>turned 20 today it's not going to get better is it?

>>39031958
You have to actually put effort in for things to get better.

>>39031976
Useless normal slime advice.
>>39031958
No it doesn't get better and anyone who says otherwise is a lying sack of shit that had everything handed to them on a silver platter The rest of us actually have to trudge through their bullshit they spew out so you can't advance only fall deeper into despair you can try all you like but in the end regardless of how "successful" you think you are you aren't you are still a failure and someone else made sure of it.

It will get better if you make it better.

I'm 30, it never gets better, but it will only get worse if you try to be a normie.

>>39032043
Nobody is going to fix your life for you.
You are responsible for yourself.
I hope that God sends you someone to show you what to do.

>>39032056
>>39031976
I feel like it's already over, how can you function in life as a 20 year old virgin with no social skills. I'm destined to die alone

>>39032079
I disagree. There needs to be a balance between being a normie who has a social life and a chan fag,

>>39032083
stop feeling sorry for yourself and making yourself out to be a victim. Go the gym, find a hobby, interact with people. You'll learn m8, just take the first step

Depends, what exactly is your status now at 20?

>>39032083
>I'm destined to die alone
What makes you believe that?

>>39032133
What do you mean by status? origigogjg

>>39032080
>Nobody is going to fix your life for you.
No really? Wow i never would've thought.
Maybe you should get some reading comprehension you fucking moron.

I tried and tried and tried some more
Yet no matter how hard i tried i still ended up getting refusal denials and overall fucking misery Oh but it's because you aren't trying hard enough oh it's all on you.
No it's not you brain dead fucking idiot if you actually gave ME fucking chance then we wouldn't have this problem but instead you brainless spinless fucking cowards of human beings get so high and mighty on your mound of bullshit you feed yourself that you think anyone who isn't as high and mighty doesn't deserve an ounce of respect period and you pieces of shit in human form manage to suck ass and brown nose your ways into power so whenever some average joe needs a job Oh guess what you don't think they need it because they haven't tried hard enough. and yet you have the gall to fucking wonder why? Really activates my fucking almonds.

>>39031958
I turn 20 on the sixth, feelsbadman. I feel like I have been an adult for two years now and all I've done is flunk college because I never left my dorm room, drank a shit ton, and fucked my brain up even more with drugs.

>>39032185
Anonymous, did you ever consider that being angry pushes people away, even if you are right?
Part of the curse of sin is that you will do work that has no value.
"Cursed is the ground because of you;
through painful toil you will eat food from it
all the days of your life.
It will produce thorns and thistles for you,
and you will eat the plants of the field.
By the sweat of your brow
you will eat your food"

>>39032255
>spewing christ cuck shit
yeah no.

>>39032313
Okay, have fun with the curse

>>39031958
>Turned 23 two months ago

A lot has happened since then but due to the fact that I'm not really enjoying my life too much and am sort of trapped in an area it feels as if time has stopped when its still moving on

>>39031958
I'm 23, it does not get better. Fix yourself now. Pretend I'm you from the future.

>>39032384
how does one fix himself when he is severely depressed and doesn't have the energy to get out of bed, gets anxiety at the thought of going outside and interacting with people.

>>39031958
>I feel so old
hey mate, wait until you turn 25.

then again, spend some time with your grandparents. that will remind you how much time you really have.

>>39032185
oh calm down you insufferable little faggot
go outside, start exercising, start working as a janitor, or go to the Dakotas and work an oil rig, or join the military
you're a pussy, a coward, a defeatist little bitch who would rather have a tantrum on /r9k/ than actually read a book or go to a Recruiter near his home, or should i say parents home? I guarantee a little faggot like you is still living with mommy.
You haven't tried, and no amount of screaming is going to change that. Go be a man, and try not to respond to this post with another tirade

>>39031958
>it's not going to get better is it?
I've got some bad news for you anon...

>>39032436
I'm 23 and god do I wish I knew.

>>39032465
t. litteral faggot.

>>39031958
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TdIRrmNN_CQ

>peak was a one month journey you took after you graduated highschool
>you practically dropped out of college due to finances
>most of the stuff since then has barely compared to that month
>8th grade was a golden year
>most of the people you went to highschool with have graduated a long time ago
>will never experience the joy of friends hugging you in a crowd as a way to say hello because distance has ripped you all apart

I want that happiness to return but I feel as if the only thing I can do is hold on to what small beauty I have left and try to cultivate it

I'm grateful to be alive, I shouldn't be so greedy yet I feel it's only natural to be at least a little selfish

I'm twenty years old and all I do is spend time on my laptop and my ipad [it doesn't get better]

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>>39032133
Can't drive, can't cook, can't socialize, failed out of college from not showing up, KHV, nobody responds to my applications.

