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Any NEETs realize your social skills are a lot worse than you

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Any NEETs realize your social skills are a lot worse than you thought?

>decide to go to the gym since there's a free 2 week trial
>the girl at the desk brings me into her office and has me sign shit
>was not thinking I had to do all this shit
>she makes fun of my social skills and wondering if german was even my first language
>it's not but I've been in germany since I was 6 years old
>told her I've been only been here for 1 year and that I speak english better
>proceed to awkwardly speak english/german fusion
>tfw she probably just thought I had autism at that point


Fucking hell this is what happens when you only browse 4chan and never speak your 2nd language. All of a sudden I'm a foreigner even though I used to speak german perfectly as a kid.
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my social skills have been declining but i'm still able to hold a conversation with strangers. stop projecting
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>>38572436
I've been a neet for 6 years and only ever talked to my parents/brother. And I could probably hold a conversation in english if I lived in the US.
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>>38572372
>Went to dermatologist to check some weird shit in my scalp
>she's a qt grill
>I stammered and spat on her table while trying to describe what was wrong
I have literally never spergd that badly
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It's gotten so bad that when people speak to me, I look behind me because I assume they are talking to someone else. I end conversations quickly because whenever I do more than answer questions, they just walk away or say nothing. I thought I was just paranoid, but proved myself right when a coworker was talking to me and in the middle of my response I said "there's a spider on your face" as though it was a completely normal part of the sentence, and they replied to me without even referencing it.
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>>38572372
>[german] it's not [my first language] but I've been in germany since I was 6 years old
Are you german blooded? If not, fuck you. Get out of my fucking fatherland. We did not fight the French for this shit.
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>>38572628
My brother told me I've mastered the dead-eyed fish look. Apparently normies are supposed to smile a lot and show expression.

That could be it.
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>tfw 27
>neeting/community college since 09
>my social skills have declined so much
>people think i'm being hostile when i'm not
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>social skills decline so much that you can't even voice chat with strangers online
This is what 8 years of being a NEET in isolation does to you, I can't even into conversation anymore.
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>>38572676
I have a european and US citizenship. Would of stayed in the US but my parents wanted something new. white btw
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>>38572372
sie nicht denkt dass du autism hast, sie denkt nur, du bist ein Auslander.
The great thing about language barriers is that they mask autism.
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>>38572748
I honestly feel like I'm worse at voice chat than IRL talking, not used to the mic I guess.
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>>38572372
Yep. I have poor social skills and lexicon is awful. But I compensate this with lots of dedication on anything else and able to do the same task over a million times before feeling bored of it.
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>>38572372
are you a roach?
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>>38572676
>t. "German" American
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>>38572870
Yeah but it's just embarrassing that I have to hide the fact that I've lived here for so long.

You really have to speak all the languages you've learned or you will start forgetting words.
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>>38572892
Same here, not to mention I have a disgusting voice. I hate using voice chat for this reason.
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>it's not but I've been in germany since I was 6 years old
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>>38573532
Why the fuck are all of you assuming I'm some arab/turk? I was born in the US, have blue eyes, and I'm white. I have dual citizenship and can literally go anywhere in Europe and US.
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>>38573532
raus!
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>>38573788
i meant to replie to this >>38573682
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>>38573224
My voice is awful too, doesn't help when you know your voice is objectively bad but people tell you it's fine or that they actually like it.
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>>38572372

>tfw forget cousins and friend's names sometimes
>tfw always in a panic in a social situation because i cant tie the name to the face
>tfw sometimes ask their name twice and still forget it by the end of the conversation
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welche stadt? oe
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