I want to be a dad. I want to be a dad so badly. I want to

>>38790472
Even if you weren't there's no telling if a single family member will even respect you.

How old are you? Why do you want it so badly?

Me too. So fucking bad.

Why would anyone snapchat this? nobody cares about your backed up toilet you boring asshole

>>38790472
Yep. Basically my only fantasy in life too. Honestly anything else could change, but I just want some little white babies to come home too

>>38790472
Everyone who's ever had a broken family thought it would go like this. Perhaps your better off with the fantasy; it can't go wrong.

>>38790472
Same.
Feels like a betrayal of everything that lead to me to not.

But at the same time I don't want to get taken advantage of and thrown out like every married man currently is.
Because then I'd have no choice but to unironically kill myself, because my life would be over.

>>38790543
Yeah.

If you browse this site then you'd probably make an average father at most. Not to mention the shitty genes that made you a robot to begin with.

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>>38790472
I don't really care about being a dad, that's what the system programmed into you so you keep being a consumer.

On the other hand, I would love to have somebody next to me who I always can count on or be with me most of the time, acompaniyng each other to be alone

yup. my siblings are having their own children etc.....and my nephew/niece has awoken a deep-rooted paternal drive that I never knew existed.
it kills me.

>>38790668
You have it backwards.
You're programmed to be childless man so that you'll be a net provider.

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>>38790472
OP why would you ever want children? You aren't sure if your family will actually respect you, and having a child is a huge waste of money, especially if you have a daughter.

>>38790733
You're programmed to create more consumers for the system to exploit. Have fun raising future wage slaves.

>>38790472
Hey! come be my BF and be a gay dad with me. Well both get biological kids

>>38790472
I have literal nightmares about that pic related

>>38790536
it's extremely relatable.

kys

>>38790764
How many western governments encourage people to have large numbers of children, how many offer 'planned parenthood'
Go and think about this.

>>38790779
how would that even work what

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>want to be a father at some point
>worried that since I didn't have a father i'd be a terrible one
>or even run away like mine did

>>38790825
Surrogacy- You can get women to carry your child, it's a pain in the ass but it is doable.

>>38790824
How does society treat those who want to have children compared to those who do not? You're told from a young age that everyone settles down and has children eventually. No one questions your choice, unless you decide to have 9000 children.

>>38790858
Use your lack of a dad to make sure that your child doesn't experience the same thing as you

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>>38790537
This feel is too real. We must secure the existence of our people and a future for White children.

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>>38790472
I want to raise a daughter to not be a roastie

>>38790886
Dude there's a ton of propaganda from the 80's and 90's about how bad overpopulation would become and how we need to have less kids or even no kids.

https://youtube.com/watch?v=BNrxq9DubQ8
Here's Captain Planet (a cartoon for children that they show in government schools) telling you to not have kids.

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>>38790896
Fugg
>tfw no ginger qt to have 30+ kids with

>>38790943
That doesn't stop people from having children. It's not the majority's opinion either.

>>38790943
>(a cartoon for children that they show in government schools)
It was just a regular tv show, kiddo.

>>38790886
I remember being shown very specifically in school what a condom is and how to use one.
I remember being told where I can obtain other forms of contraception.

I don't remember my teacher explaining to me how to be a father to children.

And here's the thing. Teachers are the agents of government. Aka society.

Can you tell me who impressed upon you the need for you to have children?

>>38790472
i would kiss you op
oregino

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>spent the day with little nephew
>played catch
>boxed
>caught a fish
>watched movie
>taught him swear words
>built a fort
>"I wish you were my daddy, uncle anon"

Fucking hell, now I catch myself daydreaming about being a father.

>>38791021
>>38790779
>gay

huaaaarrrgghhhh

>>38791005
>unless people explictly state that you should have children they're doing the opposite
No
>being told where I can obtain forms of contraception
That's to prevent teenage pregnancy, I'm guessing you were a teenager at that time
Society is not only composed of teachers, the public's opinions are more important.
Tell me why people instantly get angry whenever you question their choice to have children? It's considered completely normal. Tell me why you aren't allowed to criticize parents unless it's an obvious fuck-up? People always put them on a pedestal and assume they can do no wrong. Why is one choice (having children) more respected than the other (not having any). Why are you considered a "man-child" until you settle down, get a wife and reproduce?

>>38791080
Look, the moment I can get this I will leave r9k- Therefore max exposure to possible husbands is the only options. LGBT is aids faggots who just want sex and here is the only board that has fags who want a relationship. I am sorry I tresspassed into the frogfort but I won't lie when I say I am a bit desperate. Sorry again and hope to be able to leave soon

>>38791124
Yeah it was just teen algebra too.
Can you answer my question first.
Who has impressed upon you the need to have children?
You aren't just making things up are you?
You aren't trying to confuse the point by accusing me of being angry are you?

