Is stereotypical "lifting" useless for dating gains?

>>39158424
These fucking threads every fucking hour I HATE IT

>>39158424
im too scared of rejection

>>39158425
HE HATES IT

>>39158424
Post your pics and examples of conversations

I'm fit and socially apt in person but can't bumble or tinder for the life of me

Kill me

>>39158427
KUYASHII

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>>39158428

I feel it really doesn't matter what your opening is, as long as you can maintain an interesting conversation, "any plans for the weekend", stuff like that. Build on stuff she says like you know, a real conversation.

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>>39158425

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>>39158424
this desu

>6'1"

Advice discarded.

>>39158430
Lose picture 1 and 4 immediately, seriously reconsider picture 2.

I mean what the fuck were you thinking with picture 1

3 and 5 are good of which you want to make 3 your main pic

Try to get more lively pics that don't emit your betaness. Parties, events. It all looks too forced now

Plus you're not really attractive face wise. Get a more fashionable haircut

Godspeed

>>39158434
lmao autism talks

>>39158435
If by autism you mean a guy with 250 7/10 minimum matches that regularly gets his dick sucked by chicks you can only dream of, then yes

>>39158436
Post profile

>>39158434

Literally everyone Ive talked to loves pic 1. Do you know why? Because I'm not a super serial autist who can't poke fun at himself by posting a goofy pic.

>>39158436
jokes on you im gay

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>>39158426

Me too anon

>>39158424
So true I have a selfie and 2 pics with friends. bio only says height. I get about a 10% match rate.

>>39158438
Everyone you talked to is a beta as well or doesnt want to hurt your feelings

Women don't want jokers, women want men. This picture in no way emits manliness

>>39158437
Whether you believe me or not is up to you. I'd rather stay anonymous.

I feel that advice was fucking solid and you would benefit listening to it

>>39158434
>>39158436

go back to r/redpill. his profile is fine, bitches love dogs.
>250 7/10 minimum matches that regularly gets his dick sucked by chicks you can only dream of,

Cool, Im also a 6'6 250 lbs 3% body fat and a brain surgeon/ CIA agent making 6 figures monthly.

I find dating apps to be a good way to put your attractiveness in perspective. Everyone irl says I'm skinny (6'2" 188), meanwhile tinder sloots tell me otherwise if they even respond at all. The cut continues.

>>39158443
Cope harder

>>39158442
>Whether you believe me or not is up to you. I'd rather stay anonymous.
It would take 10 seconds and not reveal any personal info if you screenshot your tinder page that shows your matches and messages.

But yeah everyone believes you man...

If you have a decent face and put your height in your profile, you're pretty much set.

As long as that height is 6' or above.

>>39158447
add a dog and its like a cheat code. I got one to comeover just by sending .gifs

>>39158442

Well pic 3 is probably my worst so telling me to make it my main isn't sound advice.

>>39158424
>tfw 30 year old kv
>see this pic
why am i alone. ;_;

>6'1
Easy for you to say then, try being 5'11!!!!!!!!

>>39158430
Looking A V E R A G E

Nice job mate

>>39158452

Thanks bro. All I want is to be average really. Average people have boyfriends and girl friends. Average people are sociable, go out with friends, have fun, try new things. I've made so much progress this year it's been really nice.

>>39158453

I commend your attitude to life brah. It's a refreshing change from the cacophony of self-pity on here.

>>39158430
#1 should Ave been shirtless and in shorts
Remove your height.

I have always had an easy time with girls. In high school I was full lanklet skelly but 6'3'' and that got me plenty of action

Then I started lifting, and the bigger I get the more desirable I become. I went from being charming and attractive enough to bring girls home after some work at the bar and getting a few matches on dating app shit per week to suddenly being approached by multiple girls basically fighting over me at almost any bar I walk into and never missing out on a sexy tinder match pretty much ever.

Muscles are the road to glory m8. Lifting will take you from a low tier alpha to a fucking zyzz level GOD. I love lifting it changed my life it is literally the best thing to do ever. It's real OP, any girl that would fuck you would turn right around and forget you were there if I stepped into the room, and I train mma as well without stick arms so if it bothered you and you had the balls to say anything, I would also beat your skinny ass half to death.

