I'm a 24 year old woman but have spent most my life being

Go get fit and find out. If not for men, then for yourself. Men love women who like themselves, and nothing shows that more than by being fit.

>>39608548
you lose weight so you can live longer so you can experience robot husbandos before you die

>>39608548
I dunno, I'm 19 and I'm into older women (25-35 y o to be specific). Either try improving yourself or kill yourself, pls dont waste our (by our I didn't meant "your") precious oxygen.

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>>39608548
And who's to blame?

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>>39608548

Just get fit then hook up with one of the other spergs here.

You can make it baby girl don't listen to the discouraging comments

>MFW thinking about you hurting

lower carb intake (around 50g day max) and start doing cardio&yoga. have achievable weight loss goals, when you reach them it'll boost confidence to continue. it really is this basic on paper for weight loss.

>>39608551
yeah but what chick would want a 19 year old dude lmao??

you get fit, then make up for the lack of youth by being an interesting, chill woman without drama or mood swings or illogical bullshit, and being a self-respecting PERSON.

most guys are attracted to young cuties, but we cannot stand nagging, social-media-whores and insane female 'logic'. turn yourself into a fit, respectful WIFE and you'll have good men all over.

>>39608548
lose weight because you want to feel good about yourself. that confidence will attract your very own autist.

>>39608548
>Woman can't date younger men

Literally the stupidest most uninformed thing you could have posted.

There's legions of young guys clawing over each other to date older ladies. I know OP is bait but fuck this made me mad.

>>39608548
Post your current body with time stamp but keep it SFW

It really doesn't take that long to lose weight. Better get on it because mid to late 20's is prime age for women to get married. Yes, teenagers are hot but teenagers aren't trying to get married.

>>39608548
I've dated nothing but 200+ lb women all my life because they match my lifestyle.

>tfw you eat 4k calories a day

>>39608548
Anonette( if you're not larping ofc)
I have exactly the same problem though not fat, just my face is 4/10
Hope you get /fit/ and find a decent guy

>>39608556
>>39608560

OP here, I don't really want to get married. I just wanted a boyfriend like every other girl. Young love, hot and passionate stuff. But alas, that's no longer an option for me.

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>>39608548
if you start counting calories from today on and start doing some cardio, even if it's just a 30min walk, you'll probably be around 120lbs or less by next years christmas. just slowly progress. look up c25k

>>39608563

Still no reason to continue life as a disgusting lardass

>>39608558
4chan makes it seem like the only desirable women are 18-23 year olds.

>>39608556
Don't buy that shit please. They're still going to go for the bimbo.

>>39608555
Pretty slutty ones, and low market value ones.

I'm 22 and kinda like 30ish women, you don't need to waste much time on emotional games and the slutty ones always have a nice sex trick to show.

On the other hand I would never have a relationship with them.

>>39608548
kys and start lifting

>>39608563
Unless your standards are obscenely high, I'll pound your puss every night and let you walk beside me in public.

>>39608548
just lose weight it only takes 10 weeks to lose 20 lbs safely the fuck are you waiting for? someone to hold your dumbass hand?

>>39608563
This ain't your blog. Quit stuffing your fat ass with shit. Read the sticky, go to /fat/.
Either that or fuck off.

>>39608563
>that's no longer an option for me.
Oh cry me a fucking river
First off, youre 24 so youre not exactly old and women maintain their insane market value well up to 30 and even beyond if they maintain themselves.
Secondly you chose to be as fatass, anon...Maybe that wasnt such a good idea now was it? so stop that shit
Thirdly there are millions of trillions of guys looking for a gf and the requirements are set so low a snail could jump over that bar with ease.

Stop being a lardass and exploit your natural advantages

>>39608566
4chan is full of autistic retards.

>>39608552
jooos

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>>39608548
Young women are actually dumb cunts and are shit in bed, women around 30 seem to be best. Post pics and I might let you be my gf for a night you sound like a possibly tasty slampig.

>>39608563
I'm 24 and in decent shape (dyel to /fit/ standards) and am dating a 32 year old fat woman I met off okcupid. At first I just wanted to get my dick wet but then we developed feelings for eachother. She was worse off then you too being 31 when we met and she hadn't had sex for a year. She's a total nympho, always down to suck my dick and fuck. Plus since she's fat she cooks delicious food.

So moral is... You should still have hope OP. You got time.

