>tfw you realize you were destined to be Chad and you're

>>38602337
I definitely have not reached my genetic potential. Also consider where you could be without all the hormones in food/water/milk today.

Given a different high school and a different set of goals I could have been chad as well. But this is a good realization because it's the first step to improvement. If you believe you failed due to reasons outside your control you'll never get any better.

I'm the opposite. If there is such thing as "destiny", I was always meant to be a fuck up and a waste of a life.

>>38602337
>doesn't know what destined means

If you were destined to be Chad, OP, you would be either becoming Chad, or Chad.

Face it, you're destined to blame your upbringing or something else for being a bitter, pathetic beta, but you sure as hell aren't destined to become Chad.

>>38602516
I waltz into any and every chad-like circumstance and nobody thinks anyone of it. It's borderline surreal.

A girl walked up to me and gave me her number today because I was walking around listening to music and she said "I look like I know how to have a good time"

>>38602516
Yeah but destiny is more complicated than that. If you believe in a deterministic universe (to a lesser extent even in a probabilistic universe) then OP "realizing" his destiny could be part of his destiny.

You can't touch your finger with your finger so you can't think about your free will/destiny without that also being part of the deterministic universe. Everything is happening exactly as it was always going to, but every thought you have is part of that predetermination so you can't just sit back in response.

>>38602337
Me. I'm already turning into a Chad, and from a young age I was always exceptional. I slipped through the cracks over time however due to negative reinforcement and apathy as a result of that. Things are really looking up now though and I enjoy waking up everyday facing a new challenge and doing all kinds of creative stuff.

>>38602902
It's really nice to read this post, I'm on the same path right now and seeing a brother on his way is encouraging. We're all gonna make it.

>>38603059
We will my good man. It's all about the journey, I'm sure you will come out on top. Let's get there together.

I think almost everyone could have been chad

genetics is mostly a meme, it's upbringing that matters the most

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/8699599/How-your-childhood-is-written-in-your-face.html

>>38603059
Yeah remember that phrase?