Ok so i have two options,and i want your opinion on the matter:
>be a sit in care taker for my grandmother
Or
>join the army
I am more leaning towards being in the army but i dont want to abandon my grandmother. I know if i leave my parents will put her in a nursing home and never see her again and i dont want that.
>>38579869
Fucking Tom from the glass menagerie read the glass menagerie
>>38579869
How good of a relationship do you have with your grandmother?
Also, it is worth mentioning that joining the army will be the most beneficial long term.
>>38580161
Well,maybe i should word it like this: should i go ahead and go to the army now or is it safe to wait. I am 19 and i jave an amazing relationship with my grandmother.
Taking care of your grandmother is morally good, but if someone else can do it, let them ( your parents / paid caretaker )
You're still young, you have stuff to do, don't get locked out of your young years taking care of someone else if you can help it.
Unless you're an idiot and want the soul-crushing NEET lifestyle, don't do it.
Also nursing homes aren't that bad, my grandmother is pretty senile and she gets much more support over there.
>>38579869
Go join the Army. Your grandmother had her life. You need to move on with yours. Time is ticking OP.
>>38579869
>take care of granny
>gain inheritance
>neet it up nigga
I took care of my grandma in your situation and I have no regrets. If you have a good relationship with her then there is no reason not to as you can still join the army later. It's basically free time with someone you love and people even respect you for it.
>>38581035
>there is no reason not to as you can still join the army later.
Yeah sure, unless granny lives on forever
>10 years later
>OP is early thirties
>granny still kicking in her 90s, partially blind and senile, screams all day at OP
>missed his entire twenties babysitting his grandma like a good boy
>family all grateful for his sacrifice
>pussies drier than the sahara when OP mentions how much of a good boy he is with his grandma
I'm sure nobody would regret that
>>38580224
>>38579869
Join now. Your gma wouldn't want to hold you back and be a burden. Just make sure it pick a good MOS.