How does being molested "mess someone up"? Generally

>>38614606
Could turn someone gay with a warped sexuality
Pretty bad tbqh

Apparently fembots who were molested develop extremely degenerate fetishes as adults. Many such cases here.

>>38614606
I wonder the same thing to. Most people start jerking themselves off at like 10/11 so it can't be that traumatic. But yeah, probably does warp your sexuality like being exposed to anything like that at a young age.

t. got turned gay by furry porn when i was 11.

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http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0749379705000784

just going to post studies as I find them

It just makes you feel like you are worthless, used goods maybe? Also a lot of abusers teach the kid to be ashamed of what happened

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http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0890856709636406

>>38614763
>It just makes you feel like you are worthless, used goods maybe?
I'm curious how much of that can also be attributed to the state of sex ed

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http://psycnet.apa.org/record/1993-17922-001

this one's meant to aggregate a number of studies

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http://bjp.rcpsych.org/content/163/6/721

Didn't effect me at all.

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May or may not have made me bi and very submissive but i dont really know desu i wasnt sexual active before it happened so i got no idea if it did

I don't really get how robots can ask a question like this. Unless I'm some outlier, I feel like we were all heavily affected by our childhood.

I developed anger issues and have trouble with lashing out at people because that's always how my father behaved. I have trouble trusting that people are my friends because in school, I was frequently betrayed or abandoned by my so called friends. I wear a mask and hide behind being "the funny guy" because I learned young that people don't care about my actual feelings, but really like me when I'm funny.

Obviously being manipulated, sexually abused, etc as a child affects your personality.

>>38614606
I can only speak for myself here, I got molested as a 5yo boy.
Nightmares every night, unable to tolerate any kind of touch, no sexuality or sex drive, crippling C-PTSD, unable to refuse sex.
Specifically: it's hard-wired in my brain, from childhood, that I have no right to refuse sex. I try to remember that I'm a person, but when someone propositions me I just reflexively fall back onto behavior I've been taught as a child. If I say yes everything goes well. If I ever say no, all hell breaks loose.
It's like that for most of the things in my life. I can't say no, cause it's strongly associated to punishment, and that's too deeply hardwired for me to get rid of it easily.

Makes you distrustful of others and gives you a warped view of sex and relationships
Same as being physical or emotionally abused.

Wait, what am I supposed to like? I dun get it.

>>38615171
I hope it gets better anon

it may have the child turning away from what it supposed as safe; parents, doesnt have to be from parents, the child just realizes what it thought safe is no longer safe
pedophilia for this reason has a benifit to government as abused children may attach more to government

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>>38614606
I was raped when I was 11. I confused and started having destructive relationships with men and women. I'm almost 30 and I took me a lot to realize why I do the things I do. I keep a lot in, switch from drugs to alcohol. I've had sex with over 100 women and a few men when I was younger. I might of had sex a lot but I've never had a meaningful relationship with any person. Despite my self destructive behavior I have a good job. I've never told anyone what happened and my parents hate me. I generally hate my self.

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>>38614822
Thank you for being one of the only people on here that posts studies that at least give minimum effort to prove their conclusions make sense.

>>38616230
Thanks. It does get better, little by little.

>>38616578
Agreed. As a victim, this shit is way too sensitive for me to read about it, scientifically speaking.
Unfortunately, scientific approach nowadays is undervalued in favor of victims' inner feelings. That's a shame.

>>38615059
>being "the funny guy"
Stop. Being the funny guy was the biggest mistake I ever made in school.

Nobody takes funny people seriously. You can be funny with people who know and value you, just not with strangers.