>look at dad >he's a whiny, cowardly beta, "nice

My mother is thai.
Do I have to say more?

I used to have a dad to look up to,then he left my mom and lives in a trailer instead of the house he and his wife spent time on buying. I hatr him so much. And apparently this isnt the first time he has done this shit ethier. My grandmother says this is the third time he has done this shit and i honestly hate how my mom just keeps on taking him back. I hope this is the last time he does it. I never want to see him again.

>>39059735
>tfw your father is emotionally distant and not involved into your life besides providing food and shelter.
I love how majority of parents think that just by providing and not actually parenting is enough.
t. 24 khv.

>>39059735
This is how I feel as well, and I don't want to blame others for my own failures, but so much of our lives are determined by genetics and our environment as we grow up.

>>39059769
My manchild father is basically killing my mother.

>literally cries and whines at night every night because he's a fucking pussy
>doesn't let mom sleep
>spends all his money on my grandma because he's a manchild (I grew up poor as fuck because of this)
>causes her tons of stress
>smokes like a chimney and makes mom relapse on cigarettes every time she tries quitting
Really, he's a piece of shit. He didn't want a wife, he wanted another mommy.

>>39059755
Hi Elliot.
origami

>>39059735
My problem is opposite, my father is too alpha. He used to look alpha but not anymore but maintains his alpha attitude and earns a shit ton. So its hard when he wants me to live up to his expectations and keeps pushing me to do really difficult shit just cause he did the same when he was younger

>Father abused family
>GTFO
>Come to /r9k/ and hear people bitching about their dads being too beta

Cry me a river. You're hardly changing fucking things by bitching about it on /r9k/. Probably the only benefit to having the worst dad a guy could ask for is I have to leap an incredibly low bar to surpass him so that's not very much pressure.

>>39059784

what else is there?

"Free will"?

>>39059925
>my father is too alpha
This is more of a problem than a beta father. An overly alpha father will suppress his children and doom them to a life of betadom. Maybe he won't mean to do it, but his kids won't have a chance to be anything more because they will have been raised like that.

>>39059735
Reminds me of my own father. He is hard-working and takes care of us but there are some things about him that causes resentment in me.

My dad is just too weak. I wish he would grow grow a fucking backbone and stand up to himself for once.

Nowadays I act more cold towards him, letting him know that's how I feel until the day he's starting to become more strict and demanding.

>Who else never had a positive male role model?

My dad has always been distant. He goes to work, comes home, and buries himself in whatever shitty hobby he's into at the moment. We usually never talk, beside saying hello when he's back from work.
Never played with me when i was kid, never taught me anything about life (neither practical things such as how to shave, nor more important stuff). He is ultimately pretty much a stranger to me, as in i know him but really i don't.

He's not a bad person though. He never cheated, never drank, never beat neither my mom nor me and my siblings (except a few slaps on the buttocks when we threw tantrums as little kids ahaha). I think he has a lot of trouble himself opening up to people and is just emotionally immature. And i know because all of his flaws passed on to me. All in all I'm grateful for having the family i have. It could have gone so much worse.

>>39059735
My dad is a fucking super beta with OCD and aspergers or something and is constantly whining and crying. He literally parks my car again every night because it's just not right unless he does it, and he expects gratitude for shit like this. He's a failure laborer and believes hes literally the best father in the world (actually says this constantly and that I'm not grateful enough).
He's super passive aggressive too, doing anything that breaks his autistic rhythm will make him either yell in your ear or whimper like a dog when you are in the same room as him until you give him attention.

He tries to manipulate his family into giving him sympathy with implications in conversation and literal whimpers on a daily basis.

Has zero table manners, and actively tries to annoy everyone in the family to assert dominance? And gets fucking passive aggressive when we tell him to stop. Says he is entitled to do what he wants but we are not. Basically says I owe him my eternal gratitude and I live to serve him and act as his emotional tampon because he gave birth to me. If I had a choice, I wouldn't have been born to you you fucker.

He touches my ass like a pedophile and goes through all my stuff, goes through my bank statements. Doesn't let me have a haircut other than a bowlcut. Peeks his head in the room to see if I'm watching porn. Doesn't allow any freedom at all and sulks if his family doesn't greet him when he comes in and talks like a five year old child. Just completely destroys my testosterone.

He had a very minor injury and I had to take him to the emergency for it on no sleep, while all of the staff were basically laughing at us. He tried to be babied by the paramedics. I've never been so disgraced in my life.

The guy has some mental issues and my mother is just as bad. Eternal manchild that seeks to be babied by everyone around him. Maybe he didn't get enough maternal attention as a child?

Anyway I am in my mid 20s Going through college right now.

>>39060485
Now that I actually type it out I realize how fucked up my family is.

They say they will kick me out if I oppose them so I just have to live with it until I finish my education, as cucked as it is.

>>39059735
I've always thought "betas" were better people.I can't stand pretentious, loud assholes.
I think the nerdy quiet guy is superior, I've always thought that way and I won't let r9k change my beliefs.

>>39060599
betas are passive aggressive cancers that are depraved of normal social exposure. They have built up rage from being betas unable to speak their mind and take it out on those unfortunate enough to be close to them.

Face it, Chads are much better people to their families

>>39060146
>All in all
Did you just learn how to write essays or something?

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>>39059735
My dad is a fucking retard and I'm just like him.

Except I didn't fuck up and get someone pregnant at the age of 18

He would have been a NEET if it wasn't for having kids, now he's just a drug addict who gets arrested for stupid shit

>>39059735
My father is emotionally unstable. He can be real nice and caring towards me but then there are time when he acts very abusive and he'll raise his voice when he argues. He'll then call me a loser and say he's ashamed of me if I keep escalating tension by arguing back. My mother is the one who pretty much controls the relationship. My father will often retreat to his room after throwing a tissy fit when my mother says something to piss him off.

>>39060485
it sounds silly but did you try to oppose him a little bit, like at least getting a decent haircut?

I don't know him but it's unlikely he'll kick you out because of that and a better haircut can make you more attractive and give you more confidence.

I never really liked me father because we never talked, I spend most of my time in my room and he spends most of his time in the basement drinking beer and reading books.
My mother died last year and since then we grew a lot closer. That was a tragedy that made me really appreciate him.

my father got very sick with the same disease than Stephen Hawking and was basically paralyzed and unable to speak (or, in fact, to do anything besides moving his eyes and eyelids)

I have very few memories of him and sadly I don't think he was able to teach me much. It's too bad because I think he would have been a good influence.