>>38791150
I didn't call you angry, I was using "you" in a general sense.
>impressed upon you the need to have children
Not sure what you mean by that but, my parents expect grandchildren, it's expected of a normal person to eventually have children and society encourages reproducing over the opposite

>>38790896
Your hot ass white wife will eventually ask if it's cool if she banged a black guy raw. She'll say it's just to spice things up, you know, for fun.

Have fun raising a half-black baby, Anon.

>>38791204
Have they explicitly said
>Have grandchildren for us
Are your parents and their attitudes towards you reflective of the attitudes of the social collective? Would a stranger raise you for however many years at personal cost?
I think perhaps you're making some mistakes regarding who society is and what they expect of you.
I think you haven't learned to distinguish between different authorities in your life.
And I don't think anyone who represents society has told you to have children.

>>38791282
Maybe he is nonwhite? They're certainly told to have children early and often.

The White experience goes like this:
>Great-grandparents had eight kids
>Grandparents had four kids
>Parents had two kids
>You have a cat, maybe in your early-mid thirties you'll have one that hopefully won't have downs

>>38790472
wrong millenium for that shit you gross nerd

>>38791282
>>38791394
^
I'm not from the US if that helps.

>>38791394
You said it pal.
Can't wait to have a failed marriage and off myself at 40.

>>38790472
You're not fit to be a father.

>>38791282
https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/a3wvgp/study-finds-people-are-morally-outraged-by-those-who-decide-not-to-have-kids

>>38791933
>Linking fucking vice
This is a nebulous confirmation bias piece of fake news.
Written to feed the modern left's persecution complex.
Show me the government services that are incentivizing people to have children.
Any western government. Any at all.

>>38792029
Welfare, food stamps, section 8 housing. Hmm it seems that these subsidies overwhelmingly advantage non-whites. I wonder what that means...

>>38792099
I said people.

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>biological organisms reproduce because capitalist society told them to!

I want to be a mom and have kids and a family, I love cooking for people and tidying and nurturing people. But I have shitty genes for cancer and don't want to pass those on, and am a social retard and can't handle any degree of interaction with people most of the time. I'm fucked pretty much.

>>38792573
You can be a mom if you're a boy retard.

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If you guys want to have a wife and children so badly this should be motivation enough to achieve what you want.
At least it is for me. Just one year ago things looked so much darker for me but now I've made a lot of progress.

>>38793429
Yeah dude sorry but it's not.
I have to be extremely fucking careful who I decide to wife because the odds are that I get one that's a cunt who will sell me down the river.
And in 2017 plus as a man you're defenseless when she wants to sell you down the river.

I have already promised to kill myself violently the second it happens.

>>38790472
It's easy to fantasize about fatherhood, but in the modern day it seems like it would be not great. I have a sister who is a total bitch to my parents, I wouldn't want a kid like her. Also, to even have a chance to raise a good natured family you'd have to find the right woman (read: not a brain-dead whore) and that's just sort of becoming unrealistic at this point.

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I want to be married to a qt wife and have very many children. But I don't want to have a gf, or date, or do any of those things that come first. I don't even get the slight compensation of having a lot of money to spend on myself, being a poorfag.
>>38793429
>that pic

Go to church and learn how to be a person of your liking
It's not going to happen suddenly but eventually, you gotta not be yourself anymore, but someone you are in good terms with yourself
We are going to make it brah

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>>38794647
>imagining me in a different time thinking about me now
>can never bridge the gap between the me with purpose and where I am now
It's like imagining if you had superpowers and lived in toontown, sure it's an okay fantasy, but without plausibility it has no lasting effect
The only future I want is where I am erased wholly

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>>38790472
i know that feel

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>>38791044

This is our True purpose on Earth

>>38792029
My government straight up pays you to have kids, look up the 'baby bonus' in Australia

>>38791044
You didn't deal with all the shitty parts. What happens when he gets caught stealing? What about when it turns out he has an autoimmune disorder? What happens if your son starts getting sick over and over? What happens when he gets a girl pregnant? What happens when he starts shouting "grab her by the pussy" in school?

Beyond that, the everyday grind gets to you, always having him run around, the fact that he's annoying and typically not interested in what you are, and his developing moral compass.

You got to see a couple highlights. Parents have to deal with problems, watch him grow up, care for him, and live with him.

>>38793522
>Yeah dude sorry but it's not.
>I have to be extremely fucking careful who I decide to wife because the odds are that I get one that's a cunt who will sell me down the river.
>And in 2017 plus as a man you're defenseless when she wants to sell you down the river.
I was more talking about stuff which nowadays is a prerequisite for marrying such as having a stable income, your own house, or even basic things like not playing video games all day in your basement.
But I know what you mean. I'm not so worried about it though. I'm trying to acquire a qt catholic girl from my parish which is rather traditional so hopefully I'll be fine.

>wanted to be a dad to a cute daughter but that probably won't happen
>will get a cute Yorkie and put ribbons on her instead