Is it possible to get rid of a sexual fetish after it has been fully ingrained into the mind? I'm addicted to BM/WF interracial porn and it makes me feel very uncomfortable. It's not that I can't get off on vanilla porn but interracial just makes my dick much harder because it's seen as dirty and forbidden. I can watch vanilla for like 2 weeks before the urges get too strong and I end up binging on IR porn for like 2 days before I return to my normal fapping routine. It's not a life ruining problem but I feel like shit after I blow my load from watching IR.
Before some of you start to spout cuck memes I'll have you know that I instantly lose my boner and get sick to my stomach when I stumble onto actual cuck porn and IR porn with obvious raceplay (for example the white girl who's getting fucked starts saying shit like "it's so much bigger than white dicks, I'm never fucking a white loser again".
>>38498440
I had a similar problem and tried no fap. after 20 days i stopped because i was attracted to normie tier porn, like solo female masturbation and lesbian kissing. try watching less extreme porn in general as it'll fuck your brain up.
>>38498465
I've tried it and it doesn't work. I did 21 days nofap and it didn't work. I did 6 months noporn during my military service when I couldn't watch porn and it did nothing for me.
>>38498510
Are you able to orgasm to something else?
Have you ever found something else attractive?
nofap cures EVERYTHING, don't believe the naysayers
if you're used to fapping once a day by the end of the first week you'll be able to jack it to the mere thought of a woman
>>38498527
Absolutely. It's just that I sometimes can't stop myself from watching IR because it's way hotter to me. It always makes me feel like shit afterwards even though it's not like I'm hurting anybody (I use adblockers and never pay for porn so it's not like anyone is getting paid to make more of the shit).
>>38498440
Stop fapping. Look for a gf.
>>38498440
FUCK DUDE WHY IS SHE SO HOT
>>38498572
Have some self control and don't watch it if you genuinely don't want to fap to it. Why are you complaining about something entirely within your control? You can't change what you're attracted to but you sure as shit can change what you actually do.
Your actions are way more important than your desires.
>>38498440
What are you even on about , seriously who honestly gives a fuck
>>38498669
Learn some reading comprehension you fucking sperg. I give a fuck. That's why I asked the question.
>>38498576
>Stop fapping. Look for a gf.
not OP but i already have a gf, and if anything having a gf has only made it worse because she instigates my fetish and the lust i build up being around her makes me want to fap more
>mommydom fetish
i'm too old to be breastfed damn it!! REEEEEEEE I just want to be a normal ass man again
>>38498510
Okay, go longer next time. And when you're going without porn, don't fantasize about anything non-vanilla while you fap.
Watching porn got you into this, cutting it out is the only way. Who knows, it might be too late, but you have nothing to lose by trying.
>>38499107
>if anything having a gf has only made it worse because she instigates my fetish and the lust i build up being around her makes me want to fap more
I don't get this. Personally I would go full on nofap if I had a girlfriend because I would see it as a disgrace to waste even a tiny bit of my constantly accumulating sexual energy on anything else but my girlfriend. Sex is such an important part of a romantic relationship that I think my will to build and maintain a strong and healthy relationship would easily overcome my need to watch sick perverted shit on the internet. But then again I've never been in a relationship so what do I know?
>>38499018
Well you're an insecure idiot for caring and going to the trouble of actually making thread about it
You literally need approval/advice on your actual sexual preferences, like think about that just how pathetic and insecure that is.
Also you're a little flustered, it's ok you utter cuck, go and jerk off, cry and feel insecure about it
>>38499262
Do you really think I haven't already tried not giving a fuck about the sick shit that I crave for some reason?
who's the chick in op's pic?
>>38499387
Danielle Bregoli. She's famous for being an out of control wigger whore on the Dr. Phil show and being extremely attractive for her age.
>>38499387
I forgot to mention that she's 14 which is why she's so controversial on 4chan and other image boards.
>>38498440
Some horrifying claws on shawty, Jesus.
>>38498440
H O W B O W
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>>38499448
>extremely attractive for her age
having big tits at 14
ftfy
>>38499255
if that's how you want to express to someone that you love them that's perfectly fine
but don't take news article story as complete fact, they're extreme cases meant to caricature society's problems.
i literally once asked my gf to pee on me, slap me, and call me a bad boy. i suddenly freaked out because of what i had said because of the heat of the moment, but before i could take back what i said she did it anyway without hesitating. afterwards i talked to her about it and she said that because she loved me she wanted me to be satisfied
pretty much the point i'm trying to get across is that the problem with the "internet shit" i that it creates a rift between a couple if they're both not into it. if you want softcore sex but your gf wants to be slapped around and get called a bad girl then wouldn't it be a poor decision on your part to demand things go your way? and if you for some reason couldn't meet eye to eye wouldn't it be for the best that you weren't together anyway?
sorry for these stupid rants, i'm drunk desu
>>38498440
maybe with electroshock therapy
>>38498440
You literally have to bust to something else for like 6 months, or nofap
>>38498560
I was on a euro trip with a bunch of dudes, and we spent 24/7 together for about 3 weeks before I booked a hotel for a hooker. The hooker never arrived, but I was so desperate to jerk off (but without Internet because I didn't bring my SIM card) that I jerked off to the curved sillouhette of my shampoo bottle.