump

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Bisexual 21 M into vore and fat-related fetishes.

I switch between sub and dom, message my kik at Mrmolotovnik.

>>24043353
You'd be surprised how well those dating sites work in the US for stuff that is also related to kinks by the way.

Just make a PROPER profile detailing the kink stuff as well, leave it on and and make sure you get mail when someone writes to you.

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Bumped

>tfw no qt to call me oniichan and do lewd with

20/m (hetrofelixble)/CA (Sf-Bay area)
>Fetlife User Name
BrownChemStudent
>kik
Kb_lnW
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Bondage, Consensual Non Consent, Brat Tameing, Breath, Orgasm Denial(giveing), D&S, Squirting, Impact alot of stuff.... Oh Exhibitionism
>Your experience/experiences
Me and my Gf have been practicing a flogging scene that where gonna do at doungene party in Sf. I'm quite familiar with clubs. So far I've been active for about a year now. I also help run a Kink Club at my University.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
I live with non judgemental Berkeley hippies so their reaction was "cool can I hit your bong". Also alot them are kinky too.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough?
When I was young I was play fighting with a neighbor girl and ended pinning her down. The rest was history.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Not the kinkest thing I have everdone but I made my girl pick her out a porno she liked. She chose a forced film from kink.com. I hand cuffed her so she couldn't pleasure her self. She thought she was being clever by selecting a film that apealled to both our fetishes. I striped her down and she started being bratty egging me on to fucker.
I started pulling out toys from her bag as the movie rolled. Found a little clit stimulator. And started edging her. The movie was two hours long and I tortured her through out the hole thing. I let her know that if challenges me she will always lose. Alfter the moive I spanked her till she was sorry for being a brat then I fucked her the rest of night.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Haven't really done to much exhibtion mostly because my girl isn't really into it. So hmu if you are where poly oh and she is bi too.
If you want to hang out with me or both us. Oh no single dudes who wanna "tag team my girl" like fuck introduce your self first.

>>24047390
Uguu~

So much one-shot posts today, lots of bumping.

I don't know if that counts as a kink but lately I've been obsessing over this fantasy of having a cute guy stalk me and/or kidnap me so he can make me his slave or something (sex slave mainly but also for household stuff or whatever).

>>24048561
That's a kink for sure, know why it suddenly started? Most people like that feel they have less contact with people and loves the obsession given. They just want to feel needed to a point where it's taboo or at least disconnects them from the outside-world somehow.

>>24048670
I'm not sure why it suddenly started, no - it just happens now and then that I discover a new thing (kink, fantasy, whatever) to obsess about. I'm generally submissive and a masochist so it's always that kind of stuff, though. I think my amount of contact with people is pretty normal? I'm not the most outgoing but I'm definitely not a shut-in or anything. I suppose it's just my bad self esteem that makes me want to feel needed like that.

>>24047838
imouto is that you...

>>24048760
Discovering new things is always nice, and if you feel like you have low self-esteem then I can see where you are coming from at least. You got the slave thing down at least, don't know how you would want to go on about it to get your kink done? at the very least you can talk about it for a while!

>>24048784
Not sure if onii-chan is being a creepy lolicon

>>24048796
this oniichan is far from a lolicon

>>24048760
It's pretty classic power exchange. You enjoy the idea of someone taking control over what you say, what you do, where to be because you don't have to think about it. You just have to be obedient and everything works out. You also get the satisfaction of knowing that being obedient is pleasing to whoever is giving the orders.

Or maybe I'm full of shit, I'm just generalizing about subs I've had before and that was their deal. You could be entirely different for all I know.

>>24048806
Generalizing isn't all that bad, that said, general sub is still general sub and general sub is a good sub.

Needs more sandwiches.

>>24048802
Pomf pomf kimochii~

>>24048789
Yeah it would honestly be really hard to get that kink done irl because I kinda.. still want to have a "regular" life too. Good thing it's all just hypothetical anyway because it's very unrealistic that anyone will actually be into me like that! But yeah I could talk about that stuff for ages, it's all really confusing but interesting to me.

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>>24048827
No need to sell yourself short, you can bet there are more people that would love to obsess over someone with low self-esteem or confidence.

More often than not a dynamic doesn't have to be active at all times, at the very least you could tend to your 'normal' life but you are just outright a slave/fucktoy when at home, etc.

>>24048819
dont tease me heart like this plz :(

>>24048840
Clinical terms in porno crack me up.

>>24048857
This one time I tried a buttplug and it hurt, but you have that initial pain and process abd then *pop*, normal face is back

>>24048885
wut xD

>>24048897
I think they meant that painal face you make when you do buttstuff, but with a buttplug you have the type with tiny necks that keeps the buttplug in. So you have the stage of 'ouch'-face then when you get it in it all stops and you're back to being regular, lol.

>>24048862
She loves it in the anus.

>>24048897
what? xD

>>24048920
you should contact me so we can continue this
>>24038659

I love nail polish on women. When they wear it, it makes me so horny. On their hands or feet.
Goodness, it's my full blown fetish

>>24048967
Also, I've got this weird thing for when a for calling a woman mommy when she fucks me.

>>24048974
I like how the mommy thing is weird but women would be more weirded out if a guy doesn't like being called daddy.

>>24049012
I'm not sure it would weird all women out because I'm pretty handsome, but i keep it to myself because it's embarrassing.

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>>24048934

>>24049019
>it's embarrassing
and yet women are never embarrassed of their desire to be called daddy. I'm just saying there's a huge double standard around sexualizing that parental nomenclature.

>>24049055
Uh, you all know what I meant.

>>24049029
;_;

>>24049055
>and yet women are never embarrassed of their desire to be called daddy.
I have a feeling they might be.

>>24049069
much better if you have the same eyes, skin and hair color

Anyone into incest or siscon play?

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> tfw you are a 5'11" hairy attractive otter and all you want is to fem it up and have an average stocky guy worship you and make you feel safe to act out your fem fantasy

>>24050557
Have you tried finding someone that would do that? What you are looking for is really easy too so you aren't far off from that fantasy!

>>24050595

There's kind of a huge stigma in the gay community around femininity, even more so in my friend group. I thought about using craigslist or something, but the guys are too shady/gross/diseased. I don't really know where else to look...

>>24050786
Fetlife is an alternative, gay bars works absolutely wonders if you are willing to brush up to a huge guy.

If you are going for an arrangement you can always do things the more secure way of checking everything up before even bothering with the person.

>>24050790

There's no way brushing up to a huge guy at a gay bar would land me that fantasy, lol, guys who are into fem stuff are usually way more low key or not in those places. I mean I guess I've just never met a guy who's into fem. Also, fetlife isn't accepting new members?

>>24050805
Odd that fetlife it isn't accepting new members, very odd.