>>39608577
4 u
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x67jtMPfdTw
Also, this thread's theme

Location? What is your skin color?

>>39608578
Thanks bro

>>39608548
>Wahwah being a grrl is so hard

Just do what every post wall cunt does and just attach yourself to some beta male. At least you've not got a kid, that puts you well ahead of a good chunk near 30 girls.

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>>39608574
wasted dubs dubs

>>39608563
Get a fucking grip by first getting fit. Then if you're into younger boys wait 10 years, get a wig and pull a Brigitte.

>>39608576
this is actually the opposite of true

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>>39608548
Fuck off with your pity party. We aren't here to strike your ego and tell you that you're a delicate flower that deserves love, we're here for fitness and fitness bants. Read the sticky, diet properly, get your shit together, and go find out for yourself if you sill have value on the market. Elsewise take this shit to /soc/.

>>39608566
>getting your impressions of the real world from an Uzbeki ceramics forum
wew L A D

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>>39608555
>yeah but what chick would want a 19 year old dude lmao??

>>39608551
>I dunno, I'm 19 and I'm into older women (25-35 y o to be specific).
And such women know you can't give anything to them, only sex. And they want family at such age.

For some reason I probably wouldn't ask 4chan for advice on this. Most girls don't get married til 29-32 where I live (NYC area). If you just do your best, I think you'll get results that are way better than what you think is even possible. If you diet in a healthy way and slowly get down to your ideal weight over 1-2 years by eating a healthy diet and slowly introducing physical activity, it won't even really be hard beyond starting new habits (I'm formerly obese, 330lb to about 200). I think getting in better shape is great for health reasons, and it will definitely improve most people's dating lives, but it really doesn't define you as a person either. I also didn't date until 25. I really felt bad about it, and guys do have more "leeway", but once I started I realized it didn't really matter that much. And I ended up meeting a really nice girl who was in the same boat (about 22, never had a boyfriend)

>>39608587
>And they want family at such age.
The "All girls want a family meme"
Dunno bout your dumb ass but ive met many girls in my time and 90% of em have been in relationships AND on the pill

But ofc, internet delusions must go on and are not to be questioned

>>39608589
>and 90% of em have been in relationships
So just cheatead with you.
And why you need such cumdumpsters?

>>39608548
i want to kill the deer. where are you deer?

>>39608548
>but thinking about getting /fit/. But it feels like it's too late to get /fit/
You will never make it.

>>39608588
>diet in a healthy way
how about learn not to eat like shit?

>>39608558
>>39608566
>>39608588

Not OP but in kind of the same position. I think being on 4chan too much has really skewed my perception of things. I don't go out much or talk to people irl so I've literally started to believe once I hit 30 I'll just suddenly melt into a fat ogre or something. While all these 30yr old men will become GODS and have all the pussy they want.

>>39608552
NGGGGAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAW

*dies*

>>39608594
I'm 28 years old man and i do not want to start any serious relationship with 30 y.o woman.
Because we can make kids only around 35 in that case. And i do not want to raise autistic child my whole life.

>>39608590
I didnt fuck most of em, dumbass
Ive only fucked 2-3 girls whove been in relationships and i found out after.
Point being most friends of my gfs, coworkers and friends gfs have been on the pill and the only girl i know who wasnt on the pill was a lesbian chick because she went on a bender and got knocked up after her breakup so from my expericence girls do not desperatly crave kids.

if they did youd think the birth rates would be higher as well but they arent so more stats showing its a meme


And you dont need cumdumpsters but for some reason guys like sex and this need forces us to do stupid shit to convince girls to give sex to us. hence the want for cumdumpsters

>>39608594
You also can see pretty well when woman 20-30, 30-40 and 40+.
It really shows.
And when you look at her old face and think about her old boyfriends who fucked her young age, it is kinda furious.

>>39608594
it will be our time to shine. Then you ogres will see I was actually worth something .... :(

>>39608551
Mommy gf best gf

>>39608594
I keep saying it, and it keeps being true.

If you keep your standards too high compared to your attractiveness, then you will end up being very single for a very long time.

I, however, don't have much in the way of standards so I can date an objectively less attractive woman than myself and appreciate it for what it is.

Basically pussy is pussy, and I'd take a woman with a good moral compass and work ethic over an attractive woman who is useless otherwise.

