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I think it's time to realise the truth.
Society has brainwashed us into being obsessed with "losing our virginity". But why? Losing your virginity doesn't physically change you in any way. If you do sex for fun, then great. But I find it stupid that everyone's main motivation for having sex is the bragging rights of saying "I'm not a virgin".
Many people want to lose their virginity because they think it will magically make them more confident and social. Like, having sex for the first five changes you into a better person. But I have no idea how this would happen. Having sex may boost your ego and make you think "yeah I had sex, I am a badass" but beyond that, it's not going to suddenly boost your charisma.
Losing your virginity won't change you from a NEET to a fucking charismatic master. Losing your virginity won't change anything. Accept this fact and stop being sad. To be completely honest, you can get alot of the same pleasure of sex from fapping or fleshlights.
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Virgnity won't turn me into someone happy and normal. I know that. What I want is someone to love, someone who loves me, someone on whom I can rely. Someone who shares my true feelings, who can touch my soul. What I want to be happy is that. It is also self-confidence. Hope. A way to start talking without feeling fear, to get out in the street, to not feel scrawny and sweaty and to not feel threatened. To be able to think clearly. To be happy. I don't feel bad about virginity. I'm still young and I don't care. I just want to be happy. But to feel so alienated from this world, to know that you'll never get what you crave most, to know that your destiny is such and that your path will be hard to change but that to get this energy you need to change first but you cannot change because you do not have the energy is a soul-crushing, endlessly gloomy cloud hanging over your head.
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it was significant 50 , 60, 70 years ago cause it usually meant you just found your Spouse.
today it means absolutely nothing.
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I agree. Sex would be nice but I'm not desperate or anything. If it happens it happens.
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Losing your virginity does not change you as a person. If it does, you have no real problems and you can fuck off this board. End of discussion.
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I think most people have the idea that losing your virginity is a coming on age thing. If you don't do it around the same time as someone else you are somehow less of an adult than others. Which I completely disagree with, it happens when it happens.
Some some people though losing it does help, it's probably just a placebo effect, but yeah.
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I just want to get rid of this sexual frustration.
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