>Just left my therapy group with a bunch of high schoolers

>>38785388
Gender dysphoria isn't a disease, you can't catch it, it's a mental illness just like any other. They were born with it or developed it.

That said, this will probably end poorly for you if you're straight and adamantly transphobic but maybe you've found the love of your life somehow.

> So far the best option I have is telling her that I fall in love with people because of their faces and personality, and that I really do consider myself straight.
Good idea, it'll get all the cards on the table at once. Good luck, OP.

>>38786559
Do you think that will work? Cause I'm really not sure if I want to be calling her "my boyfriend" and "him" during our whole relationship. She's been cool with me mixing up She and He so far but I'm not sure if she'd be just as fine with it if I do it willingly.

>>38785388
You stupid nigger
You just said you hate trans people
Dating someone who considers themself a man will not help you get a girlfriend

>>38786715
As a transman I can tell you this; we allow people to mix it up on accident because everybody makes mistakes. if we realize you are doing it on purpose theres going to be a serious problem.
If you want a genuine relationship with love and mutual respect, either you are going to have to change for him, or you need to find a real girl

>>38786794
I don't really hate Trans people. I went to therapy with about four of them. They were all nice people. I just think they have a mental illness they reject they have.

>>38786838
So are you fine with them transitioning? Reguardless, if you want to date a girl, you shouldnt date a boy, or anything veering on being a boy. Simple logic.

>>38786835
That's what I was afraid of. I can either continue living the lie and feel the emptiness that comes with having to lie to a loved one or come clean to her and make her think that I don't care about her as a person.
>>38786861
No, I don't think I would want her to have a dick, but I wouldn't really do anything to stop her. Thanks for the advice, anon. I think I really do need to break it off.

>>38785388
Anon ive recently been involved with an ftm trans person. Im of the same mindset, i think the whole trans thing is a little stupid, etc etc. And it was really weird to say "oh yeah this guy im dating" "my bf" and that kinda stuff. But like, if you guys hit it off, who really cares? Try to keep the transphobia under wraps, at least until after friday. Go on this first date, see how it goes