I went to look at my girlfriend's instagram, which I hadn't

Bumperino originalioso

Follow some Stacy's

>>38764200
Your gf probably loves you for who you are, believe it or not but they got feelings too.
It's not about being insecure now your gf probably thinks you don't trust her so just tell her you are sorry and you should trust her more

Not really sure. I'm in the same predicament, I get that it's just instagram but she keeps liking these Chad's photos and I feel cucked

>>38764486
I did, and she said that she gets it and there's nothing to apologize for. She also said she wants to assure me that she's never going to leave me in any way she can, and that I need to trust her more.

I just love her so much.

>>38764614
So why are you asking thing? things happen in relationships I don't know why you would have to redeem yourself

>>38764614
>I just love her so much.
I can tell from your posts your girlfriend is higher value than you and you're submissive towards her. She WILL cheat on you and leave you when she gets the right opportunity, you've lost control of yourself.

>>38764512
Relationships are about power, never reveal that the girl has more power over you by getting butthurt. I understand why you dislike it, she is subtly disrespecting you and signalling she wanted a higher value male than you.

Don't say anything, just follow a similar number of female models on instagram. Also next time you go out with her flirt with a couple of girls in front of her, it will signal that you too have value and could dump her ass if you wanted. She'll get the message.

>>38764614
Make sure you call her a good girl

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>>38764486
>they got feelings too.

Ask her is she wants to bang a dude while you jack off in the closet

>>38764652
True. Thanks, made me feel better, I'm just overthinking it

>>38764722
I don't think she's higher value than me, I just love her and it hurts when she likes Chad's posts instead of texting me or something

>>38764722
>never reveal that the girl has more power over you by getting butthurt.

This is where I fucked up. So how do I redeem myself?

>>38764200
Is it famous Chads or normal people that she would actually have a chance of contacting? If it's just famous guys it's not really a big deal.

>>38764895
They're not really famous, just model dudes with like 5,000 followers on ig

She wouldn't have a chance with contacting them though

>>38764833
>I just love her and it hurts when she likes Chad's posts instead of texting me or something

She's not the only girl you find attractive, right? Of course she finds other guys attractive. Where you fucked up is letting her know that it bothers you. The attitude you want is that yeah, you know that there are other guys out there, but you don't consider them a challenge because you know you're better than them. Don't come out and say this, of course, but that's the vibe you want to be giving her.

Women have no ability to judge these things accurately. If she's attracted to some other guy but sees that confidence in you, she'll rethink her attraction. On the other hand, when you let her know you feel threatened, you're basically confirming her feelings.

>>38764200
Do you look at porn? If not, reasonable complaint. If so, she has a similar argument to lever against you.

That doesn't mean the answer is allowing it to continue, though.

>>38764970
this OP, she may have stopped following these models and reassured you but trust me in the back of her mind she very disappointed, you failed her shit test pretty hard

>>38764200
if she cared enough to unfollow and didnt start an argument about it it means she cares what you think of her, i wouldnt worry about how you look too much. that being said, it shows a lack of trust what you said and it could leave a sour taste in her mouth later. you had better say you were being silly and reassure her you trust her.

>>38764931
m8 normal girls orbit models on instagram hoping for the chance one will fuck them

When did she start following them OP? If it was before she started dating you it doesn't really mean anything, if it was after it's a red flag

>>38765014
>trust me in the back of her mind she very disappointed

I know.

I just need to find a way to redeem myself now, I can tell she respects me less already.

>>38764200
Get out you ultra mega turbo nigger normie
>inb4 fuck off normie
Who are you quoting you massive retard?

>>38764200

let her cuck you

>>38765038
I'm not a normal girl, but I follow Chads on IG but they feel like the equivalent of 2D girls in my mind. It's like looking at art. Maybe normal girls think they have a chance with them, though. Not sure about that.

>>38764200

Tell her you wouldn't be mad if she followed them again because you thought they were fucking

>>38765071
For most of them it was like 3 months after she met me

>>38765080
you can't really redeem yourself with girls they aren't a video game, when they lose respect for you it's usually gone for good.

Stop being so invested in her, take a rain check and accept that the relationship can and probably will fail at some point. You need to have a back up plan for life for when she is gone

>>38765162
I don't know the details of your relationship but from the sound of it I'd say she likes you but views you as a beta, in the back of her mind she still wants a chad so just keep that in mind

>>38765170
I think this is your best option OP. best of luck my man.

You're encroaching on her natural wants and needs. Soon you'll be too demanding/restrictive.

>>38764200
If you watch porn you are a hypocrite

>>38764200
She likes to look at shirtless chads and you like to jack off to flat chested Asians bound and gagged, hanging by their ankles from the ceiling while they're shot at with paintball guns and then are forced to lick their own bloody wounds

>>38765256
this will be the excuse she uses when she cheats on him, at least

>>38765267
>>38765275
It's not the same because social media is public, porn is private

>>38765256
>You're encroaching on her natural wants and needs. Soon you'll be too demanding/restrictive.

