I know most of you are normie fuckheads, but for the few actual

>>39048616
Find what you really like and just do it, bro.

>>39048616
I live at home still.

With company like mine, I WANT to be alone.

I preferred living alone in my own apartment while I was going to college. The neighbors were too noisy at times though.

In the short-term drugs help me. But I see that they can not be a permanent solution.
I try to read more and get lost in fantasy worlds or thoughts of people they have written down.

Playing dota2 and watching pro dota2. It's good endless entertainment.

There is no coping with it, just apathy.

>>39048635
>Find what you really like and just do it, bro.
memes aside, I'm genuinely afraid that I'll never find out what I really like.

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>>39048616
>how do you cope with the loneliness???
Dont think about it.
Anime is cool too...

I do a ritual to a cosmic horror and then feel better. Or sometimes i talk to my dog.

>>39048616
After you're forced into it with no way out you just get used to it and it stops being so noisy. I haven't been outside in 7 months so far this year, I've barely spoken to anyone in that time but I'm far past used to it and now the opposite makes me feel suicidal. If you're in a situation where you literally can't be around people and you're forced to be on your own for a long period of time you get used to it fairly quickly i think.

Take your mind off it by watching something or doing something productive, make yourself comfy and just enjoy the silence and it's not that bad.

>>39048616
by getting original (you)s

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Me and my e-girlfriend where suppose to watch evagelion but she left me before we could desu
I sometimes still feel lonely without my maro

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>>39048748
>Anime
This is why your alone

>>39048616
go outside fucker drive to a store fucker browse god damn it ask the cashier what you should buy and you have your daily interaction with the human species fucker

>>39048808
Thats why I posted a picture of john marston...Kinda reminds me of my father...

>>39048822
>JUST go outside
Literally kys normalcunt

>>39048616
>play games
>find friends in a game
>play games with friends
>talk through discord,curse,ts3,skype whatever while playing games
>find more friends thanks to your past friends

Or

>join some discord,curse or ts3 server
>just talk or whatever

Or

>watch anime bcs there are endless anime

Or

Kys

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>>39048616
Can't really help you. I love solitude. I spend all my days alone, and I enjoy it. For you, op, just find hobbies, and stick with them. If you have equipment for working out, I would suggest that.

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>>39048616
>I spend a lot of time talking to myself out loud
>Listening to music to drown out the silence every waking moment
>ASMR stuff when falling asleep
>Alcohol is neat if you have something to do while drinking, doing nothing while drinking makes the loneliness worse
>If you're really desperate, look into tulpas

Or then there's the options that will help you get rid of loneliness instead of just avoiding facing it
>Force yourself to go out, bar/coffeeshop/restaurant/park are good options, pic related
>Pick up a hobby, I swim, go to the gym every now and again and going to start shooting in the near future.

>>39048857
oh ya?? then what should he do instead?? tell me. do you know?

>>39048616
Maybe you could look for some voluntary work robotbro. Volunteer in a homeless shelter or do something else. At least it'll get you out the house and around other people.

>>39049046
Online games

>>39049082
This is what I ended up doing. I start volunteering next week. I'm kind of excited to get out of the house.

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>>39048616
Mostly just by trying to get lost in something outside of myself: anime/books/vidya/learning moonrunes/etc. Unfortunately I love love, and I love romance-based things, so I end up getting reminded of my loneliness often.

If I'm not lost in something, I end up suffering under the weight of my own collapsing ego.

I cope with loneliness by improving myself and becoming a cyborg, so that one day I can finally transcend loneliness.

>>39048616
I still chat with some of my high school friends through whatsapp/instagram.
Or reply to those discord threads

>>39048616
Drugs and alcohol. Nothing else you can do when you have a 2/10 face and girls are disgusted by you.

>>39049226
Fuck, as a fellow romantic I know how you feel. But every so often reality reminds me how heartless and incapable of love girls are. But even then, I can't fucking help it. I wan't to fall in love, I want to be loved, even though I know it's impossible.

>>39049226
>>39049923
Thought I was the only one like this on this board. Sucks I can never be the object of a woman's affections. I'm simply not attractive or "manly" enough to fit the typical man in a women's romance novel.

>>39050003
To be honest, women cannot love men unconditionally, not even Chads. If the guy goes broke, loses his looks or status, or if she thinks she can do better, you can bet she is dumping his ass. But still, it's nice to dream of a world in which unconditional love exists.

