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>girl I beta orbited through high school messages me four

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>girl I beta orbited through high school messages me four years later out of the blue to apologize for all the ways she fucked over my social life

d-did I win?
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>>39376122
You win if you don't respond.
SHE WANTS A DRAMA FIX, DON'T GIVE HER ONE.
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No, she did. She got to treat everyone like shit while living the high life and is only apologizing to feel good about herself. She doesn't give a shit about you. Tell her what you really think.
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>>39376122
>Too little, too late

no replies thereafter, delete on all forms of media
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>>39376122

>you get a pity message
>she gets chads bwc
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>>39376122
Dont answer her, if you have any intelligence and self respect youll delete and ignore this.
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>>39376138
This this this leave this bitch on seen. She doesn't "admire" you, she probably just watched 13 reasons or some shit
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Don't respond is good advice, but you might also ask her if she wants to bang for the fuck of it.
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>>39376122
She just wants the attention back.
Tell her thanks and unfriend her
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>>39376122

What was the gist of the post you made that caused her to message you?

Also, I agree with the other guy, just don't respond. She's looking for an easy way out of her guilt. Unless you are a truly forgiving person, just move on.

If you really wanted to put some sting in it I would consider just unfriending her now.
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>>39376122
Just tell how you felt back then and how you really feel about her. If you forgive her, tell her that. If not, tell her to go fuck herself but be polite. She's most likely apologizing because she just wants to feel better about herself but maybe she's truly sorry? I don't know. Just tell her the truth if you care enough to do it.
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>>39376180
Yeah, do this. Two messages:
>"aight we cool then haha"
>"wanna smash?"
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>>39376122

lol she didn't even apologize for ANYTHING. she didn't list ONE SINGLE THING she did to you. all she said is

>"boy, i have so much guilt! hey eric check out how guilty i am for being such a shitty person! welp, see ya later!"

that's not an apology in the slightest. i'd deadass link her this link about Regret vs. Remorse

>https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stop-caretaking-the-borderline-or-narcissist/201507/regret-vs-remorse
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>>39376122
Don't reply to her, if she fucked with you that badly possibility is that her life is probably shit now and wants to feel speshul
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>>39376179
This is the correct answer. Let it fester in her mind until it drives her so mad that she might send an even more exposing message.
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>>39376208

Yep, this is self serving bullshit. She probably watched some movie and decided she wanted to be a different person, but she'll be back fucking Chad and Tyrone next week while making fun of you
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>>39376122
Don't respond dude. That's the only answer.

But seeing as you're a little bitch, you probably will.
So what are you going to tell her?
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>>39376162
I actually take this back, I think a 'no reply' would be the best solution
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>>39376205
Absolutely do not do this
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>>39376122
No you lose even more. The pity from a woman is poison.
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>>39376122
>Thank you for being less of a cunt than I remember you being.
>What's your little sister up to these days?

It's all about being smooth, OP.
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>>39376189
just like a celebratory sort of post on Instagram for my first day off antidepressants in 8 years

>>39376205
>>39376180
>>39376167
lol I wish, she's still with the same chad from high school, they've been dating for 6 years (and she's cheated on him countless times as everyone knows)
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>>39376277

As smooth as your diaper rash
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>>39376288

First day off? Please tell me you tapered off
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i feel like you should probably kys
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>>39376168
This op it's the only way to win against her. Don't even give her a response
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If you don't reply she'll think you just changed your number, just if you send anything only send one word.
Just send "k"
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>>39376189
Yeah, I think we really need to see the original post before we cast judgement. After all OP could just be some whiney beta fishing for compliments...
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Absolutely agree with the no response and unfriend strategy. Don't let her off easy. I swear if you respond in any way that indicates you forgive her you're no longer a man and/or never will be.
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>>39376288
It's not like you'd get to bang her, it's just banter.
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>>39376277
>this is /r9k/'s definition of smooth
Sounds about right
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Don't reply. It's not worth it. I guarantee she hasn't thought about that message at all since she sent it and she only did it to pat herself on the back.
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>>39376122
>>39376288

What did she do to you though

You said you beta orbited her, which is kind of voluntary but, what did she do to you? All the anons in this thread are out for blood but that apology didn't say what she did to you nor did you say it
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>>39376388
This too. More context OP.
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>>39376310

