What's your excuse for not setting up lots of accounts in lots of different cities and practicing writing girls till you're good at it?
grindr is easier, that's my excuse.
>>39640325
because it leads no where unless you're attractive. being an ugly or even average male on a dating app is basically just being a glorified personal jester for the girl you're talking to that already has 10 other guys in separate convos
>>39640325
I'd rather play video games and jerk off.
rate my fake chad picture
>>39640389
>till you're good at it
you're a dumbass if you don't understand that just about anything can improve with practice.
>>39640424
you're a terrible liar. jerking off to ok cupid profiles is god tier.
>>39640325
Because I'm terrified of rejection, and I think that repeated explicit rejection due to my conversational abilities would move me toward killing myself much faster than if I maintain the illusion that I can change at some point in the future.
>>39640501
practice makes good. if it doesn't kill you it will make you stronger that's the whole point.
>>39640536
What if it's the little nudge needed for me to go and buy some helium?
>set up fake chad account
>this girl messages me https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHjh3nio_nE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7aw_JomCR8
Been seriously thinking about it, probably going to set one up in the next few days. All the anecdotes of how fucked online dating is like >>39640389 are discouraging but I've never tried so I might as well.
>>39640475
the argument is not that talking will get you laid, its that being good looking will get you laid. there are attractive guys on dating apps that women flock to, you honestly think you'll have a better chance than the guy next to you because you're a better talker? give me a break, online dating is 90% ego boosting and 10% trying to hook up with chad, thats it
>>39640579
good fucking riddance obviously the only reason why people kys is because that want that more than anything else. people always forget about the effort part and switch to the cry about it part everyone who succeeds fails
I'm a complete loser.
I'm even shocked at how far I've fallen. I just try to tune out reality now because then I just start thinking about suicide when I think too much.
>>39640325
Never thought about that before desu, I should give it a shot. However one of my biggest problems with women currently is that I simply don't like most women's personality.
>>39640757
this anon gets it but i would encourage the people that want to try it to do it anyway.
The sooner you sawllow the red pill the better.
>>39640757
jesus christ you're retard pretty much anyone can score with online dating it just depends how big you're willing to go. You're talking top tier bro if you suck you got to grind and level up my dude. What most fags don't realize is that you can actually fundementally change who you are with a bit of effort.
>>39640778
things get better with practice the more you search and communicate the better you'll get at picking the good ones out.
>>39640708
I never said one set up lots in different cities with lots of different pictures and practice practice practice till you're ready for the local scene.
>>39640769
if you're a complete loser you have nothing to lose that's why you do it in different cities with different pictures.