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Female dom reporting in. Will answer questions within reason.

>>23898584
Suppose you flip two coins, one of them comes up heads. What are the odds the other one is also heads?

I want to be a gentle affectionate bear who lifts and does sweet things. The girls that tend to be attracted to me like my bear look and the beard and how I carry myself but then expect me to choke them and throw them around in bed... But I like being affectionate and silly. I don't want to be humiliated but I'd not mind if the girl was rough with me.

Is there a class of femdoms that look for my style? How do I find women like this?

>>23898592
ID change because swapping from mobile, but yeah, great question. Now, what we need to realize first of all is that a theoretical coin flip as a single event has a probability of 1/2 or 50 % for either side.

From what you have told me, it is clear that the option of getting two tails is out of the question - one of them is heads for certain. You didn't tell me that the *first* one comes up heads, you're telling me *one* of them did. The only option we can rule out is two tails, meaning that in your scenario, I find that the odds of the other one being heads as well are 1/3 (our three options: heads + heads, tails + heads, heads + tails). Depending on how the question is worded, some people might argue that the odds are 1/2, but that's exactly why you asked it, I bet.

Coins do not have "memory", meaning that the probability of it coming up heads again when it has just come up heads nine times in a row is still 50 %, but the probability of the *sequence* ten heads in a row is 1 in 1024. I do sometimes struggle to wrap my head around probability, think most of us do. It's pretty fascinating. Now, are you going to give me one of those "train A departs from station A..." problems or do you maybe want to know something about my lifestyle?

First and only femdom experience was I wanted to try a fetish I had since I was 14, payed a girl on Craigslist and broke a rib and got an orbital fracture. Not sure if I'll do it again because it was an expensive trip to the hospital and my orbital will crack a lot easier now, apparently.

>>23898907
>broke a rib and got an orbital fracture
You simply must tell this story.

>>23898907
>a fetish I had since I was 14
Give us the details, dirty boy

>>23898584
Would you be willing to dominate me over the internet? Like kik or something.

>>23898938
No. Online domming doesn't give me anything.

>>23898929
>>23898933

Well, when I was like, 12 I was really into like, Oil Wrestling videos and I couldn't get why, eventually I realised it was when they would get their ass in the other girl's face. So I moved on to facesitting, stopped doing it for me, butt drops, stopped doing it for me, eventually got into Face Busting and Japanese Beatdown porn.

Don't know why, but one day I thought, "It's not even prostitution, what could they actually get me for if I payed for this?", so I put it up on craigslist.

We started off with butt drops because I was a little hesistant about what kind of pain would be involved, it wasn't so bad but she landed on kind of a hard angle at one point, thought my stomach was just tiring so we did a bit of facesitting and then moved on to the face busting. She sat on a chair and I grabbed onto the arms and she kicked my face in for what felt like forever, but on film turned out only to be about 7 minutes. I was getting real dizzy and couldn't sit up, no idea why at the time, probably concussed by I didn't say the safe word so she slammed my head on the ground and told me to get up, kicked my head a few times while I was down, kicked my ribs, the head didn't hurt as much as the ribs, all my breath got taken out of me, it was the most intensely painful thing I've ever experiences (later learnt I broke a rib during the butt drops and she kicked in that broken rib). She then sat on my face until the time was up which felt like forever, gave me her blood soaked panties and left. I was embarrassed as hell so I threw out all my expensive stuff and called an ambulance and said I was robbed.

>>23898965
>I was robbed.
Of your masculinity lol.

>>23898965
Oil wrestling is a gateway drug, it seems. Were you too dizzy to use your safeword or did you somehow feel like you didn't want it to stop?

>>23898975

Gahaha, if that's the case then technically I wasn't lying. Never been as embarrassed as when the police officer gave me all my stuff and told me not to throw out my shit in the hotel bin if I'm gonna lie. Had to pay a fine for filing a false report but I would have liked to see what was going through the guy's mind when he saw the video.

>>23898979

Ya, definitely seems that way. I'm not sure what I was thinking, but I honestly think I wasn't thinking clearly enough to use it. Looking back on it I feel like I would have, but it's hard to judge how I was feeling at the time.

>>23898607
Yes. There is. I am not a domme who goes for bears personally, but I know for a fact that there are dommes who are into it, the combination of big and strong plus docile and sweet really speaks to them. In fact, I would say that most other dommes I have encountered prefer that phenotype over twinky subs. That's all I have for you, sadly I can't conjure a domme for you out of thin air.

>>23898985
Was it just some random girl in need of a quick buck? To me it is very apparent that if you are going to do that type of stuff with a complete stranger a spoken safeword only isn't going to cut it.

why do people with femdom fetish exhibit such extremely retarded behaviour? like this guy >>23898965

Why did I have to end up with this fetish?

>>23899031
Well, I find retarded behavior in male subs increases with time spent deprived of indulging in their "fetish". Desperation, simply put.

>>23898886
how do I go about finding a girl that's into this stuff in real life? I'm a pretty normal guy outside of the fetish thing, so I only attract relatively 'normal' girls, and I have never brought up this fetish in my relationships, I feel like it is too extreme and could change the way the girl sees me. Any tips? Keep in mind I'm heading off to university this year, so there will be a wider mix of different personalities, but still I have no idea how to find a girl that would be into this stuff. Are there certain traits I could look for? Is this kink really that uncommon in women, that I would have to look for bdsm meet ups etc to find one?

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>tfw no qt white dom girl to peg my chink boipucci and call me gook

There is truly no reason to live.

My gf is really into being dom'd but I really don't know what to do exactly. I know she likes being tied down but I have no idea where to go from there.

Anyone got some ideas or experience?

>>23898607
Yes, domme here and I love big rugged manly men. Bears are my favorite

I'm not sure how you can find more dommes into them but we do exist

>>23899122
Great question. It is a sad reality that admitting to being a submissive man will more often than not make a vanilla girl either freak out or think less of you. Most people will tell you to go on Fetlife and find some munches to attend, which may or may not work out for you depending on where you live.

Purely dominant women are indeed pretty uncommon. You would probably have an easier time finding a switch, but if you lack a dominant bone in your body having to switch is not going to make you happy. If you are more into the gentle femdom stuff then grooming a "normal" girl into it can help her bring out her inner domme that she might not realize is in there. Of course, you want her desires to steer you, not the other way around, so if she is obviously not into it on any level then there's no point.

I think a lot of women who seem bossy are in fact subs in the bedroom, so that's not really a marker to go by. Instead I would look for the ones that are a bit withdrawn but still carry themselves with some confidence. If you are into things like degradation and pain you will need to get a dommy domme in a BDSM context.

>>23899128
I hope you're female, otherwise you're in the wrong thread. I don't have any experience with domming females, sorry.

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>>23898607
>tfw attractive bearded hairy guy
>all i want is to be beaten into submission by feminine dominant gf

>>23899194
Beaten into submission only? Not into a bloody pulp?

>>23899297
Do you prefer guys that openly say they are submissive? Or do you like to meet a guy, and slowly mould him to your preferences as he is unaware of your dominant tendencies?

Also you wouldn't happen to be from Australia would you?

>>23899303
I like subs that are open about it but I also like corrupting innocent boys. I did the latter with my current sub, took him from vanilla to knowing just how deep the subby rabbithole of pain and shame goes.

I'm not from Australia, no.

>>23899315
Thats too bad! About the Australia thing I mean...

I'm surprised no one has asked you this yet but, what are your particular kinks? And when did you first come across "femdom"?

Like the other guy that mentioned, being interested in dominant women is difficult, its hard to express the fact that you're submissive in fear of the reaction.

>>23899321
Man, Sydney here. Are you average or good looking real Australian(British descent) If so, get a Tinder, message birds, propose a date, get them over, offer them to get kinky, profit. I got pegged and spanked on 20+ hook ups.

I'm going to just throw in what I wrote in the kink thread.

>ASL
29/F/States
>IRC name
N/A
>General Kinks/Fetishes
Femdomme, orgasm denial, forced orgasm, using toys on bound and restrained subs, light blood play, light electroplay, light painplay, training, foot worship, body worship, face sitting, voyeurism
>Your experience/experiences
Have owned multiple slaves/subs/pets some were live in long term, have partaken in every fetish listed above
>Does anyone IRL know of your kinks/fetishes, how have they reacted?
My close long term friends know, they've interacted with some of my subs. They seem fine with it, the ones that are uncomfortable I just tone down or don't expose them to it.
>Do you remember when you first realized that vanilla wasn't enough? what was the trigger for that specific fetish?
I saw a program on late night TV about female dommes and it turned me on, started doing internet research, found my niche.
>Kinkiest thing you've done?
Lending my slave out and watching him being used (did this with a female slave as well)
Kept a slave in a cage by my bed on the weekends when he slept over, fucked his wife with a strapon while he was in chastity in the cage.
>Anything you'd like to try but haven't managed to? if so, why?
I'd like some more group situations but generally don't get too involved with the 'real scene' because it can be full of cliques and inflated egos. Would enjoy live in male and female subs together for a period of time.
I'm not looking for subs at the moment, I have 2 that are a handful, I am cool to chat casually about this kind of stuff but I will stop responding if you get strange and needy. Otherwise happy to answer questions and offer advice

>>23899153
I'm a guy. I was hoping someone in here would maybe have a few pointers or something.

>>23899336
you make it sound so easy haha, im avg/good looking however I dont have fb so no tinder either, or my own place!

>>23899379
Ethnicity and looks do matter. Truth be told, if non-Brit heritage, you are always second class here, especially for women.
>no place
Meet them up in any cafe, chat up, go to their place. Or.... Get a better job and rent some place.

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What does the /femdom/ thread think about chastity? I know there are a lot of people who are into chastity for femdom reasons, but do the domme's of /soc/ like keeping their subs in chastity or is it more of a hassle than it's worth?

