Why don't you have a girlfriend, anon? Loneliness is bad

Why did you make this thread asshole. Just to watch robots cry?

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>>38661857
Because she doesn't want to be my girlfriend. She would rather be alone than with me.

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Not interested in having one and never have been

THOTS BEGONE

>>38661857
I can't relate to the girls around. All obsessed with alcohol and taking pictures of themselves. Part of it is my own fault for not being social but the girls I have talked to were just entirely unpleasant and uninteresting.

>>38661857
>Loneliness is bad for your health
I don't choose to be lonely

>>38661857
Last one I considered wasn't interested, lol what a surprise.
>>38661966
>She would rather be alone than with me.
Pretty much this.

i have yet to meet a girl i can get along with or even tolerate really
>Loneliness is bad for your health.
>Everyone needs affection.
just fuck a trap if you're having this problem

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>>38661857
Last one I tried getting was from this site and happened to live in my city but she ghosted me a few months ago. Didn't remove me from anything but the sudden loss of interest was clear

Guess I'm just meant to be alone since she's the only person in recent years to ever express interest in me but I blew it by being myself lol

I don't want one, bitches seem like a chore.

could not keep a long lasting relationship more than 1year with a female because moving houses/schools a ton. noone wants to hang around a 27yo couch potato who has no car/connections.

>>38661857
I have one, we has been living together for the last 4 years, and we are getting married next year.

>>38662067
>fuck a trap
Sex is second on my list behind cuddling
Fuck I want it so bad

Because everytime I get into a relationship, she dumps me. My milestone is a month.

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>>38662083
This.

The amount of effort I'd have to put forth is ridiculous. You have to give them attention, gifts, and take them out now and then. On top of that I would have to put significantly more effort into maintaining my appearance and fashion than I currently am.

That's if you can even find one who's down to earth enough to not be a boring vapid broad like most of em are nowadays.

I'd rather stay by myself and do both of us the favor.

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I dont know where/how to meet them

>>38662148
Yet 99% of males still manage it.

>>38661857
i got rejected, and she married some cool tall guy

I prefer having multiple fwbs. None of the drama, all the sex.

>>38662181
And how the fuck do they do it? It seems so tedious.

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>>38661857
>Everyone needs affection.
Not me faggot.

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>>38661857
Because I have a Superiority Complex, ya dumb fuck.

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>>38662102
>2017
>falling for the marriage scam

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>>38661857

>Everyone needs affection

I don't and look at me

>>38662181
Sure, but other people doing something doesn't validate doing it.

I don't know what to do. I had a brush with normie life in college, then I took two rejections extremely badly and ended up diving deep into the anime escapism life. Almost a decade later and I still love 2D girls and all kinds of weeaboo shit but I'm starting to worry that this can't last forever, and after so much solitude I'm not sure how I can climb out of this hole.

For some reason I don't feel the need for affection and I instinctually shun people.

I don't believe in relationships, at least not with women. I would be more than content with a couple of friendships and casual sex from time to time.

I even have planned how to achieve that, I just am too depressed all the time to get my plans into action.

>>38661857
I want the cutesy affection and sex part but without the drawbacks of having to deal with a moody bitch regularly and worrying about her dumping me or cheating because I'm nor good enough or whatever.
What do?

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I'm a fat fuck with bad social skills and too lazy to change anything. I don't really care enough to improve myself.

>>38661857
i really, genuinely, do not deserve one
also, to everyone saying they don't need affection: you're posting on /r9k/, you have no right to feel superior

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>>38661990
that's the faggiest shit I ever heard and I fuck men

>>38662181
>"But Hans, the other boys from your class are joining Hitler Jugend too!"

Thanks for the reminder.
Never wanna forget the suicidal thoughts.

>>38662358
Pay whores for sex, acquire waifu for cute feels.
Or get a really really outstanding girl, but if you had that sort of luck you would not be here.

