Why do normal people always say getting a girl is easy even for

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Why do normal people always say getting a girl is easy even for you guys as long as you put actual effort into it?

I mean, for us, it's really easy to get women. But for you lads, it's obviously the complete opposite. Obtaining romances is very clearly a privilege you don't have the luxury of enjoying. It seems I'm the only "normie" who understands that you guys HAVE put in as much work as you possibly can into getting a date; only to result in failure every single time. A contrast to how some here pretty much have women lined up for them despite not lifting any fingers.

It's like how some people can get a job despite putting in only few applications, while others can go from interview-to-interview their entire lives and not get anywhere. And how those people will think the others are doing something wrong, simply because this is easy for them. Or think that getting a job entirely is easy only because, again, it is for them. Same basic premise.

The lack of empathy here in the "normie" circle, the empathy required to understand how certain things are easy for some yet hard for others, is pretty disheartening to say the least. And simply dehumanising in a general kind of sense. I'd tell the them that, but they only listen to you if you say something they agree with, or if they feel like you're on their side in some manner.

Otherwise, you're pretty much talking to a deaf person.