Ok, so I've read everywhere that in order to get a gf (or at least some friends), I need to be interesting, to have some hobbies. The problem is, I'm boring as fak.
I'm a typical skinnyfat, bitchtits-having, ugly, shortsighted boring shit, my only "interests" are cars (can't fix them though), vidya (because of course), wh40k (well, obviously) and sci-fi/fantasy books (although I haven't read any books in like 3 months).
That's basically it. No talents, no other interests, no knowledge.
>start lifting bro
Yeah, I've tried already, couple of times in fact, hated every second of it.
I'm just trying to be, I don't know, interesting? Good at something? To not feel like I'm wasting my time?
>just do it long enough
>force urself to do it
If I'm forcing myself, then it isn't really a hobby, is it? I will just hate every moment of it, and you can't be good at something if you hate it.
Any ideas?
>>38827930
cont.
Also, a bit of info:
>shit at math
>shit at programming (I can't understand anything, even basic HTML {I even attended a course, dropped out quickly})
>can't write/sing/play instruments/paint/anything artistic
>can't fix cars/woodworking/anything mechanical
Also, for someone that plays vidya for over 20 years now, I'm really bad at them. I don't play any multiplayer games because every time I start, I get my ass kicked, even after I force myself to play longer.
It's like I have some kind of learning disability, like I learn the basics of something, and then I can't get any better, even after doing it for ages (or maybe I'm just retarded).
>>38827930
>I have no interests or talents
>I also don't want to take the time to cultivate a talent
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>>38828018
Well, yeah, because as I said before, I can't get past the beginner stage in anything I do, and when I think about the fact that no matter what I do or how long I'll do it, I won't get good enough to be interesting/master of something.
It's like one anon said it, there's a race and some people have a bike to help them (those with talent) and some are not even on the staring line yet (like me) and before they get to the starting line, everybody will be at the midpoint already.
>>38827930
Get a fucking dirtbike you clown
>>38828081
Can't ride a motorbike, don't have the license. I can drive a car though.
Also, I can barely afford my car insurance so getting a second vechicle and a riding course is too much for me.
Also, I'm afraid of the pain.
>>38827930
If you aren't born a normie you should just give up on ever getting a gf.
It's just not fucking worth it man. Get a 2d waifu or just forget about women altogether. Modern women are absolute trash anyway.
Don't bother bringing this pain on yourself.
>>38828138
It's not just about getting a gf, I don't want to feel like I'm wasting my life all the time. Hobbies should give you a sense of purpose, some confidence, that's what I want to feel.
>>38828168
Hobbies are a fucking meme. I swear. Some people just weren't meant to have interests/hobbies that are actually fulfilling.
>>38828117
Bikes are fun and you don't have to be a nut on one. You can cruise around real easy and enjoy the outdoors. You don't need a license or insurance for an off highway vehicle, unless you're in Europe or something. I have no clues about the laws there
>>38828215
Emmm, yeaaah, I am in Europe, so nope.
Bikes are out of the question for one more reason: even though I can ride a normal, pedal bike, I'm not very good at it. I mean, I'm not falling over or something, but it's like I need to conciously keep my balance at all times.
It's like you had too think about breathing all the time in case to not suffocate.
>>38827930
>>38827997
whats your job, OP?
>to be interesting, be interested!
-Dale Carnegie
>>38828394
Forklift driver in a warehouse. Very wagecuckie, no chance to get a promotion/recognition/bonus, perfect robot job.