Have you tried it in a gaybar though?

>>24050833
How would I know if they are interested in fem without actually being a full on painted nails disco ball?

>>24050897
Just casually walk up to them or try to dance with one, basically just treat it like any club-dating place.

I'm fantasizing again. I want a sexy man to stay at home and do all the cleaning for me. Then, I'll come home and fuck him in the ass while choking him as he calls me sir. I'm a grill.

>>24050805
>>24050833
>fetlife not accepting new members
Well, they're either failing as a business, or it's just some weekly maintenance thing where it's turned off for a couple hours.

I hope it's the first.

>>24051076
want to chat about that ? kik jacobadventure

>>24051119

I read it was something about spam bots

>>24051178
I've always wondered what goes through the head of people like these..
not much i guess

>>24051183
Yeah, pretty much.

>>24051178

I want someone who isn't actually retarded to do this to me

>ASL 22 m uk
>General Kinks/Fetishes big dicks, being bullied, sph, cuck, rough play
>Your experience/experiences have a girlfriend into this stuff
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted? Not that weren't involved in them
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish? was really young, early teens haha
>Kinkiest thing you've done? high school bully fucked my girlfriend and me

kik is mashedpotitties

Anybody interested in hypnosis/mind control?

>>24049089
I kind of want to fuck a blonde chick, and I've got dark brown hair and dark eyes with white skin. Basically I look like a cross between John Oliver and Steve Carell

>>24050510
Yes

>>24051939
I am. Male and straight though.

>>24050510
Just finished Oreimo with my girlfriend like 2 days ago. Had to read fan fiction because the ending was so unfulfilling. I don't know if it's a serious fetish but it's definitely been my flavor of the week.

>>24048806
That's somewhat accurate, I think. But I'm not sure if the aspect of not having to think for myself is the most appealing part of it for me? I mean, I enjoy the thought of someone taking control over me very much, but for different reasons.. I'm not sure what those are, though, and I'm probably sounding kinda dumb right now.
Nothing wrong with generalizing a bit though, I mean, I guess all subs have certain things in common!

>>24048840
The thing with the dynamic not being active at all times actually sounds perfect. That's the kind of life I want to have, someday.

>>24052115
You'll probably get it, I find that the on/off dynamic feels the best at times-- since really you need some breaks too or at least want to feel normal now and then outside your home.

Some call it "only in the bedroom" behavior, but that's sorta weird to call it. It all depends on everyone and what they want so what works best for you will always work.

>>24052115
There's lots of reasons, I'm sure I could zero in on them if I knew more about you.

And that part-time dynamic you're looking for? SUPER obtainable, you could probably achieve that in a day on fetlife if you weren't being too picky. I'm sure that prospect seems kinda scary though if you aren't familiar with the basics of a D/s relationship.

If you are, then nothing to worry about.

>>24051076
It wouldn't be hard to find.
I'm educated, successful, and handsome. I'd let you be my master.

>>24051939
Reporting in

same as this guy
>>24051955
I'm a fairly new hypnotist who's had a fetish for it forever, I'm always interested in chatting with others about it and obviously hypnotizing whoever. If anyone wants to try their hand at hypnotizing me that would be cool too, I've never been under.

Ugh I'll never find a qt skinny nerdy furry boy to fuck while he wears ears and a tail or play puppy play with.

if that's you, btw hmu on kik: rstar1991

>>24052453
Do you have contact info, by chance? No clue if my ID will be the same, but I am grill.

I like giving girls wedgies

18/ Gay/ White
;3 Come here bois!
Kik: Napoleon_0

>>24053918
Fake as fuck

>>24051894
That's not happening until i find a qt imouto to whore myself out to >:(

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Because we toys now.

44, f uk SUBMISSIVE.

My fantasy is to find a bratty, bossy girl who is happy to pretend to be my bratty daughter.

>>24055775
Highly interested in your age. Maybe ee can talk before anything and see what we are looking for. My email is: [email protected]
And my kik: velrase
Hope you will reply

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24 m uk kik. luvnoob enjoy humiliation / nasty comments have small cock and a secret if you ask there..

>>24055775
I know someone who is really into that, though I doubt that's a real post.

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I like sharing pics and vids of my gf thru kik with older married guys and having them get off to them. Gf is into it too.

>>24055011
that's lewd onii-chan

>>24055609
Sweet!

I masturbate to dogs mating almost exclusively now. I can't get off unless I imagine myself with a knot fucking a person, either as a furry or just an "alpha." Bestiality grosses me out like fuck, though. What does this mean?

>>24057013
That you're pretty much just a furry, so to speak.

Go get those toys, or cock-sheaths to put on yourself.

>>24057198
>tfw no dick to put the cocksheath on

Life truly is suffering.

>>24057556
What are: strapons and strapon belts

Looking to keep the thread alive...

>ASL
31 / m / virgin / los angeles
>General Kinks/Fetishes
smells. sweat. dirty and stinky pussies. queefs. farts. dirty panties and socks
>Your experience/experiences
im a virgin
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
yes and nobody cares
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
vanilla is enough but i have my preferences. doesnt fucking matter tho lol
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
nothing dude
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
anything so if any1s down my kik is zsasza

Anyone know a good place where I can find some pictures of a woman wrapped in bondage tape?
I want to show my partner what I want to do to her but she wants to get inspired first and I haven't found any good amateur sites that show love for bondage tape.

Can be your own stuff as well if you are willing to share.

>>24056214
Kik me conmann6000

>>24058072
Google.

No, seriously, I don't mean that in a nasty way. Try "bondage tape outfits".

>>24058093
It's not a nasty comment if you ad a good search string for it. Thanks man.

Hi, I have a question for doms.

I am a Dom and I've only recently started playing with subs online. I've never done this kind of sexting and sometimes I find myself a little swamped as to what to request them. Do you have any advice?

Also, if you want to chat about it privately or share experiences, my Kik is Rains43

>ASL
23/f/Europ
>General Kinks/Fetishes
A little bit of exhibitionism, and showing off/being shown off to people. Light buttstuff, gentle dom/sub stuff, being told I'm a good girl when I make men happy. I sometimes like to take control too, I like it when I know the man could overpower me but is still playing along. I love a good tease (both to give and recieve), and really drawing out the foreplay. Kind of like feet too? I love feeling 'used' sometimes, and when a man just ignores my pleasure and satisfies himself using my body. Sort of loving d/s
>Your experience/experiences
The above, but always as part of long term relationships.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Only people I've been with. I've spoken to a few people from soc about them, but they're all horny bastards and we'll never meet irl.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I do still like plain vanilla sex also, but a bit of kink is great. I can't remember the initial trigger, but I think one of the first porns I saw was some amateur scene, where the guy was directing the girl what to do, and the girl looked like she was having the time of her life just doing what she was told and being praised at how good she was at sucking cock ^.^
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Had sex and masturbated in a number of places I shouldnt have, (accidentally) gone out in public with dried cum on my face lol.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'd like to try a FFM threesome. And maybe being fisted (but only in the vagina)! And also maybe some pee stuff (will probably stay as a fantasy, as I would be embarrassed forever if I told someone and they were like "gross"). Would also like to be tied up.