>>39158456
post face

>>39158456

Hmmm I do have the frame to put on 20-30 pounds of muscle, It would be an incredible challenge. I'm comfortable here though and I'm kind of looking for someone to love and love me back. Also being 6'1" and under 160lbs in bjj and muay thai has it's advantages.

have you actually fucked any girls from tinder yet? Based on these pictures im pretty sure you're not going to. You're painfully average and your profile pictures suck dick

>>39158459

>>39158430

>>39158459

M-my grandmother says I'm handsome!

>>39158434
this guy is https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIK5hOIKF-E

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>>39158430
>wants to not be thought of as gay
>enjoys hot yoga and G&T

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>>39158463

> 2015 + 2
> not doing hot yoga
> not drinking G&T's

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>>39158464

>You dont look gay at all

>>39158465
My personal experience: easiest way to fuck a girl is to have her say something rude and insulting, but you just treat it as normal conversation and have a normal interaction without any overblown emotional reaction.

>>39158465
I want to see a pic of him to see how gay he looks.

>>39158466
How would you react to "you don't look gay at all" then mate?

>>39158424
mfw I had 2 matches on bumble and they didn't text me or anything. :(

I put my tinder out there last week but i haven't swiped yet. now I am nervous

>>39158430
you literally tailored your entire profile to honest, nice, cool guy that likes animals and won't kill you.

its easy as shit in a college town if you come off as stable and okay/attractive looking.

despite what people here think,not every girl wants a khal drogo angry motherfucker.

>>39158468
>>39158463
>>39158467
i personally thought it was pretty good, it goes for the witty and doesn't take himself too seriously and angry all the time angle.

>>39158447
6.1, dogo in pic on my own boat, dont think I am uggo, cant slam on tindy. Am I autistic?

>>39158426
yeah this

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>>39158447
>mfw 5'11

So close, yet so far.

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>>39158467

Here ya go. I actually posted this here for feedback 2 weeks back in a thread.

>>39158430
Can I see some of your conversations because I fund small talk so difficult?

>>39158475
Shave that facial hair you look like a child

>>39158453
You actually have a healthy mindset mate how can I get your approach to life?

>>39158475
other than the elf ears you are quite handsome from a male perspective.

do you live in a college town/have a decent job you advert on tinder? you look like the kinda guy a lot of my female friends at my school would be into.

>>39158426
No lie, DL'd bumble and the match thing shows I have like 40 but im legit too much of a sperg to start sorting through them

>>39158430
shoo skelly

>>39158430
Honestly everyone in here is talking shit but this is a great profile. The people who are criticizing you are jealous as fuck, fuck more whores and develop as many shit relationships as possible

>>39158480
You know how I know you're lying?
>bumble matches expire after 24 hours
>women have to initiate all contact

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Bro just go get a surfboard and take a picture with it somewhere that looks sunny, literally make fun of girls in a light way and you will swim in vagine

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>>39158484

>>39158485
>I like your nose ring
Wow dude. Don't even know what to say about that.

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>>39158486
Tupac had a nose ring.

G-go ahead anon, call Pac gay

>>39158485
Post nose ring pics

>>39158485
>I like your nose ring.

D E G E N E R A C Y

>>39158489
P U R G E
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>>39158424
I ain't 6'1 though, I'm 5'10

>>39158487
Literally got fucked in prison

>>39158453
Being content with average, what's going to be next anon?

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>>39158476

Honestly most conversation are boring small talk, if it seems natural after a while just ask them out and if they say yes ask for their number and go to text, Its not super complicated nor does it need to be incredibly interesting.

>>39158425

HE
E

>>39158484
T. A guy who is 6'

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>>39158456

Yeah brah just gotta be 6'3'' man you know? Muscles yeah haha...only a few dates not like we're ever alone for years at a time haha........

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>>39158494
How am I supposed to start a conversation? I'd think I'm fairly good at normie talk, but getting started (irl and online) has always been a difficult thing for me to do.