I used to drink it away, but since I got a hobby I've been all right.
It's not as simple as "just get a hobby", tho. I just found something extremely time consuming that I really like and I happen to be good at accidentally.

>>39050120
To be honest, men cannot love women unconditionally, not even Stacies. If the girl gets pregnant, loses her looks or youth, or if he thinks he can do better, you can bet he is dumping her ass. But still, it's nice to dream of a world in which unconditional love exists.

>>39050163
What hobby is it?

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>>39048616
Smoke and vidya.
Good luck on the wild ride anon.

I got used to talking to myself pretty much.

>>39050232
Music production. ghjk

>>39050214
t. toasty roastie
Go flap your beef curtains and fly away.

>>39050276
But still, it's nice to dream of a world in which unconditional love exists.

>>39048616
There is no way to cope with loneliness, trust me I've tried.

>>39048616
Anime, MAME, Marijuana

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>>39048616
easy, I got a gf to play vidya gaymes with
bet on fate anon, it's what I do now :(

>>39049923
>even then, I can't fucking help it. I wan't to fall in love, I want to be loved, even though I know it's impossible.
I entirely understand anon. It hurts. But that's why I'm so into shipping/fanfiction/fanart, ontop of generally romantic books/anime/vidya, because at the very least I can experience it vicariously.

But it still hurts.

>>39050003
>Thought I was the only one like this on this board. Sucks I can never be the object of a woman's affections.
>tfw you tell yourself you'll never be loved because of (insert reason here)
>See a disgusting, fat, disabled slob somewhere
>He is in a loving marriage with a family
Knowing that it's something inside of you that makes you so unloveable - something unchangeable - is terrible.

>>39050302
OUT FUCKING NORMIE OUT OUT OUT

I've been lonely for a really long time now and the only thing I can say is that I got used to it and actually started to enjoy loneliness.
Other than that if you can't simply get used to it I'd advise you to do something to get your attention off of the fact that you're lonely
>Play vidya
>Listen to music
>Binge watch YouTube
>Read a book
>Watch anime etc.

>>39050409
Fuck, this hit me right in the feels, looks like I'll need another bottle.

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>15 year old sister has more sexual experience than me
>keeps bringing boyfriends home

>>39048616
Distraction mostly. Tv, video games, books, movies, porn.
Although you get used to it.
I used to rage at the loneliness back when I was 22. 5 years later I'm mostly numb to it.
I still have days every now and then where I wallow. Typically I drink on those days.

>>39050500
She is a degenerate whore, if she was my sister, I wouldn't be able to stop myself from beating the living shit out of her.

>>39050628
I'm leaving the country

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>>39048616
Schizoids don't get lonely. We have no room in our hearts as a result of being filled to the brim with bitterness.

>>39050679
Good idea. Especially if you live in the US or the west in general.

>>39050706
We do. I tried to influence her as much as I could but society still ate her. I came home to her watching family guy a few days ago. Anyway, I'm moving to Nepal soon.

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>>39050422
I'm not a normie anon

Man, I have friends, I get a lot of female attention and I don't need to put a lot of effort into trying to get laid, I have a job, I go on vacations, and whatever the fuck else you might consider from normies, but none of that shit has stopped me from feeling incredibly fucking lonely for the past 12 years. Every fucking day I just want to die a swift and painless death. Stop being such a fucking retard by thinking that "normies" can't feel like shit and they're magically happy. Life in North America is fucking lonely as shit. Everyone is always distracted and never pay true attention to those around them. Everytime I feel any sort of happiness it's only momentary and then the sadness returns. How do I cope? Well fuck man there are things in life I want to experience. That's how I cope. I fucking tough it out and move onto the next thing I want to accomplish, not just sit at home like a faggot and pity myself.

>>39051038
You're bait is far too obvious. Be more subtle next time please

>>39052132
It's not even bait, but sure. Call anything that you disagree with a bait. If you want to circlejerk, go to leddit.

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>>39052393
If you're somehow actually being serious- if you have friends and a whore don't you fucking come on here and tell me you're fucking lonely. I have literally nobody. ZERO. And you bitch at me for being lonely even though you have absolutely no fucking idea what being lonely is even like. I hope you die an excruciatingly painful death

>>39051038
>Man, I have friends, I get a lot of female attention and I don't need to put a l
kys my man

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Actual robot here. Since I already know no one will like me, I spend my time shitposting on a couple of discord servers and playing tf2.