Wow, reading other people's responses makes me feel really vanilla though.

>>24058122
>but they're all horny bastards and we'll never meet irl.

It's terrible to add people from here because you can't have a normal conversation without them asking to send pictures of your playpartner/gf/whatever and asking if they can maybe watch on skype.

24 f, UK

Slightly gender-queer female sub-leaning switch. Pansexual, homoromantic, poly.

Currently attempting a bit of 'fetish rehab'. I am trying to distance myself from the fetish scene. I usually look for the most creative and extreme and exotic play that I can stomach, and the truth is that I have become slightly addicted.

So what the hell am I posting here for?

I am at a really confused time of my life, and I am struggling with basic motivation, organisation, and socialisation.

I am looking for a kinky, slightly nerdy/geeky person to chat to on a frequent basis.

Ideally someone who is interested in:

- Watching TV/Movies together (online).
- Maybe even Anime/Cartoon stuff.
- Teach me how to play Dungeons and Dragons and other awesome geeky things.
- Helping improve my health and fitness, including diet.
- Helping me improve my fashion.
- Helping me with my body/gender dysmorpia.
- Helping me avoid some of my more extreme fetish desires.
- Watching 'normal' porn.
- Guided masturbation.
- Encourage me to complete the Warhammer armiesI have had laying around for 6 years...
- Helping indulge some more 'soft' fetishes.
T each me to code, or support me in doing so.
- Bed-time spankings for good/bad behaviour.
- Monitoring, but not controlling, my sex life, masturbation, dating habits.
- Are happy to indulge some of my odder desires from time to time in a healthy way.
- Help me improve my english, and learn other languages!

It is kinda hard to explain what I have in mind.... But basically I don;t want to feel miserable anymore. I want someone fun, kinky, with awesome taste to help motivate me and to also have some kink thrown into the mix.

I am not looking to Kik, Snapchap, or anything like that. I would like this to stay completely anonymous by Skype, Email, and maybe even Whattsapp.

So, yeah, probably the weirdest post in here so far.

>>24058143
Since you want it to be totally anonymous, I'd rather give you my throw away skype first : throw.away223

I think I can help you with a lot of the above, hope I'll hear about you soon.

>>24058143
Skype: nyyankee2855

>>24058143
You sound interesting. I'm a UK guy, would love to chat a little. Temporary email is [email protected]

>>24058143
Dombob90 on KIK! You sound intresting not weird

My skype is fonzi375. Im a big movie nerd and would love to help you out where i can:)

>>24057556
Read this >>24057563

>>24053914
Wedgie-anon or wedgie-femanon?

>>24058072
>>24058093
YOU CAN HAVE MY EVERYTHING
>muh fetish

>>24058139
The odder part are the /straight/ people who add you and ask if I have private pictures I could share, and they never relent and get pissed off if you sa no.
>>24058122
Not sure if we are already friends, join the irc or ask me on the thread about something if you aren't, you seemed familiar for a bit but I am fairly sure you aren't a friend I already know.

>>24058143
Hi, thanks for stopping by! you could join the irc and stay there for a while (people will take some time to answer so be patient). I'd help you out as a friend if you'd want that.

What were you up to before you suddenly decided to go on a 'fetish rehab' though?

Looking to chat with anyone into some weird stuff. Kik me: dramacat

>>24055775
Hey add me on Kik
Sedyrick

>>24051955
>>24052642
I'm with you guys. I've had that fetish forever, amassed a lot of knowledge but have never hypnotized anyone in real life. Yet. I hope that will change soon. I'm practicing a bit on just making recordings to try to get my voice right.

>>24058143
add elchaposrevenge on skype, its my throwaway

>>24053036
Not the anon you quoted, but meet the same description.
kik is yespleasefemdom
if you're interested

>>24058093
God damn, I love sexy electric-tape bondage outfits.

Tape stockings, bondage sleeve ducttape, tape mouthgags/blindfolds, etc.

I have a special appreciation for folks who can gag themselves with a decently long dildo and bind their mouths shut with tape, giving a nice bit of breathplay.

>>24058143
I replied in the shut-in thread but I'll hit you up here too, add willnye2cool on skype :3

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>>24060660
Her boobs are so nice and petite! I'd love to see more

>>24060660
This is so hot

>>24029869
>ASL
25/m/Germany
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Was pretty vanilla for most of my life, but recently I'm getting into being a dom. I also have a voyeuristic side.

Also, have some stuff I consider great fapping material, but wouldn't wanna do IRL for most:
>incest, especially brother/sister
>bestiality
>ntr (self-inserting as the bull)/anything containing ahegao/women being sluts/enjoying sex in general
>shotacon

>Your experience/experiences
Atm I'm kinda lacking those, but gf and I have done the following (all of which I'd consider light BDSM at most): scratching, biting, physically restraining (no rooes though), dirty talk, spanking, light orgasm denial.

>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
My gf and her best friend (female). Both are fine with them.

>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Dunno. Voyeurism was pretty early on, all of my erotic fantasies involved some form of me watching in one way or another (most of my fapping fantasies were orgies).

>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Either the drunk threesome with gf and her best friend or the truth or dare that got out of hand and involved some light pet play with gf's best friend.

>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Deepthroat. Gf has one hell of a gagging reflex, so she can't do it without throwing up. I'd be free to find another woman who can and would do it, but I'm not that good at flirting/picking up women.

I'm 19/M/US
I have a wedgie fetish where I like to be given wedgies in panties. If anyone would like to be wedgie buddies that would be real cool.
My Kik is NewtonsCradle but if anyone would want to use something else that would be fine.

>25 m utah

I'm not sure. I've seen stuff I'd like to try, but since I'm in prude capital, it's impossible to find anyone. I've been invited (and have gone once) to a fetish munch and class, but its around an hour away. I'm not sure what to do.

>>24058641
>I've had that fetish forever, amassed a lot of knowledge but have never hypnotized anyone in real life

Yeah it was the exact same for me before I actually did it to someone and realized that my fetish knowledge actually did translate to real hypnosis. Recordings are a great way to get feedback without too many worries, I'll watch out for you in case you ever post it.

>>24062442
Thanks for the encouragement! Yes, I really hope to do it soon in real life. Or, at least, over the internet. Even with recordings. I'm pretty sure all my passive knowledge could translate to actual things. I just need practice.