Then again I have a thing for chubby, homely women because they generally match up more closely with my lifestyle.

24 still young. Your cut off from most quality guys when you are 28 and older.

>>39608594
Im a 30 year old dude and i can say this isnt true
All the decent girls are taken by age 25 and those who remain are horrible for diffrent reasons, mostly because they want to be single and dont need/want a man.

I was raised thinking dating at 25+ would be easy but so far the age of the girls i can date has remained the same while my competition has increased tenfold

>>39608599
Some of us ogres have never shined :(

>>39608603
thats what you get listening to /pol/ retards. Older guys don't have a advantage unless you have money and only plan on being with gold diggers for the remainder of your dating life.

Listen here little baby. You're gonna get a lot of hurtful and degrading comments, but that ain't what I'm about. Let me just say, you are perfect the way you are. You hear me sugar? PERFECT. Don't ever change. You deserve anything and everything you want. Stay safe for me, baby girl.

>mfw thinking of you hurting

>>39608579
OP pls answer me

>>39608548
Tits or GTFO, you fat bitch

>>39608604
wanna get hitched then?

>>39608605
That's definitely not true at all m8.

I'm 30 and I've literally never dated a girl that wasn't 4-5 years younger than me and I occasionally have sex with girls who are 18-20 from clubs and stuff.

Women genuinely do look a lot worse at 30 and age a lot worse than men. a 28-30 year old woman looks old as fuck. Meanwhile most guys look the same as they did at 22-25 for a long time, especially if you take care of yourself.

And honestly, dating at 30 is a joke, every woman you meet who is even remotely close to your age literally throws herself at you and wants to get married tomorrow.

>Older guys don't have a advantage unless you have money and only plan on being with gold diggers for the remainder of your dating life.

It's actually the opposite. Younger girls want to talk, get to know you, date, have romance. Women around 30 want to get married ASAP as soon as they find out you have a good job because they're desperate.

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No such thing as too late.
Ive been obese and ugly my entire life aswell currently working on it tho. Went from 135kg down to 88kg now im just overweight and ugly. The hardest part is the start but once ur set in a rhythm you'll wonder why you didn't do it earlier

>>39608610
It is more hard getting into a long term relationship with younger women though.

>>39608611
How tall are you? Your legs looks super short.

>>39608548
it's not too late, you got a cute face?

>>39608594
dude same

i was fat for majority of high school and part of uni but now i am very in shape but still suffer from ugly duckling syndrome. i don't leave my house unless for uni (where i avoid everyone, i just wanna graduate). i have some guys approach me even though i never make eye contact with anyone and just stare at the ground but most of these guys are weird or indian. i've grown very reserved and boring but angry (all that 4chan brainwashing) and no longer know how to interact with normal human beings. i lather myself in sunscreen and skin care products in hopes of preserving what little youth i have left so that once i do graduate, develop a personality and sex appeal, i may find my one :(( even though by then, they'll all be flocking to the younger models.......

>>39608612
It is pointless to get into longterm with 30+ woman. She will be too old after marriage for kids or even sex.

>>39608612
No it's not. Not at all. What are you talking about?

It's harder to get into a genuine LTR with a older women definitely. They're so desperate that you're "in a relationship" after a week of knowing each other. While with younger girls it'll take a couple of months of dating, which is more fun and honestly more genuine because you get to know each other and develop feelings for each other.

Instead of this desperate "YEAH I'M A GROWN WOMAN I KNOW WHAT I WANT IN MAN HHAHAHAHA PLEASE MARRY ME" bullshit. Older women are all around trash- higher body count, look worse, relationships aren't as interesting and fun or genuine etc. People who get married at this age are honestly 99% likely to get a divorce, relationships that women have past the age of 30 are so fake.

>>39608610
>Women genuinely do look a lot worse at 30 and age a lot worse than men
Im not him but im the guy he replied to and this is the only thing in your post i can relate to

After my relationship ended i was 26 and starting a uni education, i wanted to further my career and had a mangers position before school so i was social, smart and fit. Ive been single for the past 4 years and ive met maybe 4-5 girls who were single during this entire time. Most of these openly admitted to dating several other guys beside me and while ive not had any girl reject me asking for a date i rarely meet girls who are single.

All the girls ive taken out and dated have been 19-23 and the only girl i have met during this time who was 25+ and single was a complete airhead and insanely vapid. She lost track of a conversation that went on for longer than 2 sentences.