>>38662181
They also manage to show up for work everyday for 8 hours or so

I dont know why or even how to talk to vaginapeople

>>38661857
Because I don't trust women.

>>38662427
Having sex with a girl is worse than being Hitler.

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because women are repulsed w/ ugly, autistic omegas, even the weirdest girl in my village has a 7/10 bf. she used to wear fishnets on her arms in HS.

>>38661857
I have but I'm still in love with my ex.

>>38662148
>The amount of effort I'd have to put forth is ridiculous.

This is my reasoning too. Even when it comes to girls showing signs of attraction, they'll give you a hint but still expect you to make the first move and take all the risk.

Then I see my friends and the amount of money they have to spend on cloths and shoes just to give themselves a better a chance, and all the pillow talk they have to do over the phone, dates, etc. Its just way too much. Its a go-getter's game for sure

>>38662639
Stop it, then. She doesn't want you anymore. Don't be that needy pathetic beta.

>>38662660
I'm not needy. I realise I wasn't good enough so I'm gonna let her be and work on myself until she wants me or I get over her.

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Girls are not interested in me, next question anon

>>38661857
I used to want one but then I didn't, plus I can't see myself in a relationship serious or not.

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>>38662776
define "not interested"

>>38662835
I'm a mediocre looking white male with no true hobbies outside of computers and vidya

No girl has looked my way and i'm sure the only ones that would be interested are 500 pound meatslabs. I wouldn't settle for that, and I hope no one here does either.

>>38661857
My affection quota gets filled by spending time with my family. Oh, and girls don't like me.

Why because I threw my life away. And focused on work

Always working

Sometimes I wish I could just stop
Now I'm just a burnt out fat toothless losser

Who would want me as a bf or a friend

I hate everything and everyone
It's all too stupid to me

>>38662937
Yeah but you should be looking at them and approaching them(don't ask how I have no idea) you may not like it but this is how society works at least for now.

Women don't want to date 6'0'' lanklets with no social skills.

I'm simply too lazy. If I wanted too I could make my self look better and be more social again, but I'm fine talking to my friends. I also don't want to have to spend a shit ton of money for more clothes, dates, her shoes, etc.

>>38663053
Thats the only question I need answered.

Would pay a lot of money for someone to specifically analyze my situation and get me a gf whom isn't fat and loves me for me. Those are my main concerns.

>>38663078
This is essentially me

>>38662937
>tfw no 500lb meatslab gf

Why do I even want this

I can barely talk to people. I've been around people at my job for like 2 years now and still can't have a conversation properly. There's no getting a gf when you can into basic human communication.

>>38663094
You don't anon she will be hideous, die of heart disease, and smell awful.

My logic is this: if i'm not fat, I deserve better than that at least. Everything else is exactly as I deserve. If I was homeless, I deserve a homeless gf. Makes sense right?

>>38663148
Too bad that even fat women are becoming conceited these days.

>>38663183
Even a fat woman has options

>>38663183
Yeah but it's not like I give a shit. Fat women deserve fatties, I don't care if she doesn't like me since I never wanted her. Decently appealing women is what is disappointing.

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>>38661857
It's not fucking easy, m8

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Because you know how animals always have something they have to be good at to find mates? For some animals its building nests, for others its doing ritual dances, for others its beating the shit out of other males.

But for humans its social status. The most social males get to breed the most.
Unfortunately for me I am terrible at socializing, I'm nearing 30 and haven't had anything resembling a friend in almost a decade. I have no connections or status, so I am undesirable to women, who are all huge normalfags.

Even if I was to go outside and start approaching them for numbers they would eventually run away once they see how much status I lack.

>>38661857
>Loneliness is bad for your health. Everyone needs affection.
People are fucking bad for my health im not a women I dont need people in my life.

>>38663031
why are you toothless ffs,maybe get implants?