Yeah, but I wouldn't be restrictive on anything else. She can do it if she wants, I just told her that it hurts me that she would get off the phone with me and like some French model's beach photos or something.

>>38765275
>>38765267
I don't watch porn though.

I think it's fair to respect me this way, idk

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now that you know she actually cares about you its pretty easy. Just offhand mention that you'll start going to the gym because she likes those kinds of guys.
Either she says you dont have to or you get fit as fuck.

>>38765307
it's because subconsciously that's what she really wants from life, a glamorous French model on the beach, and you know you can't provide it. It's what they all want deep down lel even the most nerdy fat disgusting fembots

You can't stop hypergamous urges but you can act be confident in yourself, if you act like you're the best she can do, she will believe it

>>38765349
I'm already pretty /fit/ though

That's what made me feel worse, like I'm not good enough for her still and she wants some flawless rich Chad living an amazing life

>>38765293
>porn is private
Anon have you been to Instagram lately

>>38765330
leave some lingerie magazines laying around, that'll piss her off
>anon why do you have these dirty pictures?
>oh jeez I don't know, I like sexy women in their underwear, maybe you can do something about that for me

>>38765385
you are good enough for her or she wouldn't fuck you lel, but there are other guys she would prefer if given the chance

it's painful but you have to accept the hypergamous nature of women

>>38765373
I pretty much told her something along the lines of "I try my best to look good and be successful, and then I see you liking the photos of a bunch of rich attractive guys that you prefer over me"

Was I too beta here?

>>38765307
Honestly man you sound like a good guy, so I'll give it to you straight, man to man. The fact that we have pocket sized computers that can connect to each other wirelessly around the world is fucking nuts. Researchers compare the functionality of these devices to literal hard drugs. Your girl gets on the internet, and she seeks satisfaction. She wants the notifications, the lights, the messages, the attention and gratification can come from anyone fucking instantaneously. Ask yourself, where do you fit in here? Go from there.

>>38765442
>it's painful but you have to accept the hypergamous nature of women

Why is this so hard

I'm not even a hypergamous guy, I'm completely loyal to her

>>38765453
Yes because you revealed yourself as being insecure behind your looks

Girls are attracted to men who are mentally strong, not just physically

>>38765453
Yes. Everybody wants to fuck 10/10s. But 99% never will, and know it, so nobody takes it seriously. It's just dumb fantasies we all have, and which we can't escape since we're constantly surrounded by media. You took it way too personally.

>>38765588
>You took it way too personally.

I know.

She told me it's just social media and isn't real life, and that it's no big deal but that she'd stop to make me feel better.

I guess what I'm asking is how do I gain respect from her again?

>>38765643
Just tell her you were being stupid, and don't care if she follows Chads on instagram. Try to laugh it off, and let her know you trust her.

>>38765643
Always act like YOU are a 10/10, if you feel like a 10/10 you won't care if a girl finds other guys attractive because you're better anyway, that lack of jealousy implies huge confidence and mental strength, girls respect that and find it attractive

but it's too late with your gf, learn from your mistake and don't repeat it

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>>38764200
>girlfriend
stopped reading there
get the fuck out normal

>>38765749
I did, and I think we're good, but it's obvious that she's a little disappointed in me.

>>38765762
Exactly, which is how I should have acted but it's too late now. I had a moment of jealousy and now she probably thinks I'm weak and don't respect myself.

>>38765878
>now she probably thinks I'm weak and don't respect myself.
The first step is to stop thinking this kind of shit, purge it from your brain. She can smell the insecurity. Move on. Just act confident and trusting from now on. Speak through your actions and attitude, not words. She'll notice over time and gain more respect for you.

>>38765509
The worst part is that I can't go back and un-say it

>>38765981
Good advice. Thanks anon.

Hopefully this will just be a little dumb thing she won't remember

>>38764200
Seems legit to me, who's following who on ig here are you following ig sluts, no, is she following ig chads yes.
If you had a scrapbook of attractive women photos you kept secret and your cunt found it she'd flip her fucking lid.
Stop this immediately.

Obligatory fuck off normie.

>>38766229
I don't follow ig sluts, and she (was) following ig chads.

>If you had a scrapbook of attractive women photos you kept secret and your cunt found it she'd flip her fucking lid.
>Stop this immediately.

My thoughts as well.

>>38765988
I hate this feel so fucking much

Originally of course

Final bump for any further advice

Damn this thread, its highly likely you will be with someone like this and all you have to do is suck it up?

The fuck

>>38765385
>I'm already pretty /fit/ though
clearly you need to be more fit

>>38766910
Faggot, you posted about this the other day, quit baiting.