So yeah, dating at 30 is a fucking joke. The dating pool is small as fuck and those few fish who are there are there because their standards are extremly high and noone will ever reach them

Where do you live btw? The promised land?

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>>39608613
5ft 8 or 173cm
Those pants are just heaps baggy nowadays

Dont mind the arching up

>>39608618
I don't understand your post.

Are you saying you can't date younger women or are you saying the opposite?

>>39608610
So it basically revolves around looks? What if you got to know a girl and you liked her and everything went smoothly and then you found out she was 30, would you just drop her?

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>tfw 23 year old man and I've never been in a relationship
>Feel like I've missed out on dating somebody young and now the best I can do is date someone used up with emotional baggage
>Getting older and women are losing quality by the year

FUCK

>>39608621
>What if you got to know a girl and you liked her and everything went smoothly and then you found out she was 30, would you just drop her?
m8, you can see she is 30+. It can't be a surprise.

>>39608621
Did you even read my post? That's the opposite of what I said.

>and then you found out she was 30, would you just drop her?

No I'd have sex with her and I'd go out with her, but I definitely wouldn't invest emotionally. 30 year old relationships are literally a joke. It's either two desperate people trying to console themselves on losing out on an actual relationship by pretending that they've "finally found the right person" or it's a woman desperately trying to get someone to marry her. I'm not buying it m8.

>>39608620
>Are you saying you can't date younger women or are you saying the opposite?
Im saying i can only date younger but its not exactly easy

I havent had the experience of girls throwing themselves at me at all, most are already in a relationship and those very few who are single are in very high demand and are usually dating several other guys as well

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>>39608548
Regardless, your quality of life, self-image, self-esteem, pride, self-confidence, and the respect you will get from others will all improve.

The strength, self-discipline and self-control you will gain from becoming /fit/ will spill over into other areas of your life.

You have one life, one shot at existence. Once you are dead, there are no do-overs. You have a stark choice; imagine yourself on your deathbed, dying young of a preventable cause, alone and contemplating a life blighted by obesity, cowardice, and lack of willpower. Imagine the shame and regret you will feel over how you wasted your life.

Now imagine yourself on your deathbed, much older, surrounded by family, after a long life filled with the benefits fitness brings, and the challenges your strengthened character has let you triumph over. Think of the happy memories, and how proud you will feel that one day, as a young adult, you decided that you'd had enough mediocrity and decided to excel.

Your life, your call. Have you ever climbed a mountain?

>>39608576
slampig still makes me laugh haha

>>39608625
>I havent had the experience of girls throwing themselves at me at all, most are already in a relationship and those very few who are single are in very high demand and are usually dating several other guys as well

Every girl from the age of 16 "dates" multiple guys m8. Especially nowadays. Maybe you're going for the wrong type of girl desu.

Younger women don't "throw" themselves at me. Older women genuinely do, after 5 minutes of talking to me they start using every signal imagineable and every hint imagineable to get me to ask them out. Touching me, using very flirtatious body-language and eye contact etc.

>I wish I had something to do on Friday hahaha.

Whereas with younger women, I meet them, we chat, we have a laugh, I ask for their facebook, I message them, we go out, we have fun and make a genuine connection.

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>>39608548
>it's too late to get /fit/

its NEVER too late

>>39608628
Your experience vastly differs from mine
I have more younger girls throwing themselves at me and some even pursuing me but still i wouldnt call dating easy because the extreme lack of options and opportunities hurts me

Granted i almost never meet girls who are single who i can even ask out so its not strange that our experience is so vastly diffrent but i find it hard to believe that you manage to find so many girls who are single.

Ive looked in every place i can think of, school, work, gym, martial arts class, dance class, friends of friends and the number of girls who are single is just not there.

>>39608611
Sorry about the gut man. but you're doing well, very respectable

>>39608631
M8 where do you live that you don't have many options for dating?

I live in London, I can't complain.

>Granted i almost never meet girls who are single

There's definitely more taken girls than there are single girls, but I meet quite a bit, idk. You might just be unlucky in that regard.

>>39608548
>I'll never be number one so why even bother trying

This is why you're fat to begin with. Also the handicapped mentality a lot of women have.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself and do whatever it takes.

Count calories correctly and exercise some self control, intermittent fasting or water fasting if you can handle it will help if you seem to hit a wall.