That's why I just bought a good microphone a few days ago. I'm first practicing my voice, so I'm reading articles and stories into the microphone. Soon I'll try to record inductions once I feel confident. After that... hopefully the actual thing.

>>24062456
IRL is a bit of a challenge to find subjects unless you don't care too much about friends and family knowing you can hypnotize. Online is a great place to find subjects though, that's where I've done almost all of my stuff. I would really love an IRL subject to practice on though.

Yeah practice is really all you need, being into hypnosis means you probably know most of the ins and outs. Once you can maintain a steady flow of words and a good variety of hypnotic phrases they'll be out like a light for you.

>>24062517
I'll expand "real life" to mean "actual human subject" here. And yes, seems like online would be the best place to try to find subjects. My plan is to practice a bit, then make a recording or two, and then find online subjects who could test them and give me feedback. Then move onto skype session, and then real life.

Great to see someone who seems to be just like me in this. You've just done a bit farther, so now I have to catch up.

>>24062571
Ah I get ya, well you shouldn't have to worry about participants, at one point I had 20-30 people add me from a single thread I made, only ended up actually hypnotizing 10 of them with the time I had.

Don't worry I'm not that far ahead of you I'm only really good at the one progressive relaxation induction I do, I haven't gotten to the more advanced techniques yet. One thing on my bucket list though is finding a person that lives near me to practice instant inductions on, I'm pretty sure those only work in person.

Anyways, good luck on the path, I'm sure I'll spot you again on here some day, there really aren't many of us here so it's easy to tell haha.

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>ASL
25 m Illinois
>IRC name
n/a
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Feet/toes/legs, legwear. I'm pretty vanilla as far as kinks go, or at least ones I've experienced
>Your experience/experiences
My fiancee knows and enjoys that I like playing with her feet. She's only given me a fj to completion once.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
I've talked to a few friends about it, but they don't really get it.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I remember noticing girls dangle their sandals off their toes all the way back in middle school. I had a cute couple teachers in high school do the same thing in heels and stockings. It stuck with me since.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Fiancee gave me an fj underneath a table while we were studying at the uni library
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'm interested in feminization. I had a cross-dressing experience as a teen and really enjoyed it, but more for the putting the outfit together. The compliments that I looked pretty helped.

Sort of related, I really love the 50s pin-up style. But that I would rather see my fiancee dress up like that so I can worship her stockinged feet

>>24062442
>>24062456
You guys should make a vocaroo! Doesn't even have to be anything related to hypno. I know that if I was particularly drawn to someone's voice, I would be more willing to try this sort of thing.

Read a poem or something! :)

>>24062768
I've practiced reading things like stories into the microphone. But then I realized my accent is distracting (English is not my first language). So I need to work on it a bit further.

If you really want and will give honest (and brutal) feedback maybe I can try to do a quick vocaroo of a story/poem or something.

>>24062786
Accents can be a plus! What's your first language?
I have given people feedback on their voices before for monologues, so I'd be happy to help.

>>24062799
Finnish. Are you familiar with what it sounds like in English? Good grammar and command of the language, but pronunciation is rather staccato, and a few sounds like -th- we have difficulty with.

>>24062807
Maybe you could record me an example? ;)

>>24062820
I just did a test recording and I hate my accent. Are you still sure you want to hear?

>>24062833
I'm positive!

>>24062836
Well, here you go. Brutal and honest comments welcome.

http://vocaroo.com/i/s1gfv5aJpTBz

>>24062869
Honestly I'm having trouble critiquing this. You have a good pace. I like the urgency you've put in at the napping, tapping, and rapping piece. Only thing I could recommend is being a little quieter and lower with the "tis some visitor" part, since you're supposed to be muttering at that part.

General pronunciation notes:
'Dreary' could use more emphasis on the 'Dr'. It's almost a J sound, like the J in 'Just'. The 'Ear' part should me more "eeer". I recommend the Cambridge dictionary ( dictionary.cambridge.org ) in the UK English, since it gives you both UK and US pronunciation. I assume by being European that you're aiming for UK, but I'm American so that's where my perspective comes from.
'Curious' you're pronouncing as "curr" like in curve, but it's more like "cure" or kew-r
'Pondered' could use emphasis on P, since it can be confused as "Wandered"

Generally, I like your tone and pitch.
I personally sound like this when reading this piece: http://vocaroo.com/i/s1oc44hDtREp
Forgive my awful microphone. I'm no where near perfect, I just wanted to give you an idea of my perspective on the pronunciation of this poem.

>>24062953
Thank you so much for your answer!

Yes, I know I have a lot to work on. I'm hoping that practicing my voice and speaking will also help me in my hypnosis kink.

>>24062953
I want to be a wanderer.

I'm that smooth.

>>24062869
I've heard a lot of Finnish speaking English and yours is without a doubt the most unique I've heard thus far, didn't even think you were Finnish to begin with.

>>24063049
I've lived in the US for a few years, near Boston. More than once I've had people guessing I'm from northern Ireland.

>>24058143
I can relate. I've got a few fetishes that I've had to quit because I just really didn't enjoy how I felt afterwards.

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>ASL
30/M/NY/straight

>kik name
mister_mike87

>General Kinks/Fetishes
D/s, DD/lg, M/s, spankings, bondage/restraints, confinement, orgasm control, edging, forced orgasm, impact play, choking, slapping, biting, facials, cream pies, pain play, cuckquean, clothing control, chastity, cock worship, rough sex, impact play, cock worship, voyeurism, exhibitionism, being the bull, and more that I can't quite remember right now.

>Your experience/experiences
I've had four long term subs over the last ten years and a dozen or so regular play partners. Before I moved I was very active in the local kink community attending lots of dungeon parties and other events. Now that I just arrived in a new city I'm slowly getting connected to the local scene.

>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Quite a few of my friends know and they don't find. Some coworkers found out and think it's funny. My parents know and don't care.

>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Oh lord, probably when I was twelve and I saw East Of Eden for the first time. The idea of having a submissive and everything just clicked in my head. It started a curiosity that continued to grow.

>Kinkiest thing you've done?
I had a sub be my house slave for a weekend. When she acted up she got whipped or locked in the cage, when I was horny I took her without a word, and when I wasn't home she was tied to the bed until I returned. I had complete and total control of her and it was my favorite weekend ever.

>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'm very interested in cuckquean now. I was the bull for a cuckold couple for the first time last year and that got me interested in trying a cuckquean dynamic.

I'd love to kik with some submissive type girls. Play would be nice, but I'm fine just chatting and such.

>>24058143
Skype: Pyrofanity

18/M/usa
I'm a switch, I like being a sub a bit more, but domming can be some wonderful fun.
Incest, not in an IRL aspect, but the taboo fantasy.
I first found out my kinks when I was just searching for porn, and it really clicked when my first gf bit my lip and demanded I moan for her.... Sigh... Good times...

