How many of you know of or are in loveless/sexless relationships

>>38590449
Bump please respond I want to know

>>38590449
I'm not in that kind of relationship. I'm not afraid to hit girls though.

>>38590449
I pretty much am, but I've been married for a long time.

More like roommates now, roommates who don't really like each other. We "exist". We stay together for financial and social reasons but that's it.

AMA

>>38590944
How did your relationship start out? Was there ever genuine love or passion between you two or was it always a financial/social thing? How much sex did you have prior to it ending up the way it did? I'm assuming no children? How old are you?

>Do you think that's preferable to being single?
Been there before and it's worse. A lot worse than being single.
I broke it off with a relationship like that, they still try to bother you with their bull shit no matter how long it has been. Because typically the way they see it is they have nothing to lose for being a piece of shit to you. Even if there was nothing good in it for you, they're an asshole so they think there must be some more good than bad since they're only seeing things from their perspective because they're an asshole. Being single is much better. None of the bad outweights the good. Every time I hear from them I just shake my damn head and wonder why they haven't just died already.

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>Domestic abuse against women
>GIF

>Domestic abuse against men
>Lol you're a pussy must be your fault

and Feminists try to convince us we're the ones who are free from sexism.

>>38590986
That sucks, bro. Was there ever any sex to compensate for the shitty relationship, though?

>>38590982
>How did your relationship start out?
It was great. Started out as high school sweethearts.
>Was there ever genuine love or passion between you two or was it always a financial/social thing?
It started out as a regular loving relationship
>How much sex did you have prior to it ending up the way it did?
We were very sexually active then kids came. It slowed down somewhat but then started taking a nose dive with other issues in life coming up.
>I'm assuming no children?
4 grown kids
>How old are you?
let's just say "middle-aged"

Being a part of one of the most hypergamous subcultures in the west, I'll tell you the truth. The only people who are in loveless/sexless relationships are "betas" who let their wives/gf walk over them. The ones who don't give a fuck and tell their women how it's going to be get fucked enthusiastically and women are willing to do anything for them. Too many men don't realize just how much power they have over any given women and will put up with BS just to keep access to pussy. Let go of the need of that one girl's vagina and you will reclaim all your power. The most powerful position to be in is that which you can walk away at any moment. It doesn't feel like it but a woman needs your attention much more than you need hers.

>>38591083
No. Sex was terrible all about her. I despise her and wouldn't ever do anything even sexually related with her. I wouldn't even get with girls that I know have hooked up with the same guys as her. Those people are all trash.
I really just can't emphasize enough how I'd rather not have another bad girlfriend again over being single.
It's a freaking shame humans don't have any natural predators left you have to sit around and hope you get lucky and they die in a car accident or something.

>>38591149
>take your advice and put your foot down
>she leaves

Now what?

>>38591087
Would you say that you're still actively courting your wife? Do you go out on dates with her? Do you try to touch her every day or maybe just sit and talk for a while? How much time do you set aside daily just for you and wife time?

>>38591200
1. Go No Contact
2. Work on yourself (body, spirituality, wealth, education, social life)
3. Realize that you can be alright on your own and that women are only good for company and sex
4. Eventually meet other girls and act right in the first place. Set good boundaries

>>38591200
now you're a faggot taking advice from a khhv that read about how to have a relationship from retards that can't maintain relationships.
>b-b-but! teh sex! there was sex, sex is so important blah blah blah
yeah you're so great at sex you still got dumped, right. sure. plenty of people are going to buy that.

>>38590449
never heard of a faggot like that.
or a woman like that.

>>38591200
>Now what?
Next one.

>>38591207
>Would you say that you're still actively courting your wife?
I did. I made the effort. I'm not saying I'm faultless in this. I didn't communicate well with her but when I did I was always "wrong" so I shut down even more.
>Do you go out on dates with her?
Dates, flowers, vacations, notes, cards on every occasion. I can't remember the last time she gave me a card for my birthday or anniversary.
>Do you try to touch her every day or maybe just sit and talk for a while?
I did for a long time. A lot of non-sexual intimacy... cuddling, hand holding. But when there's no sexual intimacy at some point in time, the non-sexual intimacy just gets frustrating.
>How much time do you set aside daily just for you and wife time?
As I mentioned above I had problems communicating so after marriage counseling I made a real effort to just spend time with her and talking to her. But at this point it seems useless.

>>38591297
Good point, I guess this is a terrible place for relationship advice.