>>39608633
I live in Sweden but from what ive heard its supposed to be good for dating but its really not.
Even in the big cities the number of girls who are avaliable is very low and i have no idea what the demands are and if i meet em or not because i havent really gotten rejected.

I really thought uni would be diffrent and while i have a strong bias against women in uni or college i thought just dating/fucking would be fun but holy shit that place was/is a complete wasteland

OP here, I have a question

I get that 25+ year old women aren't attractive to you or worth your time, especially when they hit 30

So what do you do when the 23 year old reaches that age, dump them for a newer model?

Seems sociopathic to me

Further evidence that men don't have feelings.

>>39608633
OP here, I also live in London

Where do you get dates?

Where in London can I meet guys/how do I put myself out there?

>>39608636
The hope is that the girl will develop other traits to make her worthwhile, like the providing of material, emotional, or financial support.

Girls who are boring or stupid as shit and can't converse worth a damn, girls who refuse to do domestic tasks because they think they're degrading, girls who are lazy and expect you to provide for them and give nothing in return, those are the ones you throw away.

>>39608548

Lol, are you seriously believing in that stuff? They only tell that to suicidal guys so they won't kill themselves.

1. You can find a BF at any age as long as you aren't trashy looking. You can even date younger guys because there are plenty who are into older women. Meanwhile older men are still struggling with dates unless they're making lots of cash.
2. You should get /fit/ for yourself, not for someone else, otherwise you're never gonna make it.

>>39608637
Get friends, meet their friends, sign up for societies. IDK m8, desu I've literally never had a problem meeting people at all. I've even randomly added people from facebook groups about selling stuff and started messaging them.

In your case I would focus on getting /fit/ first though. When you're an attractive girl in London you'll definitely get approached.

>>39608548
>be born woman in the west
>life on easy mode cheat code activated
>decide to be a fat hamplanet and active nightmare level hard mode
>all you had to do was be skinny and men would have tripped over themselves to give you free shit

How did you fuck up so badly?

>>39608638
So if she can't be beaten into submission you throw her away?

I don't get the whole domestic tasks thing. If I had a boyfriend we would share household chores or do occasional favours for each other, but the idea of me doing most of the housework because it's 'feminine' is just hilarious to me.

>>39608636
In essence, yes.
In practice it's a lot more neurotypical, your 18 y.o. gets older, wants kids and you don't, or wants stability that you can't afford right now, or whatever, and you break up.
It's never the age, it's always some actual issue, but in the end you break up.
Then you're out again, looking for young girl again, and the cycle continues.

>>39608640
> When you're an attractive girl in London you'll definitely get approached.

Where do girls get approached in London? In the streets? I've grown up here and literally never been approached, so I must be really unattractive

It would take me at least a year to lose weight and get plastic surgery for my face, so I would be around 25. Do 25 year old girls still get approached?

>>39608644
You don't need surgery just start working on orthotropics aka mewing

>>39608642
The idea is that the male is likely going to be working longer hours for more pay. Nobody implied physical violence, so I'm not sure why you jump to such a conclusion, but you're an obese girl with no real relationship experience, so I suppose it's not surprising.

To sum, you're a girl who is neither attractive nor helpful nor interesting, so why would a guy date you? If you've ever wondered why girls complain that guys are only interested in sex, it's because, for a lot of girls, sex is pretty much the only thing they have to offer.

>>39608644
You gotta listen to the howling.
Follow the LONDON screams, show a bit of leg, and you'll get approached.

>>39608644
>Do 25 year old girls still get approached?
It depends. What have you done with your life until now?
If you're a basic bitch, then no way, it's full of your younger equivalents.
If you've done something with your life, then that's good, someone might be interested. Because you've made yourself more interesting.

>>39608646
I wasn't implying physical violence either, I'm talking about psychological beating into submission

If they were working that much longer for more pay then why couldn't we afford a cleaner?

I plan on having a career as well (and pay for someone to clean my apartment), I'm not interested in becoming someone's cleaner in exchange for sex and companionship

>>39608548
Well, never late to improve yourself. You can always work on making yourself less miserable at least. Gotta get the best out of what you have.
>>39608636
Dont worry, everybody is a monster in one way or another. Its not exclusive to men or women, everybody has the capacity to do horrible things to themselves and others.
If you are just selling yourself as a fuck doll for some rich guy without attempting to form any sort of meaningful relationship, of course you are going to get ditched when you stop looking as well as younger girls. Thats the reaity. If you are just selling your youth and beauty, guess what happens when you are not young and beautiful. Thats the reality, deal with it.
Dont attach your ego and your life and yoour relationship to things like youth and beauty that go away quickly.