This nigga gets it. The best response is one that is totally devoid of thought or emotion. It has to seem like you barely skimmed the message and only regarded it for a fraction of a second, sending off only a single letter because you just couldn't be assed.
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POST HER FUCKING PICS NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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>>39376122
If you don't mind, how did she fuck over your social life?
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>>39376306
I did, it was slow and I'm doing fine now

>>39376313
pic

>>39376388
her and her friends pretended to be friends with me for almost two years when they suddenly turned on me and told me they never liked hanging out with me, so at this point I had no other friends for the rest of high school (since they were the only people I'd been hanging out with for the last two years). when I tried to kill myself immediately after she freaked out and made it a big thing and told my parents which almost made me unable to go to college

also little assorted things, she'd be really bitchy to me about her bf, literally texting me every time they had sex to rub it in; when I got sexually assaulted she told me I had it coming; she turned me into the principle saying I'd been selling drugs even though I had only smoked weed once in my life at that point
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>>39376501
You better not fucking respond to her
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>>39376501
Wow what a cunt. Seriously tell her to fuck off.
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>>39376501
Well, that's really fucked up. I'd tell her to go fuck herself rather than not saying anything.
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>>39376501
roasties should roast in hell, don't absolve them of their sins
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>>39376501
>liked by _____ and 129 others
>and 129 others

what kind of turbo normie are you?

what the fuck


Someone on r9k actually has 130 people in their life?
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>>39376532
no, that won't sting as hard. say nothing op
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Send a screen cap of the fake fbi tip submission
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>>39376501
>129 likes
I could save the world and I'd wouldn't get half as many likes. Normie GTFO.
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>>39376122
She's doing this to make herself feel better. Like everyone said, just don't respond. Don't give her the satisfaction.
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>>39376122
let her rot. she deserves far more than to be left on read.
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>>39376122
>did I win

No not really , because she is still having the time of her life and you are a neet loser on r9k . The chances are after she wrote this she went on to have her glamorous life and wants nothing to do with you , . Also why the fuck did you write to get recently .
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>>39376544
This . Seriously 130? Not an robot.
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>>39376501
Initially I wasn't as on board with the anons trying to get you reply so curtly but the shit she did to you especially texting you after they banged is fucking obscene.
For your own dignity you gotta reply as others have suggested with "k" or something of the sort.
Don't let stacies fuck you over like that AND get their feelgood apology acceptance.
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>>39376501
I will pray for this roastie slut to die a painful death
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>>39376544
>>39376560
I don't normally get anywhere near this many likes, normies love to come out in full force and pat themselves on the back when mental illness is concerned

also I'm not close to these people, instagram is something normies just add acquaintances on the moment they meet them (I've moved around a lot in the last couple years).

i really only have one or two good friends and have never had a gf
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>>39376544
idk some people stack up social media friends just because they're in the same school who don't do anything except like posts like this so they can feel good about themselves. Even the most fucking autistic people I knew growing up had at least 100 random school people as friends on fb
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>>39376544
I'm conflicted because what OP described certainly sounds like a fucked up robot life but his instagram post is like a 6/10 roastie slut showcasing her "weight loss journey"
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Hey buddy, at least you had someone acknowledge you for your struggles. That has almost never, ever happened to me. People find it a humorous sport to minimize and invalidate my hardships and then rub it all in my face.
My own father, who taught me to ruthlessly suppress my thoughts and emotions, even gave me a gold ring when I graduated high school. He said "this is for me and everyone else not letting you be who you are". He explained what he meant and I was very sad. And that was years and years ago. A very rare moment.

Bask in your rare glory anon. Someone recognized your struggles as a man, apologized to you and congratulated you. Take it all in.
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OP listen to me. Ask yourself if acts of injustice and cruelty should be met with punishment. What has she been punished for so far? Nothing.

