Anyone else have the sole problem of being unable to get women, but have everything else in life in check? Most /r9k/ers have other problems in their life that could hinder themselves with women, but the fact that this doesn't apply to me makes me feel like I'm not attractive at all or have extremely shit social skills.
>19
>rising sophomore at top 20 uni
>decent grades
>have friends (all male)
>have my driver's license
>have had my first job
>have a future
But I have missed all the landmarks when it comes to girls. I am a kissless virgin. Never been on a date.
>>38496070
you're 19 you fucking idiot. come back when you're nearing your 30s.
>>38496092
It's too late far before your 30s if you're a KV. The point of no return is about 25.
>>38496070
I've just turned 20 and I'm a hkv...If I'm still that by 25 I'm hanging myself.
>>38496070
same wtf
>18
>about to go to a top 20 uni on a military scholarship
>finished high school when others were finishing sophomore year; already have an Associates w/ Honors
>have a good number of friends, and a few close friends (all male too)
>decent looking supposedly and 6'0"
>athletic; played sports in HS and went to the gym in community college
>have a license and (shared) car
>have had a job
Not sure where I'm fucking up to not be getting a gf, but it's kinda upsetting considering most of my friends aren't virgins and just had a standard high school career.
which uni are you at btw
Stop bragging and fuck off normies
>>38496452
I'm at cornell.
>>38496884
nice
Duke here, I think I'm the only robot here though
>>38497762
The only reason I'm not the only robot here is because of the good engineering program. If it wasn't for that I'd probably be as well. Still sucks hearing loud normies every weekend though.
>>38496070
That's exactly me but I'm 20. Good grades, go to a decent uni (not top 20 but still really good), work out and in shape, decent enough social skills to make friends and a couple best friends and can carry a conversation, have a job, and some hobbies I make a little bit of extra money from. Hell I was talking to 3 different girls yesterday and we were all smiling, laughing, and were having a great time. Two of them even started the conversation with me asking me if we met before and the other one asked me if I was having a good time, but alas I'm a 20 year old khv who has never been on a date before. Everyday I lose a bit of hope.
>>38498108
I'm too much of a brainlet for STEM and the degree I get doesn't matter for my job, so I'm going down the liberal arts route (PoliSci w/ minors in Chinese and Naval Science) and, as expected, its full of normals.
>>38498258
Sounds fixable, were it not mentally ingrained.
The virgin mindset is irreparable.
>>38498704
It kills me because you're right, it does sound totally fixable and it's like I'm complaining about nothing, but years of bullying and negative reinforcement for being an awkward fat kid growing up till your late teens will fuck with your head. I still feel like every girl will reject me and doesn't want to be anything more than friends, I don't feel like I deserve a girlfriend at all.
>>38498902
I know how all that shit is, I went through a lot of the same I think. I'm confident in everything except sex and romance, and I have doubts as to if even the fucking Corps can fix that. It sucks because it's easily fixed but can't be because it's a part of me now.
i cant understand why all you guys claim to see through normies illusions and bullshit social standards but are still hung up about women/getting laid like its the only thing in life that could ever bring you fulfillment
like if you honestly believe having a sexual partner is going to solve all your problems and finally bring you contentedness and happiness im sorry but you are terribly mistaken,
with that attitude it literally makes you a leech, an emotional leech looking to feed off someone elses positive emotions
>>38499152
I have pretty much everything else in life so yeah, I think it would fix my only remaining problem.
I could finally fucking move on.