>>39608648
I never realised 25 was that old.

>>39608644
>Where do girls get approached in London?
Typical clueless girl reply
Girls can look at an inbox filled with guys trying to get attention and ask this question
Or ask it straight to a guy who is trying to ask her outs face

Girls get asked out and shown attention all the time, problem is you never notice unless its a guy you are already interested in

>>39608651
it's not. that guy is just retarded.

>>39608636

Depends. If not ready to marry, date until bored, then move on. I'm clear about my intentions from the start, always before we first have sex. If she thinks she can change me, that's on her.

If ready to marry, which is more a function of having one's life in order than being with any particular person, then get married and stay that way. Women age, and that's fine. What's important is that she gave herself at her best to you, and not to a bunch of Chads.

Incidentally, that's good news for OP. You didn't give your youth to Chad or Tyrone. You gave it to Ronald McDonald. Get thin, then marry a guy six or seven years your senior.

>>39608648
what does "having done with your life" have to do with getting approached? Do you have some sort of esp where you can tell someone's accomplishments before you go after them?

you are a fucking retard

>that amazing feel when you're pushing 30 and guys mistake you for some 18-year-old booty because you're no longer a fat piece of shit

feels bready gud. 24 is not the expiration date of a woman despite what most people think. in fact, i've found that a lot men like older women. supposedly they think we're more mature and wise. i mean, we're not, but ayooo what they don't know won't hurt 'em.

I'm from London and I like to fuck fat girls. Shame this is an anonymous board.

>>39608548
Men will fuck anything. Dont act like a 30yo woman cant get a date. Get fit for yourself

>>39608656
>pushing 30 and guys mistake you for some 18-year-old booty
Yes, ill take "Compliments men hand out to get sex" for 200 Alex

>>39608656
>in fact, i've found that a lot men like older women

Because every guy knows you're desperate and easy to fuck and every guy wants to fuck an older woman at least once

>>that amazing feel when you're pushing 30 and guys mistake you for some 18-year-old booty
>"OMG YOU'RE 30? NOOOO, YOU LOOK 18!"
>Actually falling for the oldest fucking trick in the book

Literally no one will ever mistake a woman over 25 for a woman who is 18 unless they're mentally retarded.

>>39608601
>I'd take a woman with a good moral compass and work ethic over an attractive woman who is useless otherwise.
Yeah your standards are pretty high right there, but I agree. I can't stand useless people of either gender.

>>39608555
my wife and i started dating when i was 18 and she was 24

>>39608588
Keep in mind that the people who marry around 29-32 usually have known each other for a long time. You can date for 5-7 years before marrying someone. I think guys age a lot better and the only good looking women past 30 are the ones who dont look 30. But saying that everyone who gets married at 30 is just settling is stupid. Most people dont get married after just a year of relationship

>>39608649
Again, there's no coercion at play. You're asking if guys just throw away their girlfriends for younger ones. They don't, unless the older girl had nothing to offer but her looks. My girlfriend is 27, and she doesn't look as good as she did when she was 23. I can see the crows feet beginning to form around her eyes, I can see her sclera being slightly more pallid and bloodshot. The timbre of her voice is no longer as lilting and soft. I still plan on marrying her, because she's a genuinely good person who cares about my wellbeing and supports me, no matter what I do. She wakes at the same time as me, at 6:30, to make me breakfast, even though her classes don't start until 9:00. I know she's going to be a good mom.

You, as far as I gather, are unwilling to do these things. You don't even have the willpower to take care of yourself, let alone others. Why would a high-value guy have you?

>>39608654
>You didn't give your youth to Chad or Tyrone. You gave it to Ronald McDonald.
kek'ed

>>39608563
Sounds like youre throwing yourself a pity party and could care less about health or fitness. Leave this board and hang yourself if you have thick enough rope

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>>39608548

Lose weight, lift heavy, get THINN.

There's definitely some 10/10 chad thundercock religious dude who wants a pure qt3.14 gf, or some autistic handsome bodybuilder type who would appreciate what you've been through.