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>>38661857
Loneliness won't do shit to you if you keep yourself busy. If wanting to have a girlfriend is your main goal, then you are, at the very least, delusional and should instead aspire to do something else with your time rather than worrying about being "loved".

I don't know why you guys didn't just give up yet, you're only causing yourselves more pain. Just accept that you won't get a gf, I have and I'm a happy man.

i don't think a girlfriend would ever want to stay with me.

>>38662181
>Yet 99% of males still manage it.
Because they are cucks who are shamed into playing a womens game.

>>38662391
>also, to everyone saying they don't need affection: you're posting on /r9k/, you have no right to feel superior
Look at this cuckold and laugh at him...
I cant even insult you, you are that pathetic.

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>>38663402
>If wanting to have a girlfriend is your main goal, then you are, at the very least, delusional and should instead aspire to do something else with your time rather than worrying about being "loved".
My brain understands this but at the end of the day even if I work hard I want someone warm and soft to cuddle with.

Because i'm a toxic and depressed person. She wouldnt want to be around me for prolonged sessions therefore she'd leave me eventually.

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I don't really want to date. I lost my wife a few years ago and it wouldn't be fair to another woman to be with her while I'm still so in love with a dead woman. Plus my health is pretty poor so I'll probably be dead soon. There's a lot I can't even do anymore because of it. I'm not even supposed to be thinking about her because it makes things act up.

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>>38661857
I actually met a qt smol virgin girl last night, thanks for asking.

She paid for dinner after I offered to, that's a good sign, r-right?

>>38663570
>I'm still so in love with a dead woman
Anon it's not healthy.

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>>38663480
My good friend, that lizard brain of ours will always be longing for some kind of affection, however delusional it is, I understand how you feel. Late nights can get bad, I will give you that, but the way I've been combating this is by asking myself why I'm worrying so much over something that has never happened, and probably will not happen in the future, and I just come to the conclusion that it's not worth worrying about because it will just make me feel depressed, and why feel depressed about something that is so out of your reach it might as well be alien to you? This train of thought always brings me peace during those late night hours. I also have a few good friends which helps fill that void for affection, so if you don't have friends you should try to find some with the same hobbies as you. It would be best if you found guys that are also single or at least don't bring their girlfriends to the hang out with the gang. I wish you all the best, sincerely.

>>38663635
I know. I put myself in the hospital a couple weeks ago looking at old photo albums of us together. I have a weak heart and it's been worse since she died. This wasn't a full-on heart attack but they still kept me overnight. My parents took the albums and won't give them back.

>>38663573
How did you end up having dinner with her?

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>>38663570
would you mind to share your story? we're all ears

>>38663887
It's a short story. We were friends since childhood. We got married. She passed away in a car accident. If I get too worked up about anything, I get bad chest pains and I have trouble breathing and such.

>>38661857
And I quote:
>"You're too boring anon"

>>38661857
I have difficulty socialising and I can't make eye contact with people, not even my family.
I'm not at the stage where I can consider getting a girlfriend

>>38663683
I asked her out to dinner and she agreed?

Because I don't have the self worth to approach a women or let any into my life.

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I cannot love another until I learn to love myself, which is going to take some time. But at least I am trying now.

Because i'm sexually confused between being straight and asexual.

I have one though.

But she's very cruel.

I'm glad.

>>38663952
Hang in there uncle anon! There's an anon right here wishing you best luck in finding your peace.

>>38664103
Strange, you mean you only get partially aroused /only very rarely aroused, or you get fully aroused normally but some extra mental effect prevents you from actually enjoying the arousal and the subject of your arousal?

>>38664115
Right now my peace is an ice cream cone and a video game I bought myself. All I can really do is try to keep myself from getting too down or too excited.