Only a small few people like me on discord so don't even think about it.

>>39052132
It's not even bait, but sure. Call anything that you disagree with a bait. If you want to circlejerk, go to leddit.

>>39052524
The world is only difficult and painful for you and people like you, huh? Keep crying about your woes on the internet. I heard that's how you improve your life. Self-pitying loser.

>>39048616
I play games to meet temporary people. They're sometimes in the same boat as I am, which gives me some comfort in the time being. Or I like to go onto some type of chatroom like omegle (it takes time to find a actual person) or some chats on kik. I don't even care if they become my friend or any other, it's just the fact I'm communicating with a real person and it takes off the lonesomeness off my mind.

>>39052595
You are a wonderful person. See a beaten, downtrodden man asking for help coping, and you spew insults at him and incessantly mock him

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>>39048616
Ive been alone (no friends just me and my family members who ignore me) for the past 2 years and heres how i cope with it,

vidya (dota2, lol)
Anime and game of thrones
Xanax and marijuana wax
Overnight job

Thats it

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>>39048616
I daydream a ridiculous amount. Some days it feels like I'm just sitting around being lost in my fantasies.

>>39052743
>I daydream a ridiculous amount
same...

>>39052711
If you actually had any real reading comprehension skills, you'd see that the point of my messages is to tell him to do something about the things that bother him and try to improve himself. You think I didn't feel the way this guy did at one point? I did. I was a shut in from the time I was 19-23. I eventually came to the realization that siting at home and feeling bad for myself and distracting myself with video games and anime wasn't the right choice, so I went out and got a job. I forced myself into awkward situations and learned how to cope with them, and all of that led to a different lifestyle. Who is to say that I don't still feel lonely, like I was saying in the first post? This guy thinks that I can't imagine how he feels, because my life is now different. I don't pity anyone who stagnates and isn't willing to improve themselves. How many people do you think in this guy's life or on the internet are telling him bullshit to try and make him feel better? Too many.

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>>39052743
>the time where you save your oneitits from 4 or 5 knife wielding muggers on a alleyway daydream
>the time where your oneitits actually said yes and you live together and daydream about things you would do together like playing vidya and smoking weed together until we fall asleep

When will it end lads?

>>39052818
>insulting someone is helping them
Ok. Alright then...

>>39052840
desu I usually just daydream that I'm having a casual conversation with a friend about whatever I'm doing

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>>39048616
Play guitar, play roguelikes and dwarf fortress, program stuff, read, sleep a lot, drink a beer or two every day after work, walk the dogs. I get really sad occasionally but I just force myself to press on and eventually I feel okay again. I'm so used to loneliness I can't really notice it anymore, it's only when i'm surrounded by other people that I notice how lonely I've become. I don't mind it though, i've gotten to a point where i'm set in my ways. Socialization other than online is just stressful and anxiety inducing, I'm incredibly avoidant. Nothing fills me with dread and discomfort more than seeing another human, seriously. Other than going to and from work, I mostly only go outside at night and avoid the main roads for the most part.

>>39048616
I don't know, really OP. I've been on a similar swing lately. I've been getting high or drunk to remove the feeling but I know it doesn't solve anything.
I've fallen in love with a new girl for the first time in years... I'm sinking my efforts into that, trying to be the best me I can be so that I can have any hope of being with her. I think you just need to find a focal point and stick to that.

>video games and anime were my two hobbies in life
>I can't even do them anymore because whenever I spend more than a half hour on them I feel like I'm wasting time I could be spending doing something productive
>feel this way even when I have free time
>can't even enjoy myself when I am playing/watching because of the nagging
>end up on 4chan the whole time instead
>don't even enjoy alone time as a result

>>39053002
>treat 4chan like a video game
>have an interesting discussion or two first hour
>lose my patience to someone's autism eventually
>waste time and ruin threads in unstoppable force vs. immovable object style sperg-offs

>>39048616
I lie in bed and listen to ambient vaporwave until the pain becomes bearable.
>tfw sometimes the pain sticks with you through the night, and you have to spend the next day at work trying to not break down externally

>>39048616
Oneohtrix Point Never

>>39048719
This, pick up some csgo and another esport and you'll be surprised how entertaining it can get

>play those games
>meet some guys that watch it too
>talk to each other about it during breaks or when there is no event on

Literally all your free time zapped

>>39053282
>spend the next day at work trying to not break down externally
Almost happened today LOL

>>39053282
>tfw sometimes the pain sticks with you through the night, and you have to spend the next day at work trying to not break down externally
I know this feel all too well.