We need to reinforce the idea that your actions have consequences. Roasties these days just do whatever they want. Don't let her feel good about herself by dignifying her with a response.
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>>39376501
Either don't respond or tell her to fuck off. You don't just get to absolve yourself of your sins be your "sowwy :(". She is a shit person and deserves no validation.
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>>39376501
>VIRGIN
That little detail was hilarious.
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>>39376783
>Be
Because*
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>>39376687
This, kind of.
I've had a lot of people shitting on me through my childhood and all of them seem to live fulfilling life (at least better than mine), and none of them acknowledged their mistreatment of me or even considered saying anything about the pain they've put me through. Just World fallacy is a meme, and I just accepted it and forgave but didn't forget. It doesn't matter to me anymore, no sense holding grudge when it has no effect on anything. Enjoy that small victory you got from her message and just move on without replying or talking to her. You are in a better place now and you've reached there without her, no point bringing her back. Good luck man! Keep the poison away as much as you can.
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>>39376122
>Eric
OP is pic related confirmed
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>>39376813
That Eric at least got a cute girlfriend and had genuine friends too.
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>>39376122
>Eric
>bad highschool experience
huh
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>>39376138
This. You will drive her nuts and will actually appear more attractive to her.

Original.

Original.
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>>39376687
I really appreciate this.

>>39376785
You're definitely the first person to make that joke every time I post a screenshot on here!!! Wow thank you!

>>39376813
I assure you I am less attractive and socially successful
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>>39376972
Wow! You have a habit of posting phone screenshots on /r9k/! You're a numale on zog pills! Yowza!
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>>39376122
Tell her the best way for her to apologize is for her to give you a nice fuck.
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>>39376501
Why the fuck is she on your facebook still?

Either don't respond and remover her as a friend, or tell her to go fuck herself and remove her as a friend whilst blocking her.
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>>39376122
>please don't go on a shooting spree but if you do, don't come after me at least, tee hee
There you go. I translated it for you.
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>>39376501

Somebody with big experience dealing with this sorta shit. For the love of god just don't reply, best thing would be to block her.

If you are looking for sex, don't bother it's a trap. She'll not give you a lay.

If you are looking for a positive experience don't. With the way it happens it'll end up sending u into a depression.

If you are happy and content from just reading that, I wouldn't be. If she stubs her toe tomorrow and ends up on her period she'll just be a bitch to deal with.

Best to just walk away and consider this one of those rare things that happen in life as you move forward.
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>>39376687
You like dick, don't you?
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Forgiveness isn't for her, it's for you. Will you really be happier if you don't forgive her? Are you really "winning" anything?

Everyone else here will tell you otherwise, but they're still here, aren't they?
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>>39377319
Wow, I can feel the vagina opening between my legs just reading this. It takes ZERO effort to nothing, and just because ol' Eric wants to leave her with a (healthy) "fuck you" doesn't mean he's going to be scarred for the rest of his life. Jesus Christ.
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>>39377319
>Will you really be happier if you don't forgive that murderer? Are you really "winning" anything?
Actions have consequences. If you reward antisocial behavior, you fuck up the commons and attack the fabric of society. I sentence this whore to death.
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>>39377377
But will it really help him?

In her mind, she has done right. She will forgive herself regardless of what he says. So his response is really only for him. What is best for him?
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>>39377441
If it were me, I would feel more satisfied not saying anything or just telling her to fuck off. I guess if it were you, you'd whine to her about how your pussy is whispering to you to forgive her and maybe you'd toss her a spiel about how your nuts have receded over the past few years. It's good that you're being the doubles advocate for him, though.
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>>39376122
This either means:

1. She got away with fucking people over all through high school and now she's coming back around and hunting for free empathy points. She's probably got a list or something and I wouldn't be surprised if that apology was copy/pasted.

2. She saw the picture you posted (that you admitted got more likes than your usual posts) and decided "hmm, I could really cash in on this" so she messaged you looking for a drama fix or trying to be "the one who was there for you" for publicity

3. She acknowledges that she treated you poorly but she doesn't understand the full extent of how horrible she made you feel and/or she's not yet sorry enough to actually acknowledge her wrongdoings and sincerely apologize for them (remember how she said she could write a novel about all her misdeeds yet failed to mention a single one?), or

4. When you snap, she doesn't want to be among the first to go.

Whichever way you look at it, she's just using an emotionless half-assed apology and probably ultimately trying to make herself look like the good girl.
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>>39377524
Quick satisfaction is not the way to find happiness, Anon. I guess it's a great way to wake up one day old and unhappy, but I guesss it will be okay, because hey, at least you told off that bitch from high school.
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>>39377524
this anon speaks the truth
ooorego
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>>39376122

Call her a stupid fucking cunt and block her
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>>39376122
God is about forgiveness OP. He will forgive you for everything you've done wrong. You can forgive others. Forgive her and move on. Hate in your heart will only leave you bitter.
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>>39377310
No, but I've thought about it a lot over the years, and I wish I did, since it would have made things so much easier. But that's gross.
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>>39377645
I don't know much about God, but this guy is right. She won't really care if you don't forgive her, she's done what she thinks she had to do. If you don't forgive you're just a petty dick in her mind, and there's nothing she can do about that.

