Is it possible to meet a good girl in real life who might actually genuinely like you and want to spend time with you, or all girls fake, lying ghosters like literally every girl you find on Tinder?
>>39648942
The girls on Tinder are an accurate representation of girls in real life. Same with the girls you'll find on literally any other social media app that isn't a desperate mid 30s something piece of trash single mother.
>>39648987
Really? Are you sure? Should I give up hope?
I'm losing my will to keep trying.
>>39649007
There are hardly any girls that don't use Tinder, and I know a few who don't that are still gigantic sluts, the kind of girl you're looking for is exceptionally rare and are usually only available to top tier Chads anyway. I'm not telling you to give up, but things are bleak. I've given up a long time ago.
I'm in the same mindset.
I'm not handsome, actually I'm probably a bit below average.
Even if I did find a girl there'll always be the lingering doubt that she's just settling and doesn't actually like me.
I fucking hate genetics.
>>39648942
>every girl ghosts you
>"girls are the problem, not me!!!!"
also, posting some crying anime character on /r9k/ asking for advice doesn't help.
>>39649062
>I hate genetics
why? they're the reason you're alive, faggot
>>39649070
Not OP but every girl ghosts me as soon as I send a pic regardless of how well the conversation is going. Excuse me for not being exceptionally attractive, that's not my fault and girls literally are the problem.
>inb4 you're just playing devil's advocate and are an ugly faggot that gets ghosted all the time yourself
>>39649087
>they're the reason you're alive
Precisely.
>>39649156
Why have you not killed yourself, then?
>>39648942
>tfw found a girl like this
>tfw not sure if I want to continue with her
I don't know what is wrong with me.
>>39649127
>ugly faggot
lmao, nice projection. also, why are you surprised girls want to date handsome guys? I don't get it.
>>39649182
Because I don't want my family to be sad, and I cling on to the lingering hope that things might get better even if I know they won't.
>>39648942
I'm dating a black girl I met on tinder. She seems cool, its been going really well. Definitely try swiping right on all the black girls and super like the attainable looking ones.
>>39648942
have you actually gotten intimate with any
i mean, guys are just as shit for the vast majority, you just trust them more because you are a guy. you could easily get that if that was all you wanted, literally just date any fat girl
>>39649198
What is that anime, please? Thanks in advance
>>39649229
>hope
>know it won't get better
pick one
>>39649268
Hope isn't rational
Or maybe it's faith I don't know. Either way why are you bugging me?
>>39649304
Bugging you? I'm just pointing out that hating genetics (a really vague word) is a stupid thing to do, and that if you hate your life so much, you could just have killed yourself.
>>39649304
Also, you are the one who responded to my question when it wasn't even for you.
>>39649340
It's very frustrating to be unattractive and know you can't do anything about it because that's just how you are.
>you could just have killed yourself
I'll do it when I turn 30 and nothing has changed.
>>39649007
Don't lose hope, my friend. There's a lot of nice girls out there, you just haven't found them yet
>>39649373
>what is evolution
What are you going to do? Most animals don't get to reproduce, and even in humans, only 87% of females and 81% of males do.
>>39648942
>been together for 2 years
>we care about each other alot
>my only option left is to join the defence force so chances are things are going to plummet shortly after
>>39649429
>What are you going to do?
I don't fucking know, I'll probably fuck a hooker eventually but it most likely won't change anything.
>>39649182
Not him I agree so I'll answer the question. I'm too much of a pussy too. I'm scared I'll fail and end up worse and I'll have to live a life twice as worse, this time because of my own fault and not an unlucky roll.
>>39649509
>fucking a hooker
Lmao, why do people think this is a good idea? don't you guys have an imagination? Imagine yourself going to some shady place, picking up a hooker, awkwardly fucking her and giving her money. What an amazing idea!
>>39649524
Tough luck. If you're too much of a pussy to kill yourself, you have no right to complain you're alive.
>>39649610
>every hooker is a disease riddled disgusting creature
What is an escort for 500 Tom?
>>39648942
Chad here. It's also anoying for Chads because you will never know if she genuinly loves you or just stays for looks + assets
>>39649652
>escort
>not shady
Also, I don't remember saying anything about "disease riddled and disgusting".
My lance corporal buddy said something really true last drill.
Tinder is girls wanting to fuck a couple of times, then you just awkwardly see each others snapchats.
Facebook is for finding someone to date cuz you can see more of their personal life.
>>39648942
yes but you have to put some effort into yourself. a qt wont just fall into your lap. this isnt anime