>>39158494
>He uses the full stop

what an ALPHA male

>>39158492
no he didn't you fucknut
https://youtu.be/6dd6Hkxxf7o?t=2m7s

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>dude just make a good profile!
>6'1

Women use dating apps to shop for the hottest guy they can get, and in the US every girl wants a guy over 6 foot.

>>39158493
Staying behind with the humanity.

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>>39158424
HOW TF DO U START A CONVO THAT THEY REPLY TO AFTER A MATCH THOUGH?!

>>39158474
just write 6 foot, sloots won't know the difference

Oh god, this will be hilarious from here on

>>42553659

Try to use something in their bio. I know that's easier said than done. Honestly If you can't think of anything clever just say "Hey, what'd you get up to today" or "Any plans for the weekend?" Opening is really just to break the ice, it doesn't have to be complicated. Also Thanks mods.

>>39158501
Unless you're >6'3" you should be adding 2-3" to your height. If you're 5'9" you should claim 6'. Just wear boots and 1" inserts when you meet with tinder thots. This doesn't work so well for turbo manlets, though.

>>39158424
Op youre a good looking fella with a solid profile; looks to me like you don't need any advice

>>39158434
1 and 4 are objectively his best pics. he could just have those 2 and be fine

>>39158447

>tfw 6'7, have a dog and am a healthy weight but got 2 tinder matches (and they were bots) for the 3 months I used it.

:(

>>39158744

Use a pic where you're next to a manlets and laughing while holding your outstretched upside down palm over his head at the height gp

>>39158772

I don't have any friends though. That and pretty much everyone looks like a manlet to me, even if they are 6'+

I had some self-confidence before online dating, I have none after.

>>39158475
>>39158430
>>39158424
>>39158464
Oh look, A FUCKING CHAD!!!

>not ugly
>not grossly overweight
>not missing any limbs
>not autistic
>not a manlet
>still not able to get a (real) match on tinder

I did the maths about a month ago. I worked out swiping right to 100 women a day (the free Tinder cap), 7 days a week for 6 months (give or take a day or two here and there) I'd swiped right to ~16000 women. Not a single match.

I don't use tinder too much these days. It's pretty upsetting.

>>39158424
>math pretty girl
>she turns out to be ugly
>add her on fb
>she ask who the dude on one of my pics are
>I realize the 2 close ups of me arent enough to make these fuuckin idiot realise who i am.

>>39159037
jesus mate, i'm fat as fuck and not particularly handsome but i've got 5 human matches in about a month and that's not swiping every day.

you need to lower your standards.

>>39158589
What are some reliable ways to measure myself at home if I don't have a measuring tape?

I'm a 5'9" skinny white boi with glasses and I managed to get two hookups in the same week off tinder and then started dating my current gf of one month (off tinder too)
Doesn't take much

>>39159317
They're not hugely high. I swipe right to white women who (I view) as 5/10 and above, which I would say is probably 50% of the women I am shown. I don't think my standards are the issue, it's just me.

>Get on a bunch of dating apps
>pof, tinder, okcupid, badoo and bumble
>Forget I'm black and get no matches or responses
All girls, including black girls, just want thug bad boy black guys

>tfw not fat, not skeleton, not autistic, not poor, not bad haircut
>just plain unattractive in the face
>can't get dates
It feels real bad knowing you can't improve your flaws.

My main issue with these apps is the pictures. I'm not bad looking, I'm not bad at socialising, I just fucking hate socialising 99% of the time. So all my pics are just selfies, I don't have any pics with other people apart from 1 where I look fucking weird because I'm squinting in the sun and the angle has distorted my face.

I'm tempted to photoshop myself into some random pic of a group of people, blur it and make it grainy to hide the shooping, blame the quality on a shitty phone camera, but at least it will be me in a pic with actual humans.

>>39158459


im 100% positive op hasn't fucked any girls from tinder with those pics+bio. he'll get lots of matches because he's vanilla safe guy #32422491, who will give all these girls attention for free

>>39158434
damn nigga you this autistic

godspeed autist

>>39159902

2 routes:

>best route

force yourself to socialize more, force yourself to socialize in interesting settings, and force yourself to get pics when you do that

>alt route

get a pod for your phone camera (most phones bought in the last couple years will have more than enough quality cams), and go to interesting spots and take a SHITLOAD of selfies - im talking like at least 40-50 for each spot, enough for you to find the best out of them.