Not forgiving her may give you satisfaction but is that really want you need?
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>>39377631
It's not quick satisfaction. You don't forgive everyone that asks for it, especially if it's as emotionally void as OP's message. And when you're old and alone wondering.
>>39377645
And it's not like it's hate, it's important to show indifference so you can move past her. View her like a pebble on the ground. No point in interacting with toxic people
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Listen, there's an easy way to tell if she means it or not.

Tell her to call you and apologize if she's sincere. If she does, ask her what specifically she's apologizing for. If she doesn't, she doesn't respect you and puts her pride above earning forgiveness. Texts are easy and cost her nothing.
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Just ignore her and why does she have your Instagram anyway? I've had people that fucked me over send me friend requests on normie book and I delete them. It's not about being bitter or about holdng a grudge...it's about, what's the point? I'm not really interested in adding some cunt because they want a +1 on their friend count number
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>>39377757
And when you're old and alone wondering how so many people took advantage of you, it'll be okay because at least you forgave them**
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>>39377738
satisfaction sounds pretty good if the other option is paying her lip service that he himself will never believe. what exactly does that get him? getting right with god for a second before he does something else deemed sinful?
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>>39377738
>If you don't forgive her you're just a petty dick in her mind
So what? Do her feelings even matter? Does it matter if she takes anything away from this?
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>>39376288
>just like a celebratory sort of post on Instagram for my first day off antidepressants in 8 years
humongous normalfag detected
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Furthermore, why are you asking us if you've won, OP? Do you feel that you've won?
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>>39377880
[spoilers] >OP is. Girl?
The instagram post and the sexual assault say it all
That's all I'm saying here
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>>39377847
No, and that's the point. Why should OP care what she feels about this? He should only care about how he feels. All I am asking is: will he really be better off telling her to fuck off?

I would take the high ground, and never forget it.
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>>39377738
Did you read what she did to him? She didn't even deserve to have her text read.

Do not reply to her OP. Leave her on the back burner forever, that's the only way for her to learn.
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>>39376122
Type

>who are you?
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>>39377923
Act completely oblivious LOL
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>>39377900
I thought so too, but the text is addressed to "Eric"
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>>39377909
You really think she will learn from this?
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>>39377905
How will saying something just to placate her be any different than what he did all throughout high school? If he can't stand up for himself now then how will he be able to convince himself that he's in a better place than he used to be?
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>>39377850
This. Only a normie would attention whore on social media with this garbage

I think op might be female it's a very female this to do the ol

>muh depression
>liked and up votes pour in
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OP, you've already wasted enough time thinking about it.

I don't think you should bother responding with anything.

She doesn't really care about you. If she did, she wouldn't have done any of that shit to you. I can't do much other than say I recommend you put no more thought towards this and spend your time doing something more valuable. Hobbies, like vidya, an instrument, even masturbate.

Congratulations on tapering down.
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>>39377947
Exactly, so why even bother responding?
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>>39376501

ANSWER HER, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD ANSWER HER!!!

but don't forgive her, make her feel even worse, fucking PLEASE!
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senpai she doesn't give a shit about you. she's just saying that so she can feel better about herself.

if you top yourself in a few years time she can turn to her friends and say "OMG I REACHED OUT TO HIM AND HE STILL DID IT :((("
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>>39377969
Because now, he gets the chance to kick the bitch out of his life forever, knowing that he still took the high ground.

It's not like he ever has to talk to her again.

"I forgive you, but that's for me, I don't give a fuck about you. Maybe that will make you feel better, maybe not, I don't care. Don't talk to me again."

That's what I would say. He doesn't have to be a pussy about it.
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>>39376639
Ok you cool, you can stay
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>>39376501
tell her you will never forgive her
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>>39376122
Nah, just some virtue signaling whore
Best to ignore her...but then you come off s bitter
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>>39378075
So basically
>I forgive you but not really, as I am still acting incredibly bitter
That's retarded he's much better off not responding
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Answer with
"Fuck off"
Then she goes like
"Excuse me? I'm trying to apologize and you're being a jerk" etc
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>>39376501

You're a fucking pussy. I used to ABUSE antidepressants. I was supposed to take only 1 a day, but i took them at my own convenience. I would take 4 or 5 at a time if i was really upset about something, thinking they were magic happy pills.