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>tfw too broken to even think about putting yourself in a position where somebody loves you and you can love this faceless somebody without fear, to the point where watching porn and trying to self insert doesn't work anymore, since the before mentioned concept in wich you'll never be in the place where somebody would ever want to be with you and share with you such moments still exists, and so you humbly live your life hoping for the best that nothing too bad or stressfull will happen in your otherwise calm and relaxed life of little happinesses and satisfactions.
>tfw you have become your only dear friend in a dog-eat-dog world

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>>38664222

>this post

please no

>>38664067
Char please go and stay go

>>38663078
>Women don't want to date 6'0''
Yes they do. Fuck you, normie.

>>38664147
It's like i have no problems with masturbation but i would be deeply afraid of having sexual act with female + i'm not even seeking dating girls.

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>>38664222
>tfw can't even fantasize anymore since you know it all to be ultimately pointless
>dread going to bed every day since all that awaits is hours of tossing and turning alone with my thoughts of a bleak future

>choosing to smoke tobacco
>choosing to eat unhealty
>choosing to drink and use drugs
>b-but I-i didn't choose my loneliness!!!

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>>38661857
Grew up abused so I've missed a lot of social development to the point where I can only act like a good worker.

I'm working on myself though until I deem myself acceptable and then start.... meeting people(?) I guess.

>>38664365
I don't do any of these and i'm still lonely. What now?

I'm a 9/10 who failed since 2013 till now to get a female.
Fear not robots, even some of us who look like Chad, are living miserable lives.

>>38664433
the point
your head


my originalism

I deluded myself into 2 LDRs

got lied to and hurt both times

n o t h a n k s

>>38664240
Not Chad just an autistic cyborg but thanks for the confidence boost :>)

>>38661857
I have my original tulpa.

>see qt
>she's with a >6'0 guy even if he's ugly
Every fucking time

girls don't want to be my boyfriend

I really can't blame them

>>38664489
shut up you fucking asshole

>>38661857
Because unfortunately I have learned, that deep deep down underneath my facades, I have a glass heart. I foolishly let two people get two close. The joy I felt during the time spent with said person was heavily overshadowed by the damage left afterwards. Knowing this, I choose the keep the walls up and prevent further heartache.

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I'm schizoid. No relationship with me could work, and most of the time I don't want one.

>>38664489
>9/10
Anyone who claims this is usually far below 9/10

>>38661982
I know that feel, women feel like plastic, they are fake, they are only interested in taking pictures and having a lot of social approval

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>>38661857
I have Autism, i'll die alone, never having been loved by anyone
please kill me

Earlier this year it really seemed like I would be in a relationship soon. In the end it did not work out and I made some major screw ups, I am kind of glad because of it though because dating brought out some of my bad sides.

I got hurt and I never want to experience anything like this again.

>>38661857
Because I have a Tulpa who is all the companionship I need famalam.

>>38661857
last time i was talking to a girl i found attractive i was sweating bullets, then she invited me to go to a bar with her and meet her friends;
>sat away from everyone else but just close enough to look like i was still with them
>talked to her fine when it was just me and her
>now im mumbling
>eyes darting left and right
>incredibly uncomfortable
>fake a phone call
>"sorry i really need to go home, emergency"
>went home

>>38661857
>Loneliness is bad for your health. Everyone needs affection.
thats why i have a dog

No social skills and shy.

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She got out of a relationship and just wanted to fuck. Of course I was too sperge to take it slow.

We didn't even do anything. I had two opportunities to fuck and two distinct kiss windows that would have been romantic as fuck, but I was too pussy to take any of them.

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HATOHARA A BEST

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>>38661857
>>38663887

GANBATTE FATE-ANON!

KEEP AT IT AND DO YOUR BEST!

>>38668859
im actually right above you anon
not all who is hato is fato
remember that saying anonon
remember it
REMEMok stop

ilu

>>38662148
You act like they're pets.

>fat
>unmotivated
>ugly
>poor
>manlet
>small dick
>3rd worlder
>semi fucked up teeth
>plethora of mental shit

No, I don't deserve anything but a shotgun to the face.