advice pls >be me, be grad student >be today, at university

straight people are hilarious sometimes

>>22616271
what do you mean?

>>22616296

>"I'm attracted to this person and they're attracted to me but I'm not going to talk to them unless I can eventually get married to them"

>>22616267
Just do it faggot, who knows what happens. If after a year you stop things then you atleast had a year of good vibes together....sjeeez

>>22616309
but I'm looking for a long term partner
why should I talk to her if this has no future?
or maybe it can be sorted out somehow
that's why I'm asking for your honest opinion on this

>>22616335
>after a year
it's more like 3 months until I leave

>>22616346
you said next year, i assumed you were talking uni years.. well then even better fuck her brains out for the next 3 months see where it leads

>>22616355
thanks for your reply
>see where it leads
that's what I'm afraid of...

should I tell her straight away that I will be leaving?

>>22616379
I say just go for it. She can transfer to a uni closer to you if things are going well when you leave.

>>22616379
>>should I tell her straight away that I will be leaving?
This.
Try to say it on the side and look if she continues to be interested in you

>>22616267
There's such a thing as over-thinking. Why not make a more and see if anything develops

Thanks for your answers.
I think I will ask her out just for a coffee or sth and just talk about plans for the future and tell her about mine. Then we can decide how to move on.