Can we start a discussion, what makes the biggest men's

>>39234511
>didn't read any book recently
>addictions/bad habits
>irrational phobias and habits
yeah, I added them having in mind all this germaphobics, unjustified belief that 'people is looking at him', being afraid of sun, 'government surveillance' over his collection of hentais on his computer

>blank browser history
Wut.

Those are green flag to me. If you don't apply to any of these, you're pretty much gay. Women want gay boyfriends?

>what makes the biggest men's red flags?

The problem with red flags is the people they are meant to identify spend a lifetime perfecting evasion of red flags.

You know that psychology term "superficial charm"?
What that refers to is people with OP's of red flags that are really good at hiding them, covering them up or minimising the severity of the red flag by diverting attention elsewhere.

People with narcissistic personality disorder are exceptionally talented at hiding their red flags.
I know one case where a homo dude with HIV married a woman because he decided having a kid would be his next vanity project. He neglected to tell this woman that he was HIV positive, homo and fucking an orgy of dudes in his spare time. He was able to keep all this from her because he was an incredibly gifted liar.

Think about how much deception that would take, not hiding a side bitch but hiding a fucking warehouse full of homosex. That's what Narcissistic Personalities are capable of doing to the average person. They're really fucking good at it.

>>39234511

>don't have any job
Not everyone can fine a job so easily
>do not exercise on regular basis
>unkept facial hair
>do not like spend time outdoors
>piercing
Fuck off normie. We all die in the end.
>without computer he's bored
Like 95% of millennials who look at their phone every 10 seconds?
>play videogames
Same can go with TV, books or any form of media. Fuck off.
>has poor relationship with his parents
People just assume you always have to respect your parents even if they treat you like shit
>live with parents after hs
Again, many millennials
>have 'chronic depression'
So if you're diagnosed with chronic depression it's a red flag? Or are you suggesting it's not a real mental disorder?
>says that feminism is 'just stupid'
It's definitely not perfect, or good overall.
>fan of cartoons/comics/manga/anime or other child media
In that sentence I realized you're probably a troll or a massive idiot who knows shit about entertainment.
>do not have any social media
Social media is retarded to shit, narcissistic and cancerous to you.

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>>39234511
the others are all red flags.

but these maybe aren't:

>>don't have any job
currently I have a "job" but literally zero wage, because reasons. does it count?

>>he responds every message immediately
not a red flag. He may be willing to make you think he's always ready for you.

>>play videogames
possibly a red flag, depending how much time per day is wasted into vidya

>>has strong, outright political beliefs
not a red flag, until it becomes somewhat obsessive

>>live with parents after hs
sometimes there are reasons

>>writes elaborate messages
not a red flag. He's educated and willing to be clear on everything.

>>he's ashamed to admit he watches porn
actually a green flag.
Being ashamed means he knows that porn is unhealthy.
Not being ashamed means he won't ever stop watching porn.

>>never had any romantic relationship with a girl
don't confuse this with unrequited love.

>>says that feminism is 'just stupid'
indeed, it is.
A feminist dude? big red flag

>>puts all of his money into his car, computer or sport equipment
red flag only if this means he can't accumulate some savings

>>do not travel
not a red flag. Leisure travel is for people unable to get passionate about anything that requires a working brain.

>>fan of cartoons/comics/manga/anime or other child
media
not a red flag, as long as it's not an obsession

>>do not have any female acquaintances
not a red flag. You seem to confuse femacq's with currently orbited 3d-waifus.

>>do not have any social media
this is a red flag only to jealous women willing to sniff around into his personal life (even more if those women are FBI agents).

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>>39234511

I've kinda gave up on women to be honest.

>out with friends in car group
>bitch in a citigo whirrs into the car park
>thotwagon.jpg
>they all jump out and start screaming and then they start with the flirting
>everyone starts talking to them except for me
>whatever
>suzuki chan is only for me anyway
>some bitch speaks to me
>ganna giv is a lift like
>it's northern eastern thottish, the most developed language of thots
>decide to do the lift anyway couldn't be that bad
>few weeks later I lose it to the thottie
>turns out she was going out with someone in the group
>and she goes back to him and claims it was rape
>VVTIACTIVATED.exe
>start getting everyone in the group on my side telling them about what happened
>they are pissed
>pitchforks and torches get lit to burn down the thot
>her backdoor gets ripped off
>but something's wrong?
>still haven't had a knock on the door yet
>still haven't been arrested and at this it had been 4 months
>she fucking lied.


Just give up with women to be honest, you're just going to chase after something that will bring you down.

