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What's with the gradual increase of isolated men?

I've been working as an escort since 2010, and have noticed this in my work. Usually my clientele are 25 - 50, but rarely do they dip below the 30 mark. So of course I was a little surprised by my recent client being 27. And when we talked before starting the session, he went into being very depressed and remote these days. Very little friends and chances at meeting new people. And wanted to try my services to mix things up and do something new.

Which is also a prevailing narrative I've been seeing for some time. So many men who feeling isolated and unable to reach out. Particularly older men. But I've also had friends in the business talk about an increase of customers in the college ages (haven't myself), and one of their common reasons for pursuing sex workers was fear of approaching the wrong woman and being seen as a stalker, since they can't figure out what's presently considered sexual misconduct.

What the hell?
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>>38809899
I think you should probably rethink your life, thank you for your insight into what was already quite well-known, but this insight wasn't worth you doing this horrible thing to yourself.
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>>38809899
where you located, can I hire you? do you fuck black guys?
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Because more of them are starting to realize: what's the fucking point?

Regular woman requires a shitload of time and money for just a chance/hope that you get far enough to fuck her. With an escort it's not a gamble, you get what you pay for.
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>What the hell?
You're telling me famalam.
Especially on colleges, where your younger clients come from there is this prevailing culture of fear, where everything you do can be labelled as a sexual assault. It used to be easy to single out those kinds of "bad women" by some easy red flags, but nowadays it's harder because fucking everyone is a leftist.

It's funny how people used to laugh at conservatism and Christian values, but suddenly the scale flipped and the best way to get a gf without getting your face on a sexual offender list is from those religious gatherings.
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>>38810041
>t. paranoid blithering retard
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>>38809899
It's easier to just masturbate tbqh

>feel bad
>feel horny
>feel sad
Masturbating will fix all of those for me, and I don't have to leave the house, talk to people, or pay anything.
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>>38809939
>girl who enjoys sex leverages her good looks to get paid
>horrible thing
why is r9k so repressed? Is it because most of you have never had sex so you view it as some kind of disgusting thing when people do it casually? Or maybe it's just that you're jealous?
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>>38810153
It will hurt you in the long-run, Anon.
You'll become even more socially atomized, and eventually you'll be jerking it to even more fucked up shit.

Hell, maybe we'll see you on the news for Child Porn or something like that.
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>>38810278
>girl who sells her body
>good thing

I have no problem with sex, but it's supposed to be an intimate thing between two people (preferably married) who love each other.
If you take away the "love" part and just do it for fun or for money, you ruin yourself, your ability to bond with others, and your health.


There's a reason all of our ancestors were mongamous, Anon.
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>>38810335
>all of our ancestors were mongamous
nice one, you complete ignoramus
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>>38810335
>t. obvious virgin
You can still have intimacy with sex even without the love part. Hell, it's hormonally hardwired into your body to experience a sense of intimacy from sex with another person even if there's no actual love between the two. One of the reasons that makes going to escorts so fun: it's one of the few way you can experience intimate affection for another.
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>>38810362
>Not actually saying anything

Correct me if I'm wrong, but your great-grandfather didn't go around screwing whores and neither did he let other men screw his wife.
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>>38810335
>I have no problem with sex, but it's supposed to be an intimate thing between two people (preferably married) who love each other.

Fucking numales.....
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>>38810411
>what are harems
please stop typing
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>>38810385
By definition, you cannot be intimate with a prostitute.

What warped, perverted sense of "intimacy" you feel is your brain trying to rationalize this shit decision.
You can't be intimate with someone who takes other men's cocks up her vagina, or "is intimate" with other men.


Sex creates an emotional bond between two people, and "casually" forming such bonds leads to self-destruction.
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>>38810411
m8 you really think dudes weren't fucking whores back in the day
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>>38810335
Our ancestors were polygamous. But the problem is because of it's survival-of-the-fittest nature. If you were unable to get a partner, that was it for you. So monogamy came into play in order to help guarantee everyone else a chance to reproduce.

Place, the primate genus typically can only have a tiny number of offspring per female (like one or two at best). So there was no point in them having a lot of partners.
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>>38810442
literally the norm for the majority of men over the past 2000 years in the west
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>>38810442
You can't have your cake and eat it.
You can't both complain about women being whores or unapproachable, and then lash out when people start acting chaste as they're supposed to be.

I'm against all whoredom, and this is the way to stop it. It's the foundation of our society and civilization; heterosexual monogamy.
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>>38809899
Pretty good bait just be a little more subtle next time in your LARP for infinite (you)s, the last sentence in the paragraph was written too much like a male.
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>>38810447
>what are harems


Please, ask your father if he's still around, look him in the eye and ask him about his love life, and then ask him about your grandpa, and your great-grandpa and so on and then adjust this data to your life.


