I love my mother and all, but she's uncultured, shameless, dumb, anger issues ridden retard. She basically has no shame and no guilt about anything. If she could, she'd rob a homeless man. I'm not saying she's stealing or anything, but she's such an asshole. She goes to the nearest store, woman gives her few cents less by accidents, she starts shouting, has a mental breakdown, ends up crying and threatening to call the police (yes this was exaggerated, but you know where I'm going, and it's not just about the money). At her age where she should be already sitting home going to bed at 9pm, she goes to the shopping mall in summer shorts o_o. I can't fucking stand that I am a descendant of this shitbag, everyone in my family is great but everybody criticizes here of the shit she does, she still thinks she's the one being right and that everybody piled up just to destroy her. How do I deal with this?
>>39341651
Call her out duh. People only get away with shit because they're allowed to.
>>39341673
She then starts having a mental breakdown, cries like shit, then is mad and doesn't want to talk, and I don't wanna have that kind of relation with my mother. One time was enough to realize that.
>>39341651
Well first of all, have some compassion. I know I've met women like her and they're often just in alot of internal pain. Second, why do you still live with her? Third, speak to a professional about this.
Really man, love is the only way to heal her.
>>39341725
Just walk away. Let her tantrum.
It only works because you let it work.
You can't let her hold you hostage like that.
>>39341651
Narcissistic, mentally unhinged mothers are the root of 96% of robots mental issues.
> Visit mom
> She spends hours endlessly screaming at the top of lungs whining about random pointless shit.
> Constantly insults and puts down everyone you care about
> Constantly lies and exaggerates and manipulates
> Constantly repressing the urge to smash her face in with the nearest blunt object
> Go home and cry in the shower, because moving out of home wasn't enough. She is forever the demon voice in your head making you feel like shit randomly.
> Other family members act like this behavior is cute or normal. "She's only a controlling psycho narcissitic harpy because she loooooves you".
>>39341673
> "When an elder family member acts crazy just call them out and everything will be okay and everyone will agree with you!"
> This much naive.
Lol, I envy you. You have no idea how shitty most families are.
>>39342103
If they're all co-enablers then you gotta drop them all at once.
>>39342103
>This.
Whole thread can be dismissed. This situation is both too fragile and too idiotic for /r9k/ to give you answer that's honest, effective, and won't end up just fucking up you or her.
I'd say the best albeit not remotely perfect route would be to take >>39341843's advice. Even though you probs won't be able to stop it or do anything, don't let her tarnish your reputation.
Could also look into medical help, via medicine or therapy from a psychiatrist, but something tells me that'll fuck her up even more. If you feel ashamed, you could admit yourself to a mental hospital, and then just say that you must be so odd and your parents punish you for it but then act completely normal. This may then lead to the medfeds looking into your parents' mental health and seeing she's out of whack and shifting treatment from her to you. Just a shit idea though.
>>39341737
See? Women can get away with whatever they want, and then everyone gives them a pass because "muh' compassion".
Fortunately my mother conditioned me to be sadistic so when she cries it makes me feel good. Win.
>>39341651
>>39341963
It's because they are missing a husband OP, you should fill that role.
>>39341963
There's a bunch of stuff that fucked my shit up
My aunt
>he's a teen (13) now
>can't let him come near my precious little princesses
She actually thought I was going to molest them or something and while I used to see them every other week, I didn't see them for months at a time.
My parents divorced when I was seven and I got bullied in the next school I got put in.
I found out about softcore porn at 11 and wasted away my time with that and Sims instead of going out and developing any kind of social skills
Sorry for blogpost
>I'm not saying she's stealing or anything
>yes this was exaggerated
>o_o
Pretending to be a retard still makes you a retard op