Then i quit cold turkey. And guess what? I can still laugh, i can still cry, and i can still love.

And here you are getting 129 likes for a pity post when there are people who have seen their friends and family die on the battlefield and never even shared the pain they feel with anyone.

First diss the roastie, then kill yourself.
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>>39378075
That just sounds like a pussy pretending not to be. It sounds like learned behavior. Anyone with a spine would just tell her to fuck off or ghost her. He kicked her out forever a long time ago and now she's knocked once at the door again and walked off after 15 seconds.
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>>39378144
His silence will mean nothing to her
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>>39376122
She just wants you to orbit her again. Yes, women are this evil.

Delete the text, block her number.
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>>39378075
Nah, jusf too much.
>>39378144
I agree. There's no point in responding. Might be more entertaining for us, but I think avoiding any response is the best thing OP could do for himself.

"I forgive you, but fuck you" doesn't mean shit other than "you're in the clear, but I'm still a bitter betafag"
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>>39378179
And telling her to fuck off will just make her feel justified in being shitty so depriving her of that is still better than nothing
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>>39378179
So?

Who cares what she gets out of it? Her feelings don't deserve consideration
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>>39376122
>d-did I win?
do you feel like a winner?
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>>39378179

Her comment should be beneath OPs consideration, but here we are. Maybe one of the reasons he was so terribly depressed was because he cared about what some high school cunt said about him.
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I'm older than most of you babbies and the right thing to do in situations like this is to ignore it and move on. Is she someone important to you in you life now? No? Just some mean bitch from the past? She doesn't exist keep it simple and easy
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>>39376122
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=K03Y2FP9qhI

This is literally all shes trying to do man
She doesnt feel bad, she doesnt really want to apologise
She just wants to feel good about herself, wash away any guilt she had and not care about you even more
Just ignore her, or even just say that you dont forgive her
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>>39378214

>all these virgin queefs telling OP to tell her to fuck off

Like that will really tell her. He should tear the roastie a new roastie. Just fucking roast her man. Make her cry, don't listen to these fags and tell her to 'fuck off' or 'i don't care about you.'
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>>39376122
I vote for "Thanks" and nothing else. It acknowledges the situation but doesn't really give her any real validation. Can be interpreted as passive aggressive due to its vagueness, too. This is absolutely a bonus in this situation.
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>>39376167 ...
>bwc...
what is this?...
it's. supposed. to be. BBC...
white. boiya,...
and dpntnt you forget it
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>>39376501
How did you get sexually assaulted, were you a kid? Or did you have to do it for favours or something? Or were you just physically incapable of fending the person off? In any case, if you were inebriated and allowed yourself to be weak in untrustworthy company, you could have made better decisions to avoid the negative outcome, so part of the burden is on your shoulders.
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>>39378288

Fuck putting this much effort into women. This entire thread is a testament to how utterly enslaved some of you are to orbiting.
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>>39378288
Work on your reading comprehension friend.
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respond, " 'ey bb wan sum fuq?"
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>>39376122
>"hey babe, thx, but my dick's itchy, wanna fuck?"
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>>39378179
That's exactly what she needs. She's not going to learn from a response, so why bother giving one? Just leave her to wonder about the ifs.
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Alright man, fuck it. Just tell her to fuck off, you don't care about her. But at least respond to tell her this, so you can move on with your shitty life.
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>>39378165
Cool story my angry and hateful brother.
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>>39378334

You have to be shitting me. It doesn't take much effort to put down a whore. You're a prime example of an orbiter who's so frustrated, he just goes, "hey you know what? FUCK WOMEN! i'm gonna pretend i don't give a shit about them when really they're all i give a shit about!"

You have it twisted; if you truly don't care about women, you wouldn't be so scared to roast one (who actually deserves it).