>>39032566
that's what you think now (though admittedly, the extent to which it will get better may not be very much).

>>39032479
>>39032436
Here is a simple trick for social invisibility. When you see a person, look them in their eyes, then quickly look away. They will actively ignore you, allowing you to move without judgement.
As for getting out of bed, drink more water? Gotta use the bathroom sometime.

>>39032185
>>39032436
We all start somewhere. To be a man, your own man, you must force yourself to do things no one is making you do. Do things that will help you and that may be horrible uncomfortable and down right painful but you do them anyways.

Doing this will make you proud of who you are instead of feeling sorry for yourself and blaming others for your current situation.

>>39032083
>20
>old
i hope you realize you're being a melodramatic bitch (although i doubt it). this behavior and rhetoric is more become of a 10 year old than a 20 year old
pathetic

>>39032580
I'm in the same boat, hate to break it to you but you're totally fucked m8

>>39032613
I'm not OP, but I will say that in this current day and age, it's easy to fall into despair at the degeneracy of this jew-run world. I wouldn't blame him.

>>39032650
are you older than 20?

>>39032436
idk. But I guess you'll just have to figure something out, won'tcha now?

>>39032185
Just kill yourself then, you fucking baby. The world has no use for you.

>>39032817
fuck off, boomer nigger.

>>39031958
Happy birthday fag.

Fucking original bullshit.

>>39032829
>Whaaua Whuuaaaaa

>>39032845
>39032845
thanks, cuck.

origamily.

>>39032874
I'm having a laugh at your expense right now. The day of the rope is nigh for you and your kind. Those social security checks are gonna be drying out real quick.

Just you wait!

>>39032185
Die a khv neet then. Can't be helped.

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>>39032912
oh I will. But not until I bring about a great destruction first. One which will wreak havoc on all you know and love

MUHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!

>>39032898
>20 year old virgin
>laughing at anyone ever

aylmao. Just do your Eliot Rodger thing already and get shot by some cops you useless shitstain,

>>39032944
1. not a shitskin
2. not a Rogerfag
3. not a boomer cunt

get rekt, ya dumb cunt!

Baby boomer here I may die before you op but I lived the good life. Enjoy your shitty people of color and economic fall.

>>39032966
Jeesus you are dense. No wonder nobody finds you attractive.

>>39032436
Drugs. Look into psilocybin

>>39031958
i fucking hate time passing so fucking quickly. I've had panic attacks every birthday since 15 because im just running towards my deathbed at 70 and fuck. I hate it.

>>39033038
I can't even find alcohol, how the fuck am I supposed to find this shit?

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>tfw halfway to 21
>around 8 months have passed since I turned 20
>feels like a month ago
>haven't done anything during all that time
>still a fat KHHV NEET

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>>39032436

Stop masturbating and watching porn. Start meditating and reading books. Force yourself to be cheerfully faithful and practice self discipline. Start working out and following a routine. Set short term goals, medium-term, and long-term, and make a plan to achieve them. Live day by day, making the most out of every day and reflecting over your actions.

>>39032658
sure. then you grow up, get with the program and deal with it. whining about your existential angst like holden caulfield is what adolescence is for, OP should return to freshman english class if he wants to cry like this

>>39031958

OP, I'll get straight to the point. What do you want out of life?

When I think of the main things that I can have/be, it comes down to:

>Location (Anywhere in the US is easily doable. Desert, tropical island, mountains, forests, beach, big city, small town, whatever you want).

>Family and relationships - do you want a spouse, do you want kids?Do you want friends? Want to talk to your mom, siblings, etc. more? Now you have a goal.

>Occupation - work, NEETBux, mooch off of mommy, whatever

>Hobbies/things you like to do

>How you look/physical health - do you want to be a bodybuilder, do you want to be skinny, fat, etc.

>How you feel, how you want to feel - Nobody's forcing you to be depressed. Day 0, right now, you can try to be content with what you have that's good, and figure out how to change what isn't. What you can't change that you don't like, you'll need to figure a way to cope. Attitude is everything. You want a shitty day, go right ahead and keep complaining.

>>39033367
Hey buddy, if you could do anything in the world, literally anything, what would it be? Now maybe that first thing isn't possible, what's more realistic? Go get your's.

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>>39031958
No, it doesn't get better

Don't believe the "you still have time" meme, either. I'm pretty sure it's either personality or genetics at this point, and personality may be genetic. I had a realistic education + career plan at 18 myself (was accepted into uni for accounting and all that), but fell through with it. Knowing what to do and doing it on a daily basis are completely different things.

