>tfw no super clingy friend/FP Where are my BPD pals at, I'm

Talk about what? I want friends to talk with too, but after few days we always end up with nothing more to say. It's so easy the first day z but it's so hard keep talking after a week

I MIGHT have BPD on top of autism. They never actually figured it out before they gave me neetbux. But I have one friend and one nightmare, horrible tweaker ex and literally no one else in my life. I have come to realize I'm just weird and unfriendly and it's apparent to most people right away in RL, which is why this site has become my only means of talking to people.

Most people on this board have somewhat similar baggage IF they have a life at all, which is why nobody ever really tries to get to know each other here. It's a shame, but it's to be expected.

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>>38730342
Man I hate how that happens. I'm terrible with conversations too so I rely on the other person to start the topics and we run out of things to say really quickly. Still, I'm sure you're worth my time anon. I'm sure we can make the conversations work

>>38730356
What makes you think you have BPD? The small circle of friends alone wouldn't be enough but it's common among people with BPD.
>similar baggage
I do wish I could get to know everyone on this board. I love to try help people out and make likeminded friends. I just don't fit in with the normies so I love talking to people here. If I could help everyone on this board I would but not enough people open up to me

Come on friends
Join the thread
I'm bored

>>38731523
I'm bored too, and i've got nothing to loose. What are you up to.

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>>38731546
I am just lying in bed being bored looking for friends. I'm strangely in a happy mood despite how bad I think things are for me at the moment. How are you going anon? What are you up to?

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I'll talk to you if you be my clingy bpd gf/bf
I'm someone interesting enough to cling onto every day

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>>38731603
I'm a boy(boy), what is your gender if you don't mind me asking? I'm not too sure about getting into other guys but I'm slightly open to it

>>38730212
>tfw no super clingy gf who does not have BPD
Anyone who's just needy and obsessive pls.
I'll give you all the attention you want if you be my gf

>>38731600
Well, it's summer so I'm quite depressed. The lack of things to do during holidays always gets me down. But this september i'll begin uni so I'm excited for that.

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>>38731644
I'm a girl(male) so you're in luck there, not that it would really matter since if I want something i take it anyways

>>38730417
>If I could help everyone on this board I would but not enough people open up to me

Your sentiments are commendable but this is a bad way to think. People will sooner drag you down than accept "help" they would need to cooperate with you to achieve anyway. It's better to just let them vent to you from a distance if you want to do anything at all.

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>>38730212
>tfw had clingy best bro
>tag each other in 10-20 memes per day
>worked together
>pretty much spend 1-8 hours each day on skype playing vidya
>tell each other our darkest secrets
>never tire of hanging out and being best bros
>tfw 25 and already had 4 of these people, ruined it every time
>1st because a woman
>2nd because a woman
>3rd because a woman
>4th because he was a communist cuck and also a woman
>tfw ruined every major relationship in my life

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>>38731690
That sounds pretty exciting. I wish you good luck with that. Things may get tough in uni but I believe that you can make it through anon. Where I am it's winter so we don't have holidays yet unfortunately

>>38731663
I would also love a gf who is clingy but I'm willing to put up with BPD. I'm sure who ever I meet will be worth the hassle

>>38731718
I like that mentality. I can be super clingy depending on how you treat me. Don't hurt me and I'll be worth your time I reckon

>>38730212
What's BPD?
Oranginal

>>38731819
Borderline personality disorder. It's the worst.

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>>38731761
Hmm true. I'm happy to put up with anything anyway and I'm always here for people to vent to if they need to.

>>38731775
I hate it when it happens, but that happens all too much. A guy who considered me his best friend has now stopped talking to me because I tried to expose his gf (whom I have known longer than him) for being a sociopath and so she told him to stop talking to me and he listened to the woman. I do tend to ruin relationships somehow anyway, whether it's my fault or theirs. It's hard to keep a steady relationship.

>>38731819
Well basically, it's a fucked up disorder that mainly makes you emotionally unstable. I'd be happy to elaborate if you'd like but it'd probably take a lot of typing

>>38731833
Thank you my friendly assistant. Have you got experience with the disorder yourself :/

>>38731785
Thanks, I think I'll be just fine. Out of the 160 people who got accepted on my degree I was on the top three on marks.
I'm however not so looking forward to having to meet new people, so I'll probably go full autismo, not talk to anyone and concentrate on learning english / german and graduating wth the top mark.
What do you think about that Anon? An old childhood friend to whom I presented the idea said I would go insane, do you see it as a viable plan ?