If your ancestors didn't adhere to strick monogamy, there is a heavy chance your life is shit.
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>>38810466
"Intimacy" means being close with another person. That's pretty much it; nothing more. And whether or not you consider it authentic intimacy, you still feel one with whoever you're banging, even if you guys don't really have strong feelings for each other. It's biologically and chemically impossible not to. One of the only ways not to experience a sense of intimacy from sex with another person is if you weren't consenting to it.

>Sex creates an emotional bond between two people
Sex with an escort or other sex workers does that. Even if there's no real love between client and provider.
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>>38809899
because all they want is sex not an actual relationship were both parties have to put effort in it.
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>>38809899
>Natural surplus of men is not being kept in check
>Sites like Tinder are ironically making it harder for unattractive men to get sex (According to one survery, 240/300 women got laid using Tinder compared to 50/300 men)
>Internet and vidya make being a shutin more appealing
>Women's rights movement has caused women to flood the work world, disaplacing many men who can thus no longer attract a mate simply by being the breadwinner
>Women are now beginning to outnumber men in colleges and universities while refusing to date men who earn less than themselves, locking low-earning men out of the dating market
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>>38810476
Depends on what you mean "back in the day"

Civilizations all have a lifespan; They are born, they establish themselves, they flourish, they decay and then they finally die.
Do not mistake the behaviours of a dying society for the norm.

All civilizations started with the strict sexual law of heterosexual monogamy, and flourished because of it.
As time went on, they liberalized their sexual conduct and fell into decadence.

Read Unwinn's study, it should be entertaining to a robot.
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>>38809899
Very obvious bait trying to shill your virgin 80% meme.
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>>38810574
By definition, "being close with someone" means that they exclude others from that closeness. That closeness is something ONLY you too have access to.
It's completely possible to feel no intimacy in sex, which explains why people go novelty-seeking.


No matter what types of mental gymnastics you employ, heterosexual monogamy is the standard and everything else is abomination.
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>>38810604
Possible solutions:

>Holocaust of excess young men, e.g. WWIII
>Selective abortions to reduce male births
>Women fall out of the work force (unlikey due to inflation which was caused partly by the normalization of dual-income households)
>Making it so women ACTUALLY earn less money for the same work
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>>38810506
>>38810515

You're objectively autistic beyond measure if you believe le historical monogamy maymays
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>>38810604
This is the new natural selection and it didn't come soon enough. You're all gonna die virgins neet trash and you deserve it.
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>>38809899
Its happening all over the world as well.
USA
CANADA
UK
JAPAN
CHINA
YUROPOOR
AUSTRALIA
EVERYWHERE
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>>38810768
>He comes here just to shit on robots
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>>38810760
Anon what the fuck are you talking about? Are you trying to say marriage hasn't existed for literally thousands of years?
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>>38810278
Casual sex isn't good for society or the individual in the long-term. People who post here tend to be intelligent, so they think beyond the present.
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>>38810812
I was a social outcast when I was younger but never stupid enough to fall for the neet meme or blame anyone else for my problems. Now I like to show girls this place when I'm done fucking them so we can have a good laugh.
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>>38810934
There are NEET Chads who look good enough to fuck a girl every week and there are robots who work 6 hours a week but remain KVs. Fuck off.
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>>38810879
Let him be, he's too retarded to actually think about something properly, in a holistic way.

Instead he'll just call whores what they are, but never adressing how this problem came to be and how it could be solved.
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>>38810917
Causal sex is very new.
Before the pill, birth control methods were 70%or less effective. People did fornake of course, but much less and with much risk of having to hitail it or marry her.
Most women certainly didn't have 4,5 6 + partners like they commonly do now, the risk for them was too great, women can't control pullout method (which doesn't work well anyways becuase precum) condoms were shitty material and broke a lot or leaked. It was a huge risk, and outside of streetwalkers, most women had very few partners pre 1960s
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>>38811049
If you actual believe this shit you're a fucking retard. Read any history book about any culture anywhere. The kind of relationships with sex you're talking about only ever applied to rich people.
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>>38811079
Women got married at like 15 for most of human history.
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>>38810879
Marriage exists in pretty much every culture, sometimes with multiple wives, rarely with multiple husbands, and monogamous marriages are also very common.
BUT there is a reason that prostitution is called the oldest profession.
And infidelity is common through out history.

Seriously, look at historic numbers of prostitutes...
Both men and women have always cheated.

