>Only two friends in my life >One of them is female >Big

>>39472832
She is actively friendzoning you. If she wasn't she would tell you shes got a BF and all that. What she is doing is basically shopping around and fucking as many guys as she can and keeping you on a leash as her "safety net" in case nothing she tries sticks. Cut her off and stop talking to her. One of two things will happen. A, she becomes a massive cunt because she is upset her safety net is gone. B, she realizes she can't control you like she is and will come crawling to you giving you the power to say "we either are together or we don't interact anymore" to take yourself out of the friendzone.

Both scenarios is a win. If you invest a ton of time into a female other females will not be interested in you. Nothing turns a woman off more than a man that is giving away his time/resources to another woman without any benefits. They see that as weakness because they want a man who will keep everything to himself or at least let her access those resources. Not some fag who gives his valuable time/money to a FRIEND.

>>39472915
Your plan seem good. I think I need to do something about it, I can't take much more of this situation, hearing her casually lie to me about this is just soulcrushing.

Should I confront her about the BF or should I just stick to the "together or apart" plan ?

>>39473043
You just leave. Stop talking to her. Remove her from your social media. You basically want to make it difficult for her to contact you. The harder it is to contact you the more you know you have control of the situation.

If she never contacts you, you know she was using you as an emotional tampon while paying the other men with dick for it or you were the "safety net" she wants to keep unattached by leading you on so when things go back you are there to pick everything up.

And as said earlier, if you remove her from everything and she somehow contacts you then you now know she was trying to keep you controlled as a safety net but actually liked you. Then you can pressure her with the "No, I am not playing these fucking games you are either going to be with me exclusively or I am going to find another woman who wants my attention and time instead. You aren't worth my time or attention just as a friend because I get nothing out of it but a pain in the ass."

>>39473043
It is an extremely common tactic for women to keep a guy around by being ambiguous about their relationships or what is going on with their life so that they can always have you as a backup plan. Matter of fact, that is one of the reason if you meet another girl your femalefriend will become a jealous bitch and try to either lure you away with the promise of getting with her but never doing it or trying to sabotage your friendship/relationship with the other girl just to keep you around her as the safety net. Another good tactic is to ignore her and just start bringing around other females. Sometimes when they feel their safety net is going to be stolen by another women they panic and will dive into the relationship as a last ditch effort to keep you. The key thing here is to make sure through your actions that she sees she is expendable and doesn't control you.

>>39473106
You convinced me. I won't get anything from her if I don't do anything anyway. I still feel bad about breaking our relationship but the truth is that lately, it's more painfull than conforting anyway. Not gonna lie, if she doesn't reach out to me I'll get pretty sad. But hey, at least I won't be a pathetic orbiter anymore.

I'll proceed with this plan immediatly.

>>39473273
Godpseed Anon, and don't let her guilt you. You will notice when she is gone you will start having more free time and as time goes on you will start feeling more like yourself and not a slave to her whims.

If she does try to guilt her tell her "I don't have the time to spend being your friend while still trying to get a girlfriend. All you are doing is keeping me stuck single. So you can either get with me and problem fixed or I am leaving you to find myself a woman who is interested in me. Goodbye." Make it sound as final as possible.

>>39473398
I will, thank you Anon. I needed this.