>>23899397
I got a CBS 9000 by mistake and my dick was too big for it and broke it ( it was silicone) I was going to try chastity play with my gf but it broke. I'm now trying to convince her to do pegging but she's vanilla and very submissive

>>23899000

Ya, though to be honest it's kinda what I wanted. The guys in the videos get absolutely fucked up, I got away pretty easy with a fractured orbital and broken rib, but like I said, it hurt a lot more than I was expecting and the concussion puts you way out of it, so I likely won't be doing it again.

>>23899031
Vivre et apprendre, we were all young once. I wanted to do it, so I did it, better than going my whole life not knowing.

>>23899409
If you don't mind me asking, what are your measurements?

I had a few plastic ones before deciding on stainless steel, and it took a couple tries of that to find a good fit, but if you know general kind of size maybe I could recommend one if you're still interested?

You can find stainless ones on ebay or etsy for relatively cheap from smaller sex shops like ardourcrafts and stuff like that.

>>23899321
I guess "submissive" can sound pretty drastic to someone who is conditioned to associate it with weakness.

I'm not about to give a comprehensive list of all my "kinks", but I am a sadist and I love degrading my subs, so those are the two main domains that I am interested in. I first came across D/s in the context of maledom online in the early 00's, then eventually realized that there was such a thing as femdom as well. I have had sadistic desires as long as I can remember though.

>>23899357
You're going to have more luck in the general kink thread. >>23887017

>>23899397
I fundamentally dislike chastity, it is a hassle and doesn't give me much. Just because you lock a dick away doesn't mean that it isn't the center of the universe and everything revolves around it anyway, even more so than before.

>>23899459
There's a chastity thread also. >>23888849

>>23899485
Thanks, somehow I overlooked that thread.

>>23899485
I'm aware of the chastity thread, I was just curious of your opinion, as it's a related link for a lot of people. Thanks for the snark though :^)

>>23899516
Haha, if there's one thing in this world you can count on it's me delivering snark. Seriously though, my opinion on chastity probably comes off as harsh but that is mostly because chastity sometimes seems synonymous with femdom and I want to provide a counterpoint to that with my dislike of it. I have actually tried it out with a former sub who was into it, but it didn't do much for me. My biggest problem with it is that I want dick access on a whim.

>>23899533
Yeah, that's probably the biggest issue that happens with my gf and I, is that whenever I eat her out or what have you she just ends up wanting to get fucked really roughly, letting me out, and the roles end up switching around. Don't mind doing it, because it makes her happy and I don't really ever have a problem fucking her for a while without coming, but topping her when we fuck doesn't do a lot for me (which I suppose is fine because I'm the sub).

>>23899554
Does she identify as a domme or a switch?

So like guys, what do you like think of like kidnapping a boi and like hanging him up and then like he tries to escape and like you catch him and then like you beat him there and then until he's like coughing up blood and barely breathing?

>>23899583
this is like one of my fantasies by the way,so difficult to find someone that would be even remotely interested in this...

>>23899583

Gahaha, I suppose it must be obvious about my particular interest in this. It's incredibly sexy, but definitely be prepared for what you're getting into. It can be very expensive to repair yourself from this kind of thing.

>>23899469
It's D/S, not D/s, you stupid cunt. Submissive and Dominant are equals in terms of respect and recognition.

>>23899623
please have sex

>>23899573
I don't know if she really identifies as either to be honest. She is very much so in charge of our lives normally, I do all the household chores and make sure everything works well for her, and she likes to tease me and enjoys keeping me locked up and humiliating me, but at the same time, I don't really think it turns her on as much as it is just kind of fun for her.

But when we fuck, she likes being spanked, choked a bit and kind of tossed around as I be as much of an animal as I can. She certainly isn't a masochist, but her sadism is much more for entertainment than sexual pleasure if that makes sense.

And as far as the chastity thing goes, she doesn't really make it revolve around my dick, as much as it's just a way she knows I'm not jerking off while she's at work or cumming without her permission. That and she thinks it makes fucking my ass better, which I kind of agree with.

>>23899623
I was unaware that holding down the shift key embodies due respect and recognition of the Submissive population, Mr. Aussie Man. I profusely apologize to any Submissives offended by my finger being released from said key prematurely.

>>23899628
I have enough of furry pie to be a white knight for some dump bitch, omega faggot.
>>23899642
Apologies granted. Don't bullshit, "D/s" usage is a common thing for dump tops. It's called BDSM, not BDsM.

>>23899660
please get some vitamin D in your life

>>23899640
I feel like this is quite common. Do you wish she would get more sexual satisfaction out of it, or that she would be more of the aggressor in bed?

>>23899662
Fuck off, cuck. Plenty of D where I live.

>>23899705
Yeah, it'd be nice. When she gets into that mindset she is pretty good at it, but I can tell she doesn't really get sexual satisfaction out of the roleplay part of it.

I make her cum a lot and she seems to be on board with the denial thing, but I wish she was actually into the domination and aggression part of it in a sexual fulfillment for herself way rather than a having fun while satisfying my fetishes way.

Even if it wasn't anything crazy, I'd love for her to come home from work and order me to eat her out while she played around on her phone or the xbox or something.

>>23899880
I can certainly understand that. I pity subs who have no choice but to feel like they are imposing their kinks/fetishes on their partner when all they want is for her to take the lead and shape them according to her wants instead.

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what are the type of kinks maybe others are into, that crossing the line for you anons?

>>23900384
>dom turns sub after sex
EVERY TIME ANON, EVERY TIME

>>23899093
This! This is why I'm really inexperienced with femdom play even though I would like to do more of it. Dudes doing stupid shit or attempting to force a dynamic on me when I met them 20 seconds ago is so very not attractive. I want a sub who's polite and that includes shit like not sending me unsolicitied dick pics, touching me without permission, etc.

are their women actually into small penis humiliation or is just pay for play girls online ?

>>23900523
>subs sending unsolicited dick pics
Wut..

>>23900384
the emotionless hand job god i love it, ex used to do this and i would cum in seconds.

>>23900529
There are probably dommy dommes who are into it without geing paid, but I care so little about dicks that I don't even care about humiliating someone with a small one.

>>23900533
It happens. The first thing I tell guys if I meet them online or give them my number is "Don't send me any photos unless I specifically ask for them." if they send me any, I no longer talk to them, you'd be surprised how many do.

>>23900529
I will do it sometimes, but only because I don't care about dick size at all, so it makes the whole penis size anxiety thing seem ridiculous, which makes me happy in some weird way if that makes sense.

For the femdoms
What do you think about sph, and strapon fucking a guy in his face and ass?

>>23900571
Gawd femanon!` they're clearly reading between the lines, you say that but you don't really mean it!

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>have femdom fetish
>also hate women
>also hook up with SHITLOADS of girls
>also a pushy sub and top from the bottom because women are generally useless at being dominant
>mfw some BDSM scene person tells me that i'm doing it wrong but i've gotten more action than ten of him will get in ten lifetimes

>>23898965

Great story. I'm into trampling and kicking, which I suppose is pretty similar? I've had a little success with Craigslist and Fetlife too. One of the girls I see is pretty well known for trampling, but she has certain limits and it's always fun hearing about how she discovered them due to some of the injuries she dealt out in the past - she has a good story about accidentally breaking a dude's nose and giving him a concussion. Why exactly anyone would ask a 195-pound woman to jump off a table onto their head is TOTALLY beyond me but there you go! I've managed to avoid any significant injuries beyond the usual bruises and little tiny high heel marks - the worst that happened to me was passing out when she stepped on my throat.

You gotta be careful as a Britbong though, apparently even relatively tame S&M stuff can fall under the "wounding or actual bodily harm" blanket. Consent, apparently, is not a valid legal defence if you're caught kicking someone in the bollocks.

I'm into financial domination too, I know it's regarded as a shit-tier fetish but there's something awesome about a girl giving so few shits about my wellbeing that she'll make me live off ramen for a week while she spends my food money on a new pair of shoes or something frivolous like that.

General domestic servitude as well - I'd genuinely be happy to just tidy someone's house and do the washing up while she watched TV and ignored me. Surprisingly few takers on that one. You'd think "no I'll clean the kitchen and weed the garden, you kick back and watch Jeremy Kyle" would be a more popular proposition than "I'll give you thirty quid to walk around on me for an hour" but there you go, I take what I can get.

It's a shame there aren't more British girls into this sort of thing.

>>23900600
same

>>23900600
You're still defining yourself by how many women give you access to their sex. So... How is that you being above them exactly?

>You gotta be careful as a Britbong though, apparently even relatively tame S&M stuff can fall under the "wounding or actual bodily harm" blanket. Consent, apparently, is not a valid legal defence if you're caught kicking someone in the bollocks.
I thought that was only for taking pictures of yourself doing extreme bdsm acts in the uk?
Though unless the sub dies or becomes a vegetable from one of the acts, they can't exactly prosecute since you wouldn't press charges.

>>23900601
Honestly, I just don't want there to be a catch in there somewhere, as far as the "I will totally clean your kitchen" thing. I'm waiting for you to be a thief or expect something out of me when you're done that we didn't talk about and I'm not prepared to give.

With walking on you, I know exactly when we're done. And also, there's something really fun about being allowed to be violent that's really emotionally satisfying. Knowing the person enjoys and wants it. I don't know.

Femdoms what do you think of sph and using a strapon on a guy face and ass?

>>23900650

I know certain types of BDSM 'porn' were banned a couple of years ago, facesitting being the most prominent, but actually engaging in BDSM acts can be illegal in itself.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R_v_Brown
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Laskey,_Jaggard_and_Brown_v_United_Kingdom

tl;dr some gay dudes have a good time doing depraved things to each other over an extended period of time, they get found out and are convicted of "unlawful and malicious wounding", despite claiming they all gave their full consent to the acts in question.

>>23900672

What you say makes perfect sense, I wouldn't want a strange dude in my home either. In all the time I've been meeting people from the internet I've never actually been to their place and I've never let them come to mine - we'll typically book a hotel room, or quite often it turns out they're able to use a friend's house or their parents' holiday home (NEVER again, her parents turned up unexpectedly and quite naturally wanted to know why there was a strange man lying on the dining room floor surrounded by various discarded pairs of shoes).