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>ASL
32m/28f/24f Los Angeles
>Kik name
LaserJesusBeard
>General Kinks/Fetishes
D/s, poly, group sex
>Your experience/experiences
Many years in all of the above
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
All of our friends know, and all but 2 are kinky playmates as well
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
It's an evolutionary process. You try things, those lead to other things. Rarely is there some "aha!" moment.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Orgies, public play, all night anal gangbang, I mean, "kinkiest" varies.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
Oh, things here and there. We'd love a cute young female to be our group slave.

Bump :)

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Posted this on CL London, will repost here...

Hello, young (part-time) crossdresser would love to meet a local geek guy who is into a few of the same things hobbies wise and sexually.

I am 24, white, with a slim-average build. 5.8" height. When I dress I quite enjoy tight clothing with a particular emphasis on the legs and bum. I also quite like wearing as high a heel as possible. Anything from 5.5 to 9 inch heels!

I should probably warn you in advance that I spent 95% of my time in 'boymode' at the moment due to work/family situations. I present 100% male in public, with masculine features. I dress mostly in the bedroom and for kink events... I just thought I should say that now so you don't get the wrong impression before we move forward :)

I have a massive fetish for giving oral. I prefer extended, gentle teasing 'worship' rather than facefucking as a general rule, but anything involving a willy in my mouth is bliss :)

I am a big fan of various things such as Warhammer 40k, Lord of the Rings, Sci-Fi, Marvel, videogames. Never watched any anime but would be open to it!

I enjoy cuddles, drinks, sex,, gaming, and kink.

I would love to learn more about things like D&D, LARPING, and that kinda thing!

I live at home so I don't always have the chance to dress.

Please let me know if this might be you! Send me your geek CV :)

Contact: Exploring_Alice on Fetlife
Gmail: [email protected]

Not sure if I'll get any replies for this but I'm looking for a female to be involved in a "slut enabling" relationship. It's not too dissimilar to cuckolding/hotwifing only we don't have a sexual relationship of our own at all obv

Essentially its a purely online/financial relationship where I would finance your means to go and enjoy yourself, buying you clothes/underwear of your choosing and potentially paying for nights out and hotel rooms depending on how it goes in return for pictures, stories, possibly the return of the used clothing and such

if anyone is interested/curious just email me at [email protected] and we can talk ^-^

>>24058143
skype is riperoniii
assuming you are still by here

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>>24058143
Hi. I don't know if I can be a great watcher or sentinel to stop you from watching fetish or extreme porn but I can watch a movie or an anime series with you and talk about fantasy books or listen to classical music as I'm currently exploring that genre.

I speak 3 languages and a little of a fourth one as I'm European.

Skype:cam325994

If anyone is interested in chatting then I'm free.

>>24062768
I can make a vocaroo or something later tonight or tomorrow, I'm stepping out for now. I'll make a hypno recording as I'd never be able to pick something to read.

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>ASL
19/m/australia

>IRC name
no irc only kik deku64


>General Kinks/Fetishes
femdom, milfs, traps, (that sort of shit)

>Your experience/experiences
none im a virgin

>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
none

>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Traps trigered it

>Kinkiest thing you've done?
jacked off in itnresitiung ways

>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
anything see above

kisi where r u pleb

>>2405That's exactly me. Add me on skype:
Sebyek

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>ASL
18 female america
>IRC name
i dun use it
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Bondage, Toys, Bimboification, ddlg, D/S, servitude, sensory deprivation, intoxication, pain?, 24/7 servitude, spanking, creampies, impreg, lactation, degredation, pee, cock worship
>Your experience/experiences
i dont really have much experience. i have a daddy though
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
my parents found my skype logs and toys and almost disowned me at a young age.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
at first i realized i wanted attention, but i realized I couldn't manage a normal relationship when i realized i wanted to be owned and i wanted to give someone my everything.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
i wanna try creampies, more bondage, intoxication w/ pills or liquor.
ive been feeling really maternal and anytime i bring up wanting creampies he just...kinda freezes up
i just wanna talk to people, not find anyone to do anything with.

>>24062434
kik utah.anon69

>>24067442
Sounds like he isn't in your kink-range if he freezes up on stuff.

Wanting attention is usually the case for most, but keeping it up with that guy might put you at odds at some point.

So, talk away.

>>24067946
i think i want more than just attention now. and the creampies thing come from wanting kids someday which i know he's scared of. i'm not really sure how to bring up my fetishes to him. i'm really inexperienced and we've only done things a handful of times. i think we go good together it's just the communication thing is hard.

>>24068002
Everything doesn't have to be weird but it's always good to discuss with him and tell him you have preferences. Be sure to bring up that you feel either scared or insecure talking about it.

Naturally you should only do it when you feel ready in some way. And while it might be hard you'll have an easier time when it lifts straight out of you and you tell him what you really want, even outside of your fetishes.

Trust me, you'll feel like stuff is much easier if you get to say your piece before you feel it eating you up, the last thing you want is to fee miserable.

I'm barely starting the trip down the rabbit hole, wearing panties is the norm and not the exception now. I have a decent collection right now, but does anyone know good places to pick up the really cute kinds with bows, pastel colors, frills, etc. ?

>>24068136
Etsy is a good place, Japanese shops (check /jp/), fetish shops and online ones as well.

Shops that specializes in lingerie, etc.

Google is your friend.

I don't now if this really belongs in a kink/fetish thread but here goes anyway...

29 year old married female.... I've been married for 4 and a half years and about 6 months ago we agreed to an open relationship. There are a couple of reasons but it's mostly because beyond a little spanking, he's pretty vanilla while I've always had a need for rougher sex.

Fast forward a few months and I haven't really acted on our agreement but decide that I'm ready to do so.... I make a profile on a certain website (I'm sure that you guys can guess which) and, within days, I'm meeting up with someone for drinks and after only a few, we go back to his place and have some fun.

And I haven't been able to stop since then.... I don't see them more than once and only meetup to fuck. I find that I have no interest in the "relationship" part at all. I meetup with a different guy several times a week, usually.

Problem is, I'm pretty sure that my husband didn't have this in mind at all when he agreed to an open relationship.... But I'm finally getting to act on my dirty slut fantasies and I'm enjoying it far too much to want to stop.

Thoughts? Opinions?

>>24068241
Can you just tell him you have a slut fantasy?

>>24068241
It all varies really, a thing for most couples is that there will always be a odd-one no matter what; but don't let this deter you! The complicated part is understanding carnal needs vs emotional needs and this is very hard to ever translate to someone; especially if they are vanilla. People see sex and all of its needs as a gateway to a fundamental trust with someone, in many ways the same way kink can work.