If it's comfort, days will feel like years but years will feel like days in five years looking back. Good luck

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>>39033416
>if you could do anything in the world, literally anything, what would it be?
Get a girlfriend and have intimate hot steamy sex everyday with her, hopefully we'd both be be virgins and try out different stuff and do different kinks. Or get my own spaceship and travel across the galaxy and lose my virginity to alien chicks. Both of these are highly unrealistic and will never happen to me because that would mean something good would finally happen to me. Realistically, maybe lose weight. Already on it, slowly though, still trying to lose the candy and snacks but it's just too good. Thinking about taking a walk on the treadmill for 30+ minutes everyday, hopefully that will work. I'm 255 lbs, I can barely remember how it feels to be thin, hopefully I'll reach my goal before I turn 21, doubt I will though.

>>39033573
why the fuck would you even want a gf?

>>39033573

Maybe try looking for an overweight gamer girl? You don't have to be skinny to get girls. Plenty of them have self-esteem issues, even skinny ones.

If your goal is lose weight and pull bitches, it doesn't have to be all at once. Just head in the right direction over the long run and you'll get there.

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>>39033601
Because I've never had one and I want to fuck a girl. I also want to love someone and recieve love back, hugging a pillow and pretending it's a girl and that the quilts warmth is a girls touch only gets you so far.

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>>39033660
Meh. Personally, I just don't see the appeal in that.

Then again, I hate American women, and aren't even White in the first place, so I have pretty little reason to want to have a gf ever. As a matter of fact, a few months ago I was considering castrating myself, but then I decided that that would probably be a bad idea, so I should just continue to remain celibate instead.

>>39031958
In 99% of cases it doesn't.
The only sure way to fix things is treat yourself like a soldier training with a nobullshit sergeant. Nobody has the will power to do that to themselves.

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>>39033712
What do you not see appeal in? Sex? Do you never get horny? I can barely go one day without jerking off. Anyways, why do you hate american women?

>>39033798
can you be my drill sergent, anon?

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>>39033820
Because American """"women"""" are spoiled sluts who just spend their whole lives leeching off of the work done by men.

Back when I used to work as a cashier at Walmart, I always had old women bitching at me for stupid shit, like I had one 80 year old woman complaining that I gave her too many bags and literally went on a fucking 10 minute rant about how bad a job I was doing as a cashier even though she probably hasn't worked since the great depression (if that) and I just thought, like, goddamn, how can a person not work for 80 years and just leech resources and happiness out of other people like a fucking parasitic whore? People like that should be fucking euthanized by being ground to death by a steamroller, and I won't have it. I won't participate in this cuckoldry.

Also, I don't feel very horny around women. Hell, I didn't even jerk off for the first time until 2 months before I turned 17. When I see an attractive woman, I feel nothing.

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>>39033928
Sounds to me like the average woman, not really an american thing I think.
>Hell, I didn't even jerk off for the first time until 2 months before I turned 17
17? Really? I started jerking it when I was 11. >When I see an attractive woman, I feel nothing.
You get no sexual thought in your head when you see a hot girl? Not wondering what her tits looks like, if she's an innie or roastie flaps, how your life would look in 10 years with her and kids? Sounds pretty weird to me, but who am I to say, I'm just a horny virgin, maybe that's why I think about the stuff I do when I see women.

>>39034063
Also, since I'm not white, there's no practical reason for having kids, which means there's no incentive for getting a gf in the first place, so what the hell is the point in getting one?

>>39031976
say it aint so, joe.

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>>39034100
If not a girlfriend or sex, what do you want to get or achive? Surely there must be something out there that will make you happy. Either way, I hope you find or get whatever makes you happy one day anon, I'll go to sleep now. Good luck.

>>39031958
You have time
It's when you turn 25 that it REALLY hits you. Exponentially.>>39032056

>>39032056
Useless platitude number 64

>>39034241
the only thing I want is to not be depressed.

>>39032083
I understand how you feel OP, I felt the same when. I was your age.

My best advise, get a job in retail. You'll work with actual old fucks like me and see what a baby you really are.

>>39032549
Amazing original post

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Hello Sunshine!

Looking at this makes me feel better :)

I once put the gas on to feel the smell but then looked at this and felt SO much better

I recommend

>>39034284
Yeah
Half of those things you can work and complete I'm a year, the restvcsn be worked gradually.

If I were you, I would set the following goals

License
Gym
Job
Car

These three things alone will help you so much in terms of confidence.
Even if it doesn't, it opens up future opportunities just in case you strike gold.

Focus on the gym and diet first.
I know people meme about the gym, but it really helps with confidence, especially if you are fat or lanky.

You don't even have to be a gym rat, but just putting on some muscle helps.