i was talking to my friend and he mentioned that his girlfriend got a new dildo and he thought it was really hot when she rides it and blows him at the same time. i mentioned that I was thinking about buying a fleshlight and he looked at me in disgust.
why is it acceptable for women to have sextoys but men can not?
actually none of that happened. I am a friendless perma virgin who wants to buy a pocket pussy but doesnt want to become a total degenerate.
>>39628366
Female sexuality exists for reproduction and therefore is the "primary" sexuality
Male sexuality is less valuable because one alpha man can theoretically impregnate thousands of women if he wanted to. So the remaining men he displaced have no value to society when it comes to sexual reproduction
Look at any other species where a small portion of top males impregnate the majority of women. The remaining males are driven off from watering holes, refused shared resources, and basically socially ostracized for arbitrary reasons such as having a less colorful body part here or a smaller body part there - the objects of arbitrary sexual selection mechanisms on the part of the females
People think this is all "real", that this society we live in and the social hierarchy is indicative of a real construct in the physical world where the people at the top are more virtuous, but this is not the case
It's unfortunate that all sexually reproductive species will evolve into a local maximum wherein they will languish forever. This is why the majority of people are shit stains
I reject this entire system of values and substitute my own. One where intellectual inquiry and self sufficiency are the yardsticks by which people are measured. I don't value the opinions of women
Insulting men for being unable to find girlfriends, calling them undesirable, virgin shaming, and similar activities, are basically appeals to the authority of the feelings of women, and I find this to be a flawed and comical authority. One not worthy of genuine consideration
It gives you a nice rush of euphoria when a girl loves you, but don't fall for the meme that this is actually an integral part of life that is worth basing your value system around. There are better ones - we have evolved above the primordial sludge and we do not need to focus on arbitrary social constructs anymore
It's not about passing on your genes anymore - Newton died a virgin. It's about passing on your ideas.
>>39628366
Just buy one bro.
I did it like 6 months ago. No regrets.
If you live alone it's a must have.
If not it's probably a pain to hide. You have to wash it out after you use it. But more importantly it has to dry and that is like an all day thing because it gets so little airflow.
I just hang mine from a towel rack because it's constantly drying.
>>39628366
>his girlfriend got a new dildo and he thought it was really hot when she rides it
Technically your imagined friend is a cuck. His gf can't be satisfied by his penis, so she buys a replica of another man's cock. The use of sex toys in the bedroom is actually very masochistic in its core.
>>39628692
>I reject this entire system of values and substitute my own. One where intellectual inquiry and self sufficiency are the yardsticks by which people are measured. I don't value the opinions of women
>It's about passing on your ideas.
>>39630399
I really don't like this meme
I think what I said has value. Can you please provide an actual refutation otherwise? Posting pictures of neckbeard losers in fedoras isn't a refutation. This method of anti-intellectual shaming is really insidious.
>>39630715
>This method of anti-intellectual shaming is really insidious.
>>39628692
You are right but I still cringed
>>39630772
>You are right but I still cringed
These ideas seem diametrically opposed, honestly I think this mindset needs to be shed. It's detrimental to truth
How can something "right" be worth cringing at? Cringe implies some social faux pas or misstep being committed. But saying something that is true should never be a social faux pas, it should be the primary imperative of discussion, unless you're taking part in a discussion simply as a language game for social posturing. And that is a waste of time