You'll see people in way kinkier relationships "whore" out their partner in some way, even forcing them to take on a gender they usually don't like, the list goes on; but the main point to th at one is that while they might do these things to their partner-- The fundamental part of them that matters more than just a desire is what is in their hearts.

Though you opened up on a open relationship, you have to remind yourself that he is completely free to do the same thing with someone else and if he is as vanilla as you say; this might come to be emotional and tender when it comes to sex. Chances are he might not find the idea appealing to have normal hook-up sex with someone (I don't know him).

The hard part is conveying how you hardly care about the sexual part on an emotional level with others and that your "heart"/emotions for your husband as an individual far outweighs 'sex' as an emotional stigma. There are people in successful open marriages that are very "monogamous" in their emotional value towards eachother, but suddenly go "poly" as a need/desire and can appreciate what makes them trusteachother.

You would go through water and fire for your husband, but you would only go through pavement for someone else.

>>24068283
This pretty much completely sums it up for me.

I love and adore my husband but, sexually, I need more than he can offer. I don't care in the slightest about being in a relationship with someone.

I simply want to get fucked. Used and abused and move on. Period.

And I really don't care if he does the same, even if it involves more of a "connection" with whoever he decides to do it with.

I just don't think that he would understand what I need... And, even if he did, I'm pretty sure that he wouldn't be okay with it, especially not to the extent that I've been taking it and want to continue to take it.
I've been fucked by more men in the last few months than I was before I was married and I wasn't exactly a prude back then either.

I guess I'm also wondering what the general opinion would be on whether it's necessary to bring all of this up to him since he agreed to an open relationship in the first place.

>>24068354
Generally speaking, you usually don't want to hear about what someone else in a relationship is up to during an open one unless it's a poly relationship. Or one where the open-relationship is the goal and they are both fine with discussing their sexual (or non-sexual) experiences.

If your guilty conscious keeps eating away at you then there is a fundamental problem in yourself, and that is most likely that you know how he would react if you did tell him.

What I'd tell you to do is to just tend to him in the most calmest manner possible when you get to spend time with him, I'm not sure how often you tell him that you love him; Not giving relationship advice even though it's pretty much just that at a glance. Just tipping you on stuff to make his emotions subconsiously know much more that he means the world to you without having the open-relationship doubts that plagues certain couples.

Being sexually active can feel like a million issues at times, and it will always complicate matters due to how society is built up.

>>24068421
I don't think that it's guilt so much as it's just wondering if I've taken it beyond "open relationship" territory, I guess.
I know how he would feel about it and that does play a role... Not because I feel bad about what I've done but because I care about what he thinks and how he feels.

I suppose you're right, though. We didn't really say anything about sharing details or anything like that.

I don't feel like anything has really changed in our relationship as a result, either. At least not in a negative way... If anything has changed at all, it's that my overall mood/emotional well-being has improved.

For me, sex is sex. I've always been the kind of person that can enjoy it while remaining emotionally detached and I've never felt like there was anything wrong with simply enjoying the physical aspects of sex and nothing more.

He, on the other hand, comes from a much more conservative background... One that he has, in recent years, broken away from quite a bit but which he'll never really fully get away from. For him, sex can't be separated from emotions, at least not completely... And it's for that reason that I have my doubts as to whether he'll take advantage of our agreement or not.


I've always had a huge gangbang fantasy that I've been seriously considering fulfilling this month for my birthday... I've taken certain steps to arrange it but could still back out... This, for example, is something that he would never understand and would not be okay with.

I suppose that I'm also wondering if I should avoid certain things, like the gangbang, that I know that he would be upset about if he found out.... Which would suck because, again, it has been a huge fantasy for a long time and it's one of quite a few things that I know that he wouldn't like, so I'm wondering where I should draw the line or if I should just do as I wish.

>>24068491
You might be an old friend that I used to speak to and left behind, since I figured you would have find your own way since yours is a hill where most of it needs to be handled delicately learned by yourself. (And I was away from the computer for the most part at the time too)

On to the drawing-the-line part.

It's quite hard to put a finger on exactly where you should draw the line really, the issue mostly lies in the people you meet and if they would not be discreet about it if they found you 'outside the bedroom' one day. I'd say that you should try your gangbang fantasy to have it out of the way, so that you can say that you finally did it.

Just be sure that you celebrate your birthday with your husband and not suddenly go away on the same day to have your holes filled, since that could potentially be an emotional wedge somehow.

>>24068559
I might be, huh? If it's a friend met on 4chan, then probably not... But I've had more than my fair share of friends that have up and left that I've met other places online, so who knows. You'd have to be a little more specific.

I do what I do away from home... I've lived in this area for 4 and a half years, the same amount of time that I've been married, and I'm not exactly a social butterfly anyway (outside of the bedroom, so to speak)... So the chances of that are pretty low.

The gangbang, for instance, would be about 4 hours from where we live... And yeah, I definitely wouldn't have it on my birthday but around it. That day would be spent with him, doing whatever it is that we end up doing, and I'd come up with an excuse to travel (which I frequently do anyway).

>>24068581
No need to be specific, you might be or you might not be someone I knew/know, if you wanted to add me then that's a different story entirely.

Do you take pictures when you travel? that would probably help in some way.

I can't exactly judge you if you want to go through with the gangbang, if anything I'd encourage it but not at the cost of something that would destroy you in some way. The real issue is in the fact that it's too hard to convey how you treat sex as sex and not as a separate entity in their most common occurances. Maybe your conscious would feel better if he actually did meet up with someone? but again I still stay with what I say about emotions > sex in your situation.

I want to explore my fetishes and meet people who will belp me out with this.

What sites do you folks use to meet other kinky people? Fetlife says they aren't accepting new members.

>>24069036
Wha? it's weird that they would not be accepting new accounts...

Girlfriend and I are probably going to fuck in the next twenty minutes. Any suggestions on what I do to her?

>>24069036
I'll answer later on in the day! for now I'm away so I'll write to you as much as possible when I get back.

>>24069036
Ugh. I know. I regret deleting my account a month ago. Fuck.

I guess this is kink related. I don't know where else to ask. I'm a shy girl, who's reeeeally turned on by the thought of giving a guy a blowjob with another girl. I'll eventually want a ffm threesome, but one step at a time. All of my friends are vanilla and not into giving oral. Where would I find a dirty girl to do it with me?

>>24069187
Well fetlife would be great but I guess you can't do that now. Where do you live?

>>24069197
Los Angeles.
I'm thinking I should just look for couples looking for a female. I guess it would kind of be a package deal so I dont have to worry about setting everything up and finding both the female and male.