Rule: no sex before marriage
Reality: lots of sex before marriage
People just kept it as an open secret.
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>>38809899
I am 19 where are you located?
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>>38811049
Casual sex is actually very old. It's a common feature of end-stage civilization. Lasts about a generation before everything goes to shit, probably because of all the bastard children growing up and wrecking everything.
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>>38811079
I've read more history than you, if anything women might fuck around after getting married and risk cuckoldinng the husband but you are retarded if you think women were commonly heading into thier 30s with 15 or more dicks under their belt and no marriage ring like they do now, Peaset lasses were just as likely to be traded off in marriages as nobles, often at very young age. And if nothing else having a husband's dick around takes care of that monthly week before the period "I'm in heat" impulsiveness. It's not till much older that they might bother cheating
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>>38809899
>posts a trap image
gg trap shills
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>>38811049

Jesus H Christ... Read a book.
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>>38809899
I'm actually isolated willingly and I'd never go to a hooker. I just don't give a shit about people in general because most of them tend to be insufferable. I'm 25, well off, in shape and would genuinely rather be alone for the rest of my life. I've tried pursuing relationships with guys and girls but honestly people are so entitled and revolting I'd much rather die alone and happy than miserable and wishing I was alone.
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>>38811300
Having a bastard child could ruin you for life, women aren't taking the risk outside of hookers retard, this is common history, go meme your retardation somewhere else.
Not saying it didn't happen in one offs, but if you think women were carrying on serial relationships with guys and riding the cock carasual like they do now you are simple, and clearly haven't read books
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>>38810700
>By definition, "being close with someone" means that they exclude others from that closeness.
No, it doesn't, at all. It means "closeness." It can be with multiple people, and can be with specific individuals. It just means closeness. Any other aspects would just be variations on the same word.
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>>38810335
>all of our ancestors were mongamous
Firstly, not how you spell monogamous.
Secondly, lol do you really believe this bullshit? Monogamy is a modern ideal.
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>>38810411
>lol dude everyone in the 70's and 80's were totally monogamous

As a 51 year old, all I can do is laugh and laugh and laugh at this. People are more uptight about sex now than they ever were in the past, everyone was fucking everyone.
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>>38811523
Even if Women were having causal sex, they would end up getting pregnant and married off on the quick, and that's the end of that party. Why is it so hard for you to understand how much widely avaible birth control that is 99.9908% effective changed everything?
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>>38810506
This is just factually incorrect.
You're probably just some religious fag projecting biblical morals.
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>>38809899
Low quality bait. Women dont write like that. Especially when they are hookers. Learn to roleplay little teenager nerd ass loser fag OP

>>38809899
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>>38810095
u should shut up more in life anon..
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>>38811523
Is your definition of modern the last 3000 years?
At least for women. In certain cultures men would go fuck goats or other dudes or hookers sure, but outside of hookers women were generally momgous at least when compared with the last 70 years
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>>38811410

Seriously, you should actually read up on the history of prostitution. Also women would sleep around, get pregnant, marry one of the guys and be done with it.
Or drink a lot of pennyroyal tea...
Or if she was in Ireland have the baby in a convent and then the nuns would drown the baby in the septic tank.

Not even joking. Hundreds of babies found in a septic tank in a "Home for Unmarried Mothers"

People took drugs, got drunk and slept around in the past.
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>>38811650
>what were the 70's
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>>38809899

the world has become a meme. Idealism is dead, education is a joke, entertainment is a joke, and females are property of demagogues.

You must separate yourself from the profane and prepare yourself for what is to come.
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>>38810095
>t. moron intentionally keeping their eyes and ears shut saying "lalala things are not BAAAD!"
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>>38811680
You are just as retarded as the other dude learn to read what zi wrote, I said within the last 70 years, the 70s were 40 years ago. When the pill became widely available is when everything changed, anyone who says otherwise is retarded. Not saying it didn't happen just a lot fucking less as a percentage.
And yeah, other birth control methods were avaible but they sucked, weren't very effective, didn't feel good and were not wildly used.
>>38811656
All that proves is how uncommon it was and how repressed and illnormal it was Considered. They women took holidays to hide pretty bellys, but it was far from common, and even if it was common, which it wasn't, that's 9 months they are off the dick circlet while today they can just fuck all the way through till they get board around age 35, also your range of history is very limited if you are just considering the last few hundard years
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>>38811995
Just to add to my comment, even if they were killing the babies there was a chance the women would die giving birth, which takes her off the penis parade forever, and the father back you go, the higher the risk of that kind of shit, for a women, sex, if not getting paid for it was always a huge risk
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>>38811995
>>38812102
religion is a mind killer.
it turns you into someone who thinks like this.
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>>38809969
This. But 3bh I wish men would just settle for masturbation. We are only enabling entitled roastie behaviour by paying them for sex.
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>>38809899
What services do you offer ugly adult virgins like me? I've never even kissed a girl.
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>>38811656
And what percent of a givin population do you think we're prosututes? 1%,2 %, %5?
Let's me nice and give you a huge retarded number like 25% of women were whoring in the whorehosues, that STILL doesn't compare with today where you have 90%plus of women getting Jolly Roger rides outside of marriage on the regular.
I bet you read some sensationalist book about 'the history of sex and whores' that took some outliner examples and annadutes of histiercial bishops and think it was somehow history. When we have today is unprecedented in history, if nothing else becuase of the simple fact it just wasn't possible to maintain very long without effective birth control
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>>38812184
Who said I was religious, I love sluts
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>>38812527

I'm not th guy you're responding to but you're utterly chucked and historically ignorant, son.

