How do I meet a Yandere girl /r9k/? I don't think I've

>>39223549
>How do I meet a Yandere girl
they don't exist. sorry champ.

>>39223565
I've heard BPD girls are more or less the 3D equivalent

>>39223864
but im not you baka

>>39223881
Obviously you're not me I'm me, I'm not sure what that's got to do with the thread

>>39223934
i suppose youre right i just meant im not yandere t.bpd trash sorry

>>39224011
I'm sorry if I offended you anon, how would you describe yourself?

why would you want a yandere girl. life's not like anime mate

>>39224036
well im a clingy garbage that wants to die

>>39224054
Some people like clingy. I'd like a clingy gf desu. I think I'm clingy too

>>39224051
I don't know I just do, I think they're nice. They seem like great gfs

>>39223549
I've been called both yandere and tsundere before I really even knew what those terms meant, since I can sometimes be kind of possessive/stalkerish and violent and I'm slow to let people in, but kind to people I know well. I don't think these traits are really common, though, especially without mental illness.

But why would I want to meet you? I rotate between extreme extroversion and extreme introversion, and often I can't even see a point to adding people to my life. I make lots of acquaintances and usually don't see a point to having friends or a boyfriend, socialisation is often so fake and stupid. Especially from 4chan where most are really not worth it, I always rather be alone than in bad company.

>>39223549
You dont meet a Yandere. You just meet a mentally ill girl and make her yandere for you by manipulating her emotions. Girls with BPD are the easiest, you just get them attached to you by being very nice, loving, and sincere at first and then as soon as you have them you just become a giant asshole and threaten to leave them all of the time.

>>39223549
I had one, she's a bpd and then she randomly stopped loving me. My advice is find one of them and as long as you're worth love they'll be with you forever. Mine was legitimately about to murder a girl that hugged me at work randomly.

>>39224165
Sounds desperate and abusive, and probably a sign of some underlying issue or failure with yourself. Another reason not to talk to guys from 4chan, you're all like this.

>>39224200
Shut up whore.

Original.

>>39224133
I'm not fake with my affections. I have a few friends that I love like family, but most contact is through the internet. I'm not sure what you mean about socialization being fake, but I think I'm a very genuine person when I talk about things. I like deep discussions and learning about a person.

>>39224165
>manipulating her emotions
Why would I want to do this? That's mean. I don't want to threaten to leave anybody or hurt anybody, I want to love somebody.

>>39224210
I'll speak if I want to, so no.

>>39224229
Why are you so interested in yanderes? I think most people who are, are insecure, or malicious.

>>39224229
>I don't want to threaten to leave anybody or hurt anybody, I want to love somebody.

Well then you'd better stay away from girls with BPD. Because as long as she knows you're devoted she will be unfaithful and mean. Lucky for you, most girls on 4chan are BPD.

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>>39224133
>tfw you're bad company
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u_VsvZmIWxY

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>>39224233
A woman speaks when spoken to.

>>39224277
Idktf, anon
>blox

>>39224253
I'm extremely insecure, you're right. I've had two relationships in my life, one girl cheated on me and the other girl just didn't seem to care. I've never even been on a date, both kinda just happened in high school.
I've found that a lot of traits I look for in a partner are similar to Yandere traits, and frankly whenever I read about anybody's experience with a gf like that I feel jealous, like I could treat her better and not only accept her affections but reciprocate.

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>>39224306
Is that why you whimper and stutter out a weak "s-s-sorry?" when a girl takes to you?

I bet it's the sheer culture shock did you in all these past years.

>>39224468
Are you trying to imply I don't pimpslap a bitch when she talks out of line?

>>39224484
Your mom deserves someone better than you.

>>39224576
>Your mom deserves someone better than you.
No she doesn't.

>>39224595
Well, she's had a taste behind your back, boy.

>>39224654
What? Like she went out and acted like another guy was her son? That's just pathetic.

Is BPD anon still in the thread?

>>39224846
Yea im here.

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>>39224880
I assume you decided I'm not worth your time? I don't mean to sound rude or presumptive with that question, I just prefer an answer to being ignored, else I'll always wonder what happened. I'll understand if I'm not.

>>39224998
You're not worth it. No.

>>39225020
Alright, I understand. Thank you for giving me a chance, I'm sorry to have wasted your time.
If I may ask one more thing: why not?

>>39224325
I see. You sound maybe nicer than I thought and I might've been wrong on some things. I don't think I'd want to talk or get to know you though, since I'm not interested in relationships and it sounds like you're looking for a gf specifically. I wish you the best, though.

>>39225048
I'm always looking for friendship as well if you're interested in that.

>>39225048
If you wanna talk in general, here's an email to contact me. I have other means of contact but prefer not to post them on here
[email protected]

I had an abusive boyfriend who was extremely caring and sweet at first and then became a violent dick who threatened to leave me every day and somehow I was acting super yandere over him for the entire 5 year relationship. I'd get irrationally angry at other girls he saw, would worry myself sick if I didn't get a goodnight from him or didn't know where he was and if he was safe. I was always very ready to forgive and would do anything to make him love me more.
I guess you could call that pretty yandere, even though I don't have bpd.

>>39225573
That sounds exactly like this guy
>>39224165

I'm sorry he made you feel that way anon, you deserve better than that

>>39223549
>tfw legitimately a bipolar, alcoholic, obsessively loving girlfriend to my gf but this thread is so repulsive I don't want to waste more than one or two posts on it
You're all children chasing a fantasy.

>>39225839
>Being loved is now a fantasy

It's true