You're right about being violent too - girls are always terrified of hurting me when they try trampling for the first time, treading lightly and asking me if I'm okay every few seconds. After a while they start to get into it and you can see something switch in their eyes at the moment they realise they've got a license to stomp all over a guy. It's great fun.

To be honest, I'm asexual. Like, to the point where I don't even like seeing people naked. For me, being submissive confers a great psychological satisfaction and is always its own reward. You know that feeling you get when you've just changed your sheets and you get into bed and it's SO comfortable that it ticks a box on an almost spiritual level - way more than just a nice feeling against your skin? That's the feeling.

>>23900761
idk, I'd like to see someone prosecuted for that today. We'd probably get a new precedent

>>23900731
See >>23900567. Strapons are nice, but not something that my sexuality is centered around.

>>23900601
>passing out when she stepped on my throat
Hot.

>>23900761
That's adorable. I remember the first time I felt that. It was a really good day.

I kind of do know what you're talking about. Sounds like you have a pretty good idea of how to get that itch scratched, too, which is great.

>>23900784
Laws are so weird, aren't they? Instead of taking a bad law off the books they just keep it and don't enforce it- Like until 2008 vibrators were illegal in the state of Texas. Hope you are all keeping safe.

>>23900731
I bought a cheap strapon once and couldn't get it to fit me right. I'd honestly rather just use a toy instead of a psuedocock. Putting things in boy's mouths is always nice, though.

>>23900800
Well the law from those cases doesn't seem to be the issue, rather the "Paternalism of an unelected, unrepresentative group who use but fail to acknowledge that power" and the judges ideas of heteronormavity

>>23900672
I suppose it's a case of what kind of domination you're into?

Like to me there's nothing that gets me going about cleaning a woman's house, even if she's ordering me to do it. Unless I'm being mercilessly teased while doing it, then punished if I do a bad joke or there's a reward waiting for me. So I guess for some femdoms there's nothing that gets them going from ordering someone to do it.

That being said, having someone walk around on me doesn't butter any turnips either.

>>23900794

It was terrifying. She was walking around on my chest and must have simply decided to try something new; she put her foot on my throat and said "is this okay?" to which I gave her a thumbs up (kinda difficult to get your words out with someone squashing your ribs) and she started to press down. Having your breath cut off isn't so much of a problem - most people are able to hold their breath for at least a minute or two - it's the blood flow to your brain being stopped that takes you on a trip to dreamland. It must only have been a few seconds of rapidly becoming very light-headed before I realised something bad was about to happen and thought about tapping her ankle to signal that I needed her to stop. That was the last thing I remember. I came to about thirty seconds later by her reckoning. She said she hadn't been paying attention and only noticed something was wrong because my unconscious body started to twitch like I was having some sort of seizure.

Amazing. Terrifying, but amazing.

>>23900836
Well, nothing really would get me going about it sexually, but... It would kind of be like having magical little fairies come by and do all of your work for you in the night. Which would be fun on a different level. I was more responding to the idea that anon thought it was strange that it's not popular.

>>23900840
I like this story a lot. Worth hearing, kind of hot/10.

>>23900840
"Hot" and "terrifying" are synonyms, don't you know. Sounds like a blood choke. Could have ended badly.

>>23900858
I'm now imagining little bondage fairies who break into your house at night and clean up if you've been a good dom

If you don't mind a question, care to elaborate the 'boy's mouths' thing in >>23900800

Like is it a power thing, or the fact that they're gagged or what?

>>23900872

Well, I say terrifying but I'd do it again in a heartbeat, even if it was only to have it filmed and see what actually happened to me while I was unconscious. It's not the sort of thing I'd be foolish enough to attempt alone and "hey, wanna do this thing that could possibly kill me if you got it wrong?" is not a proposal with which it would be reasonable to approach even a seasoned domme. Alas, maybe some things are best left to fantasy.

What is the most dangerous thing you have ever done to a sub?

>>23900908
I'm no stranger to edgeplay, on the contrary, and such activities always mean that there is an element of danger. For that reason I don't think it is relevant to try to determine "the most dangerous thing" I have ever done to a sub.

>>23900873
Putting things in the mouths of boys is one of my favorite pasttimes. Spit, fingers, blood, pussy juice, cum, strapons, piss... I have a bit of an oral fixation I think.

>>23900873
As a power thing, also it's a nice visual. Making someone lick and bite and suck things. My hand, a lot of the time. A toy I used on myself while they watched. Once I got to do the end of a crop which I really want a chance to do again. It's also fun to make boys eat their own cum because it's often something they feel a weird taboo about. Gagging is something I want to try, but I'm normally into a lot of back and forth talking, like call and response stuff so I'm not sure how it would work.

>>23900941
All of this sounds good to me... And yeah. I'm pretty orally fixated in general. I also really love biting and kissing and have to remind myself when I'm drunk not to bite or kiss random attractive people.

>>23900952
>>23900941

I don't get why cum eating feels as taboo as it does, but just the idea of doing it makes me feel really dirty in a less than fun way. So do most bodily fluids really, I guess that's my line for whatever reason. Though I'd go for other stuff which most people would say is beyond that.

Crop sounds fun, something to bite on idk.

Are there any Dominant females that have any interest in shin kicking?
One of my hottest experiences involved me being kicked so hard, so many times, that I had to rest on my knees for several minutes in the middle of the street because of how much pain i was in

>>23901008
I have no idea what semen even tastes like, but I am assuming it tastes like it smells, and I'm not about to let that anywhere near my mouth. My sub is expected to ingest cum on my whim though, because that is deliciously unfair.

>>23901023
You've never sucked a sub off?

>>23901047
Of course not.

>>23901008
>Though I'd go for other stuff which most people would say is beyond that.
like what mate

>>23901076
Not saying I'm a standout degenerate, but I'd be tied to a post and flogged before drinking piss. I'm guessing most people would take the piss drinking over pain, but for me it's just a fucking vile concept.

>>23901065
"Of course"? It's not inherently a submissive activity. Tie a sub on his back and sit on his face or maybe play with his ass as you slowly edge him and make him beg you to accept his offering?

>>23901097
>sucking dick isn't an inherently submissive activity
Okay man.
>>23901096
>tied to a post and flogged
Mah nigga

>>23901119
It doesn't have to be. But if it is for you that's okay. I don't let subs finish in my mouth but precum is a thing.

>>23901096
Most of the people I've met would take the pain over drinking piss.

>>23901023
Yeah, semen usually tastes pretty bad. It tastes less bad if the person has a decent diet. I dated a type 1 diabetic, his semen had no flavor, it was awesome. But his blood tasted fucking weird.

>>23901119
It's not though... It's just an action. Context determines if it's submissive or dominant. Is a 69 submissive on both sides then?

>>23900941
Ever considered using a sub as a full toilet or training them to consume your shit?

>>23899337
>states
>does not specify
The states is huge, bro. You should say which state or region at least.

>>23899337

Hoping you're still here!

How did you go about finding a female sub? I'm a male pet with a dominant female gf, and for the entirety of our (now two-year) relationship, we've wanted to add a female pet.

Trying to find a girl who is submissive is easy, but finding a girl who is submissive AND bi AND into petplay AND okay with being in a long-term poly relationship AND is mentally stable AND doesn't do all of the drugs AND is single? The closest we've ever gotten is a wonderful girl who would be very compatible with us if it weren't for the fact that she's very committed to her relationship with her boyfriend of three years.

Any advice would be very much appreciated!

>>23901119

Sucking dick ISN'T an inherently submissive activity. Porn portrays it that way, and a lot of guys are into it for dominant reasons, but plenty of women are into it because they enjoy the novelty of the power and control it gives them. A girl gets to have a very sensitive part of the boy's body in her mouth, and what she does with it causes reactions across his whole body. She completely controls his pleasure and gets to observe how her actions affect him.

I'm hugely into oral stuff, and my gf (who's dominant) likes performing oral on me for dominant reasons like that. She rubs my cock against her lips, toying with me, relishing in how I'm desperately and eagerly staring at her, hoping with all my might that she will slide my cock into that AMAZING mouth of hers. She loves controlling exactly how and when my face shifts from anxious anticipation to incredible pleasure and relief. Blowjobs can DEFINITELY be a dominant thing.

Guess there aren't any dommes in norway, right?

>>23901530

I know of one - she's a financial domme, if that's what bakes your potato? No real time sessions.

Male here, I often fantasize about foot domination and foot worship..something about feet just makes me want to put my mouth on them..

tfw my wife is so dominant in the workplace that when shes off work she'd much rather sub.

when we first started dating though she would hogtie me, beat me with a riding crop, annihilate my ass with a strapon, slap me around.

and now im the one who has to ravage her ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

>>23898592
Male sub here, but I hope I can offer some perspective. We already know that coin A is heads, but we know nothing about coin B. This includes whether or not coin B is double headed or double tailed, or even if it will land on its side.

tl;dr: I'm a smug little shit, slap the smile off my face.

>>23901569
not really no, was more hoping a gentle dom, and was more hoping to hook up with someone here, rather than through hear-say

>>23901603
Thank you, Rules-Lawyer Anon. I feel like someone should force you to wear bunny ears now.

>>23901801
It's not my favourite thing, but I wouldn't object too strenuously.

>>23900384
why's there so much kiddy shit

gross

>>23901878
That wasn't even really trolling, was it? You just wanted to see if someone would give you punishment flirting. Baka.

>>23901932
Because in hentai all women are 500 years old and look 13. It's just drawings, anon, calm down.

>>23901991
A bit of both, to be perfectly honest. I'm a bit of a gadfly in everyday life, and scowls make me swoon.

>>23900601

I can understand the appeal of Fin-Dom, though I could never seek out a Fin-Dom, or be with a Fin-Dom. Since my first experience I've been a really big fan of natural progression, letting a submissive relationship happen naturally rather than asking for this or that.

Honestly I don't think I could ever again pay for it, or even get with someone specifically for it, I'd rather it just happen slowly or not happen at all. That's not to say it wasn't an incredibly satisfying experience and that I don't totally get the appeal of having your throat stepped on or being choked out by a pair of thick thighs on its own.

