Robots I have 2 dates on Sunday.
Is this dick? I am not exclusive with either one and looking for guidance.
Feel a little guilty.
that's a tough call. how long have you been dating these girls?
>>38948035
One is the first date, the other is the 4th date but she knows we aren't exclusive yet.
>>38948083
if 4th date girl knows you're not exclusive FOR SURE, like you've talked about it, then it's whatev. however, I think that first date girl may be under the assumption that you are currently not seeing anyone. it is respectful in this case to tell her that you are not looking for exclusivity so she can decide whether or not she desires to pursue a second date with you.
>>38948131
4th date girl was told last date we aren't exclusive yet (although I'd like to be one day).
Basically the first date girl is backup girl.
>>38948158
if you want to be exclusive with 4th date girl (henceforth referred to as 4, and 1st date girl as 1), why are you going on a date with 1?
>>38948197
I am not sure what 4 wants, she seems to want to take her time to get into a relationship and if she doesn't want me I want a backup.
>>38948197
Backup girl in case the other reveals herself horribly flawed down the line.
Man has options. He's desirable, and should take advantage of it.
>>38948231
>>38948238
I guess I get the idea, but what's wrong with being single for a while if things with 4 don't work out? why do you gotta have a backup to immediately pick things up with?
I dunno, I can barely deal with one woman's emotional bullshit. juggling two just seems like a hassle
>>38948291
It's not like I am talking to them daily.