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>ASL
22/mtf non op/USA/switchy sub
>General Kinks/Fetishes
all things feet, bdsm, lots of things but not everything under the umbrella "impact play," humiliation, feet, spit, feet, tickling, gentler stuff like whispering/cuddling, feet, cbt, sph.
>Your experience/experiences
irl, i've sucked plenty of toes and played sub to a few girls, not much really. online, i rp a whole lot about all kinds of s&m bullshit, no pictures.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
a few people in my past, they were accepting but most have drifted away. only recently told someone close to me, supposedly we're gonna make something happen.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
the oldest kink for me is feet, and i've had it as long as i can remember, before i knew what sex was, before i noticed girls. saw some feet in a magazine at like age 4 or something and remember throwing it across the room from embarrassment. otherwise i just got into a lot of stuff with my first serious girlfriend and looked at a lot of porn since age 11ish. i've looked at a lot of stuff, idk when i realised any of the softer stuff. i developed passing intrests in things like bruises and cuckolding and could probably trace those histories, but those arent always my jam (particularly with internet strangers).
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
pay money to be laughed at, or cum in my former room mates shoes. it's a tie.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
most of the things i've listed. because to a lot of people i'm not too attractive, plus i'm shy.

PLEASE consider domming me. i'm playing dom for all these people and getting very little in return. i'm mostly doing it to feel desirable, but i'm a sub at heart. no boys unless you really think you're that special. i'm dealing with too many boys right now. trans girls, cis girls, queers, enbies, all welcomed and encouraged and loved.

>>24069430
kik freakybranch

>>24065588
>>24065588
>>24065588
bumping this post, I got a great response so i'm staying here with renewed optimism that someone will take my money

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>>24069708

>ASL
21 / Female / Louisiana
>IRC name
none, never gone in the irc
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Bloodplay, gore/guro, abuse, bruises, cutting, knives, choking, D/S, ropeplay/bondage, humiliation, scarification, sadomasochism, biting, clawing, petplay{?}, facesitting, spanking/slapping, marking, impregnation/breeding
>Your experience/experiences
not much out of biting, spanking and lite d/s s/m
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
only my close friend, he thinks it's weird but likes hearing me talk about it.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
ehhh...i started to self harm when i was young but found it made me "excited" and so i looked into seeing if others liked it how i did found the porn and got hooked and craved more.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Sadly nothing cause i have no one who would be willing to try anything out with me, damn vanilla people.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
basically everything! I've only really done my kinks with myself in play time and never have experienced it with a partner.

>>24070141
not in the USA but your kinks align pretty well with mine. are you a dom or a sub?

>>24070154
I'm more of a switch i think. I like the idea of being abused and tortured but i love to dish out some pain.

>>24070161
willing to chat on skype about bloodplay, knives and cutting etc?

>>24070172
I would to talk to others about it sure!
Um can you drop yours...i rather not post my skype and get spammed again.

>>24070181
sure, usedglowstick

>>24070181
I'd like to talk to you about humiliation and being a switch.26/m
average18x

I'm curious... Is there any reason not to get toys from Amazon? I really want to get a strap on, and the ones I find on amazon are up to and higher than 50% off the ones I find in stores... I never really use Amazon though. Is there any reason not to just order one fro m there? Why are they so much cheaper?

>>24070236
main reason i think would be because they might show up similar products when you're browsing with someone that you don't want to see that kind of stuff

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>ASL

24/M/USA

>General Kinks/Fetishes

Violent, hair-pulling, mind-blanking air-humping sex, typically involving rope, toys, leather and blindfolds. Making women feel like animals is my kink, so I like forcing orgasm, submission, using knives, light choking, etc. I'm up for anything, so long as it's SSC and doesn't involve scat or piss. It depends on the partner and what she's into.

>Your experience/experiences

3 years, mainly D/s. I got started in college.

>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?

I'm generally discreet.

>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?

Whips and leather got associated with sex early on for me, mainly because of jokes on sitcoms. Femdom never did anything for me, until I found out that maledom was more popular and was more to my taste. That was when I was a teenager.

I've also always been into trashy vampire fiction, for reasons that are obvious in retrospect.

>Kinkiest thing you've done?

Threw a girl's roommate out into the adjacent room so I could tie her up. I'm pretty sure the roommate heard the resulting festivities, but I was horny and didn't care.

>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?

Threesome, but bisexual unattached women who are into that sort of thing are rare in my part of the world, and the best candidate moved before we got anywhere. Besides that, I'd never want to try it with someone who wasn't 100% interested.

>>24070236
Check the retailer's online page if they say who sells the product. Amazon sells for more money because they need to earn some dough. And always browse amazon and similar in Incognito/private mode.

>>24070266
Anything I should be looking for in particular on the sellers online page? I don't really care about it recommending me things.

>>24069036
The way I find stuff is searching for local websites, sometimes using Fetlife to see if someone made an event but for the most part it's local websites.

I.e Google the town or vicinity or the closest biggest city, then just add "Bdsm" meetup to that.

>>24069202
Packaged deals does come with that, most younger couples (in their 30s) are always looking for another girl in LA so you are pretty set, just be patient and search google for a place where kinky stuff happens.

>>24070141
You sound like a blast to watch if you happened to play some bloody games, Corpse party wud b kewl.

You sure your close friend isn't into you? what tools of the trade do you use when you play around with your blood-stuff?

If you suddenly find a partner it should not be an amateur, permanent marks on your body is usually a nono unless; you actaully want that.

>>24070236
Usually cheaper because they don't manufacture stuff as much. Stores need to be payed for the space it's located in and then the work hours of the employee.

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Bumping for the pets out there

>>24070141
Girls self-harming/cutting and bleeding really turns me on. Kik me jmozz00 23/m

>>24071590
Good lord.
I'm interested.

>>24071692
Join the irc with a temporary name then, just ask for me and I'll answer.

Otherwise ask here, what would you like to know?

>>24071007
I love bloody gore-y games. Corpse Party is an all time favorite, recently found a visual novel called Boyfriend To Death it's straight up horrorporn.
No he's so not into the blood and stuff but the bdsm stuff he is into, he just likes to listen to me ramble on about the recent gore/guro stuff i find. And i use razors and knives currently. And i like permanent marks i think they look lovely. I enjoy seeing and making new ones but ones that look nice.

>>24072105
Corpse Party is fun even if you don't like guro, you just have to appreciate it for what it is and it's quite the unnerving experience.

Ever done a permanent mark that looks like you had stitching? just do a vertical line then a bunch of smaller horizontal lines.

>>24072130
Nope i just do "surgical" lines i like to call them
Like a line going from between my boobs down to under my belly button. Cuts running along and wrapping my sides and ribs.
>still havent played the new corpse party feels bad man

>>24069187

Anon, this is us:
>>24065026

Send us a kik. Happy to take it slow and introduce you to all the fun of group play.

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>>24072268
Pic related!