Hey, looks like we have a half decent femdom thread going for once! Who would have thought.

>>23901096
Most people would certainly take a (hard) flogging before drinking piss. I guarantee it.

>>23901097
I find it is an inherently submissive activity, though. What you just described - to have him tied up, sitting on his face "or maybe playing with his ass" while slowly edging him and making him "beg me to accept his offering" sounds like some straight up mainstream femdom porn shit and I want nothing to do with it. It is the kind of scenario I find is created by men, for men. Cum is not an "offering", cum is an unfortunate byproduct and the easiest way to deal with it is for the sub to clean up the mess he made with his tongue (he learns not to hesitate if you rub it all over his face when he does).

>>23901157
No.

>>23901358
Yeah yeah. Some dommes like to feel that teasy control, I do too, but only with handjobs (which I have become very good at after 10 years of not sucking dick, I might add). I have this concept of what I call "delicious unfairness" in my head, meaning that I can have the sub eat me out for hours and he is not going to get anything in return. If I reciprocated by sucking dick, that would take away a lot of the appeal of it being a one-sided thing. Makes sense?

That said, I am certainly not a stranger to redefining what is seen as inherently submissive. Anal sex gives me more pleasure than vaginal sex ever can, so of course I want it up the ass from my subs more often than not. It does absolutely nothing to intercept the dynamics, if anything, plenty of subs are not comfortable with fucking a domme in the ass so it's fun to see them squirm about it until you make them do it.

>>23903264
I think I'm into Female-Led Relationships. Does it sound entirely retarded if I say I want to be in a relationship with a woman who has edgy feminist ideals and hangs her desire to keep me on my compliance with her beliefs? It feels stupid typing it out. Maybe it's also a bit topping from the bottom?

>>23903264
just wanted to say thanks for your very descriptive insight into the mind of a devious, grinning domme !

you mentioned you might have an oral fixation, are nice lips something you look for in particular in subs?

Also you seem to have perfected the art of hand relief! Would you be willing to share your secrets with us?

>>23903332
Makes sense to me. Are we talking "edgy feminist ideals" like she'd pop quiz you to recite parts of the SCUM manifesto and torture you brutally if you fail?

>>23903341
I don't look at lips at all, to be honest. My oral fixation is not about lips namely, it's about the sub willingly taking all kinds of things in his mouth, mostly bodily fluids. Also training his gag reflex with my fingers, sometimes strapon, but I prefer the immediate tactile response of fingers. I just find playing with the sub's mouth very invasive, and since you have probably been following the thread you know that I am very particular about what goes in my own mouth, so I find that contrast very exciting.

Handjob tricks of the trade are a well-kept dommy domme secret, sorry.

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>>23903351
I mean, we're not NOT talking about that...but physical torture is outside my bailiwick. Not that it would matter?

We're definitely talking about things like not allowing me male friends unless they're in a similar situation with their better half, and even then never unsupervised.

I'm not familiar with the SCUM manifesto beyond what I just read but that cover is terrifying.

>>23903368

SCUM Manifesto is about how men have fucked everything so they should be systematically exterminated. A lot of people take it as satire, a lot of people don't.

And come on, what's a little physical torture now and again? Live a little.

>>23903367
so you prefer fingers because you have an actual feel for the response, as opposed to a strapon where you can only see how they are responding.

I think I understand the appeal, making someone do something for you and your pleasure while they know that they will not receive it in return, the fact that they know it will please you is reason enough to do it.

How do you feel about doing stuff to a sub while they are asleep? And for them to awaken in certain compromising situations.

Assuming you have discussed it previously that they are ok with it.

>>23899533
>My biggest problem with chastity is that I want dick access on a whim.
You could make the guy wear a strapon.

>>23903264
>Most people would certainly take a (hard) flogging before drinking piss. I guarantee it.
I can support that. It would take some encouragement to make me drink piss. I'd be more willing to lick a domme clean after she goes to the bathroom (I have a weird fascination with women going to the bathroom)

>>23903376
If I was the type to "live a little" I wouldn't be wizard mode.

I'm ridiculously inexperienced with any kind of relationship so this'll all be fantasy unless some woman brute forces herself into my life because she can't resist my overpowering genericness.

Glad to know the concept wasn't too far fetched though. Thanks.

>>23903368
Yeah, I get it. It does sound intriguing, so I don't think it is anything you should be ashamed of. Now, if only I were a die-hard supporter of female supremacy with a collective/cult of my own...

>>23903385
You know, my sub was a virgin when I met him in the computer class of our uni and I bruteforced myself into his life. He considers himself the pinnacle of genericness, but he is a rare and special thing to me and that is ultimately what matters.

>>23903382
Fooling around when the sub is asleep has never held any appeal of its own to me. Of course it happens that they wake up with my pussy in their face but you know.

>>23903383
You're assuming I want dick inside of me when I say "dick access", but this is not the case. I want quick access for just a few teasy tugs or circling my thumb around the frenum a little bit or so. Teasing with the chastity device on doesn't do it for me.

Allegedly my piss tastes a bit like coffee. Bitter-ish in the same way.

>>23903402
thats what I meant! waking them up with morning oral sex... on you!

Haha what drew you to your sub? It sounds like a really sweet story, kind of my fantasy really, to be approached by a confident girl, to charm me and mould me to her liking, nudging her way into my life.

Thoughts on crossdressing? Something simple like making your sub wear a thong for a day while at work.

>>23901152
>>23901152
meh, i'd still say that it was inherently submissive, you can take measures to decrease the measure of submissiveness to nullify it but stripping away all context, the fundamental act is submissive in my opinion.
I have bias though, blowjobs do nothing for me besides me thinking for 5 seconds, "well thats a nice thought" so if a domme were to blow me it would just be to please me when i should be pleasing them.

>>23903431
There was something about him that set my sub radar off. It's hard to explain. I had just returned from my internship and he had just started studying the same thing as me.

Not a fan of crossdressing in the context of forced feminization - how the hell am I supposed to get off on it being humiliating for the sub to be associated with attributes of my own gender? That said, making a sub wear panties for fun is cute, but beyond that, not a fan.

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Kinda/sorta into the whole domme thing, seems a little weird, but everyone has kinks/fetishes.

My current GF who I am with is batshit crazy. She threw out all my boxers because she doesn't like them and replaced em' with, you guessed it, tighty whities.

Forget the fact I'm a 26 year old grown ass man lol....but whenever she lets me fuck her I figure it's worth it.

>>23903877
God knows that if it were me I'd throw out your tighty whities and get boxers instead.

>>23903383
>I have a weird fascination with women going to the bathroom

you know, I have this thing where I equate a woman willing to evacuate with the door open (or me in the room) as emasculating for me. It shows she sees me as a sexual non-entity.

>tfw favourite porn vid is a domme reaming a guy with a strapon, sucking up his cum afterwards and spitting it into his gaping ass, then ordering him to push it out and lick it up

A guy can dream.

>>23903402
>Now, if only I were a die-hard supporter of female supremacy with a collective/cult of my own...

I'm certainly not against polyandry or even the cult/collective notion where there's a shared element. but I think human sexuality is much more naturally geared to polygyny. Not exclusively, just more commonly tolerated.

Also my ID changed but I'm
>>23903385
that guy.

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>>23905610
Very yes.

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>be me, young straight guy interested in chastity and femdom
>mfw started talking to a d/s couple on fetlife
>guy is a domme, she is a switch
>she's looking for a chastity sub for herself
>I've been looking for a keyholder
>been talking for awhile now
>we're meeting up at a local restaurant to meet for the first time tomorrow, if things go well we might go back to their place and might engage in a little play

I'm nervous but excited too. We've talked about all sorts of different things. She says she really wants to peg me while in chastity.

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>>23906456
>guy is a domme

>>23906456
Exciting! Also, I think you'll find that the male form of "domme" is "dom".

>>23904037
kind of amazing how a femdom thread has lasted this long, most of the credit has to go to you though for keeping the thread alive.

is there any chance you would post some contact information, perhaps kik? I would love to ask you some more (private) questions! Or should we just utilize this thread while we can!?

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>>23903402
>You're assuming I want dick inside of me when I say "dick access", but this is not the case. I want quick access for just a few teasy tugs or circling my thumb around the frenum a little bit or so.
Guess I misread that.

>Allegedly my piss tastes a bit like coffee. Bitter-ish in the same way.
That's.. interesting.

Like I said though, it'd take some encouragement. You'd have to get hands on with me.

>>23906497
he did say she was a switch

>>23907484
You realize that if I posted contact info I'd get swamped and I would have 50 guys being pissed off at me for not giving them enough attention, right.

>>23907531
Nothing wrong with getting hands-on. I'm a woman of action, anon.

Also, I would love for the woman in the picture to have at least some pubic hair.

>>23908238
>Also, I would love for the woman in the picture to have at least some pubic hair.
Collect some of your own in a jar and donate them.

>>23908238
How much hair do you like to keep on your mound?
You know, since you mentioned it....

>>23908268
Not a firecrotch, sorry. The carpet doesn't match the curtains.

>>23908288
I have always found hairless snatches to look... pre-pubertal, even infantile. For this reason I keep a well-groomed triangle. Men should certainly trim most of theirs, shaving all of it is also okay.

>>23908297
>pre-pubertal, even infantile
I think that's supposed to be the point. I'm pretty used to it, but i don't get bent out of shape about pussy hair. I can into hippie chicks though, and their magnificent overgrowths.

>>23908401
I'm a woman, not a girl. The triangle I leave on mons pubis does not affect any sexual activity so it is purely about the esthetics, and I prefer not to look like a pre-pubescent child.

Looking for a mistress to talk to me

19/m kik:jjfox20

>no gentle domme gf
;_;

>>23908724
>wanting a gentle domme
lmao look at this faggot

>>23908706

Pubes are disgusting on women, though. Instant turn off. Like have some self respect and keep it CLEAN down there...no one wants to see a bunch of smelly, nasty hairs down there...