This is entirely predicated upon you actually changing and becoming who you want to be.

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>>39608587
This is retarded, when I was 20 I was hooking up with a single 38 year old who did not want kids or a relationship, just wanted to be friends and fuck a lot. Stop putting older women on a pedestal, your mom begs for the dick just like any 20 year old.

>>39608566
Lmao implying that's not the case

>>39608662
J, is that you?

>>39608548
What do you have to lose? Just do it and life your life. You can and will find someone do you know how many thirsty men are out there? Sheeeeit.

>>39608590
To dump cum in, faggot.

>>39608664
>not being as attracted to someone because the whites of their eyes aren't as white anymore
>being made breakfast every morning like you're a kid

Jesus Christ.

>>39608548
25 year old man here. I started with 100 kg eight months ago and I am now lifting 1/2/3/4 at 88 kg bodyweight.

It's never to late. Especially not if you are under 30.

>>39608674
You're a man, it's different for you, you just get better with age.

>>39608673
the signs of old age are unattractive, what a shock you crusty ambulocetus

>>39608675
Women's attractiveness goes downhill after 35. There are still a lot of years left to be fit and attractive.

>>39608676
Why do the whites of her eyes make you not as attracted to her? That's so ridiculous and sad

Enjoy your breakfast in bed every morning from mommy, oh sorry, I mean your girlfriend.

Yikes.

>>39608548
Do not, I repeat, do NOT take this the wrong way: Does your pussy smell like vinegar? Again do NOT take that the wrong way.

Just checking in again to make sure you didn't take my question the wrong way. Answer it though, cunt.

>>39608548
What the fuck are you talking about?
I'm 27 and lost 15 kilos in just 3 months eating healthy and hitting the gym.
Listen, if you discipline yourself you can achieve anything.
So stop crying and exercise.
Also, men like women at any age.
I find girls in their 30's are specially hot, desu.

>>39608659
>>39608660

>being this upset

>>39608660
I'm mentally retarded.

>>39608678
>having a loving partner willing to perform kind gestures to show their affection

no need to feel bitter that you will never experience that feeling you gluttonous pig.

>>39608678
Listen, I don't give a shit if you make it or not. We get it, you think men are sociopaths who are just going to kick you to the curb because got old or you didn't do the laundry, but it's not like that. You just lash out at others like me because we manage to have loving relationships while you're wallowing in your own skin. You begrudge others their successes while blaming them for their failures, and until you stop doing so, you're never going to make it.

Have a good life and good luck; you're gonna need it.

>>39608683
What do you do for her, do YOU ever cook her breakfast?

Do you just give her money and presents or do you do things that take effort like cooking and cleaning

>>39608548
Stop thinking like that. The main choice YOU have is improving your situation or not improving it. That's a lot simpler than the complicated hypothetical bullshit you make it out to be.

>>39608684
>sociopaths who are just going to kick you to the curb because got old or you didn't do the laundry

But that's literally what you said, you're only with your aging girlfriend because she does chores and cooks for you so you think she'll be a good mother.

>>39608687
Sorry, didn't mean to say she'll be a good mother. I meant to say she takes my dick up her asshole real good, and that she's your mother. Thought you'd understand the shorthand.

>>39608687
>>39608688
Fat roastie getting toasty lmoa

>>39608687
You want people to see you as a desirable mate despite putting zero effort into your own well being. How do you expect anyone to respect you if are unable to put the minimum amount of effort into being a responsible adult. take charge of your life and stop looking for excuses to make yourself feel better about your bad life choices. Now go drown your sorrows in a tub of ice cream and feed your cats.

>>39608615
pls be in london

>>39608548
Don't worry about being a christmas cake. Do it for you and it will only open up doors and help your ambitions. Work towards your ambitions and you'll eventually find someone you like.

- /fit/ fem anon

>>39608687
You're unkind, unhelpful, unintelligent, and unattractive. No wonder you can't fathom being in a loving relationship.

Go on a 500 calorie defficit and you'll be healthy by the end of next summer

SAGE this shit

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we're all going to make it

>>39608685
Not him, but this is cheap b8. Are you implying that providing money, and things that cost money, don't require effort? You know some people literally cook/clean for money, so regardless of your shitposting, society at large acknowledges that money requires effort to acquire. 2/10 made me reply.