>Ancient texts from Babylon complain about female whoredom
>Ancient Buddhist texts complain about female sexual immorality
>The Bible mentions a woman coming up to Jesus and he psychically knows she'd had multiple partners, in another story a woman is caught committing adultery (note that such laws and ideas wouldn't have existed if restrictive people hadn't seen a need for it)
>Ancient Greek and Roman texts full of stories of female whoredom, state prostitutes were even a thing.
>Aristophanes in Ancient Greece wrote plays about feminists using sex to hoodwink beta males and sleep with Chad (Adonises)
>Mary Wollstonecraft was slurring around in the 1700's blaming men for literally everything.
>Rudyard Kipling complaining about women cucking soldiers and calling females "more deadly than the male"
>George Orwell getting cucked in Catalonia and especially after his death
>Huge number of first hand letters and accounts by men during WW1 and 2 talking about how they were socialised into killing and dying for women and then being cucked by women.

These are just a few examples that come to mind right now, but history is replete with examples like this.
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>>38810442
fuck is a numale? like a nougat tamale?
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>>38811553
Your generation was what caused the spread of aids and other STD's, lead faggotry to being acceptable in public, allowed drugs to propagate through society, made communism somehow acceptable, and generally fucked up politics for 100 years. I hate boomers.
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>>38809899

Im gonna report you.

never do this agian.
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>>38809969
Not only this but men just have a instinctual urge to fuck as many females as they can.
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>>38810278
>never had sex so you view it as some kind of disgusting thing when people do it casually
I'm pretty sure this is it for most of us

t.someone who never had sex so views it as a disgusting thing when people do it causally
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>>38813131

glasses, small stature, reddit-isms, craft beer, orbiting women, liberal posting, obnoxious hair cut
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Lol I don't know how to talk to girls. Like, at all. They could be from another planet as far as i'm concerned. I just turned 23 and I think prostitutes are my only option. Wanna know how pathetic my sex life is? (Oh god here we go) Well, for the past 3 years or so I have not even jerked to porn really, mostly just backpage, craigslist ads. (Both girls and trannys) Yeah. I don't even have the balls to call, sometimes I text but then I panic and quickly finish masturbating and come to my senses. I am good looking, smart, and have loads of money before you ask. I don't know if i'm subconciously scared of getting an STD or what... I guess it's the thought that it's a real person who can't turn me down, but idk it just seems so wrong lol. Oh well...
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>>38810616
>Do not mistake the behaviours of a dying society for the norm.

We are currently making more progress than ever and you call this a dying civilization? You're a moron
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>>38810153
And...the sadness is back
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>>38810292
Traps 4 life

It's too late, i can't go back
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>>38810385
Nope, the scort only feels intimate affection for money.
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27KV here, ever since I started getting to that age of noticing girls the whole concept of dating was nightmare fuel for an introvert like me
>just you and one other person
>expected to carry an interesting conversation with no one else there to pick up the slack on your behalf
>have to go to someplace "romantic" or interesting
Plus, after being out and socializing for even a few hours just drains me and I have to go back to my comfort zone and recharge, I can't imagine being around the same person consistently every day, texting them, talking, planning shit, I'd rather stay home and fap
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>>38813760
Dont put craft beer in all tha, pls
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>>38814051
tfw bored of traps. But then I masturbate and im okay.
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>>38809899
women are treating men like shit because they have the government as the husband now.
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>>38809899
I haven't pursued a relationship nor have I purchased time with an escort but I can vouch for that mentality.
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>>38810442
>numales
Men that stand by their morals in the modern era.
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There just doesn't seem to be a point to it, I guess. The way I figure it is I'm gonna end up alone either way. Something like, what, half of marriages are ending in divorce? So my options are
>be alone and lonely with stuff
>be alone and heartbroken with half as much stuff
I'd rather just skip the dating game altogether when the game is rigged against guys this badly.
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>What the hell?

You browse here. You oughtta know already. Women's high standards mean those who can't compete often resort to prostitutes when they can't get laid.
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>>38810278
I think it's a good thing. But I grew up in California so I was probably brainwashed by the Liberal Marxist Agenda.

Also I'm a 24yo virgin. I like to think my political views aren't so easily influenced by my personal hang-ups.
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