>>23899337
i am looking for some who enjoys cop sjw roleplay

toys we will be using is pepper spray, taser and mayo

i will keep the temp mail up for the next 3 hours, hit me up with some pics

ulimaesm at sharklasers.com

>>23908735
Im just not into chastity or pegging

>>23908800
There are gentle dommes that will want that. Kinks anymore are a fuckin' takeout menu, you just list what you actually want, don't worry about categorising yourself.

>>23898506
25m

I want a hot confident Dom women in latex to make me her slave I want her to force me to lick her pussy and smack me around a bit and tell me to stay on the ground worshiping her and then tie me to the bed as she teases me and chokes me while she fucks me but doesn't let me cum I then wan't her to slide her lubed up latex gloved finger into my ass and start massaging my prostate till I can't take the pleasure any more.

>>23909088
Automatically, as a Domme, I'm turned off by you trying to set up a session like a porno. No domme worth her salt wants a sub who lays out how he wants to be played with. It's called topping from the bottom. Find a paid dominatrix if you want that. Hell, most of them don't even want that...

>>23909130
That's more often than not the case with more and more people these days due to the proliferation of internet porn and their staged scenes. Not that that excuses it, but some people forget the line between porn and real life.

>>23909130
I'm just talking about my own fantasy of Domination I'm not right into the full on stuff I'm new to all this really and it's a developing thing for me so I'm still on the lighter side.

>>23909156
>Not that that excuses it

Geez sorry I didn't ask permission before having my own thoughts on what I like.

>>23909191
Calm down, i was using it to speak about a more general trend.

>>23899093
and it's best not to indulge in it as all
is femdom the most toxic fetish ever for men?

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>>23909130
Brah the OP outright says "post fantasies."

>>23909088
>I want
>I want
>I want

Look how submissive you are.

>>23909238
YES I WANT
FUCK SUBMISSIVENESS
FUCKING INHUMAN PERVERSE SHIT
ALL SUBS SHOULD KICK THEIR STUPID DOMMES' HEAD IN

>>23909307
are you sure you're 25?
You're starting to sound like a moody child

I wound up dating a thick white girl a few years back
>6'1"
>140+lbs
>34D
I was never into dom/sub stuff until I met her. I don't know when or where she got into it, but she was the boss and made that clear from the get go. Maybe it was her size. We started off pretty easy, but after she knew I was comfortable she got after it. Highlights:
>She had a high headboard that she'd hold onto with one hand while she sat on my face and forced me to eat her out by pulling my hair in the desired directions. This also typically involved her having me completely pinned down thanks to her size.
>If she wasn't face sitting, she'd wrap her big legs around my body with her thighs around my neck and squeeze me until I nearly passed out while I ate her out.
>She threatened to fuck me/choke me with her dildo if I didn't obey (never happened)
>She would slap my balls, stomach, and butt with a fly swatter until I begged her to stop. Sometimes she would put me over her knee and spank me.
>She liked to wear high heels/boots when we fooled around or went out because it made her loom over me even more.
She was a really sweet looking girl though and never humiliated me in public. If we went out and she caught me staring down her shirt or checking out another girl, she'd make me pay for it later that night. I have so many memories of our time together and thinking about it still gets me hard.

>>23909238
All of this because I mearly decribed a fantasy I'd like. I didn't LAY ANYTHING OUT as orders for the Dom it was just a general description of fantasy.

Saying ''I want'' does not mean I'm ordering them around and telling the dom what to do I'm just listing some possible things she might make me do.

I want to get into some of this stuff (in a strange way) with my girlfriend but she's the submissive one. And to be honest, I kinda like it that way... But there a few submissive things I'd like to do and the reason I want to do them is because I think it will accentuate the dominance I have over her. I have not brought them up with her as I am worried she'll be less attracted to me as my interests can seem submissive.

To give you an idea of what I'm interested in, let me explain my ideal scenario. Please excuse the silliness, I'm aware this is a fantasy. Anyway, I'd like to be locked in chastity for a few days before date night. On date night, I'd role play I'm another person, she'd be herself. Get back home, continue my roleplay and then fuck her with a strap on or a cock extension. After, I'd like to be unlocked, teased and given ruined orgasms. When I'm drained, she'd put a cock ring on me, I'd tie her up, and then unleash my frustrations on her while I attempt to finish. She would pay for cheating and treating me so poorly.

I would also like to explore cock numbing. I have some numbing condoms she doesn't like but I get very turned on using them. She says she doesn't enjoy penetrative sex as much if I'm not getting physical pleasure from it.

Pegging, face sitting and other service her oriented stuff doesn't interest me. Chastity intrigues me but only in short durations.

She's really into me tying her up, holding her down, choking and general rough sex. She likes to be told what to do and being thrown around... and I really like doing that to her! But I want her to use me a bit too. Any advice on how to proceed? Are there some light domme things we can introduce to get her eased in? She did not like the idea of tying me up. Though she likes teasing my dick and balls before sex. Don't know quite were to go...

>>23909315
You what, I never said I was 25. I AM AN OBSCURAE PURGATOR, A VENGEFUL CLEANSER, A DOMME'S DESTROYER

>>23908706
what would you say are some of your favorite things to do to a sub

also how do you feel about standing and stepping on a boys face with your bare feet.

>>23909541
shut up you pathetic cuck
go fap to femdom if you must but don't humiliate yourself even further

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>>23909547

Gonna vent.

My domme has been going through some shit recently. Her boyfriend abusing her etc. One day she sends me her goodbye message aka going to kill herself so i panic and regrettably call the police to her house because i couldn't make it there. Anyway she gets pissed obviously and we don't talk for a few days. Fast forward a week or so, we hang out and she just ignored me the whole time we hang out and is on her phone. Now she is busy a lot of the time and "too busy to talk to me" which hurts because i want to be submissive to her and obviously want some of her attention. So i bring up that i'm hurting and that i don't want to be her sub anymore because my wants and needs matter too. She fucking loses it, calls me selfish etc and we stop talking for a few days. I start feeling like shit with her not around i message her and apologize but now it's back to the same toxic shit.

All my dommes have hurt me in some way and i'm starting to lose faith that there is one for me..

What do..

>>23909631
So you're a cuckold?

>>23909635
No, our d/s relationship is separate from theirs. Kinda like poly but i'm definitely not a cuckold to them.

>>23909631
Why apologise for being honest about your needs with her?

You're a sub, not a literal doormat. If you can't separate submitting within a healthy relationship to accepting whatever shot someone throws at you, you're opening yourself to the risk of a whole load of abuse.

>>23909645
She screws her boyfriend, but just dommes you? I'd say you're a cuck.

>>23909662
We are just as sexually involved. More of a Poly thing

>>23909658
Mostly because of anxiety of not being able to find another domme.

when we first started it was the happiest i had been. But now she just ignores my needs/wants.

>>23909658
Exactly , I read what that guy wrote and wow that's crazy if she can't understand the difference between reality and roleplay to the point of that shit it's time to leave. starting to reconsider my whole attraction to being a sub after reading that.

>>23909631
sounds like a shitty "relationship". You should leave, obviously you're going to feel shitty, in the immediate aftermath, we all do. But it will be better for you in the long term, if she's being abused by her boyfriend then you can advise her to seek help from somewhere but you need to get yourself out of what sounds like a very toxic situation first

>>23909678
That's the kind of shit that gets and keeps you in a bad place, man. You're the sub: you *need* to set boundaries.

>>23909695
It's not only being her sub that i'd be dropping. We had been friends for years beforehand.

>>23909721
Side note: I know you guys are right, i don't mean to be dismissive of your advise.

>>23908761
I wonder what smelly hippie women you have had the misfortune of encountering to find pubes such a turnoff.

>>23909541
Hard pain, choking and degradation for sure. As for bare feet trampling, it's nice but not a major kink of mine.

>>23909631
I have a hard time seeing how someone would submit to a domme who is that unstable, frankly. I feel like as a dominant you need to have your shit together. Go figure.

>>23910063
So, I know you're not really into feminization (neither am I much past wearing panties for humiliation) but I figured you might appreciate this.

Tonight is the coming home party for one of my girlfriend's friends, and she's making me wear a large purple princess plug and a pair of pink lace panties under my clothes for the night.

We know the plug will stay in fine because I've worn it in public before, but never to an event with a ton of people we know, and I never wear panties other than when we're home alone.

It's not going to be really obvious because it's a normal party, and it's not like she's leading me around on a leash, but it's still pretty humiliating none the less.

>>23910143
Cute. Enjoy.

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>>23910063
I really love women's feet for some reason so trampling has always interested me, especial the idea of women's soles pressed against my face. It can be pretty painful tho, so that would fit in with "hard pain" and maybe even choking a bit.

But I'd be the first to admit that I'm into this stuff almost entirely for the feet and barely at all for the femdom/masochism. As a domme you probably see this stuff all the time, guys who are into things that are often interpreted as femdom but aren't particularly into femdom themselves. Someone used the phrase "domming from the bottom" earlier in this thread.

>>23910174
With "hard pain" I mean blood and anguish, not soles against face. I'm a sadist, so what I define as "hard pain" is firmly rooted in the realm of edgeplay.

Looking at that webm all I can think is "what's up with that guy's masturbation technique?", but it's pretty nice to look at.

>>23910186
>With "hard pain" I mean blood and anguish... edgeplay
>Edgeplay may involve the consequences of potential short or long term harm, or death
Oh dang well that's definitely more than I'm into. And ya he just seems to be stroking without much finesse. But I'm glad you think it looks nice.

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I'm sure some people are going to get salty about pictures and stuff, but fuck it 1/?

>>23910222
why are dommes always so fat

>>23910235
because women can't tie knots

>>23910209
>And ya he just seems to be stroking without much finesse.
forget that, boy looks like he's waving it around instead of stroking
>>23910235
phytoestrogens in your food anon

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A couple slaps for the road 2/?

>>23910252
the proportions of your left leg are triggering me anon

>>23910252
Is that one of those jeweled buttplugs?

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>>23910282
Yes it is

Also
>>23910235
I don't know what planet you're from senpai, but she isn't fat. It could be shitty lighting, or you're just blind.