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>>38731785
/g8F5eZ
join this discord server i just made so I can add you and make you mine

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>>38731876
It is certainly going to be an annoyance to deal with new people that you don't want to deal with. But the fact that you already have your priorities straight is very good. Focusing on the learning and graduation would be a wise decision but I do advise that you try and keep at least a little bit of a social life. You don't have to socialize with new people, just try to at least reserve some time to hang out with friends you already have.

>>38731893
Oh my uh... Y-yes maam

>>38731893
Are you a girl? Please why are you not my clingy yandere gf :(

Are you the kind of clingy that understands "hey, I'll be busy for the next couple a days"? And can you differentiate between platonic friendship and a crush?

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>>38731979
I'll do just that. Thanks for the advice, and good luck with your life.

>>38732014
Not op but clingy guy here, tfw I'm neither of these

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>>38730212
she hasn't responded in 3 hours I'm going to neck myself

probably asleep though

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>>38731990
I'm sorry pal, if I was a girl then maybe but unfortunately I'm a guy

>>38732014
If you tell me that you are going to be away for a few days then sure, I won't worry too much. I'll miss you but I'll understand. I'm not very good at distinguishing platonic friendships and crushes if they are for me but I can for other people.

>>38732036
I wish you all the best for the future anon. Good luck, get great marks and I believe in youuuuu.

>>38732086
I know them feels. The one I'm interested in didn't talk to me for 4 days and I nearly died

I'd like to add you OP, but I'm a finicky person. We'd end up having a few days of great conversation and then I'm going to want a little bit of distance for a few days, rinse repeat. Shame, because you seem like a nice person.

>>38730212

Those guys from /b/ sent you here but they forgot to take you back

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>>38732740
Hehe funny one. I find myself more at home here. There's too much porn on /b/

>>38732714
That's a shame... If you change your mind, you can add me on discord. My name is Bpdude#8498

>>38731785

Winter? Are you argentinian or something like that? i would like to meet more hispanic robots

>>38731893
The instant invite is invalid or has expired.
pleasep ost new one mommy

Why do girls with BPD tell everybody they have it constantly? Nobody ever asks for this information yet you all always bring it up every chance you get.
It seems to be trendy right now desu

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>>38733243
BPD is something you really want to know about before getting close to someone, anon.

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>>38733157
I'm in Australia actually lul

>>38733243
I'm a boy but >>38733294 is right. A lot of people would instantly get put off talking to me if they knew I had BPD so I tell them early so that I can either educate them of it so they don't leave me or they leave me asap which is better than me getting attached and then they leave

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>tfw strangely attracted to BPD people
>I get hurt every single time

I wish I wasn't like this

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>>38733447
I'm the same, but most people with BPD are worth the pain as long as you put in the effort to love them unconditionally. That's the way I'm doing things right now I suppose. I'm mainly attracted to grills with BPD because they are clingy and they understand me far more than anyone else. They are the closest people I can relate to because we are all going through the same problems

>>38730212
>tfw clingy and needy to the point its mental problems
>tfw no one wants to deal with that and they all leave

Life sucks and then you die ;_;

>>38733520
Yeah, love them unconditionally while they cheat on you every other week when they feel upset. Definitely worth it.

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>>38733520
>but most people with BPD are worth the pain as long as you put in the effort to love them unconditionally.

I try really hard to most of the time, but the things they do can still get to me and hurt me, especially since I always feel like it's my fault for not showing it enough

I guess that's what I like about it though, even if it hurts sometimes when things are going well it's great. It's always intense and interesting and never boring or dull

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>>38733576
Happens all too often ;-; makes me so sad

>>38733591
Shit man, I'm sorry this happens to you. I personally wouldn't do this myself but I know it does happen when you have BPD. They can't help it because for some reason the reasoning in their brain just switches off and the only thing on their mind is the phrase "I am alone" and so they reach out to everyone they can for help. Some take it too far and lose control and it makes me sad. I lose control sometimes but not enough to go and cheat on someone. I've seen it happen before too, a BPD patient cheated on my best friend and then expected everything to go back to how it was before, the guy just wanted that too and let it slide unfortunately. She's only gunna cheat on him again and again

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>>38733768
Yea, this guy gets it. There's always tough times in relationships, more so in BPD ones but the good times are so intense and full of passion and happiness and it just makes me so happy. I haven't been in a relationship for quite some time though. I'm sorry that we hurt you sometimes, we usually don't mean the rude things we say, we just act on impulse to protect ourselves when we feel threatened. We just don't know how to deal with life or our emotions

>>38733576
are you from us?

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It's nearly 3 am so I'm afraid I'm gunna have to abandon thread. Everyone have a great day/night and sweet dreams when it comes to it. See ya all around /r9k/