My social anxiety/agoraphobia just vanished. I'm not sure exactly what happened. I used to never ask for help when I needed it. Feel terribly self-conscious whenever anyone looked at me. I just started university and it happened one night when I learned to penny board. I was on the top of a parking garage practicing and felt endorphins for the first time in years. After that I felt like I could do anything. I am still conscious of when people look at me but it's so much easier not to care now. A flip just switched.
>>39268027
that is amazing anon! wuuuuuuuu
>>39268027
What was it about learning that that increased your confidence?
The fear of something happening is almost always more painful than when it actually does happen.
Good job OP.
>>39268081
No idea I just felt a high from exercising that obliterated my anxiety.
>>39268082
What if after that thing happens you ruminate on it for years to come? What if you have a database of these ruminations in your head that you're constantly reminded of and tormented by?
>>39268027
try to remember exactly how you got this way (happy). like the excercise is a big thing, but also how youre life has been going. that way when things arent so good you ahve information to pull yourself up again. good job though!!
>>39268125
This. The aftereffects are always worse for me than the actual event in the moment. It's a living hell
>>39268324
Yeah, this is true for me too. I usually even think it went fine during or right after, then on my way home or whatever my mind just find 200 reasons why everything went shit and why I should never go outside ever again and then I end up super depressed for days after the thing I was doing.