>>39234750
>So if you're diagnosed with chronic depression it's a red flag?
Yes it is. Nobody wants to live a miserable relationship with somebody who drags you down and makes you feel bad about actually enjoying life, because he is unable to see positive values. In fact, you shouldn't seek another person until you overpass your depression. Nobody is obliged to carry your personal burden.

bait
no i see already that this shit is bait gtfo roastie whore stop fishing for bullshit

>>39234511
That's completely false. I wouldn't date someone that calls my interests not real or that thinks playing video wis stupid.
Red flags are different for everyone

>>39234511
>don't have any job
but I do?
>do not have any real interests beside entertainment (not only vidya, but also tv series, listening to music, podcasts, youtubers etc.)
This is where we find the most common ground though
>do not exercise on regular basis
I'm working on that homie
>he responds every message immediately
I don't see what exactly is wrong with this unless you're projecting something about yourself?
>he can't go 2 weeks without sex or masturbation
can't deny being human
>without computer he's bored
I've found other more healthy things to distract myself with recently
>has any criminal record
lol
>play videogames
not going to stop doing something if I still enjoy it
>has his exes' nudes
you don't?
>has poor relationship with his parents
define poor in your own words
>has strong, outright political beliefs
nah, it's just shitposting out loud. I don't even vote lol
>live with parents after hs
yeah
>writes elaborate messages
I can see that
>had to pay for sexual services
???
>he has a problem with women asking guys out
actually I don't. and why would I?
>can't cook
I can
>can't take care of technical stuff
technical stuff meaning?
>he's ashamed to admit he watches porn
I'm not? you never asked if I was
>reluctant in making contact more physical
you were just trying a little too hard
>never had any romantic relationship with a girl
it didn't work out

>>39235172
>seriously this is even more implying that your attitude preclude any serious contact with females than not getting laid, especially if you are 20+
you came up with this by yourself?
>he can't order anything from a restaurant without requesting an alternation (for non-medical reasons as allergies)
I ain't got not allergies muthafucka
>poor hygiene, not showering daily, not brushing teeth daily
true but not anymore
>unkept facial hair
that's just like, your opinion man.
>have 'chronic depression'
as does everybody else to some varying degree
>says that feminism is 'just stupid'
>they actually think I hate women
>puts all of his money into his car, computer or sport equipment
this is a red flag?
>or do not have any valuable belongings
I don't need materialistic things to be happy
>is impulsive
on occasion
>do not like spend time outdoors
but I love the outdoors!
>blank browser history
what do you think I blank? lol
>a NEET
you don't even know me like you think I do!
>do not travel
I want to but no funds atm
>fan of cartoons/comics/manga/anime or other child media
I watched two animes in my whole life: attack on titan and one punch man. guess I'm a weeb then
>do not have any friends
I do
>do not have any female acquaintances
I do
>do not have any social media
damn right I don't
>piercing
used to have em. not anymore.
>adverse to play with pets or even caress them
based on what exactly? your pets?

looking forward to my psychoanalysis on the next rick&morty episode

I don't hve most of that shit but the few main ones are probbly what the biggest red flags
>No friends
>Autism tier small talk
>Fan of cartoons/comics/manga/anime or other child media

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>don't have any job
check
>do not have any real interests beside entertainment (not only vidya, but also tv series, listening to music, podcasts, youtubers etc.)
check
>do not exercise on regular basis
check
seriously, if I can wrap my hand around your wrist, it's really off-putting
>he responds every message immediately
check
>he can't go 2 weeks without sex or masturbation
check
>without computer he's bored
check
>has any criminal record
clean
>play videogames
check
>has his exes' nudes
clean
>has poor relationship with his parents
clean
>has strong, outright political beliefs
check
>live with parents after hs
check
>writes elaborate messages
check
>had to pay for sexual services
clean
>he has a problem with women asking guys out
check
>can't cook
clean
>can't take care of technical stuff
clean
>he's ashamed to admit he watches porn
clean
>reluctant in making contact more physical
check
>never had any romantic relationship with a girl
check
seriously this is even more implying that your attitude preclude any serious contact with females than not getting laid, especially if you are 20+

>>39235327
>he can't order anything from a restaurant without requesting an alternation (for non-medical reasons as allergies)
what
>poor hygiene, not showering daily, not brushing teeth daily
check
>unkept facial hair
check
>have 'chronic depression'
check
>says that feminism is 'just stupid'
clean
>puts all of his money into his car, computer or sport equipment
i aint got no money
>or do not have any valuable belongings
i have
>is impulsive
check
>do not like spend time outdoors
check
>blank browser history
clean
>a NEET
check
>do not travel
check
>fan of cartoons/comics/manga/anime or other child media
check
>do not have any friends
check
>do not have any female acquaintances
check
>do not have any social media
check
>piercing
clean
>adverse to play with pets or even caress them
clean
and im 22 and have a 17 year old girlfriend that i cum inside the anus

