Why does my psychologist keep saying sex isn't important

>>38607923
Why in the name of all things bright and beautiful would you ever go to a female psychologist?
I don't care if she went to 35 years of school with 17 years if private practice experience she will never be able to understand your situation.

>>38608283
Well she has a doctorate and was the one who got me on autism bux...

>>38608299
They all do. It's a requirement for being a psychologist.

>>38607923
can't you just beat the fuck outta your dick and be happy with that?

>>38607923
Sex isn't important, it just a thing that feels good for a bit and then it ends as fast as it came

All psychologists will try to make you feel better instantly so that you don't anhero but she is right, in a sense. I've seen countless threads about robots losing their virginity and feeling the same, if not worse. Sex is a great part of life but it's not a lifelong goal or something you can focus on 24/7. If you get a girlfriend because she's great at sex, that won't make up for a shitty personality. Basically, I think your psychologist is trying to make you focus on more fulfilling goals before going after the physical gratification in life.
Also, buy a Fleshlight/escort. You'll learn very quickly sex itself isn't that amazing, there has to be love and a rhythm behind it for maximum feeling