>>38591594
Better than /adv/ though

>>38591454
You always were a beta cuck, kys so can relieve the pain

>>38591709
I absolutely admit that. I married a woman whose mother was the dominant, income providing parent and whose father was partially disabled and needed to be taken care of. As a result, my wife grew up as that as a model marriage. Plus she was an only child.

I was a sort of shy meek kid so it made sense for her to be attracted to me. I went to college and got a job with a real hard-nosed guy and learned from him to be more outspoken.

But being more outspoken didn't fit with the guy my wife married so it caused a lot of friction.

>>38590944
>More like roommates now, roommates who don't really like each other.

Dead on.

The thing is, most young men think they'll put up with it just for the sex, but women will stop fucking you at the drop of a hat once they become bitter old crows.

Women are unstable fucking elements, man. I think a large majority of them only want to live as a 20 year old fawned-over princess forever, and once they realize that's lost, they don't really want anything else. Everything else is a consolation prize - including you. ESPECIALLY you, because you are some pathetic schlub who they never would have looked at twice in high school or college, but now they're "forced" to "settle" with someone stable, considerate, and nice.

I won't tell people to MGTOW, because that's up to the individual. But it works for me. I will just say: Do your research. A LOT of research. Listen to these in full if you can:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YGAck1h_Heo
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J-dzkjmNFeY

You really have to understand, few marriages are happy or work out. Of the ones that DO work out, it still ends up being like a roommate and lifelong friend. With all the bullshit that goes with it, though it can be a wonderful thing if you get lucky and you're careful of course.

Listen to the stories these men tell and remember them. Stories of just wanting to be left the fuck alone but you can't, EVER, because she won't stop nagging you like she's your fucking mother even though you're a 35 year old man. Stories of having EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE for FIVE YEARS ruined because you're going through a divorce that just won't end.

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>>38591890

" I think a large majority of them only want to live as a 20 year old fawned-over princess forever, and once they realize that's lost, they don't really want anything else. Everything else is a consolation prize - including you. ESPECIALLY you, because you are some pathetic schlub who they never would have looked at twice in high school or college, but now they're "forced" to "settle" with someone stable, considerate, and nice."

Thats fucking awesome, i never thought this way but it makes so much sense.

What makes me even sick is how women in marriages ALWAYS are the ones to stop having sex and A LOT of them have DISGUST for their own husbands.

But if a nigger appears, she will do unspeakable things that she never done to the husbands.

Women are freaking monsters.

Being married is automatic cuckoldism.

>>38591890
>Women are unstable fucking elements, man. I think a large majority of them only want to live as a 20 year old fawned-over princess forever, and once they realize that's lost, they don't really want anything else. Everything else is a consolation prize - including you. ESPECIALLY you, because you are some pathetic schlub who they never would have looked at twice in high school or college, but now they're "forced" to "settle" with someone stable, considerate, and nice.

Fuck, I can relate to this. What hope do we have?

I was in a relationship with a woman who mentally abused me. Did physically hit me multiple times but not enough to do damage, never hit her back because I am beta.

The worst thing is now that I am free of it (she destroyed everything I own) that she wants me back and because I have just been alone, whilst she has obviously gone and fucked rebound guys, that I am considering it.

It's like your brain forgets everything they did to make you hate yourself more than you ever thought possible. Now all you want is the contact with another person.

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>>38592126
>The worst thing is now that I am free of it (she destroyed everything I own) that she wants me back and because I have just been alone, whilst she has obviously gone and fucked rebound guys, that I am considering it.
>whilst she has obviously gone and fucked rebound guys, that I am considering it.
>whilst she has obviously gone and fucked rebound guys

remember, women live their whole lives wanted and pursued by someone, while men are doomed to being alone, and never allowed to complain or cry about it

it's only natural that you should miss the feeling of ANYONE wanting, touching, appreciating you.

have you considered high quality escorts, just to remind yourself of what it feels like to be with a woman?

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>>38590449
Of course being single is the answer OP. Fuck women, and their rotten, selfish, dishonorable ways.

>>38592236
I have but funds are low considering she broke everything so I am working on making my place liveable.

I don't know if it would help, the sex would feel good obviously, but wouldn't be able to cuddle while watching a film

>>38591006

>Reddit fag thinks he's welcome here.
>LOL gtfo faggot.
Seriously fuck off.

>>38592341
Don't do it bro, she literally destroyed all of your physical assets last time you let her in, why expect anything different this next time? Definition of insanity and all that.

I wish we as a society evolved beyond the need to have a relationship as a sign of social success.