>>39378344


Wasn't really directed at you, i was just too lazy to go back and address all the beta scum giving him shit advice
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>>39378676

Go throw you bitch fits elsewhere. People, men or women, don't give a shit.
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>>39376501
youre a fucking fag dude
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Respond with 'k'
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>>39378709

I'm not saying hold a grudge like a faggot would, but you're telling me you would just let something like that slide and remain the beta bitchboy that OP is? I would at least say something to out the roastie in her place before i go on my merry way. Wouldn't continue arguing with her, but i'd at least stop and say one thing to make her feel like shit.

You're just a pushover, all of you are.
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>>39378822

My feelings are not validated through others. Think for yourself.
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>>39378288
>He should tear the roastie a new roastie. Just fucking roast her man. Make her cry,


kek she wouldn't cry she'd probably burst out laughing. Despite what she said she still probably has zero respect for 0 and still remembers him as the nerd she pulled pranks on back then, if he chooses to rambo she'll get a chuckle and then feel justified in how she treated him lilke shit
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Dude so you made a post online about being on anti depressants? Lol
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What happened OP?
you have to tell us
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>>39376501
You're the definition of a normie though, fishing for sympathy on normiegram, holy shit
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>>39376179
>>39376180
>>39376138
>>39376157
meh no reason to assume the worst her, yeah maybe she just saw some stupid movie and had a mood swing, we all do. but she nevertheless put some thought into this and it's objectively nice that she did this at all.

just write back "thank you for your kind words" without punctuation and leave it at that. accomplishes the same purpose as not replying while still expressing approval of this message with an undercurrent of fuck you without the butthurt
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>>39379584
she put actually 0 thought into that. She didn't even list one way she was mean
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I agree with the "do what makes YOU feel best crowd"
Women like this that would slit your throat and laugh about it will do all kinds of mental gymnastics to absolve and even deify themselves for even becoming self aware enough to realize they were cunts to people. Nothing you say or don't say will make a difference to her. She will feel good not matter what
If forgiving will make you feel better than do it
If saying fuck you will do it then do it
Or just not responding
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>>39376122
Females do not have a sense of honor or regret, other than regretting selfish decisions that post hoc would have left them better off than reality.

She is literally only writing that for attention, she doesn't actually care. If she really cared, she would never have been a bitch. Most people aren't murderers or rapists, it's incredibly easy to not be an evil cunt. All evil cunts only regret the consequences, not the evil act themselves.
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>>39376122
Why not just reply with a simple "ok"?

I think it'd be kinda funny.
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>>39376122
This is literally the beta orbit endgame. She's finally putting you to use. Don't fall for her shit, buddy.
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>>39376501
ignore that bitch, she's just going in for round two if you respond

congratulations on cleansing yourself of that poison
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I've had a grill do this to me before, too, anon. Sometimes people do bad things, and they feel bad after. It's rare and unpopular here, but maybe some people can change...
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>>39381333
He hasn't talked to this bitch in years, she's got some ego to think he gives a flying fuck about her apology

>although he's posted it here so he does obviously
>cuck
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>>39376122
>>39376501

You only need to respond with one word:
>Pathetic.
Block her and see how many of her friends try and pressure you into unblocking and apologising. Whatever you do, don't capitulate.
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I wouldn't give a response.

or maybe give "leave me alone"

hey a beta comment on a beta board NO WAI
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>>39376501
>posting about your mental illness on social media for sympathy
you're the worst kind of person
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>>39378165
dude wtf is wrong with you
they're SSRIs, they inhibit the reuptake of serotonin so that there's more at the nerve terminals in your brain, so you're happier
they take a while to have any effect, and you need to take the right dose every day
no wonder they didn't work for you

Also,
everyone has different side effects and medications, you dumb piece of shit
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>>39378165
>i know nothing about anti depressants : the post

it's about taking the same dosage everyday without fail, and no body is the same (literally) so while anti depressant way not have any withdrawal effects on you, they sure as hell will have on others.

You sound like a child trying to show that his wee wee is bigger to his friend, and that's a little sad
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>>39381653

Regardless there are people who have been through worse trials in life and never fished for attention about it.

My grandpa was 10000000000x the man you will ever be, going through the shit he did and saw during the war, never complaining about anything even days before his death.

Then there's you.

