>sister has two children already >my parents are giving

>>38705151
23 years of age, mate. Life has been rather unchanged for the past 7 years I'd say.

Yeah, I know what you mean. I just can't see myself being intimate and close with anyone and I'm absolutely opposed to having children.

>>38705129
I blame society
>barely get enough conversation between my own family
>I'm supposed to welcome an entire new group of people as the wife's family into my life
>have to be open and friendly and loving towards them or else they'll pull a girl back out from this crazy schizos life
>instead of being a family acquaintance they have to accept a stranger well into adulthood as their daughters husband
dumbass society

I wish i was alone. Instead im married with a wife whose ass i havw to kick regularly and a son i love but mildly hate at times because hes fucking 3.

If i could go back those 7 years and undo this i would.

>>38705129
My sister also has 2 kids her and her boyfriend never have any money they constantly need help and money they take stuff all the time from my family .they make my parents watch their kids all the time. And I hear stories like this all the time from other people. Its really horrible to have kids in this day and age. Very sad times we live in.

File: 1408291605110.png (87KB, 396x385px) Image search: [Google]

87KB, 396x385px

>>38705277
That's how it's always worked, anon. I'd say the bigger issue here is the fact that it's so hard to find a girl who'd be more interested in the long term thing. It's impossible for some reason because girls are so fucking passive these days that they just won't actually do anything and the second you stop being exciting, they ditch you for another guy. Rinse and repeat.

>>38705343
Holy shit, anon it's the same here. Those people are living the fucking life because of all the support they're getting. It's fucking terrible to be honest but they just shamelessly use the family for money and shit because they well know that children are a good way of acting on people's emotions.

And I'm the bad guy because I don't fall for this shit actually. My sister has already tried to guilt trip me into giving up my console for her kid. I cut fucking contact with her after that.

>>38705397
it didn't always work like that. you didn't have to wait until you were almost thirty until you had to start thinking about a family. it used to be so you were set up at like 12. that's plenty of time to accomodate to a new family

>>38705753
Oh you mean that. Well yeah, I absolutely agree. Really the thing here is that technically it gives you more time to find a better partner but in the end of the day it's never gonna happen and you're gonna be fucking around a lot (at least women do it) before finding a partner that you won't really be happy with anyway.