>>23910222
DESU I'm surprised there aren't more pictures in these threads. You'd think with the reputation for surprise dick pics subs have there would be more of them whoring themselves out.

>>23910329
You got my envy there bruh

>>23910262
I legit have no idea why it looks so freakishly skinny in that picture. I assure you my legs are fairly normal looking.

Definitely more on the skelly/dyel side of things, but not anything all that abnormal. We really need to invest in lighting that isn't terrible and cameras that aren't potatoes.

>>23910403
yeah, legit thought your left leg hadn't developed properly/ was crippled looking at that picture haha.
Qt domme by the way

>>23898886
Hot

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I've been in a FLM (Female-led-Marriage) for almost 5 years.

I am in chastity for month-long increments and get one ruined orgasm at the end of each month. I only get a real orgasm once every four months.

I also get pegged 2-3 times per week with her 8-inch black dildo.

Among lots of other sexual and non-sexual acts of submission.

I absolutely love everything about my marriage.

Hit me up on kik if you want to chat more about Femdom or FLMs.

kik is amlr88.

>>23910417
Thank you! We had a snapchat and used to post a lot in chastity specific threads, but if this thread is still around tomorrow we'd be happy to try some requests if people want to indulge our camwhoreyness

>>23910235
Because Tumblr

>>23910844

Do you ever get an orgasm from being pegged?

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>>23899516
>>23899533
>>23899554

This couldn't be more true.

I own 3 chastity cages:cb6000s, birdlocked mini, holytrainerv2(s) and my gf gets down to dominating me and having me suck her toes them lick her pussy, but it gets her so fucking horny that she needs my cock in her so bad that as frustrated as I am at being a footfag and sucking her and being a male and licking her lovely pussy that I'm so frustrated and needy locked in my chastity cage, but somehow she needs it more ! She unlocks me and begs me to fuck her hard and deep. Since I'm such beta chastity cage loser, I offered to fuck her with a strap on tied over my chastity cage, but she said she needed MY cock in her.

When a girl loves you she needs YOUR cock, as beta as you are. so while im also a chastity cage fag, i admit when it comes to male-female relations, often times normal times won't be able to remain a dom and will end up unlocking you and begging for you to fuck them rough, deep, and loving the cum and you leaving oozing out of their pussy...

>>23910844
Thats seriously messed up man.

I get really horny when sexy girls make me jerk off and watch and laugh and tease me that I have a little dick

I go to Asian massage places and have them ass fuck me with 3 fingers

Most get into it, one will pull and squeeze my balls and slap my dick for the whole hour

My dick is so sore when she is finished I have to take off my clothes as soon as I get home

>>23912213
"Dick access" to me doesn't mean penis in vagina though. See >>23903402. I find your last statement to be a load of bullshit, frankly.

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Even though nobody wants them, a couple pictures from this morning's fun

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>>23914300
Getting whipped on the balls with the humbler hurt so much more than I was prepared for.

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>>23914306
After beating cuddles

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>>23914442
Another lame ass selfie

>tfw having my first interaction with a sub in a few weeks
well, i've been in the fet scene for years now and I never thought Id get around to actually finding a male sub. Shits gonna be interesting.

>>23910174
>The way he kisses her feet when she goes back to standing on his face

that shits fucking adorable.

>>23914300
appreciated man
what the wood thingy do?

>>23914885
It makes it pretty much impossible for him to stand, or really do anything but bend over, comfortably.

>>23914885
>>23914937
It's called a "humbler".

>>23914885
Yeah, it basically forces you to stay bent over, and also makes your balls a particularly vulnerable target if she likes to remind you how easy it is to make you almost pass out.

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>>23914306
>>23914442
>>23914448
I want to express my appreciation for these as well, there's not enough femdom OC out there!

>>23914518
What do you normally go for within the BDSM scene and what made you go for a male sub? What do you wish to do to him?

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Okey guys, I hit the jackpot. I've found a girl who's been fantasising about pegging a guy for a long time who has never done it.
She asked me to be her first peggee(?)
Now I need to buy a strapon. Anyone got tips/advice on what to buy and where to buy it? I've seen a lot of pegging porn where the harness was not sturdy enough and stuff like that. I want to avoid buying something shit.

>>23917222
>I'm going to fuck your ass and make you pay for the strapon
Is she channeling Trump?

>>23917268
Why is it a bad thing if I buy and keep the strapon? It goes into my ass, it's a dedicated toy.

>>23914885
It tugs on his balls when he tries to straighten out. Some of them effectively make it impossible for him to stand, others just make him stick his ass out, making it an inviting target for groping or abuse.

>>23917299
>Why is it a bad thing if I buy and keep the strapon?
I didn't say that.

Looking for a dom to treat me like a slut and humiliate me. Can also blackmail me! I like to be treated like a cheerleader and slave cocksucker. RP is also fun and i'm very good at them. I'm 19, M and English is my first language.
Kik: Shadowlurker

>>23917313
I associated Trump with bad, but lets not turn this into a political discussion.

18m bi
Looking for femdom master on snapchat add me jakewinston7

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>>23917222
Nice trips

I've read good things about this one in the pegging thread:
http://www.kittystoybox.com/Grrl-Toyz-Grrl-Shorts-Strap-On-Harness-Small-And-Medium-Black_p_828.html

>>23917268
>I'm going to fuck your ass and make you pay for the strapon
That's actually pretty hot.

>>23917326
thank you, I will check it out.

And yeah I thought so too

>>23917222
If her PC muscles are in order and she has been doing her Kegels then a Feeldoe or a Fun Factory Share will enable her to get some stimulation out of it too. Might need an extra harness for support if she can't comfortably keep it in herself tho.

>>23917326
''Oh hello I'm lady peggington the 4th''
( British accent intensifies)

>>23898584
M 21 see myself as a slave (no live experience yet)
Are there many women who fantasize about dominating a guy? You as a female have probably more intel about a womans mind. How would a "normal" woman react if I asked her, if she wants to dominate me?

>>23918538
stupid as shit question

>>23918558
Nobody asked you.

>>23918538
I'd be willing to say that the number of females who fantasize about dominating is higher than the number actually willing to act upon it, and the number willing to act upon it for the novelty is considerably higher than the number who consistently dominate without switching. I'm sorry to say that a "normal" woman would probably lose interest and respect for you as a man if you asked her to dominate you sexually.

Are you looking for a relationship or just sessions? I suggest you try to find a switch if it is sessions you are looking for, most female switches lean sub but if you are not looking for a relationship then that's not a problem. If you literally don't have a dominant bone in your body and want a relationship with an exclusively dominant female, well... prepare for a lot of frustration, and not the good kind.

>>23918859
My gf has asked me about getting into this. I think it would be fun but only if she stays in "character". she wants to tie me up and peg me, any advice for a first timer?

>>23919143
Do as she says. Agree on a safeword. That's about it.

>>23919143
Have you ever had anything in your butt before? If not, I would personally recommend trying a butt plug first for a little bit, it will help loosen you up.

Also, go to the bathroom like 10-15 minutes before you guys start fooling around and really make sure you wash your butt. Foreplay is really important, and lube with a bit of de-sensitizing is helpful (but don't go with one that's full on numbing or you could end up tearing some of your anal wall without knowing it).

>>23918859
Well I'm not super slave 3000. I don't really look for something specific can be a relationship or a few sessions. I just want to experience femdom live on my body. I wanna feel that desperaty at least once in my life. I don't like ce, scat or anal play. I'm more into cbt, chastity, bb, t&d and pain in general (low key ofc since I'm new to this)

So you say my chances are pretty low to find a girl who wants to fuck the shit out of ME and not the other way round?

>tfw no gentle switchy domme gf
I dated a really possessive yandere girl for a long time and i really miss it. I'm not into extreme stuff like cbt, pegging, chastity or physical pain. But the whole emotional domination thing is so hot. I love having a girl order me around and push my limits.

>>23916767
>What do you normally go for within the BDSM scene and what made you go for a male sub? What do you wish to do to him?

I've always been into femdom, been strictly femdom since I was like 17. i just live in a small country and never had male subs my age that were straight and single. This ones coming from the other end of the country haha.

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>>23919888
>i just live in a small country and never had male subs my age that were straight and single.
I have the mirror image of that problem. I live in Canada so all the dommes are either married or hundreds of miles away.

>>23919664
In that case it should be possible for you to find a switch who is interested in living out her dominant side. I doubt most vanilla girls will be able to pull it off convincingly, they will play a bit dominant just to please you whereas you should be catering to their desires instead.

>>23919742
Where do you think that comes from? How did you come to equate affection with possession and control?

>>23919888
Being outed as a sub male can make you a social pariah, particularly if you live in a conservative country, so I think there are a lot of them hiding in the woodwork. That is usually the case. How did you find him?

>>23921469
>How did you come to equate affection with possession and control?
I think it comes from that relationship desu. Eventually it just started to feel natural. In the beginning it pissed me off when she'd flirt with other guys but flip her shit when i talked to other girls. But now i almost prefer it that way. Like i said I'm not really into typical sub things like pegging but having my limits pushed really turns me on, so I'd try it all for the right domme and probably enjoy it.

Why do many of you see pegging as something extreme? To me it is just anal with a toy, not even a dominant act itself. Sure not everyone likes anal, but it isnt anything hardcore really.

>>23921539
You claim that you are not into the classic subby stuff but you do state that you'd try it all for the right domme and probably enjoy it. Liking what you don't like is the hallmark of a subby sub to me. Not wanting someone to peg you or torture your dick or whatever.

>>23921772
I mean, it's very subjective obviously. As a straight domme, I can see why some people would consider pegging extreme. For one, most of us are conditioned to believe that penetrating is dominant and being penetrated is submissive (if you rape someone in prison it's a power thing, not that you're gay). The fact that most men are what I like to call vanilla dom and most women are vanilla sub certainly doesn't take away from that fact either, on the contrary.