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>spends more than 10% of his time on vidya
>spends more than 5% of his time on weebshit
>collects capeshit toys
>collects weebshit toys
>Little to no productive hobbies. (hobbies that aren't based on consumption like watching chinese cartoons or playing a game, but require active involvement and creation from the person (ex: carpentry, design, art, formal debate, electronics building, etc.))
>readily falls in love with the first woman who pays the slightest amount of attention to him
>professes to be 'smart but lazy', or some other variant of the phrase
>blames the world, other people for his misfortune; no personal accountability
>SJW ideology
>/pol/ ideology
>believes people only fall into either of the above categories; false binary thinking
>centers his identity/shows great pride around external factors he did nothing to earn (ex: race, gender, static anatomy, parent's money)
>dehumanizes large groups of people for factor's outside their control
>believes this list is dehumanizing him (victim complex)
>abrasive and angry online; meek and quiet irl
>uses the buzzwords: "cuck", "degenerate", "roasties", "feeemales", (in reference to women), "normies", "Chad"
>member of the 'manosphere' (ex: RedPill, MGTOW, Heartiste, Roosh, etc.)
>wears graphic tees (x4 for metal tees)
>wears cargo shorts (x4 for camo cargo shorts)
>wears white socks outside of exercise
>wears autism shoes
>can't cook at least 4-5 basic staple meals
>no regular strength training
>no regular cardio exercise
>determinist,fatalist outlook
>believes Tinder ""experiments"" to be scientifically sound
>believes himself knowledgeable on evolutionary psychology; invokes it often to explain most behaviors he encounters
>pedophile leanings (like lolicon, gets overly interested in educating people about how 'ephebophiles are totally different, etc.)
>think he's part of a special elect group of people amidst an otherwise generic and unremarkable population.

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>>39235444
>>readily falls in love with the first woman who pays the slightest amount of attention to him

basically every r9kfag

>>39234511
Despite having some of these red flags I'm still in a relationship.

My gf also has some classic red flags always posted in the female version of these threads.

How do I know OP is single

Relationships are about working with imperfections (and I don't consider many things in your list to be flaws).

>replies to every message immediately
Nigga what? It just means they're invested in the conversation. I can't fathom why this is a problem to anyone.

To actually contribute to the thread though, here are mine. Do note that I'm a straight cis scum white male, so I guess I'm just projecting.
>thinks topics like history and English are useless in an education
>doesn't tolerate dissenting opinions
>tries obsessively to fit into popular trends and such
>sees casual sex as the end-goal of all relationships
>hates any group of people because of stereotypical traits associated with them, allows this hatred to influence his personal view of other people as individuals (2nd part is the main issue, I understand some people just hate women in general because tons of them are vapid scumbags)
Not really red flags per se, just traits I utterly loathe. Call me a faggot cunt if you want, you're probably right.

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>>39234511
Alrighty, OP, here's what I came up with

>NEET
>More than 1000 hours logged on a vidya
>HS dropout
>Overweight/obese
>Smokes more than 2 cigarettes a day
>Autistic rage fits
>Has had sex with an escort
>Unethical fetish (Loli, piss&shit, rape)
>Side note don't send me snarky replies like "what's unethical??? Doesn't that make anal unethical??? You know what unethical means cuck
>Unkempt dental hygiene
>Fan of child media (not including nostalgia)
>Has strange fascination with German WWII history specifically
>Says the n-word unironically OR daily (exception if black 2bh)
>Bitches/places blame on a whole race of people
>Calls women cunts when they aren't deserving of it (the lady at the restaurant who was rude was not a cunt. The lady who molested her students IS a cunt)
>Unclean bedroom, especially if there's old food and beverages (like coffee, attracts mold)
>Autistically frustrated by any inconvenience
>Indulges/has indulged in illegal narcotics
>Is reluctant to go out
>Masturbates more than once a day
>Porn collection
>Hates children (personally I'd like to have kids)
>Hunts often (hunting is fine just don't make it a concern...)
>Had an ex that was insanely hot (it's just gonna make me feel insecure...)
>Excessive body modifications
>Stubborn right-wing conservative belief system
>Has been fired from a job more than once
>Yells at people when frustrated
>Unironic Satanist
>No friends
>Only free-time hobby he has is internet browsing and vidya

...Sorry about this, guys.

Had to check whether I am on /r9k/, because there are only turbo-normies in this thread, gtfoooooooooo.

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why do some of you guys unironically reply to this? here are some red flags:
>seeks validation from women
>spends money on expensive shoes or accessories
>thinks he needs to abandon games and anime to "man up"
>posts in titcow threads to tell women that he prefers small boobs
>checks if his political leanings are approved by twitter ideologues
>any form of self-hate based on race, sex, whatever
>doesn't know that warcraft used to be rts

these should get you started

I think that red flag is something that should make you concerned, and a bit suspicious about a person, but not totally exclude somebody.

You know, something that is red flag could have a rational explanation that once you know it, it no more worry you.

Not a
>MUST EVADE
thing.

jesus christ op you're not easily pleased
you must be a bundle of fun

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Yet of men demand anything more than a whiny entitled cunt we're sexist. Do you not see that you are the problem here?

>>39234511
>if you find one of this traits in yourself you could work on it to get rid most of them.
>seriously, if I can wrap my hand around your wrist, it's really off-putting
can't fix being a wristlet, no matter how much you lift.