>mfw uni starts in 3(THREE) DAYS >don't have a fucking

>>39369461
Fuck it, disappoint them. Family is good for fucking nothing in today's world, so just drop it. Family only means that they have a blood relation to you, not that you have to love and respect them. You're an adult. It's your life, your choice.

>>39369461
Look on the bright side of things anon, most unis are pretty easy to pass and give you a lot more freedom than colleges do.

>>39369560
I can't bring myself to disappoint them (further). I'm already a friendless beta who's afraid of talking too much. But if I quit uni my grandparents will lose the most hope in me. I don't want to disappoint them

holy fuck this sounds exactly like me

>>39369971
L1 droit aix?

what are you even going to study to be this depressed?

>>39370117
I'll study law. Not that I hate it. I'd like to have a good-paying job in the future. And law gives me more opportunities than journalism or whatever else I would have preffered. Or specialist in american politics but that's very long and very closed in terms of jobs. But beyond all that, it's about being there. Working every day. Being around normies and being depressed. having a clean slate to make new friends who don't know my power lvl and not doing it.

I'm three days away from it and I have no other plans than go there, leave when its finished and go to my hobbies. Back in HS I would at least tell myself "this year YOULL TRY being social".

>>39369983
excuse me, but wat?

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>3 days until "so we're going to go around the room and have everyone give a brief introduction"
>3 days until "2 truths and a lie :)"

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>>39369461
>Be Chad
>First day of University
>We have this get to know bingo.
>Go around ask people if they've done some of the things on the sheet.
>One square says "I don't know anybody here."
>See fat fuck with messy hair, apporach him.
>Hi, can you sign this please?
>He signs it. I look at his sheet, no squares is signed.
>I walk away bursting out in laughter.

It's gonna be fine.

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>>39369461
>be me
>live in houston

>>39369461
>caring about friends
Focus on your god damn studies you spacker
If you want to get friends, choose your hardworking classmates and have them as study partners
better that you get straight 90s than lmao social life like a teenager

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>>39370192
FUCK FUCK FUCK FUCK NOOOO STOP I DIDN'T EVEN FUCKING THINK ABOUT THIS UNTIL NOW REEEEEEEEEEE

>>39370247
And the group projects, where you've got to pitch and sell your thing in front of the whole class. ;)

>>39370173
If you didn't get it you're probably not gonna study where I'll study.

>>39370192
Holy fuck mang. They'll probably have it at the dorms too. NO

>>39370243
I'm a shy loser. It's not that I'm attached to friends I never had any anyway. But I'll feel bad for not giving it a go.
And I know grades matter more. I'm just so empty inside, I'm not hungry for success

>>39370232
On the bright side, even if all your belongings and families die in the flood, you won't go to uni
Best of luck anon.

My uni started last week, but I started having panic attacks the past couple of months. Today it was so bad I left class as soon as the lecture started.

I was able to get through last week because I had some benzos, but my doctor no longer approves and switched me to lexapro so I feel nauseous on top of everything else.

Looks like I'm going to fail out from attendance at this rate. Too bad I took out a shit ton of loans to do this.

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>>39370243
No seriously this is the best post. Nothing wrong with having a tight group of friends to do shit with rather than hanging out with the fucking idiots.

Good guy friends to go drinking, vidyah and concerts with and one girlfriend. That's the social group every robot needs.

And smart gf is loyal and usually are so much sexier than whores.

>>39370311
oh, i get it, you are right. The "no motivation to make friends" and the "disappointing entire bloodline" parts did sound too familiar for me, not 3 days or something

>>39370269
Nah, I took classes that don't have group projects.

>>39370316
Push through it. Relax. Don't talk. When you get adjusted you can actually start making friends.

I can garauntee you my mental illness is worse. You just need to keep facing the fear and you get over it dude.

Just be quiet, study, and start bumping into people when you feel ready.

Nobody can tell you're nervous and if they can, they don't care. A lot of people actually like people with anxiety.