>Upset at self/life, but have to go to work because shirking responsibilities/money would make life that much more unbearable.
>Doesn't change the fact that I'm wallowing in my own disgust and self-hatred
>Spend my shift in a daze as I suffer as much as I can while keeping a thin veneer of "being there"
>tfw I have to stop myself from crying at work sometimes

Drink a lot of booze in hopes that it'll kill you, you pathetic, alone piece of shit

>>39053416
solid advise anon

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>>39048616
By eating a lot. Pretty sure I'm going to wind up killing myself.

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>>39048616
A girl once borrowed one of my shirts, it smelt like her so I put it on a pillow and slept next to it, it helped me sleep and felt like someone was there.

Thinking about buying a female shirt and makeup to make a new body pillow gf to help me sleep

>>39053670
>Thinking about buying a female shirt and makeup to make a new body pillow gf to help me sleep
It won't have the same effect as the shirt that helped you fall asleep; it has no connection to a qt or anything,

>>39053670
Reading this almost made me tear up, because I know I would do the exact same thing if given the opportunity. Why is life so fucked?

>>39053801
I know it probably won't but I need to be hopeful this is the worst my loneliness had been and it's the hardes it's been to sleep in years

>>39053818
I don't think we can help it
We're creatures with the sole purpose of reproduction and when we can't have that then we have to make up for it

>>39048616
If you need to cope with loneliness you aren't robot by definition.

>>39050214
You are so wrong, friend.

>>39048616
In order to stop yourself from commiting suicide buy a dildo. This may sound strange but if you kill yourself then you'll have to cope with the idea of your family finding a dildo in your house/room and the overwhelming shame should stop you from going through with it.

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>>39048616

I've never had a friend before.

You can't miss out on that which you do not understand.

>>39053924
>You can't miss out on that which you do not understand.
Ohhhhhh, you can...

>>39048616
I pretend I'm someone else, not anyone I know or a fictional character; just someone else, and then I talk to myself. It's pretty entertaining and feels fine.

>>39048616
You suffer through it and eventually it gets somewhat okay again.
t. actual robot

by working on becoming a normie.

>>39053924
Not true at all (1)

>>39052857
It's just another normie acting out his motivational speaker fantasies. They always feel compelled to do that after having browsed this board for a day or two.

Then this chief is trying to say that he's in the same boat as us.
>yeah i may have friends
>and yeah i may get laid easily
>and i may have a job
>but i'm just a sad, lonely loser like you! stop whining lol haha
Dumb fucking normie. You literally have the self awareness of a goldfish.

>>39048763
>I do a ritual to a cosmic horror and then feel better

Elaborate pls?

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>>39048616
Rarely do i feel loneliness. I like to embrace the beautifully chaotic absurdity of my mental anguish like the edglord i've always been. I don't shy away from darkness i only wish to become a stronger man in the face of it.

>>39048635
Don't try to help him. Seeking help implies that he has a chance to be normal. But if he is like me he was born this way and needs to confront his terrible future.

>>39048616
Find a new hobby, when i got tired of videogames and anime i started to learn how to play on a guitar. Also started to write a diary.

>>39048699
Reading is really the best advice, good literature will unironically make you a better person.

>>39048616
I used to smoke weed but I had to quit. Weed could take me away from my painful reality but I quit because it was damaging my short term memory and now I feel even worse after quitting.

>>39050214
Shut up cunt. You know nothing of integrity. Your kind is why the West is in fast decay. Fuck off with the feminist shit

>>39048746

Imagine ure gonna die tomorrow. How will you want to spend your day today?

I'm 23, haven't had a friend since 17 and I get along fine.
Also all of my hobbies are solitary, aside from when I go to the kiln every weekend and have to deal with women.

>>39056174
Drink alcohol, masturbate to gender bender/sissy pornography and cross dress.
Alternatively get baptised and convert to christianity.

>>39048808
Do I even have to explain why you need to not only leave this board, but also this fucking website? I'm not going to be lurking, long day, but if you wonder why, I'm sure some other anon can fill in the blanks.