>>38593136
You're a retard. A relationship is one of the biggest signs of social success because it shows how high your skills of communication with people are. That'll never change, and it's not society's fault. That's just how it naturally is.

>>38593289
Well I never asked to be born, man! Why should I have to be in a relationship with another autonomous individual to prove my self-worth?

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Who needs sex when you have pain?

>>38593987
Why do you need to prove your own self worth? There's other ways to do so anyway.

>>38590986
Exactly this. To this day she still talks to me, yet she always wanted to be chased while we were together. Usually I just tell her off and she leaves me alone for a couple days or weeks. I used to take the blame for everything because I was beta but now that I say whatever she gets stunned.

>>38590449
I'm on that type of relationship AMA
I don't know if it's preferable, I have lost perspective and I don't know how to end it

>>38594701
Are you having sex at least? How does she treat you and in what ways does she emotionally manipulate and abuse you?

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>>38590449
My current relationship seems loveless and sexless. We only see each other for 5 hours a day once or twice a week. Sometimes we won't be able to even have sex.

We just started dating among and it's hard falling in love with someone who you barely see, tbqh. We're trying to make it work but the future isn't looking good man.

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>>38590449
I honestly consider pussywhipped beta providers even lower than virgin betas

>>38594738
Non-ASCII text is not allowed.
I tried searching what the fuck I wrote that contained non ascii text with no result
Guess you will not have your story today

>>38594777
What about just regular betas who have had sex before but aren't currently in a relationship?

>>38594869
Can you give a short version?

>>38594979
the short version is that she treats me very bad
I try to talk to her about this, she seems to understand but ends up hurting me more while saying that she loves me that is afraid of me leaving her and all that shit
I'm in the process of thinking how to escape, everyone that I know know her and we have a facade of perfect couple and is very probably that she would kill herself if I leave her
I have been ignoring her messages since saturday
My options are suicide, running to some other country with all my saves and hope I don't become a permament homeless
And giving her another opportunity, I will forget everything that has happened and I will be myself with her, like in the beginning, but this time the pain that she gaves me will be permament and we will break

>>38595105
needless to say that I love her and is the best girl that I know, I really do miss the time I spend with her before going out and on the first months of the relationship

I'm 100% uninterested in having sex with my girlfriend. She makes it all about her pleasure and doesn't give a shit about mine. She also refuses to cater to any of my fetishes. It makes sex terribly boring and she's shocked I don't think her pussy or sex in general is the reason to keep living.

I expect most women think that way.

If we're being honest I don't really like my girlfriend at all. I don't hate her either. She's just kind of there.

>>38594979
Somewhat higher tier. At least you were able to leave being a cuck.

>>38595273
Are all men in relationships cucks?

>>38595105
You could pull a Glenn Campbell on her.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7y1hrOpVGKE

>>38595341
I'm more ready to pull a Five Easy Pieces

>>38595410
The ending? kek, that'd be pretty savage.

>>38592498
Pretty sure this nigger right here is an actual Reddit shill.
What are you doing outside of /pol/?

>>38595936
Is there a single board on this website not obsessed with reddit? Fuck me.

>>38590449
the only way that could happen is if you never stand up for yourself

you're a cuck

If you relationship dries up and nobody bothers to have sexual relations anymore, do yourself the favor and walk out of the door. The urge is killing your mood, you'll mistreat your wife and be even more miserable, because just getting a hooker is now cheating and you'll feel guilty all the way down.

>t. sexless marriage

>>38597142
Do you have kids? If not why are you still married? Afraid that you'll lose half your shit?

>>38590449
Recently broke up with a girl I dated for 4 years.

She said she loved me about 5 or 6 times total, and we never had sex. We're in our 20s.

I think it's better to be single. As the relationship went on, it felt like emotional abuse. Eventually I realized that even if I stuck it out and we got married and we fucked, it wouldn't be worth it. I wouldn't be happy.

>>38597762
>Do you have kids? If not why are you still married? Afraid that you'll lose half your shit?
That's not how divorce works here, so no, I won't lose half my assets, just some pensions claims. They get split up between husband and spouse.
To be honest, I am too damn old to change any longer. I had my days filled with creampies and morning sex, now I enjoy a cup of coffee and a meal when I come home from work. Your interests shift, but that sexual tension is present at all times. We get it on maybe once a month, at best. For marriage standards, that's pretty damn low.

>>38597811
What was her reason for not having sex with you? Religious bullshit or did she claim to be asexual or some other crap?

>>38597970
Religious shit.

Felt bad too cause I pretended I was religious just to be with her, but I faked it for all that time and it became a mental strain on my life.