my biggest problem in life is that I don't want anything. Most people want careers, cars, more money, houses, etc. They want those things so bad, that they do things that are undesirable, things they don't want to do. They work at jobs they hate and save their money, because every day it puts them a little closer to the thing they want. Most people can unite in this kind of struggle, but if you have nothing you want, you don't fit in anywhere.
How do you get through life not wanting anything? Do you continue to search for something you want? The reason I stay NEET is because nothing is compelling enough to suffer for. Or do you accept that you will never want anything, but then where do you even go from there?
People tell me that being NEET is terrible, but it's not terrible because you do nothing all day-- it's terrible because, in the back of your mind, there is the inevitability of working, and one day, you will have to work like everybody else, and it will be grueling and miserable. If I could have the peace of mind that I would never have to work again, then being NEET wouldn't be bad at all.
I did the NEET thing for a few years.
It was fun at first but did weird things to my head- even hobbies like reading, hiking and watching movies suffered because I couldn't concentrate. My sleep pattern was ruined. I couldn't talk with people. My attention and patience with people was destroyed. I went from a pretty easy-going guy to a paranoid mess who was always on edge and kind of a dick. I found myself drinking too much and being angry all the time.
I wouldn't recommend it unless you are 100% disabled. That lifestyle gets really old, really fast.
Absolutely same here dude.
>>39547110
i'm the same
best advice i can give is to find something to be into, which costs pretty serious cash
maybe a nice car or travel
but yeah, i'm a neet too, no real desire for anything except video games and pizza right now
Awakened at 630? If I'm not in the car at 630 I'm fucked.
>>39547110
> If I could have the peace of mind that I would never have to work again, then being NEET wouldn't be bad at all.
this
i feel paralysed not knowing how long i'll be able to be a neet. afraid im going to live on the streets some day. imagine that, sitting on a pavement without any media begging for money all day without the guts to kys
>>39547110
>it's terrible because, in the back of your mind, there is the inevitability of working
I more or less completely collapsed in my late 20s and this summarizes the terror of NEETdom very well for me. I gave up my career and did absolutely nothing for about a year, went back, quit again, and then did nothing for 6 months. Now I'm working again, more miserable than ever. I died inside several years ago and I don't think I'm ever coming back to life.
I would have never returned if I had the resources to cocoon myself forever, and make no pretense that I would ever emerge as a butterfly. NEETdom is death.
>>39547110
fucking stupid neet YOU HAVE TO CONTRIBUTE TO SOCIETY WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT
>>39550403
make me wagie