Additionally, some retarded people argue that you cannot be straight and into pegging, because a woman is shoving a (sometimes vaguely, sometimes clearly) phallic object up your ass, so it breeds confusion. This, together with the taboo of ass play in general (not just among straight men), fear of pain, fear of your partner losing respect for you etc. makes it seem hardcore to some people.

Personally I am into it, but it's not a major kink of mine. I probably wouldn't bother doing it without a strapon that I could insert into myself, but even so, I get only minor physical stimulation out of it. The charm lies mostly in fucking a guy like a whore until he admits that he likes it and cums buckets.

>>23921892
wut do you think of this story/type of story

http://www.giantessworld.net/viewstory.php?sid=1151

>>23923710
I don't think it is that common for a girl who is 5'8" to have size 6 feet.

>>23923860
i mean a non-snarky opinion!

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>>23921892
>Liking what you don't like is the hallmark of a subby sub to me.
Yeah i suppose you're right. I like pleasing women and i like having my limits pushed. It's all about what she wants.

>>23921469
>. How did you find him?
4chan lel

>>23923880
Didn't do much for me I guess, but it was written in a rather amusing style.

>>23925555
Exactly. Congratulations, in my book you are more sub than the people who send dommes a laundry list of what they want done to them. >golfclap.wav

>>23925661
In a kink thread or something, I presume? I have only had luck once with someone from the kink threads, but he has become one of my best friends and he is fun to mess with. I know he's reading this.

Page 9 bump, dammit.

>>23926696
Hi there. Sub male here just bored and giving you a bump :)

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>>23926933
Well well well, aren't you a pleaser. Have a picture of some guy getting fucked like a whore.

>>23927090
.-. I like that. That is all.

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>>23927496
seems like a bit of a random question but... how tall are you?

Theres a bit of an appeal of a woman towering over you... whether it be in heels, or she's just naturally taller than you, which is hard to find at 6'1...

>>23928261
176 cm barefoot. My mom is 184 cm but I didn't inherit her height, nor her natural redheadedness. (I couldn't sleep, mobile).

>>23928277
Thats still quite tall! Your mother sounds Amazonian like.

Speaking of Amazons, have you ever heard of/tried the Amazon position?

>>23928313
Heard of, never tried. None of my subs have been very flexible and also they have been pretty tall so legs in the way.

I hate these threads.

Femdom is my main fetish but it's just such a terrible idea in real life.

>>23928354
I thought long legs would be advantageous? As you can hold them by the ankles and spread them.

>>23928375
what makes you say that?

>>23928389
Women don't respect subs. You may not think that's important, but it is. Even if you do find one who genuinely likes it, it will still end badly.

>>23928409
I think it depends on the individual, I think they would respect the fact that you trust them a lot to confide something so personal about yourself to them.

That being said.. i've only told one person and it didn't work out, but it was worth a shot.

>>23928475
Not the original guy, but I've been cheated on, abandoned and abused by so many female doms that I honestly question why I even try at this point. If a caring dom exists out there I sure as hell haven't seen it.

>>23928354
Any response to these two? I feel like you're the only Domme in here so you'd probably be able to respond best.

>>23928409
>>23929072

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>>23928389
Nah, spreading them doesn't work either when the guy is about as flexible as a refrigerator. I personally don't have any problem with squatting for extended periods of time though. >>23929956 makes it look appealing.

>>23929133
What am I supposed to say? "No, anon, don't lose hope"? My first two boyfriends were somewhat into it but not subby subs, I was with the first one between the ages of 15 and 18 so we grew apart, the second one I was with for two and a half years before I moved four hours away to study and long-distance would never have worked with him, so we mutually broke it off.

My third was a subby sub but never formally my boyfriend, he was an exchange student when we met on Fetlife and spent an academic year in my country. We kept meeting up in different places in Europe for three and a half years after he left, often going to femdom events together. However, having always more or less struggled with his submissive nature, he ended up choosing the vanilla life instead and I went for the guy who is now my sub. My point with this whole thing is that I have never cheated on or abandoned anyone, if anything, the third guy flaked on me as a sub. Even so, we still exchange e-mails once every two months or something, so no hard feelings. I am sorry that some of you have been cheated on, abandoned and abused by dommes, but I don't believe this to be the norm.

As I have already stated multiple times in this thread, telling a vanilla girl that you are sub will in the overwhelming majority of cases lead to her either being freaked out, losing respect for you or both. If I could change this, I would in a heartbeat. I can't do much except for counter these attitudes when I see them being expressed by female classmates or whatever, because they are deeply sexist statements and should be treated as such. I respect my sub, even when he is kneeling in front of me covered in piss, spit, cum, blood and my juices, shaking with shame and arousal.

>>23930015
>>23929956
>>23928313
its a fucking meme position, the only reason people want to try it is because it started popping up in a bunch of porn. If you don't want to do any work just do cowgirl you faggot.

>>23930027
thank you for re-instilling me with hope!

I understand that it is not for everyone, but if someone is a shitty person they are a shitty person, it doesn't matter if they are a sub/dom/vanilla. Hence the cheating and taking advantage of.

So you would recommend Fetlife to someone that is inexperienced in the lifestyle as a good starting point for meeting people?

Im actually heading off to Europe myself next week so I may have to grab some recommendations off you!

>>23930038
I take it you've tried it then?

>>23930027
so what is the ideal or usual bodytype of a sub?

>>23930058
yup, it's boring, its basically the epitome of a position you try for the novelty rather than any pleasurable reason.
>>23930061
What is the ideal or usual body type of a domme anon?

>>23930041
Fetlife... is a topic of its own, frankly. There was/is the security issue, which I am not going to go into here, but google "maymay fetlife security" or something if you are curious. Basically I find the way the staff responded to gaping security holes being pointed out abhorrent, also their way of tackling inevitable abuse allegations primarily from sub women targeted towards dom men is less than adequate. Nevertheless, when you go to the kink thread and ask "where should I start", you will be pointed in the direction of Fetlife and told to search for munches. I happened to find my last sub on there independently of his location, ergo, he was still listed as residing in his native country whereas he lived in my country, two hours away at the time... a pleasant surprise for sure. I look for very specific things though, so that drew me to him instantly.

>>23930061
There is no such thing as an "usual" body type for a sub. We have seen everything from bearmode to skinny bitch in this thread alone. As for my ideal... ottermode, I guess. I'm not crazy about tall guys, I prefer them to be within the interval of my height plus or minus five centimeters, ideally. I am relatively disinterested in dick, but a nice torso is killer.

>>23930164
just googled it, interesting topic indeed...

It seems like a lot of effort but a good starting point nonetheless.

Seems like a long shot but is there something you haven't tried yet that you are dying to?

>>23928475
>>23929133
>>23930027
Well, by definition my experience is only anecdotal, so I suppose it could work with a genuine domme who is emotionally mature (and of course provided the sub has corresponding qualities). All I can say is that this type of woman seems to me to be so rare that it might as well not exist.

I've had to make myself move on from that fantasy for myself, but maybe you'll have more luck.

>>23930258
Yes. I'd love to be part of a circle of dommes with their respective subs for all kinds of group shenanigans, as well as sub-trading and the like. Fuck knows if I will ever get to experience that, but it is something I desire that I haven't had yet.

>>23930262
My experience is anecdotal as well. I bet there are people with issues out there that masquerade as dommes as an excuse to treat someone like shit, and dommes who lack the emotional maturity to really have someone's life in their hands probably abound as well.

Maybe I should stop doing sciencey science and go into social sciences to study domme behavior and motivation instead. Nah. Filthy social sciences.

>>23930390
You're a STEMfag too? You sound much too perfect. Although one may explain the other, I think someone with a more "male" mind might make a better domme, nosexism.

>masquerade as dommes as an excuse to treat someone like shit
True, although it's not necessarily just an excuse, some girls genuinely love it as an extension of their borderline/sociopathic personality (not putting the blame all on one side btw, it's at least as much my fault for being attracted to it in the first place).

Essentially from what I've seen, there's the kind of girl who's willing to try it but will lose all respect for the guy in the process because she'd rather have a man who seems like he can be the one to take charge. And the kind who already loves it, but who doesn't respect anyone to begin with and will just move on after torturing him, not just physically but mostly emotionally. I've just never encountered the kind that knows how to love and respect her sub the way a lot of male doms do with theirs (hence my comment above).

>>23930663
it happens with both sets, male doms are just a far larger community than female ones. doesnt mean that as a proportion there aren't just as many if not more abusive, and sociopathic male doms out there.

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>>23930071
>What is the ideal body type of a domme

(also the ideal body type for a woman, period)

>>23930663
Certainly. I know a lot of dommes would get hysterical if you told them that someone with a more "male" mind would make for a better domme, but it is true. Stability, rationality, confidence and directness are all very classically male traits, and they are a necessity for dominating someone successfully. If you are a hormonal mess, ruled by your emotions and thus irrational, you make for a shit domme. Submitting to someone with borderline must be a fucking nightmare.

>>23930734
You know it was a rhetorical question right?
different ID because router is endlessly dying.
also, meh, wtf is going on just above her tits

>>23930734
I'll give you that. Plenty of subby chubby chasers and BBW afficionados around though.

>>23930746
>Submitting to someone with borderline must be a fucking nightmare.
Heh. Yeah.....

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>>23930734
this is what you need in your life anon, no photoshop

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>>23930754
Very true. I have a fetish for athletes, which I think ties in really well with femdom.
>>23930818
>this is what you need in your life anon,
Yes please.

>>23930746
I just read through your answers and I love what you call "delicious unfairness", it's what most of my fetishes revolve around, and in fact "never having sucked a cock" is something incredibly attractive in a woman to me.

Ever applied that to orgasm control though? I know you don't like chastity, but what about denying your sub release during sex? I love having sex but being made to stop once she's had her fill of cumming, and being left rock hard and frustrated. That contrast of being denied pleasure for long periods of time while she can have it any time and any way she wants...

Or do you not do vaginal sex either?

>>23930962
I noticed fit girls are usually sub though (Sarah DeHerdt is one such example).

>>23930988
I require complete control over a sub's orgasms. This means asking me for permission to fap and also permission to cum during sex.

