R9K, please help. I'm so divided. >be me >met this

she is just playing mind games with you. The only reason she gives you attention is because women feel attraction when you ignore them. Otherwise, you are just a beta orbiter to her. The second you go back to how things were, she will lose interest.

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>>38777163
Basically this.

But this is a very unsatisfying end for you which will make it difficult to sever ties permanently. Say yes you can hang out. Invite her around. Get her shitfaced and try to fuck her. If she says no she'll be too shitfaced to remember. If she says yes you get to fuck her, you'll have that memory and you can move on and she won't remember.

I'd usually recommend what other anon says but it's clear you're still hung up on her. Do as I said. Don't do something similar. Don't go to a bar. That's all cuck shit. You need to invite her somewhere where you have complete control and can set the pace. If she says no just ghost her eternally.

Yeah, OP, everyone's a sociopath out there to get you, which is why you need to get them first. The world's all about getting, it's hard to see what you're not getting.

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>>38777057
Accept her invitiation, make some really big elaborate plan with her, then don't show up and never respond to her again.

>>38777057
You haven't emotionally processed her disloyalty yet, which is why you still think she'd be a good person to have around. The only reason to keep interacting with her would be the reject you like she did if you feel vengeful or just move on and tell her frankly that she should have cared before. If you really really want to have her, talk to her about why she left, why does she miss you (you'll see there if you're an emotional tampon or a potential mate in her eyes) but most people aren't honest enough to openly talk about their failures like that and even less open to acting to mitigate those behaviors.

>>38777057
Something similar happened to me.
Just ignore her and move on.
Sounds cold and it's a pretty hard thing to do but it'll be best in the long run.

>>38777057
Why didn't you ask for her to pay some of your expenses. It's a bit autistic, but it's (a tad) alpha too.

>not telling her sure and setting up a meet location
>not texting her 5 minutes before the meet up time
>not saying ""Sorry, Stacy, I really don't feel like going, I kinda just want to party with my older brother at kstate"

THEN ignore her. Don't block her because I'd like to her replies but don't respond.

>>38777057

> Prom drama

I hope you get shot in the dick by an A-10

>>38777057
If you respond she is going to keep pulling the same shit forever, fuck that bitch. You're better than that.

>>38777057

If you think you still like her, go ahead and meet with her again. It might work, it might not. You won't know until you try.

>>38777057
Move on and set yourself free from the confines of pursuing relationships. There is much more in this world to chase after, than a woman.

>>38777057
If you're too much of a pussy to get over her and too much of a loser to find someone else, she may be the only chance you'll ever have and so it might be worth giving her a second chance.

Otherwise, tell her to fuck off.

Just reply with, "I don't really trust you anymore since you ditched me at prom, and I don't see the point of hanging out now. We can hook up if you want but this is clearly not going anywhere"

>>38779023

This is very concise and drills a razor straight to the point. Dont beat around the bush when you can be beating around her bush

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>>38777057
Just meet her and fuck her

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>>38777163
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>>38779161

All of you assholes disrespecting females need to STOP. Here's the thing- females are frail and beautiful, and need to be treated with the upmost respect. The most important thing for a man to do is to bend over backwards for his female, which is why you "redpilled" assholes never get any. If a female wants an open relationship, as a man you need to respect that.

>>38777057
Who cares about your high school bullshit, you underaged norman

>>38779825
this is the only relevant post