>>39608646
>If you've ever wondered why girls complain that guys are only interested in sex, it's because, for a lot of girls, sex is pretty much the only thing they have to offer.

This. I'm not even an incel. But when I swipe on Tinder, 90% of the girls seems super boring. Like nothing interesting about them besides being boring-hot. Nothing stands out. Almost like they were factory produced. I switch to guys and there is a huge difference in diversity. There are "chads" so good looking handsome guys, engineer types, hipster types, average guys, all kind of people.

>>39608548
>Apparently I'm nearing the end of my 'prime'
>nearing
lol
A woman's prime is when she is 16-18 years old, you're long past it. But, since you are still a virgin, if you get fit you can have a good life by finding a good man and marrying him.

>>39608646
>To sum, you're a girl who is neither attractive nor helpful nor interesting, so why would a guy date you? If you've ever wondered why girls complain that guys are only interested in sex, it's because, for a lot of girls, sex is pretty much the only thing they have to offer.

This so much, most women are so fucking boring. Even if they have some interesting hobby, 99% of times they have only picked it up because their last boyfriend was into it and they have only shallow interest or knowledge about it.

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>>39608548
Women's prime years are between 25-30
Stop making excuses and get your ass into a gym.

>>39608655
The reason for this "wall" or whatever isn't that girls go from beautiful to ugly in two days. It's that girls can afford to be absolutely mediocre career wise, have a boring personality, be socially retarded and still get dates and pick up a new guy every week. It was always like this, but now in the age of Tinder it's easier than ever. Then, when they get older and their looks start to fade, they have nothing to offer and get crushed when guys don't give them attention anymore.
Feminism and the amount of white-knights just make this worse desu. "You're worth everything babe", "He wasn't good enough for you anyway", "He doesn't deserve you", "You will find someone". Women will believe these and when they get crushed they will try come up with terms like "slut-shaming", which is basically shaming men for having preferences, or "fuckboy" so basically a guy who wants to get laid.

A 30 year old women who has done something in life and is alright looking will still be able to get dates, simply there wont be 25 guys out of her league approaching her in a single night. The fact that women get so crushed by this when men have to live their entire life like this just shows how weak they are mentally

>>39608548
So just date older guys. It's not the end of the world man.

>>39608548
>(201lbs, 5'6)
Fatter girls have gotten married. Just give it a shot, what else are you going to do with your life?

>>39608548

You should work out to get some better confidence and drop all that defeatist crap.

>>39608687
You're a female /r9k/ equivalent

Hopefully you can see why they're losers and why you should avoid it

>>39608572
T H I S
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>>39608569
>forever a skelly

>thinking about
you're a thinker, not a doer. if you were a doer, you'd do it. there's no point in telling you to do it, because if you wanted to do it, as a doer you'd do it. all i can say to you is to accept yourself and maybe find a hobby to distract yourself from your pathetic ineptitude. fatty.

>>39608584
This OP
Lift or kys

do not let 4chan neuroticism affect you femanon. lose a few pounds and ill gladly fuck the shit out of u

>>39608711
no one wanna fuck you

>>39608548
That's what you get for being a pig all your life. Fuck in roastie. What the fuck is this thread even about ? Fuck off you piece of shit.

>>39608548
>http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2010/02/just-because-you-have-vagina.html?zx=fc859430b9816bc0
>http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com/2011/01/just-because-you-have-vagina-second.html?zx=69e34c44c0d3a4df

>>39608680
I think in their 30's girls are called women...

>>39608548
Just die already.

Im literally getting an indonesian wife in a few months time because western women are fat dumb fucking trash like you.

>>39608548
You have no chance fatty. I suggest you invest in lots of cats now cos you're gonna be alone for the rest of your life desu.

>>39608548
Virginity is valuable at your age.

Get fit and you could find a husband.

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>>39608548
>Who would want me. Feels so bad man

>tfw no older, fat and ugly gf to send me lewd pics so i can masturbate with them
Life is terrible

if you really want to lose weight then make an excel chart for your calorie intake and make sure its always below the TDEE for your weight and lifestyle

>>39608548
I fucked a fat girl once, it wasn't nice. She had a cute face and she was cool though so I didn't feel too bad. If you're ugly and depressed AND fat you're completely screwed, you'll only get fucked by weirdos with fucked up fetishes. Better work on yourself and fix what can be fixed.