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Bumping for the subs and pets out there

Ugh, finally past the Great Firewall, those chinese are way too uppity

>ASL
26/M/FL for the next week, China usually

>General Kinks/Fetishes
Pegging, anal play, extreme oral fixation, hebephile, recovering zoophile, have a massive squirting fetish, impregnation, cream pie and general pregnant girl fetish, cock worship

>Your experience/experiences
Got railed by my gay best friend in a hotel bathroom, absolutely massive dick, taught the gf how to squirt for the first time, trolling adam4adam for dudes with huge cocks that I can fuck/ and or suck

>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Aforementioned bff, reacted by initiating a fwb situation, watched me do some animal play once, SO and I would role play preg scenes, risky unprotected sex etc

>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
Started young, around ten, 11 or so, my first "imaginary friend" was an anthro female lioness, eventually started watching, reading/ writing furry smut, transitioned into getting it on with my pets(male on me, me on female), always had bi predilections, always felt I was average in the dick department so I became obsessed with huge swinging dicks, still can't tell you how the oral fixation developed, likely as a result of sucking my thumb till I was 19

>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Hotel room with bff, definitely

>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? There's a lot if still like to try, nothing overly extreme, but really it's a mix of living in a small tier two city in China, plus living on a small tropical island, there is a very small pool of true kinksters

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28/M/USA

Love chubby girls with big tits and daddy issues, cumming inside them, and fucking two of them at the same time. Also have a cheating fetish and a reverse NTR fetish, and would love to mix that with the creampies and threesomes, because I'm a fuvking fiend that way.

Also, trying to find a girl on here that I tried to E-dom into sexting with on kik. She didn't but she came like a freight train to the thought of it, poor thing

Kik: nunya_1987

>>24072843
Oh hey. We have a bit in common actually. I fit your description. I have daddy issues. And Im into cuckqueaning.
This is me:
>>24072759

>>24072865
Cool, hit me up on kik then

I've found that I have a delicate kink and one that I'm totally ashamed to ever admit to anyone.

I really love to see women pooping their pants.
I don't want scat play and I don't want toilet voyeurism and I don't want adult babies or age play-- that's all stuff that I've grown accustomed to tolerating, but it's not my fetish.

My fetish is any grown woman being unable to control her bowels (temporarily or otherwise). Regardless of the circumstances, I like the way it tents out in her pants and the expression on her face that is a bizarre mixture of relief and horror.

But how can I ask a girl to shit herself? How can I be like, "Here's this dumb funny thing that everyone talks about jokingly, and some people are totally revolted by-- and this is what makes me hard as diamond."

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bumping because some guy desu doesn't because shitty princess

>ASL
18/f/uk
>Skype name
pippasucks
>General Kinks/Fetishes
i like being told what to do, being controlled, called names, general submission. i also like kissing. this is unrelated. i also imagine being pushed into doing things i dont really want to do. nonconsent is very hawt but also scary (going to go hide under the bed now...)
>Your experience/experiences
does my imagination count? oh..
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
yes. one person. now i know never to tell people things :)
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
i still like vanilla ice cream but chocolate and strawberry also look good
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
i once borrowed a pen and didnt return it. i am the queen of rebels
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
kissing my best friend. because she is beautiful.

>>24072983
I know that I would never be up for that personally. You might have a hard time with finding a girl for that.
Maybe if you found another kink that touched you in the same ways? Relief and horror could probably be seen in some humiliation scenes.

>>24072865
Where do you live, and do you have some throwaway info to contact you?

We've been looking for a cuckquean with big tits and daddy issues for a while.

I'm not exactly sure how to ask this, but here goes.

I'm new to all this fetish stuff and I really want to find a woman who is into the whole mommy/boy thing. There seems to be a severe lack of folks with this fetish it seems.

If anyone is into this please let me know!

Also, can anyone give me tips on how to be a good little boy?

>>24074667
There's a lack of women into it. You can probably find a woman who can pretend to be into it if you've got cash to burn.

>>24029869

my new thing is being a tiny boy and having a giantess trap me and use me as her slave, fucking herself with my entire body as if i was a dildo, putting me inside of herself, stuff like that. never knew how much it turned me on until like 15 min ago.

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Because spidergagged and bumped

>>24076662
That's a dental gag.

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Daddy looking for a little Princes
Age 20
KIK:TheElementB

kik chrisredd121

I would love to Kik with you as a similarly fetished person I think we could help each other out also I have been contemplating the hotwife lifestyle with my girlfriends and I would love another person's thoughts on it. My kik is jackwalters420

>>24076790
Yes, yes it very much is.

I had to bump, page 10 and got some GO to play.

I blame that.

>>24076662
>dat stream of spit
I don't know why, but this arouses me, very much.

>>24029901
you a psycho? wanna abuse me? im depressed and wanna die anyways, i don't mind if you choke too hard.

>>24077210
gender and age?

>>24029869

What's the best way to find a play partner for kinky shit?

I've tried fetlife but everyone is unattractive, fat, taken, or super stuck up.

I have dominant/sadistic fantasies and I want to practice them properly, not just slap random bar floozies around (even though that sounds hot).

I actually really like the idea of daddy/little, aftercare, consent, respect etc and I want to approach women properly, and handle scenes properly as well...but it feels kind of 'beta' to admit that I'm learning.

Like if I'm a dom I should be totally confident already.

This is actually one issue I had with people on FL - I had bratty subby girls say that I should just get on my knees and suck her master's dick with her because I would never be a dom with my attitude. (which was that i preferred to watch instead of join in when she got her ass whipped. i dont want to hurt her, doing that shit without experience is a bad idea. i know that much.)

Guess I'll do one of these.

>ASL
18/M/US East
>IRC name
Doobies
>General Kinks/Fetishes
I'm an all around sub.
Tie me up, flog me, insult me, feminize me, milk me, I'm into it all.

However, I draw the line at ballbusting, scat, vomit, and anything involving blood.

>Your experience/experiences
Only what I've imagined unfortunately.
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
Nope. Never discussed it with anyone.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I don't even know man. And I do still like vanilla tbqh.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
That one time I dildoed my butt with a marker for a girl on webcam I guess.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
The number one thing I really want to try is pegging. Just the thought of being bent over by a girl and her relentlessly ramming my tight butthole drives me insane.

>>24077249
Nothing wrong in admitting you're new to something, some like the idea of evolving together as well.

You hardly seem confident and there's a difference and people will feel your signals if you're just trying the waters with your confidence or you have a personality that just pours of confidence.

Consider yourself successful if you can walk up to a girl and tell her what you are going to do with 200% confidence and not even a sliver of doubt that it might not work, let alone that you were 'only' trying.

>>24077262

yeah see that's the confidence that's so far out of reach, and probably the reason i have a dom fantasy in the first place. i wonder if most doms are natural alpha males and so that translates into their sex life, or if a lot are shy or have less control and so the fantasy allows them to transform.