>wahhhhh muh pills poor me
>*sniffle* muh oneitis was mean to me
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>>39382713
>BUT MUH GRAMPA
Cant make this shit up
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>>39379584
>without punctuation
The text mind games you people pull are fucking ridiculous.
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just block her ass op, she probably had some shit on her life and wants validation and approval,

or you can be a hero and tell her to fuck off.
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>>39382713
yo people back then were raised as warriors. parents back then were parents.

our parents (children of boomers or boomers) are straight up decadent bottom feeders.
we could be nothing like your grandfather, it just isn't possible, you have to raise people that way, which current parents cannot do and don't have the will to because of technology.

modern single mommy version of raising a child is thrusting them in front of a TV screen or tablet, then dumping them off at sports/gym practice (sports and gym, useless shit you will never need in the modern world, think about it)
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"You were just a kid, don't worry about it."
there u go
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>>39376501
I would message her something along the lines of "I hate you so much that you could never imagine it. You and your friends are most of the reason I attempted suicide, you're responsible for that. I spent days and nights looking at myself in the mirror, never feeling anything but sincere disdain for the person staring back at me, because of the things you and people like you did to me. I hate you so, so much. You represent the people who took my entire life away from me, for no reason other than your own entertainment. I wish you would die in the most painful way possible."
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>>39376122
Yeah, that's nice of her. That rocks.
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>>39382713
>never complaining about anything
So you stole his diary to learn about it, or what?
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>>39379584
>feeding roasties ammo

Fuck off, norman.
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The best response is just a simple "whatever"
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>>39376122
SOMEBODY ONCE TOLD ME

THE SLUT WAS GONNA KEK ME

I AIN'T THE STRONGEST CHAD IN THE OFFICE

WELL I WAS LOOKIN KINDA DUMB WITH MY FINGER AND MY THUMB

ON A RING, THAT WOULD SEAL MY BETA PROVIDER STATUS

WELL, THE YEARS STARTED COMING AND HER WRINKLES START COMING

TITS ON THE FLOOR, I CAN HEAR MENOPAUSE COMIN
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>>39376639
I tried my best to be a normie, did not succeed.
>got facebook
>friended hundreds
>thoughtful intelligent post
>6 likes
>cool.jpg
have other anons attempted this feat?
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>>39381536
Nah. Just screencap it and post it on normiegram with the "Pathetic" as the caption
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Step 1: Stop caring. You have no reason to care about this bitch or the message she sent. Put this trash behind you.
Step 2: Delete, ignore, move on.
Step 3: Admire superior 2D girls.
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>>39376122
Not really you shouldnt really care about this bitch desu

she's only doing this message because your post made her feel bad.

disregard move on
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>>39376122
You didn't, but she wants to win more.
Forgive, but don't reply, and never forget.
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Call her the N word lol
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>>39384069
rofl do this op
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>omg muh depression feel sad for me I have no friends
> meanwhile, posts an attention whoring post on social media and gets hundreds of likes

Pathetic OP. You should hang out with this girl, you are as vapid and self-serving as she is.
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Can confirm from experience that she just wants you to orbit again. The girl I orbited from 21-26 sends wishy-washy texts like this a couple times a year. (We're fucking 30 now).

It's a trap. Just ignore and/or block. You might be tempted to try to moralize with her or get in a parting shot but girls don't really have the self-awareness to truly realize what they do to their orbiters. They'll just get mad at you for trying to make them feel guilty.
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>>39376208

Any girl with BDP should be killed
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>>39376122
Turn on read receipts if they're off. Let her know you've seen it and have no intention of responding. Do nothing else.
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>>39383232
Unfortunately that will do fucking nothing. Women are kind of weird in the sense that after they do something, they will never ever consider that what they were doing was wrong. Even if they apparently do it's all hollow platitudes. So the only thing she may think due to a message like that would be something along the lines of "lol I was right to bully that fucker".
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>>39377319
On the other hand, are you losing anything?
I tried to fix shit earlier in my life, I didn't want for mundane shit to stay between me and people I knew. I didn't want to hate them for stuff that happed either and tried to come to a reasonable conclusion.
But you know what? Fuck that shit. Some people don't deserve forgiveness. Some people just deserve everlasting AIDS. If someone's a shitty fucking human being, he doesn't stop being one just because he sent you a nice message after a couple of years. He'll remain a piece of shit forever and there's nothing wrong with hating said piece of shit.
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>>39376501
>129 likes
Fucking normalfag. Also, either don't respond to her or tell her that she's a bad person and wil burn in hell for what she did to you and then block her.
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