>>39159902

I'm in the same boat. IRL I pull chicks pretty easily. But my pic game is weak. I don't have many girl friends so I don't get many pics when I'm out. It fucking blows lmao, I drop down 1-2 points on Tinder. I've actually had girls tell me I look way fucking hotter in person

>>39160009
>force yourself to socialize more, force yourself to socialize in interesting settings, and force yourself to get pics when you do that
I know this is probably the best idea, I have one group of friends who I see occasionally who are all normies but we never take pics, I don't want to be that one faggot like "hey guys lets take a pic!!"

I was thinking about doing your second option, OP's pic of him in that cafe could easily be replicated on my own and it instantly makes you look like a social person.

> take a SHITLOAD of selfies
I prefer HD video, you can choose exactly what frame makes you look good rather than trying to get a specific shot.

>>39160056
>I've actually had girls tell me I look way fucking hotter in person
iktf. I've never looked good in pics, I've even been told I don't look like my pics because of the angle, I look like a hotter person instead. I suppose it's better than the reverse though right?

>>39160154

>I don't want to be that one faggot like "hey guys lets take a pic!!"

No one cares dude, tell them straight up you want it for Tinder and they'll likely put in even more effort to get you a good pic. After some bantz of course but that's to be expected. Plus you get the added benefit of you know, actually socializing and having a bigger motivation to do so kek

it's another "chad doens't realize he's chad" thread

Op here literally about to meet my date, wish me luck.

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>>39158424
I prefer bumble over tinder. I seem to be doing alot better on that one

I deleted my Facebook like four years ago, can I still sign up for Bumble and shit with a burner Facebook account?

>>39160523
>Grant it

>>39160505
Get in a car crash normie fuck.

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>>39158424
>take really good pictures
>stronk af and lift harder than rich goddamn piana(rest in peace)
>get my pics reviewed by multiple anons to ensure they are top quality
>go on tinder
>get an smattering of matches

I don't understand.....I did what you did

>>39158453
Very nice attitude friendo and this is why you continue to have success with the ladies. do keep that up

>>39158483
no no dumbass he means in the top of the screen it shows a blured out group of circles with a number. If he has 40 there it means 40 females have already swiped right and are waiting to match him.

you misunderstood what he ment since I just explained this to a friend 20mins ago so had a hunch on what you were going on about.


hell at one point I had 57 and only ended up with 7 matches. Shows how picky my ass is

>>39158485
reba possibly has a nice butt

>>39158589
as a turbo manlet I can verify alot of that doesnt work nor does being a manlet but on occasion some dumb ho comes along that actually doesnt care bout height.

But yes if you're about 5'8 + you'll do just fine

>>39159317

I am the tall anon from a few posts before who got 2 or so matches over 2 months, which were bots.

My strategy was swipe right 100 times. I even wrote a script to do it for me. My standard of selection was "Shows up in my feed." I still didn't get matches.

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>>39160696
she isnt the best at grammar but she sends a nice butt pic on demand so I cant complain. But yeah I think she uses bumbles voice to text alot.

>>39158430
>6'1

This is the only thing that truly matters on tinder

I have no social media whatsoever. Does Tinder require you to have any accounts anywhere else? Would it be weird to use it if I dont have an online presence?

I made it a policy to be largest untraceable online but now that i am totally alone with no friends and my last relative died I regret it a little bit

>>39158451
> 5'11
Easy for you to say then, try being 5'6!!!!!!

>>39162021
No thanks, Im already suicidal

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Why lift when its all about le face?

>>39161994
It's been a minute since I signed up but I think you can also use a phone number

I went with my backup facebook account for it

>>39162183
Because a lower bodyfat percentage makes your face look better, and your bf% can only go so low from dieting alone

>>39162049
You should try it though, It would be the final push for the eventual suicide.

>>39158424
I bet you were not even bullid as a kid