Nothing wrong with being nervous, VERY few people judge you for anxiety.

Even alpha dudes sympathize if you're nervous, everybody gets nervous dude.

Relax and just accept the feelings. Do what you gotta do. Don't try to seek out friends right away because you WILL fuck up.

Give it time. You will be surprised when you meet people.

Took that approach in the last half of highshool and kind of got out of my head. Just respect your teacher and be quiet, eventually you will meet people.

Even if you don't
A. You didn't embarrass yourself
B. You have a degree so you have money to do cool shit

You're nervous because you're afraid your going to be embarass yourself or that people will judge you.

So just sit back, do all the right adult things and really try to keep everything else secondary.

>Been loner for at least five years.
>Gotten used to it, i actually like it.
>Suddenly gets lots of friends.
>Don't really want friends, i have more fun alone.

>>39370269
anon has a point OP, group projects tend to bring people together. If you attend lectures you're alsolikely to make friends with a few nerds. Also study groups for tests

>>39370478
>start bumping into people when you feel ready.

I'm not him but the beginning of the year is usually when people start to make friends, right? I know that once I was out of the loop in high school I always stayed out of it...
Fuck I don't even have the motivation to work

>>39370478

Thanks for the encouragement. I'm going to do my best to push through it. I don't want to meet anybody though, I'd rather be left alone.

>>39370529
I don't really think that's the case man. It's not like "Oh I met this dude after the first two weeks of uni, definitely never talking to him again". Girls are always looking to hookup at universities. But they want boyfriend material not just causual flings.

Being in good shape, seeming intelligent and being financially secure are things college girls are looking for.

I'm 18 but tend to flirt with girls 20-25 because I like them more. They almost always are looking for something entirely different than in highschool.

Same with making friends though. You just gotta seem like someone they would want to be seen with if that makes sense and somebody that can have a good time.

>>39370619
Just push through it man. The anxiety will go away once your used to it.

Don't give up. Realize what's at stake and how shitty you're life will be if you don't get your degree. No matter how difficult it is, just remember "Do I have anything better to do with my time, would it feel GOOD to just throw this away"?

>>39370619
Also you might now want friends right now but you're probably going to come across some people's company you genuinely enjoy.

I'm the same way. I work 80 hours a week, all my spare time is invested into the stock market or losing weight. I don't give two fucks about friends or pussy right now.

When I tell people I don't have the time to get laid they just laugh, meanwhile I'll probably be worth a few hundred grand by the time I'm 20.

>>39370478
Fucking normalfag post. Ugly prople with social anxiety are ignored because no one wants to be associated with losers who are genetically inferior and not neurotypical. But if a person is ugly abd at least neurotypical the best they can amount to, socially, is the scapegoat of the group.

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>>39370850
Wow anon I'm such a fucking bad guy for telling him to work through something. I'm a normal fag for fucking sympathizing? For telling him he should atleast try to get a good job even if he fucking miserable? And that if he sticks with it shit might actually workout okay for him?

Really?

>>39370850
And I'm probably a bigger piece of shit than you are, you're just fucking butt hurt because you won't try to push through the pain. And yes my life has probably been a lot cringier and fucking depreasing than yours but I can see the big picture.

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I'm in engineering and I'm definitely not cut out for this shit. I'm running out of time to switch majors, wat do?

>>39372112
Fake it til you make it. Cheat if you have to.

Every engineer I've worked with (metal fab) is a dumb piece of shit, software carries them through everything

Who else /studyhardlikeamotherfuckerbutactuallyliesand pretendstobeaslackerinclassmakingpeoplethinkyoureactuallysmart/ here

anyone have a link to Ecology 4th edition Bowman Cain? shit is way too expensive

>>39372491
Whats the point of that? Are you trying to get qts to ask you to tutor them?

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>>39369612
>

>mfw i'll be starting college at the end of next month because i'm too retarded for uni

>>39372686
it makes me feel anime