>be 9/10
>anxiety
>low self esteem
>don't pick up on social queues because of self esteem
>when someone tells me a girl likes me I freeze up and can't talk to her anymore without spilling spaghetti
>never get anywhere with girls because of sheer autism caused by my severe anxiety and fear of intimacy(letting people in)
>physical attractiveness doesn't matter as much as being able to socialize
Call me chad, call me failed normie, I'm convinced there are more guys like me here, though maybe not 9's, but have experienced these things.
Picture is just something I threw together in a jiffy.
If you are attractive you LITERALLY cannot be a robot. Please just go back to normiebook or some shit.
>>38487275
>>physical attractiveness doesn't matter as much as being able to socialize
Its a mix of both. You need to be well rounded as a man.
>>38487275
Well, there are ugly guys out there who are just as anxious as you are. They have it even harder.
You can't fix ugly, but you can fix anxiety. So why not work on that a little.
>>38487275
I doubt you are a 9/10, even a 7/10 failed Chad with the same issues would be been hit on by a 5/10 girl and forcefully kissed or harassed at some point in their lives.
>>38487319
dumbshit, this is a fucking dumb fucking meme,
>>38487365
Its generally accepted by science you cannot fix Avoidant personality disorder and autism
>>38487438
Not if they're an aggressive autist that tells every girl to fuck off because he hates himself and simply cannot comprehend the idea of a girl actually liking him
>>38487319
If you avoid and I mean AVOID and distance yourself from everyone that approaches you, because of anxiety, then yeah.
t. 20 virgin that gets approached all the time, but is afraid of sex and women
>>38487319
I thought you guys were social retards on top of being ugly. I would've thought that you could at least relate to not being able to socialize with women.
>>38487582
boo hoo cry me a river faggot
>>38487538
People diagnosed with AvPD still get in relationships though according to statistics.
>>38487618
>>38487275
>>38487582
>w-wah i'm hot but muh anxiety
fuck you
>>38487624
That doesn't sound like AvDP at all. I don't let any girl get to know me, and I always break contact with people that are my friends. After the 4th or 5th time of some girl asking me to go out they eventually give up and just talk shit behind my back.
>>38487275
I wish i was a quiet good looking loner boy, every one looks at you and thinks how mysterious and cool
>>38487571
As I said, you are not a 9/10, probably a 6.5 at best, some girls like you but will not put up with your shit even if they are 5/10 and 4/10
>>38487275
Meet people online instead? Play LoL, WoW Runescape whatever and meet people there. Do you know why you wont let people in?
>>38488037
Im not op, original case
>>38488067
The point still stands, if you are over 7/10 you in the territory where no matter how much of an autist you are you start to come off as quirky. If you didn't have any 4/10 or 5/10 orbiting you at some point in your life, you can't be a 7/10
>>38487275
I can relate OP
>when people ask why a "guy like you" doesn't have a girlfriend
I have a single close friend and I've never been in a relationship that's lasted for more than a month. Usually when I open my mouth around a group of strangers they just stare at me blankly for a few seconds and then proceed to ignore everything I just said
>>38488038
I'm traumatized after a near fatal car crash I got in with my mom when I was four years old.
She was knocked out cold and being a stupid child I felt very betrayed by her. Thing is with trauma is that the younger you are the less molded you are as a person. You stsrt as a clean slate, so this engrained fear of intimacy deep inside of me, no matter how conscious I am of how stupid it is, my subconscious mind will take over me and break me mentally.
I do realize that uglybots have life set on harder mode, but you can still fail in hard mode.
>>38488707
Talk about it with your mom anon or get some mdma. I heard it helped people with ptsd.