Sadly I am not able to cum during sex myself, not through penetrative sex, not through oral, not through fingers (I think it is because I don't want to give up control enough to cum, making someone cum is a form of power). Thus I can only cum from masturbation.

Sometimes the sub doesn't get to cum during sex, sometimes I give him a ruined orgasm (particularly good for teaching them to eat cum, the arousal is still there).

>>23930989
If a girl acts overly dommy in her day to day life she is probably sub in bed. It is such a common trope.

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>>23930962
>i heard you like strong women anon

>>23930989
Yeah, no one is perfect.

Fortunately I'm a switch.

>>23931056
Oh dear, you sound deviously cruel. Being denied permission to cum from sex, or just having it ruined and being made to eat it...I love the sound of it! But wow...

>>23931056
For making them cum without orgasm I hear the best is prostate massage with a strapon. It's too bad you can't cum from sex at all though, are you sure it's only a mental block and not poor technique? (not to shit-talk your subs or anything)

The other thing I was wondering is have you ever played with more than one person, or would you like to? With two subs, or sharing a sub, or forced bi, or whichever.

Also it's pretty clear from your posts that you don't switch, but have you never wanted to, not even a little? I always find it really hard to imagine not being even slightly interested in the other side.

21 yo sissy reporting in, currently owned by a 45yo Goddess.

We're into feminization, orgasm control and pain. Lots of discipline, punishment or humiliation.

I'm kind of an anal whore, so pegging and fisting are also frequent since She loves that too.

Idk what else to say, ask me stuff i guess.

>>23930767
>tfw I submit to my borderline gf
The days when she's in insensitive selfish bitch mode are pretty rough and she'll do and say things that hurt my feelings. But the rest of the time she's the most amazing person and I wouldn't want to miss her for anything in the world.

>>23931225
How long has it been? I really can't picture that ending well.

Does she even like you or does she just need a punching bag?

>>23931071
You think that's cruel? Different strokes, I guess.

>>23931092
The best way to ruin an orgasm is just to learn how to gauge when he is cumming and stop jerking just before. I have perfected the technique. You certainly don't need to massage the prostate.

I am 100 % sure my lack of cumming is a mental block, but technique probably plays into it as well (my own masturbatory technique is impossible for someone else to replicate).

I did a forced bi thing with my sub and a gay furfag friend of mine. It was basically rape as he has expressed zero interest in forced bi, but he was hard throughout and in the end found it pretty hot. Also, see >>23930390.

Why would I want to switch? What I find interesting about domming is getting into the head of the sub and imagining what he must be feeling. I delight in imagining the frustration and the anguish, it makes me all warm and fuzzy inside. When I masturbate I always imagine things from the male sub's perspective because that is what I am interested in. I don't need to change places and experience it myself (though I try the instruments I use on myself to get a feel for what I am doing). I discovered BDSM online around when I hit puberty, and I initially only found maledom stuff, but when I finally stumbled across femdom it struck a chord with me.

>>23931338
I didn't mean ruined orgasms, I just meant getting him to cum without orgasming, since you like to force him to eat it. Maybe I've done it wrong, but to me even ruined orgasm is still a little pleasurable.

>It was basically rape
Damn could you tell that story please?

So you do have a sub side in a way, you just experience it through domming. Still though, haven't you ever been curious about experiencing these things directly? Being under someone else's control, frustrated and and made to suffer, assuming it was completely safe of course?

>>23931338
Just a touch, yes. I'd still gladly accept it, because I like when I'm made to do things I don't explicitly enjoy! Like with the forced bi story of yours. I wouldn't want it to happen, but would endure if my Mistress wanted me to~

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>girlfriend gets home at 4
>just got new catsuit
>fuck it
how's it going thread? Just kind of hanging out. Gf doesn't know I bought myself a catsuit-- we've been talking about it for a while, she has one too. Gonna surprise her when she comes home, I think.

>>23931433
I don't get the whole latex suit thing, I think they look gross personally. Care to talk about what about them appeals to you?
>>23931338
what about piercings?
a textured tongue piercing for example
>>23931225
made me think of the domestic abuse trope "he's not that bad, he only beats me when the kids aren't around"

>>23931370
A "proper" ruined orgasm should only offer some relief from tension, if you find that a bit pleasurable then okay, but it definitely shouldn't feel objectively nice.

I'm not going to go into detail regarding the forced bi story because it wouldn't give me anything and I am not a wank material dispenser.

I don't think you quite realize the hatred I have of female submission. I certainly don't have "a sub side in a way". It is similar to when straight men watch porn, it's all about the woman, the man is a disinteresting placeholder. To me the sub is interesting, the domme is a placeholder. Get it?

Hell, I cannot let go to such an extent that I would allow a sub to make me orgasm, why the fuck would I want to experience being frustrated under someone else's control?

>>23931462
What about piercings? Replicating my own technique?

>>23931484
yes, or at least providing additional stimulation

>>23931468
I wasn't looking for wank material, I was mostly curious about the lack of consent and trust aspects of it, but alright.

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>>23931462
>I don't get the whole latex suit thing,
It's a sensory thing for me. I like the feeling of tightness on my skin, kind of like you're flexing all over. I dig the look too, I get very turned on when I see my girlfriend wearing her latex, and seeing how tight it is on her.

>>23931494
Additional stimulation, certainly, but it is more about the type of stimulation. Experimenting with different textures could be interesting, though.

>>23931500
Yes, I am not accusing you of anything, I just don't want to type it out at the moment. As for lack of consent, I am very much into consensual nonconsent and edgeplay, so that is right up my alley. My sub trusts me 100 %, otherwise it wouldn't be possible.

>>23931308
Two years going strong.

Guy here, 5'8, medium build. Almost all the girls I've had experiences with are all sub and needed encouragement a lot of the times. I've never had a dominant girl take what she wanted from me.

My question is, why is it difficult to find more dom girls?
One of my fantasies is to have a girl be dominant and do whatever she wanted with me (within reason), a bit pain and humiliation with some edging would be amazing.

>>23931897
That is the eternal question. Some people will say it is conditioning/upbringing/society, some people will say that there is a biological/natural order basis (hormones etc.), some people will say it is both, some people say it is neither.

>>23900384
level 3 is as far as i can go ya im weak

>>23932112
The ranking of the activities in terms of severity makes absolutely no sense though.

>>23932315
desu all i saw passed level 3 was a strap on and i was like nope

>>23932376
This doesn't appeal to you? >>23927090

>>23932441
fuck off

>>23932485
You first

>>23932409
no into gentle femdom, you can tease me and squeeze my balls a little but that's it

>>23932527
So not femdom then...

>>23932527
so being a lil bitch then?

>>23932441
Either she's an Internet Mistress (lol) or she has no self respect as a Domme for letting you get away with that disgusting attempt at grooming.

>>23932533
>>23932543
if you don't think its femdom fine i'm ok with that.

>>23932441
Gross, I think I see a shitstain where you missed wiping. Feel bad for your "mistress" if she even exists. You're probably getting jerked around over the net by some old guy using porn pics, LMAO

>>23932618
i didnt say it wasn't femdom, i just said you were a lil bitch

>>23932627
oh ok

>>23932624
>>23932569
You've clearly got it all figured out.

I don't post for an hour and the thread goes to shit. Figures.

>>23932527
I'm way on the other side of the spectrum in terms of gentleness, ergo hopelessly sadistic, but I recognize that there is a time and a place for gfd as well. I would say that sadistic dommes are definitely a minority compared to the gentle ones.

>>23932702
Blame the ugly attention whore who's into getting humiliated by dudes on the internet. >>23932441

>>23932702
Sadistic dommed a minority?
Really good? Ever been on Fetlife? How about a meeting at your local BDSM scene? I'm not trying to call you out on being wrong here, but there are quite a lot of sadistic dommed around. "Gentle dommes" are pretty few found.

Although of course this is of course different depending on where you live.
If you count "normal people" just trying to get into bdsm scene, a lot of people are sadistic femdoms. Now if we are talking real dommes over all, sure I'd say there are more gentle dommes.

>>23932734
"real domme" is entirely subjective though.

>>23932743

You're not entirely wrong, I'll give you that. What one person can view as being ignored, another may see as it being exactly what they want.

>>23932734
I beg to differ. In fact, my impression is that the dommes just getting into domming are very intimidated by the harshness and the sadism and just prefer to take charge in a gentle manner and that's enough for them. Also, I am allergic to the term "real domme" (or "real sub" for that matter). What is gentle to you?

>>23932756
its buzzword-y. Some people like safe words, others don't, some people call their domme mommy others don't. It doesn't mean that one set aren't "real dommes" and the other are, people just like different things.
i will acknowledge that there can be a couple of objective bits to look at it, but with a thing as fluid and dynamic as sexuality it's retarded to use termsn like "real dommes" and the like

Femdom here. My recent desire is to like find a guy who is in a shitty marriage or relationship in general hell, it good even be somewhat solid and force him to take care of me whether he lives overseas or the next town over. He sneaks to talk to me and cater me when his partner isn't around and with being human, he occasionally slips up but not too bad to end their relationship. I want him to have questionable bank account statements and be sexually(especially emotionally) torn from his partner because I give him the excitement his partner hasn't given him lately or ever. When he sees me I want him to cater to me... Nice dinners.. Rubs my feet.. Massages my ass... Etc. When he's away I want him to anxiously throw funds at me because he insists on taking care of me because he wants me to be his and nobody else's. He's needy for my attention and time. He doesn't refer to me as mistress or other weird ass names. Maybe this is along term thing and at some point he confesses his love. My end wish is that he leave his partner for me and continues to take care of me until I'm done with him. Then he's left with nothing but to find some other girl like cheap knockoff version of me but never like me.

>>23932889
You, along with subs that top from the bottom and findoms are everything wrong with the current scene.

>>23932889
>>23932909
I miss being 10 years old

>>23932889
You and your ilk are part of the problem, I'm sorry to say.

>>23932889
what guy would do all this?

>>23932889
kek, average "domme" right here.